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Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by Stargurl20(f): 8:43am On Mar 18, 2022 |
I'm not saying been bad to people in general but u know the good gurl of a thing, right? Is there really any gain in that? Coz to the best of my knowledge, the so called bad gurls are excelling far better in all ramifications than good gurls. Even guys will choose the over the gurls any time. 22 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by zeuss: 8:45am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Stargurl20: Ultimate good always overcomes bad. 166 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by Candidlady: 8:45am On Mar 18, 2022 |
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Re: Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by Uzomacharles: 8:48am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Everything With Advantage Has Disadvantage 28 Likes |
Re: Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by Stargurl20(f): 8:48am On Mar 18, 2022 |
zeuss:Vague. U may elaborate more 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by Stargurl20(f): 8:49am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Uzomacharles:Being good gurl in this country Nigeria only has Disadvantage 30 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by Uzomacharles: 8:56am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Stargurl20:So y seeking for people's opinion when you know that ![]() Though I will call your opinion YOUR POINT OF VIEW 71 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by JoyousFurnitire(m): 8:57am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Be you! Be good! 8 Likes |
Re: Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by advanceDNA: 9:00am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Stargurl20: Bad girls never tell you what’s going on on the bad side...Until you join them.... For example, Olosho or runs babe can brag about her iphone 20 or the car she drives or even the house at lekki she collected from alhaji.....u will never know what she went tru to get all those things... We hear of some of them eating Arab man sh!t for 6000$ dollars...don’t let anyone deceive you that one guy touch her boobbii and gave her a house in lekki The price for being a good girl is easier, with time, hard work and improvement of skill or degree, u would have paid your dues.. las las, you go dey alright .... 368 Likes 23 Shares |
Re: Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by GingerbreadMen(m): 9:01am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Real Bad girls are for pleasure Real Good girls are for keeps Sha don't quote me because reality is twisted,if you're good but you're boring a bad girl just might take your place Another thing is how you carry yourself,a bad girl may pose with the mannerisms of a good girl to get what she wants and may be successful In all, it's good to be good but better to be a good bad girl in this game of attraction. The exact same thing is applicable to guys, it's better to be a good bad guy than just a good guy 97 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by Romanoff(f): 9:14am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Bad girls will never tell you that they envy good girls but it's the truth. 173 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by Moloso(m): 9:16am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Lol.. Body go tell you na, she you done dey envy your friends that are bad. Enter first and see wetin boys go do with you. Good girls are priceless, use Mercy Johnson amd Tonto Dike as a case study. Who is now happy in there various home. Find out the answer yourself.. 37 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by davien(m): 9:21am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Good girls have fewer problems in the long run. They tend to escape the myriad of diseases and abusive men(if they're wise), then go on to have wonderful homes. A good girl doesn't struggle to overcome seeing men as dogs after sleeping with 100s of them, nor do they have problems with attention as they're content with the one they get from the few people around them. Many people like to think bad men/women can change but that is a lie, some stop being bad due to age, health or the risk of losing the last person who they think can care for them(on this, they have a lot of regrets for potential people who they did wrong and can never contact again). My idea of a good girl may be different from yours as I think some good people drink, smoke, party etc but don't manipulate people nor cheat them in one way or the other. It's your choice though. Me I'm not good or bad, I've learnt to dish out what I'm served and prioritize my time above all others. 64 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by Stargurl20(f): 9:34am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Moloso:Even u men are confused. You don't want a good gurl 2 Likes |
Re: Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by GingerbreadMen(m): 9:47am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Stargurl20:It depends on the stage of life that man is in I can also say women don't like good guys,there are two sides of a coin 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by Boogyman557: 10:02am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Holly Gram ![]() Na ur CONCERNMENT and not our CONCERNM! So no send any MANCHI or BANI, just do U! Me I de NACK ASHAWOO and I de BLA WEED! Na my CONCERNMENT be Dat! LITE UP my WEED in peace.. WTF MAN! 8 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by Stargurl20(f): 10:18am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Boogyman557:Smh 6 Likes |
Re: Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by Vizconson(m): 10:21am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Stargurl20: I want a good girl. A lot of sane people do. But we also want the good girl to be confident and bold. If she isn't too religious, then that's it. I am sold. But here is another reality, people are attracted to their own kind. In Nigeria, you have a lot of guys into ritual killings and stuff, those sort of guys definitely do not want or deserve good girls. So your chances are a bit slim. So rather than date Nigerian men, you can date a foreigner (whites, Hispanic, etc) and have peace of mind. 8 Likes |
Re: Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by Olayetan(m): 10:26am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Stargurl20:The bad girls are good for fun while the good girls are good for peace, you won't see any responsible man settling with bad girl, they may enjoy their company but they will never settle with them. 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by slickycee: 10:39am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Bad girl , Bad boy, Good girl and good boy are just labels we put on people.. The person you think is a bad girl might just be daring and adventurous, but our olodo society might call such people bad. It's just a tag , don't let name decieve you. That good girl you're thinking of , might just be a homely , shy and churchy girl. All these traits don't make any one bad or good they're just different characters. Good or bad is in the heart. The more selfish a person is , the more likely vhe or she would do wicked things. Secondly, You need to remember life is not the same for all of us, That girl did this and is enjoying life, doesn't mean you would do it and enjoy life too. God would bless everyone according to his wisdom and time. Don't envy people or compare, God sees the heart , me and you don't. Thirdly. You are not for everyone and everyone is not for you. Even if you try to be a bad girl, the same guy that you think Is confused and always pick bad girls, would still ignore you. You can't be for everyone !!! It doesn't work like that. Jesus Christ wasn't even accepted in his home town. His own people asked for him to be crucified. It's never personal, but everyone is not for you. And even if you do surgery to look like them , or change your name to theirs, they won't still accept you. Just love yourself and be confident I yourself. Don't let social media or Tv fool you. Let me say this again, A quiet person doesn't make them good. A shy person doesn't mean a good person. An emotional or cry baby is not always a good person. Those are just traits, so don't mistake them for good and bad. We know the personality types, sanguine, melancholy, phlegmatic and choleric. None is good not is bad. It's what people decides to do. Lastly, The grass always seem greener on the other side. Humans are naturally ungrateful, and never know the value of what they have until they Lose it. They're many people who think bad people are having life easy, but they feel cheated , being ungrateful for the peace and blessings they enjoy. Like my role model , J Cole said. There's no such thing as a life thats better than yours. They would always be someone richer than you, finer than you, more talented than you. Like your latest would always be someone outdated, your choice would be someone Godforbid. But you would never be happy untill you learn to love yours. So love yourself and the things you have and believe better days are surely ahead. If you believe what you're doing Is right , and you feel it's something that doesn't compromise your peace , please keep at it Don't let labels decieve you or make you question your beliefs. Stay true to yourself. 61 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by DeathToAfonja: 10:47am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Become a bad gurl quick so we can start eating you and passing you around This small teenagers Maybe your friend don go buy iPhone come tell you say na her sugar daddy buy am for her E no the pass like that 36 Likes |
Re: Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by Divoc19(f): 10:56am On Mar 18, 2022 |
That is what we think but it's not true because the days of the wicked are numbered. Be good and not ignorant. Be civilised and not corrupt. Good things happen to good people don't equate yourself to bad girls please, your ways are different. Stargurl20: 9 Likes |
Re: Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by Truvelisback(m): 11:04am On Mar 18, 2022 |
From ur own pant of view. |
Re: Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by Stargurl20(f): 11:05am On Mar 18, 2022 |
DeathToAfonja:I'm not oppressed by anyone. Even if there are in gold. I'm just wondering what being the good gurl has gotten me so far. Nothing. Whereas the so called wild gurls are doing perfectly. In fact, I've come to realize thatost guys just come to the public to rant they desire good gurls where as deep down it's the bad ones they want... Being a good gurl in this Nigeria is of no single value 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by Stargurl20(f): 11:08am On Mar 18, 2022 |
slickycee:Hm.... Thank u. 5 Likes |
Re: Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by DeathToAfonja: 11:08am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Stargurl20: My dear become a bad girl now Who hold you Abi have they started selling form for bad girls membership club? 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by Nobody: 11:11am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Point of correction, no sane guy would chose a bad girl over a good girl, men look for good girls to settle down with, the bad girls are only use to flirt, side chicks and curing of conji, no sane man would want to wife such 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by Stargurl20(f): 11:12am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Johnnycastro18:Yinmu 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by techWriter3: 11:14am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Ultimate good always surmounts bad |
Re: Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by Vinnie2000(m): 11:18am On Mar 18, 2022 |
OP, Depends on what you want. If want to smoke, drinks and receive Diccks, you re free! But know dat the deeds of Men have CONSEQUENCES! 10 Likes |
Re: Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by DryMouth: 11:34am On Mar 18, 2022 |
Abeg when you have decided to be a bad girl, come meet me make i dey oil your engine. I no get time dey advice people. 5 Likes |
Re: Is There Really Any Point Or Gain In Being A Good Girl? by Moloso(m): 12:11pm On Mar 18, 2022 |
Stargurl20: Anty all men are not the same, know this and know peace. We have our individual differences.. Keep been dey bad girl, let see how you will last with that. 2 Likes |
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