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Threats From Father Inlaw And Wife by xukwaa: 2:34pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
Life is transient. He is gone. |
Re: Threats From Father Inlaw And Wife by Beremx(f): 2:45pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
You are not only having problems with your wife but also your father in-law. How then can your marital issues be resolved? This one pass my mouth o!! |
Re: Threats From Father Inlaw And Wife by eeewise(m): 2:53pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
Life is complicated enough. Living in Nigeria makes it even worse. If she refuses to align with your ideal pls drop her with her daddy and co parent She cant opt to live with you and at the same time be living contrary to your ideals It's very simple start from separation If she continues making your life miserable proceed to stage 2 which is divorce and co-parenting And have your peace 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Threats From Father Inlaw And Wife by Kobojunkie: 2:59pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
xukwaa:what do you mean when you say your wife challenges you violently? As for her father, what are some of the threats he has leveled against you? 2 Likes |
Re: Threats From Father Inlaw And Wife by xukwaa: 3:14pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:That he will deal with me. |
Re: Threats From Father Inlaw And Wife by xukwaa: 3:18pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: What he does is to call my dad to warn me. My dad starts panicking. 2 Likes |
Re: Threats From Father Inlaw And Wife by Kobojunkie: 3:18pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
xukwaa:OK, please start by filing a police report against your wife next time she threatens you in such a violent manner and copy the report and post it online where it is very visible for all to see and know of. I would have said to move as far away from her but without first gathering evidence first, I don't know what may transpire next. If possible, next time your wife attempts to assault you in similar manner, try to record her in the act, and post it where it is visible to your family including her father. You can open a private online viewing of the video to only family and friends to see and maybe get the right discussions happening as far as where you two want the marriage to go. 4 Likes |
Re: Threats From Father Inlaw And Wife by baby124: 3:20pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
Make a video secretly of the threats and abuse and put it online, explaining what you go through. Take your time to accumulate this evidence very well. When you walk away they won’t be able to say pim. Make the public know that if any harm comes to you, they are to blame and please if you can, sue the Nigerian military and the father who is using their resources to harass and threaten a citizen. That is if you have the mind and support of your firm. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Threats From Father Inlaw And Wife by xukwaa: 3:23pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
baby124:I will post updates including videos here if things escalate. |
Re: Threats From Father Inlaw And Wife by Kobojunkie: 3:25pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
xukwaa:Why would your dad panic? Does he believe you to be in the wrong as far as your marriage is concerned? 1 Like |
Re: Threats From Father Inlaw And Wife by xukwaa: 3:28pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:My dad is afraid of a military personnel 1 Like |
Re: Threats From Father Inlaw And Wife by baby124: 3:54pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
xukwaa:Hopefully the mods help you push it to front page. Also send it to instablog and all internet popular news outlets, so you can japa from them with your life intact. Mad daughter and father. |
Re: Threats From Father Inlaw And Wife by jesmond3945: 7:52pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
xukwaa:your wife is using her dad against you. Talk to your wife to stop and your father in law as well. If it continues, just seek for separation. However, I know she would come for the children. 1 Like |
Re: Threats From Father Inlaw And Wife by ghettochild(m): 8:28pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
She learnt vawulence from her dad Didnt u notice this before u married her?? 1 Like |
Re: Threats From Father Inlaw And Wife by Nobody: 1:31am On Mar 21, 2022 |
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Re: Threats From Father Inlaw And Wife by oldienavie: 2:21am On Mar 21, 2022 |
mmnnn things dey happen sha... So the father of your wife is threatening you heheheheeee Where is the mother of your wife in all this ? This is why we tell men to look well before they tie the knot. Men please look well, if you marry because of class, beauty, sex etc and put yourself in this kind of situation you will live in fear all your life. Imagine a father in-law threatening the husband of his daughter, you'd realise that the family itself is hell... |
Re: Threats From Father Inlaw And Wife by socialmediaman: 2:32am On Mar 21, 2022 |
Re: Threats From Father Inlaw And Wife by cococandy(f): 4:45am On Mar 21, 2022 |
xukwaa: What kind of marriage is this that they are intimidating even your father? I think Kobojunkie has given you a great suggestion 2 Likes |
Re: Threats From Father Inlaw And Wife by cococandy(f): 4:47am On Mar 21, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: You forget that individuals can use the Nigerian army and police as errand boys to deal with their “enemies”. All the need is some change or have a member of their family belong to the force His father is afraid of military brutality. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Threats From Father Inlaw And Wife by Kobojunkie: 12:35pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
cococandy:Oh, I know they can but where was this fear and panic when they were dating is what I ask 1 Like |
Re: Threats From Father Inlaw And Wife by tayo60(f): 12:44pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Gather enough evidence and leave that toxic marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Threats From Father Inlaw And Wife by Nobody: 12:52pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Always playing the victim card with their one sided stories,I don’t always believe when a man put his stories here,they always lie to paint their partner as a demon.Oga What is that thing you always do that has made your wife violent?was she a violent woman before your marriage? 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Threats From Father Inlaw And Wife by jeff1607(m): 1:32pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Iyaebe: Have you ever been in a sincere relationship with someone in the Nigerian military? 2 Likes |
Re: Threats From Father Inlaw And Wife by Nobody: 2:23pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
jeff1607:I have no business with military men,never. |
Re: Threats From Father Inlaw And Wife by jeff1607(m): 2:26pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Iyaebe: Well this one did and is regretting it. Have empathy 3 Likes |
Re: Threats From Father Inlaw And Wife by zumbigbo(m): 2:39pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
jeff1607: Forget am. Empathy and Nigerians is a looooong thing. Only distrust and temper blooms freely here. 1 Like |
Re: Threats From Father Inlaw And Wife by cutedharmee: 7:54pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Iyaebe:Walahi I lurf u fr dis comment. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Threats From Father Inlaw And Wife by frozen70(f): 4:45pm On Mar 22, 2022 |
xukwaa: This is nonsense Who does that, Just be the dad and husband you have always been Let her and her father do their worst If they try anything funny, leave the marriage for her dad to marry her By the time they don't see you the whole family will look for you 1 Like |
Re: Threats From Father Inlaw And Wife by ibechris(m): 5:54pm On Mar 22, 2022 |
That means u are going to marry her by force by fire. That woman or wife no get sense...u can't threaten my dad or me and u won't lose everything. Well,na u like trouble...since her father na govt I would have shown her that he is nothing but a fool. How u too go marry soldier pikin. . I am sure the love dey shack u then,shey? Pray make them no kill u,70 years old man. Them never leave u. |
Re: Threats From Father Inlaw And Wife by simpleseyi: 6:52pm On Mar 22, 2022 |
xukwaa: Tell your mother. She will treat the useless Warrant Officer's fuckup. Just tell your mother, you will be surprised at what she can do. DO not die in silence. |
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