Please Fellow Nairalnder
Greetings to the elders in the house please I need your advice. How do I treat a wife that opens up everything that goes on in her family to her mum and siblings
She holds their advice higher than her husband .please advice

it's not by age, its by good sense. She is not ready for a good home. You can't win some families unless the person involved is ready to disassociate herself far from them to have a better home

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one day some men will come online to ask how they can suck their wife breast

why are you called a husband, a home governor when you can't govern your house without online verdict


you re ashamed that she let out your private issues to her family and friends but you come online to do the same
shame on you 'contemporary husband'

talk to her about the meaning of marriage...she doesn't know what marriage is about...

she is turning your marriage into A COMMUNITY PROJECT.

TALK TO HER,TEACH HER because this might collapse your marriage sooner than later,she ain't matured enough to be married

talk to her about the meaning of marriage...she doesn't know what marriage is about...

she is turning your marriage into A COMMUNITY PROJECT.

TALK TO HER,TEACH HER because this might collapse your marriage sooner than later,she ain't matured enough to be married, though I'm not a fan of marriage counselor but you could try one if you can afford it

rickpat:
talk to her about the meaning of marriage...she doesn't know what marriage is about...

she is turning your marriage into A COMMUNITY PROJECT.

TALK TO HER,TEACH HER because this might collapse your marriage sooner than later,she ain't matured enough to be married

A wife not a girlfriend. That is medicine after death. Both of them need to check their foundation and amend it, unless the wife and her family are the ones feeding the family. Let the man tell her what she wants if she wants to go further.

Talk to her..
she's in a new family

Married people are becoming menace to this great forum

Olunmercy56:


A wife not a girlfriend. That is medicine after death. Both of them need to check their foundation and amend it, unless the wife and her family are the ones feeding the family. Let the man tell her what she wants if she wants to go further.

I know it's a wife,not all people know what marriage is about before getting married...even if the wife and her family funds the marriage, doesn't mean she will tell them everything...she should protect her home to a large extent...anyways good luck to them

Report her to her pastors

phidipe:
Please Fellow Nairalnder
Greetings to the elders in the house please I need your advice. How do I treat a wife that opens up everything that goes on in her family to her mum and siblings
She holds their advice higher than her husband .please advice

Just manage her.

rickpat:
I know it's a wife,not all people know what marriage is about before getting married...even if the wife and her family funds the marriage, doesn't mean she will tell them everything...she should protect her home to a large extent...anyways good luck to them

You said it all, who will now preach to the wife to have sense?

Olunmercy56:


You said it all, who will now preach to the wife to have sense?

the husband, religious leader (if they are religious), counselor or her family should caution her to go build her family with her husband that's if her family sees anything wrong in her behavior.

a case I saw years back,was the lady always going back to her family house every day... saying she misses her family...returns in the evening...it took her mum to stop her from doing that...such happens to newly wedded couples that stay in the same town with their parents....she just needs talking to and teaching

Zonefree:
Married people are becoming menace to this great forum

Are you feeling threatened?

Another married people wahala...

Dear Phidipe,

You married a babe and can only correct her like one. Talk to her, if she doesn't change start making some deliberate decisions without informing her. When she picks offense tell her it's because of her chuchuchu, you decided to stop carrying her along.

She will learn.

God forbid I reject that in Jesus name I made provision for both of us.

Olunmercy56:


A wife not a girlfriend. That is medicine after death. Both of them need to check their foundation and amend it, unless the wife and her family are the ones feeding the family. Let the man tell her what she wants if she wants to go further.

God bless you for this advice

Palema007:
Dear Phidipe,

You married a babe and can only correct her like one. Talk to her, if she doesn't change start making some deliberate decisions without informing her. When she picks offense tell her it's because of her chuchuchu, you decided to stop carrying her along.

She will learn.

phidipe:
God bless you for this advice

Amen.

Good luck bro

LIGHTHEARTED0:
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one day some men will come online to ask how they can suck their wife breast

why are you called a husband, a home governor when you can't govern your house without online verdict


you re ashamed that she let out your private issues to her family and friends but you come online to do the same
shame on you 'contemporary husband'

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It is as important as finding a good wife to make sure she comes from a good background.

phidipe:
Please Fellow Nairalnder
Greetings to the elders in the house please I need your advice. How do I treat a wife that opens up everything that goes on in her family to her mum and siblings
She holds their advice higher than her husband .please advice

Tell the parents to stop dividing your home boldly looking them in the eyes, or they should return your bride price and marry their daughter.


Bleep whatever you think about me,always remember there is no competition in destiny.

phidipe:
Please Fellow Nairalnder
Greetings to the elders in the house please I need your advice. How do I treat a wife that opens up everything that goes on in her family to her mum and siblings
She holds their advice higher than her husband .please advice

The bold part is your main problem. I wonder why you didn't use it as headline. The future of your marriage and home now depend on the personalities of your in laws. If they are good, you are still finished but if they are bad, it means you are completely finished. Either way, you are done for.

There was no ground rules from the beginning before you stepped into the union, that's why. Like children, women guage your powers, and will trample upon your will the minute you are perceived weak.
Give her the last warning (which I know she will break to test you), and when she breaks it, pack a bag and leave the house permanently before the world ( but temporarily in your heart) until you are begged to return and the terms of the marriage renegotiated. They have everything to lose if you call their bluff.

one day some men will come online to ask how they can suck their wife breast

why are you called a husband, a home governor when you can't govern your house without online verdict


you re ashamed that she let out your private issues to her family and friends but you come online to do the same
shame on you 'contemporary husband'

Get a bell and ring it loudly on her head when she's sleeping, as you ring dance vigorously and shout these words, talku talku dwarf demons be banished forever.

And it will drive off the talkative demon from her head you have to do it for not less than 10 minutes, if you exceed 10 minutes she might become a deaf and dumb.

This I have seen.

Majority of Nigerian women have high regards for their 'Pastors' than their husband's hence, the high divorce rate.

She obviously didn't mature fully for marriage.

Send her back to her people for REFRESHER & UPDATE courses. Hope that settles your case too?

Serious case