What actually prompted me to making a thread like this was based on many SIMPs' stories have read online and this forum is part.

Imagine, a guy that hasn't even bought a common footwear for himself, took the simp courage of buying a dress worth #80k for his girlfriend because she wanted to attend a party.


I'm not complaining that such act or acts is/are bad, buh remember to appreciate yourself and value yourself first before doing anything for a lady.

Self love is paramount, eat good food before you even think of satisfying that your girlfriend's belly. You don't know if she might even gotten a filled belly while you're starving in order to make sure she's well okay.

Most ladies nowadays don't care if you're doing well or financially okay, all they want is that you must provide whatever they requested for.

Relationship aren't meant for any of the parties to suffered because you wanna keep it rollin'. Sufferness never tire you?

Remember that them fit serve you breakfast anytime...

If a lady tells you that you're broke, boy, tell her atleast I'm alive, she can get the hell out. Been broke doesn't mean you won't later succeed in your life. Keep your hustle tight and strive positively.

If you made an achievement, appreciate yourself, don't think of the your girlfriend yet, make yourself the first priority... C'mon! She hasn't been your wife.



Relationship ain't meant to be a burden on your neck buh a step to knowing more of each other and been a helping hands in time of challenges. Both sides need to know this.

Abeg, guys too na human being

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