GooodHardDick:


You have said it all comrade. We have asked this question on this forum over and over again "aside sex what do Nigerian girls have to offer a man in a relationship". Instead of answering the question, they insulted every guy on nairaland, calling them broke guys!

UyaiIncomparabl:


I didn't read.

pansophist:


Why do you think one has to be broke to expect women to show up with equal contribution? To stay wealthy, you must make decisions that sustain wealth. You hardly see wealthy people marry poor people, those are Nollywood nonsense. Check the elite class in Nigeria, they marry within themselves. Being wealthy is not just a material thing, but a psychological thing as well. Now imagine the kind of discussion that will happen between Dangote and the bread-hawker. What will they talk about? Wake up, real life is realistic.

As an analogy, its easier to climb the staircase to the 5th floor when you're not carrying a woman on your shoulder, because she can use her legs. It's easier for two couples to go higher when each of them can contribute materially even if it's not equal, instead of the women burdening the man with hers, while not contributing anything. You can argue that men should provide more, then you'll have a point. But saying women should not do at all is a recipe for singledom. Only dumb men that do not know their direction in life will accept that condition.

Don't you also want to be the kind of woman that gives her a husband car as gift? Is sex and washing his clothes only how you'll show love to him? Don't you want him to feel convinced that you're with him not for his money? If economy goes bad and he looses income, will you guys become poor instantly? What kind of mentality do you have sef?

The only woman that I'll take serious with this "men are a provider crap" must also be the typical submissive, a virgin and must accept if I take multiple wives. I don't like selective application of culture. The bible says that a man should only pay bride price for virgins, so she must be one. Stop the hypocrisy abeg.

Beebah2000:
No be by force to date. If you no wan feed another person daughter, then NO DATE.
Simple!!!

UyaiIncomparabl:


Why do you guys put sex in the equation with money? You men are the instigators of this 'money for hand, back for ground'. Can't you all just spend money on your women without wanting her body in return?

Divoc19:
Hear yourself well. The same men will call her loosed/control freak because she is independent.

Midas01:
The same independent women y'all call olosho on these streets?

Cry yourselves a river.

Divoc19:
Hear yourself well. The same men will call her loosed/control freak because she is independent.

Nairanation2:
The entitlement mentality of this gender continues to astound me. Imagine my gf telling me there must be financial incentive for her cuz of her Fidelity to me... Lmao. So, not being promiscuous or nt having many guys digging her kpekus should come with a reward & she's damn serious. Their mindset about relationship is just horrible. Before u know, she's already giving me serious attitude. To MOST of them, 'love' equates money. I ditched d bitch. Just terrible.

Beebah2000:
some Nigerian girls don turn their boyfriend to financial survivor na.
If you no wan be financial survivor, then no date.
Simple!!!

Holluwhakemmy:
wereh lo ma ya gbe yin. Even after marriage you won't be responsible. Like Yoruba adage" oju to ba maa ba eni dale kin taaro sepin" if you don't understand google it. You that your parents are still feeding saying girls are demanding money from him. Go and work and leave me alone.

Wittyduchess:
[s]If truely you are a lady behind this moniker, I would say stop commenting, push back and breathe.

After seeing the outburst of one of the foremost red pill founders some days ago and also alot of male nairalanders confirming to being drug addicts on another thread.

It's a waste of time to engage in these type of threads.

All you should be praying is not to have the opportunity to come across such people in your day to day activities. I can see alot of them already supporting ritual killing just so you know the mindset of the kind of people you are engaging.


A person who feels someone deserves to be butchered for whatever reason , cannot be reasoned with and is beyond sane already. And you are here engaging such people? You try.[/s]

BeautyB99:
[s]You bunches of redpillers/alpha male association have come again, only you guys will be against helping a lady but you go on your social media and begin to salivate when you see one fine slay queen some of you might even go ahead and be comparing your main girlfriend to one Instagram slay queen as if you can maintain such ladies if given a chance, abeg if you can't help a woman financially then leave her alone she no tie your hand and leg with rope[/s]

Animegirl:


We have more pressing issues in Nigeria, but men can never stop talking about women matter and sex.

All these poverty stricken and lazy Nairaland small boys, can't stop talking about women for clickbait.

ednut1:
Nigerian men are the cause. When you start feeding a wild lion or crocodile it stops hunting and come to same spot when hungry .

GooodHardDick:
Who else also noticed that Nairaland females ain't commenting?

The post really pain dem no be small

GooodHardDick:
Dear women,

Dating is not employment. You should not be maintained by the guy you are dating. If you're broke, get a job, not a boyfriend. If you say "love is caring", why must it be your boyfriend that must care financially for you? If you really believe that, why can't you financially care for him too? Do you hate him? Stop this Jezebelic manipulations. It is called entitlement mentality!

GooodHardDick:
Who else also noticed that Nairaland females ain't commenting?

The post really pain dem no be small

UyaiIncomparabl:


But, men are entitled too. I was chatting with a guy last night and he begged me for airtime. We hadn't even gone half way and this guy just started laying down his life problems for me.

Fine and fresh guy o. I told him I would not send him. And that I don't give men my money. He called me " Olosho" and all other nonsense insults your gender uses when they can't have their way.

Guess what I did? I blocked the idiot. Yes, na me talk am.

Kelechi009:


Same reason why I keep wondering why Nigerian women talk about Celibacy and Feminism, two totally different concepts but both cannot exist in Nigeria. How can I be paying for your house rent in Magodo and you tell me you want to be Celibate?

She is claiming to be a feminist at the same time, oh well return the money I sent you, so you can be celibate and feminist in peace. That is when the trouble started.

GooodHardDick:


Honestly bro. They keep on screaming feminists up and down and yet want a man to foot their bills as though he is their father. Is this not stupidity with entitlement mentality?

kokomilala:
It's the generation of entitled liabilities. This sense of entitlement is ingrained in their subconscious that they feel no sense of shame at all when they claim so called rights.

GooodHardDick:


Increase the volume comrade!!

Entitled liabilities everywhere with no sense of shame at all.

emmanuelbrown26:

If their papa no broke why dem cum dey beg up and down

sweetrace:


Dating is not marriage.

GooodHardDick:


I swear down bro. Instead of blaming their fathers, they decided to insult every guy calling them broke guys!

Nigeria girls are really entitled liabilities

ShaqFu:
Exactly how perfect do you think that post is?

If a guy had said "what do you mean you're tired, I'm tired too but I still want to fvck, my friend lie down open leg make I fvck".

You and I know rapist and rape apologist would be flying all over this thread.

Wittyduchess:
If truely you are a lady behind this moniker, I would say stop commenting, push back and breathe.

After seeing the outburst of one of the foremost red pill founders some days ago and also alot of male nairalanders confirming to being drug addicts on another thread.

It's a waste of time to engage in these type of threads.

All you should be praying is not to have the opportunity to come across such people in your day to day activities. I can see alot of them already supporting ritual killing just so you know the mindset of the kind of people you are engaging.


A person who feels someone deserves to be butchered for whatever reason , cannot be reasoned with and is beyond sane already. And you are here engaging such people? You try.

wonder233:
Is the topic dating or prostitution? I bet you don't even know the difference

GooodHardDick:
Dear women,

Dating is not employment. You should not be maintained by the guy you are dating. If you're broke, get a job, not a boyfriend. If you say "love is caring", why must it be your boyfriend that must care financially for you? If you really believe that, why can't you financially care for him too? Do you hate him? Stop this Jezebelic manipulations. It is called entitlement mentality!