GooodHardDick:
Dear women,

Dating is not employment. You should not be maintained by the guy you are dating. If you're broke, get a job, not a boyfriend. If you say "love is caring", why must it be your boyfriend that must care financially for you? If you really believe that, why can't you financially care for him too? Do you hate him? Stop this Jezebelic manipulations. It is called entitlement mentality!

UyaiIncomparabl:


Lol. Shey because I didn't support your Akagum lifestyle?

UyaiIncomparabl:


I didn't read.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Which Bible verse?

UyaiIncomparabl:


Please, learn to read well. I'm not against women working. Let them earn a living but the men in their lives must take care of them 100%. Over here, we treat our women like eggs. Women should be pampered.

Holluwhakemmy:
can you even feed yourself? How much do you have in your account? Less than 1k. You will just come online and be writting nonesense and vomitting rubbish out about women. Go and hustle and be responsible.

walesoflyf:


You barely know a thing about me and tbh, I no be akagum.. That being said, abeg comot that sapiosexual from the list abeg... You no sapiosexual anything..

czarr:
pampered because they are children abi?

pansophist:


Exodus 22:16-17.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Which Bible verse?

UyaiIncomparabl:


My dear, leave this your westernized mindset in that abroad that you are in. Over here, we are Africans and we should behave like one. We are gradually throwing away our heritage and culture as of old in the name of feminism.

Men are by nature, total providers. Women will just assist when it's necessary. That's how I was taught and I adore the teachings. It has served me well. Even the Bible and Holy Quran command that a man should be 100% a provider in his home. It's just that our heritage has gone to the dogs and men of nowadays are so lazy and looking for working-class women so they will stop working and leech off them. I can't be that woman.

So, who are you a mere mortal to disobey God's commandment when he has stamped it?

Just get your acts together and start doing better. Or you just stay put forever there in that your abroad and be with whitey. Better learn to open your hand. Aka chi chi chi is not good.

UyaiIncomparabl:


I don't know what you mean by this.

Beebah2000:
No be by force to date. If you no wan feed another person daughter, then NO DATE.
Simple!!!

UyaiIncomparabl:


I can show you proof.

kingyakos:


Many books of old testament talked about it na, why asking which Bible verse

SolomonGrundy:
Oh, don't bother I believe you. I wonder why people go around begging indiscriminately.

WowSweetGuy:
Their birthdays na fund raising scheme

pansophist:
Our resident twins UyaiIncomparabl and iyaebe will not agree with you. For them, love and money goes hand in hand. Pay as you go. They want their men to adhere to 20th century roles where it benefits them, but they want to be 21st century women with progressive laws.

It's a man's duty to be a provider, no wahala, but somehow, its not a woman's duty to be a virgin, and accept to be the fourth wife. Why the selective application of culture? Its also against the bible to pay bride price to non virgin, should we adhere to that one? Lol.

Bullman:


When u date girls from other countries in africa u will realize that most Nigerian girls are just parasitic nd greedy.

GooodHardDick:
Dear women,

Dating is not employment. You should not be maintained by the guy you are dating. If you're broke, get a job, not a boyfriend. If you say "love is caring", why must it be your boyfriend that must care financially for you? If you really believe that, why can't you financially care for him too? Do you hate him? Stop this Jezebelic manipulations. It is called entitlement mentality!

Youngqueen:
Take your broke a** away punk. If u can't spend on your woman who then? Na pipu like you go tell woman say low cut fit her cos u no wan give money. Punk as* ni*ga

Kelechi009:


Same reason why I keep wondering why Nigerian women talk about Celibacy and Feminism, two totally different concepts but both cannot exist in Nigeria. How can I be paying for your house rent in Magodo and you tell me you want to be Celibate?

She is claiming to be a feminist at the same time, oh well return the money I sent you, so you can be celibate and feminist in peace. That is when the trouble started.

luminouz:

Broke guy...shut your trap!!!
Misogynist oshi... Alfa Mail
If you don't have money, Goan hustle....or na me go fuq your gf

GooodHardDick:


There we go again! This is the problem guys have with you Nigeria girls. Are you trying to tell us that Nigeria ladies can't hustle? Are you saying that it is forbidden for a lady to hustle, make money and take care of herself? Why depending on a man to take care of your needs?

UyaiIncomparabl:


Why do you guys put sex in the equation with money? You men are the instigators of this 'money for hand, back for ground'. Can't you all just spend money on your women without wanting her body in return?

luminouz:

Broke guy...shut your trap!!!
Misogynist oshi... Alfa Mail
If you don't have money, Goan hustle....or na me go fuq your gf

ShaqFu:
You should ask yourself why women put money in the equation with relationship?

Like can't you women just be in a relationship without the guy taking care of you, your family members and also your relatives?

"Money for hand, back for ground" is the surest way for men to get what they worked for. Beside, it is purely transactional. No harm is done, nobody is cheated or feels cheated.

PS: Don't be surprise this lady who was docked for fraud still feels entitled to her husband or boyfriends money, despite her dispatching millions of naira from her Employers.

https://www.nairaland.com/7033265/efcc-arraigns-female-banker-alleged

Only God can deliver you guys. We no even know wetin una dey use all the money do sef. Lmao.

pansophist:


Why do you think one has to be broke to expect women to show up with equal contribution? To stay wealthy, you must make decisions that sustain wealth. You hardly see wealthy people marry poor people, those are Nollywood nonsense. Check the elite class in Nigeria, they marry within themselves. Being wealthy is not just a material thing, but a psychological thing as well. Now imagine the kind of discussion that will happen between Dangote and the bread-hawker. What will they talk about? Wake up, real life is realistic.

As an analogy, its easier to climb the staircase to the 5th floor when you're not carrying a woman on your shoulder, because she can use her legs. It's easier for two couples to go higher when each of them can contribute materially even if it's not equal, instead of the women burdening the man with hers, while not contributing anything. You can argue that men should provide more, then you'll have a point. But saying women should not do at all is a recipe for singledom. Only dumb men that do not know their direction in life will accept that condition.

Don't you also want to be the kind of woman that gives her a husband car as gift? Is sex and washing his clothes only how you'll show love to him? Don't you want him to feel convinced that you're with him not for his money? If economy goes bad and he looses income, will you guys become poor instantly? What kind of mentality do you have sef?

The only woman that I'll take serious with this "men are a provider crap" must also be the typical submissive, a virgin and must accept if I take multiple wives. I don't like selective application of culture. The bible says that a man should only pay bride price for virgins, so she must be one. Stop the hypocrisy abeg.

luminouz:

Broke guy...shut your trap!!!
Misogynist oshi... Alfa Mail
If you don't have money, Goan hustle....or na me go fuq your gf