Jmichael1:
Dating an average nigeria grl is a total waste of time and resources,i rather patronize olosho than date nigeria grl.....

You have said it all comrade!!

Youngqueen:
Take your broke a** away punk. If u can't spend on your woman who then? Na pipu like you go tell woman say low cut fit her cos u no wan give money. Punk as* ni*ga

There goes another moral eroded parasite with a very bad attitude. Her language already says it all. Tell me madam, who did your father consult before he ejaculated you?. And how did you now end up becoming someone else's responsibility just because you grew a pair of fatty tissues on your chest, and a widened vagina?.

Make una call this olosho work wey una dey do by it's name abeg .

Lol, if women open up about the billing they also receive from guys, these angry frustrated alpha redpillers will call it lies.

In my life I've received more billing from guys than girls and that's a fact.

Also @ op, if you don't want to spend on a woman , why not date your fellow man....

You expect your gf to cook, clean, do your laundry and wash your dirty boxers you wore for two straight weeks all for nothing while only contributing d!ck to the table?

I'll just stop here.

UyaiIncomparabl:


But, men are entitled too. I was chatting with a guy last night and he begged me for airtime. We hadn't even gone half way and this guy just started laying down his life problems for me.

Fine and fresh guy o. I told him I would not send him. And that I don't give men my money. He called me " Olosho" and all other nonsense insults your gender uses when they can't have their way.

Guess what I did? I blocked the idiot. Yes, na me talk am.

Them don run away....

dalass:


By your monicker, it shows the real reason you want to 'date'. Go to oloshos for your urges.

If you guys devote just about half of the energy and heckling over ladies to at least attempt to find solutions to the myriads of problems facing this country, Nigeria will enjoy her society

You seem pained and bitter. Are you not a human being to find solutions to the myriads of problems facing this country? This is exactly the entitlement mentality we're talking about.

I don't know why you Nigeria ladies hate the truth so much.

Dating is not employment. You should not be maintained by the guy you are dating. If you're broke, get a job, not a boyfriend

This is the pure truth
Nigeria woman once you date and you sleeping with them they say you most provide for them and if you don't do enough they move to the next hot guy .

Now are days prostitute are even loyal and truthful than girlfriend .No heart break No over spending . i only spend when i need you .

The funniest things is that prostitutes can even please you more sexually than girlfriend

Relationship is a no area for me
I remember when i was dating a girl her phone screen spoil i had to fix it with my own money because she said she is broke and i work in ikeja so i told her to bring the phone to my shop she came after fixing the screen i had to test the screen to know if it is alright na there i see her alert of 150k in her account . i was like oh my God and me i had only 55 k in my account i had to even remove inside my own money to repair for her . From that day if any woman ask me money i screenshot all the loan app in nigeria and send it to them to borrow .

The same independent women y'all call olosho on these streets?

Cry yourselves a river.

nairaman66:


This is the reason men see women as sexual objects! Change your mentality. A woman can be independent too

GooodHardDick:


The post really pain you no be small. Get a job and be independent. Stop depending on a man to take care of you!

This is exactly why they keep using you girls for rituals

can you even feed yourself? How much do you have in your account? Less than 1k. You will just come online and be writting nonesense and vomitting rubbish out about women. Go and hustle and be responsible.

tollyboy5:

Im ijebu. Im responsible, woman are adult here not babies.
they take responsibility.
You skipped my earlier question. What are the financial responsibilities of a lady in a marriage?

By right, women have no financial responsibilities. The chores, birthing babies and caring for them aren't enough for you guys? We are even being cheated. How do we do all these and still contribute financially? While all you men do is just to bring money. Isn't that uselessness?

hkunle71:


Just imagine... Ladies are the foundation of discontentment. Do you know how the guy got his money? No wonder they are always being a victim of ritualist. God Bless And Rebuild Nigeria

Not my business.

quentin06:
The Nigerian girls on nairaland will bash this thread, do you know the risks our girls take to honor a date? They travel long distances to destinations they don't know, borrow money, sometimes get there only to return empty handed, after being used by the guys.
There's the money ritual crew too, haba! Pity dem.
Its not too much to ask for compensation na.

Our greedy insurance companies and PFAs won't even develop packages for them.
Thank God for daddy OPM.

We understand all of these bro. A girl honouring a date isn't a big deal. She should be grateful to the guy who initiated the date in the first place. This is why money is highly important in a relationship. But however, Nigeria girls are making it seem like it is their almighty right to receive financial benefits from any guy who crosses their path. This is entitlement mentality and needs to stop!

kingyakos:


The same traditional style you have is the same the Israelites do have and I called it intellectual cos it's the way of man but what Christ came to give us is salvation which our traditional style cannot give cos there is no salvation in traditions.
Just as only few Jews rejected their traditions and follow salvation, few Gentiles will was reject traditions and follow salvation.

My dear, I hope you aren't supporting this evil topic?

Beebah2000:
No be by force to date. If you no wan feed another person daughter, then NO DATE.
Simple!!!

stray bullet hit this one. Better go get married if it's hunger or poverty that's your problem.

hkunle71:
Them don run away....

Comrade most of them are planning on deactivating their nairaland account

ume1000:
whose responsibility is his wellbeing

Mine. I need to look good for him.

I can't find comments of
Slawonnir damn niggea

Whoelse notice d guy does not comments on nairaland again...
Diz is area of specialisation

If you're in a relationship with a girl, don't feel entitled to her body or entitled to her cooking or doing chores for you. Okay?.

ShaqFu:
I understand you. Same way you have other stories to tell about men being entitled, is the same way I and many men out there, have stories to tell about women being entitled.

What gives is what the OP said. If you're in a relationship with a guy, don't feel entitled to his money. Work and hustle for yours. Relationship/dating isn't about giving the guy sex and he gives you money whenever you need or ask for it. Period.

tollyboy5:
your not serious, if a guy needs help he turns to a guy for help. If a lady needs financial help %90 will turn to a guy for assistance.
If guys do act like you did many ladies will be broke to stupor.
The truth might be that, you don't even have the money to help.
You sound so ignorant with bad manner of approach. Even has ladies always have touching stories tell, i won't turn a financial request down that way.
The only request i turn down from a lady is "plz borrow me" i know fully well ladies to payback borrowed money.

Are you hurt that I blocked your gender? No vex o. I later unblocked him and sent him 100N airtime na. I no try?

UyaiIncomparabl:


My dear, I hope you aren't supporting this evil topic?

Nop

GooodHardDick:
Dear women,

Dating is not employment. You should not be maintained by the guy you are dating. If you're broke, get a job, not a boyfriend. If you say "love is caring", why must it be your boyfriend that must care financially for you? If you really believe that, why can't you financially care for him too? Do you hate him? Stop this Jezebelic manipulations. It is called entitlement mentality!

God bless you.

fineboynl:
he might just be testing you

He wasn't. He leeches on sugar mummies. Well, I'm too woke and young to be his cash cow.

neonly:



Well-being ke what happen to yur parent providing for their kids

Parents will do their quota. Boyfriends will play their part. The guy that begged me for airtime yesterday, couldn't he go beg his father or mother for airtime? Why did he come to me? Hope you get the logic?

Beebah2000:
No be by force to date. If you no wan feed another person daughter, then NO DATE.
Simple!!!

Girls with this kinda mentality easily fall for guys that will use and dump them. Any guy that is not smarter with women is just a beginner

dboY1123:



Very true... The babe I'm dating right now would even ask money for hair, she'd tell me she's hungry that I should send money, she wants to fill gas, data and so on..
She's working o.. I just told her I won't be sending her money again, last week, she asked Monet for hair, I just told her I don't have and she got it done herself..e no concern me..
Me wey d relationship don tire already just looking for excuse to run

What an entitlement mentality!!!

I'll advise you not to give that girl money again. She's emotionally manipulating you into fulfilling her demands and needs.

It is not the responsibility of a man to take care of a girl his dating at all. Let her know you won't condo such rubbish from her! If she says otherwise, refuses and starts acting funny. Then dump her asap and move on.

Beebah2000:
No be by force to date. If you no wan feed another person daughter, then NO DATE.
Simple!!!

Hungry things

Midas01:
Lol, if women open up about the billing they also receive from guys, these angry frustrated alpha redpillers will call it lies.

In my life I've received more billing from guys than girls and that's a fact.

Also @ op, if you don't want to spend on a woman , why not date your fellow man....

You expect your gf to cook, clean, do your laundry and wash your dirty boxers you wore for two straight weeks all for nothing while only contributing d!ck to the table?

I'll just stop here.

If I have to be honest, I'll say we are being cheated. How do we do all that and still contribute financially? What do these men even offer? Nothing. But sex and money. Money that we women can make and even topping the league? Or sex that dildó now provides? Them no explain this thing well.

MartinsD12:

The honest truth bruh but sadly 95 % of Ladies see dating as employment opportunity infact they want you to place them on monthly salary plus other allowances, it's quite shocking the way ladies see dating especially in this country Nigeria they see it as greener pastures same ladies who say love is caring if love is caring why can't you ladies too spend for the guys , guys be wise any lady that can't contribute anything other than spending will leave you broke and date another guy , Chose Wisely once in a while let her buy you gifts, let her use her money go market buy food stuffs cook for you

Increase the volume comrade!!! I just hope guys will listen to this great advice of yours!

UyaiIncomparabl:


By right, women have no financial responsibilities. The chores, birthing babies and caring for them aren't enough for you guys? We are even being cheated. How do we do all these and still contribute financially? While all you men do is just to bring money. Isn't that uselessness?

Your only Job is baby bump and spread legs?

I know you're just an attention seeker here. I don't have the plans of producing dozens of children.
My mum begot me and my sis. More possibilities i wouldn't want to go beyond that. Ill always have nanny from close relative and try my best to be part of my children's life.
After two kids will she sit in my house jobless for the rest of her life?
Just spreading same legs hundreds of time with half baked beauty washing out as she grow old?
She dare not manufacture stretch mark because that would be another disqualification added to her liability and over stretched puzzy .
Of what value will she be after her prime?
Note there will always be liability fresher CTY outside to go after.

Beebah2000:
No be by force to date. If you no wan feed another person daughter, then NO DATE.
Simple!!!

Help me tell am o. Feed her while she oils your engine and everyone is happy...

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dboY1123:



Very true... The babe I'm dating right now would even ask money for hair, she'd tell me she's hungry that I should send money, she wants to fill gas, data and so on..
She's working o.. I just told her I won't be sending her money again, last week, she asked Monet for hair, I just told her I don't have and she got it done herself..e no concern me..
Me wey d relationship don tire already just looking for excuse to run

These kind of girls are annoying AF, FR FR.

UyaiIncomparabl:


What do you mean by "go and work"? I have a job but I will still demand your money. How hard is that to understand?

UYAII!!!!!