ubunja:
ask and we'll answer where possible

Nat404:


The question now is; would I lose this girl to another man if I do not act fast?

Nat404:
Okay, thanks, champ.

Late Last year, I met a very pretty young lady whose dad is a politician. We swapped digits. Called her a few times after three months of meeting her and never called her again because my mind was preoccupied with something else.

Just last weekend, she called me and we talked about 15 minutes and she was very upset with me probably because I haven't been calling her often. She said how could I live without even calling her a single day? How could I be happy without talking to my girlfriend? I told her she is not yet my girlfriend. She then asked me, when are we gonne meet again? Because she can't wait any longer. I told her on the phone next month and she said no, next month is so long. That she wants us to meet very soon. Then I said okay, next week. In a week time. She then asked me to kiss her on the phone but I refused. She then said she's going to come over the same day I would return and also said lots of fun stuff. And I felt like a hero.

Honestly, I do not want to have sex with this pretty damsel now. It's something I would have to think about later.

The question now is; would I lose this girl to another man if I do not act fast?

Smartb0y:

She's not yours, it's just your turn

sajmark:

Use protection during sex and make sure the sex is good, do anything else and the attraction is gone.

ubunja:
you're selfish, self-serving and arrogant. I like it.

Nat404:
She's mine. I am the one who is delaying everything. Babe told me on the phone that I can have her but I am not rushing it. Her dad for sure would give me cover. I know I would finally sleep with her but sex is never on my mind. Money is more important to me than sex.

Nat404:
She's mine. I am the one who is delaying everything. Babe told me on the phone that I can have her but I am not rushing it. Her dad for sure would give me cover. I know I would finally sleep with her but sex is never on my mind. Money is more important to me than sex.

ubunja:

True, basically being a "Nice Guy" is using kindness to "buy" sex. Like "I'm sweet and caring so I deserve your puccy". It's lame and it won't work.

A nice guy wants to be agreeable, sweet and kind in hopes of being rewarded with sex for said qualities. They are the biggest manipulators. And rarely get the puccy. Cause women see through that bull.

If you like a girl be upfront with her. Dont do good and pleasant things for her to win her friendship while quietly waiting for her weakest point to "attack" and try to fucc her. Cause you're only wasting your time, energy and resources and you'll be angry when the woman calls you out for it.

Smartb0y:

Oh boy, the oneitis in you is strong.
You're already in love.

As I wise fella once said, never advise a man who's in love

iamphenomenal:

The Sniper Mentality -
Waiting patiently for the 'perfect' time and place to take that one shot at that ONE target

Nat404:
I am good on bed but right now, I don't wanna have sex with her yet. Her dad already knew me though.

Benee1000:


If that's what you believe then that's fine.

Well My own father and grand dad did cook on some days for the family and it ended up bringing the family together.

My post was initially against the simp tag.
It is against someone coming up here and say cooking for his family makes him a simp? Nah, that's wrong.
Reread my post again and note the key word 'automatically'.

Also, as for the bolded, I'm sorry but I can't take it from you because your reality is different from mine.
If cooking will destabilize your home, then avoid it. However, it brings joy in my own home.
If cooking for your family will make your woman call you a nice guy, then avoid it.
My cooking for my family reminds my family that I'm still human.
Getting a compliment from your woman after cooking, like awwn, you're so caring, you're a nice guy, or a good husband, is way different from compliments like 'i can't believe Odogwu entered kitchen today and cooked rice!', or 'today that chairman decided to cook is a miracle'
One is given to a man in position of power, and the other in position of servitude.

I cook for my family on special occasions like father's day or on my birthdays.
I wish I could invite some Nairalanders to experience it someday.

Many people today are scared of getting married because of the many bad marriages and divorce cases witnessed all around them, forgetting however, that many other people enjoy theirs.

With all these discouragement about men cooking occasionally in their homes, no one is yet to bring up a real life experience about how it scattered his home. Just assumptions about what might happen, all negative assumptions.

I am bringing my own view based on my experiences, and that of others I happen to be close to their families.

I'm not disputing that things can't go wrong if a man doesn't apply wisdom in this kind of things, but then c'mon.

people are just too scared of trying out things that could bring happiness in their homes if done right because of the fear of failure.
what's then is the essence of the redpill wisdom, if you're too scared to apply it?

Even Rollo cooks for his family.

Just do what's best for your family.

drealbenard:
Good morning Brothers, hope you are all doing well?
Am putting this out here because I've exhausted almost every other means possible. I've gone to family, friends and aquintances, but non has been able to assist me.

My business started having some issues about a year ago after the pandemic and I had to result to borrowing in order to keep the business afloat with the hopes that things will improve, but rather than improving, it got even worse.

Prices of goods went up, running cost went up and profits dwindled. Despite all these, i tried as much as possible to stay still stay afloat, and I did till the recent power outages in the country in which I had to result to buying black market everyday in order to sustain the business and this made me to run out of cash at a very fast rate which resulted in me defaulting on my loans.

Now, everything is just upside-down with creditors calling & messaging me everyday with different form of threats. I have tried paying off some, but at this point, I am out of options. I don't know where else to turn to.

I opted for business in order to avoid this very situation that I am in now, but the system has not been favouranle at all. So pls Brothers, whatever assistance you guys can offer will really go a long way in helping me out of this situation.

I will be droping my details in my bio. Thanks in anticipation!

sajmark:

She will find someone who wants to have sex with her, and trust me they are many...
She's not yours and she never will be, even if you put a ring on her.

Nat404:
LMAO. Stop being jealous, man. Go get yours.

ichidodo:
The Downfall of a man is not the end of his life. You must keep the belief going and never give up in yourself because if you do then it is all over...My people will say whatever you agree, your chi agrees with you....So agree to staying positive and keeping fire alive.

ProphetJeroboam:
There’s this movie quote “We are a generation of men raised by women” and I have been thinking about it for awhile now.

iamphenomenal:

The Sniper Mentality -
Waiting patiently for the 'perfect' time and place to take that one shot at that ONE target

Nat404:
Okay, thanks, champ.

Late Last year, I met a very pretty young lady whose dad is a politician. We swapped digits. Called her a few times after three months of meeting her and never called her again because my mind was preoccupied with something else.

Just last weekend, she called me and we talked about 15 minutes and she was very upset with me probably because I haven't been calling her often. She said how could I live without even calling her a single day? How could I be happy without talking to my girlfriend? I told her she is not yet my girlfriend. She then asked me, when are we gonna meet again? Because she can't wait any longer. I told her on the phone next month and she said no, next month is so long. That she wants us to meet very soon. Then I said okay, next week. In a week time. She then asked me to kiss her on the phone but I refused. She then said she's going to come over the same day I would return and also said lots of fun stuff. And I felt like a hero.

Honestly, I do not want to have sex with this pretty damsel now. It's something I would have to think about later.

The question now is; would I lose this girl to another man if I do not act fast?

sajmark:

ProphetJeroboam:
Imo you should seal the deal asap to avoid regrets. I’ve been in this position a lot than I can remember. I meet a lady, i get her attached and wanting to talk to me all the time, I convince myself “why rush, you’ve got her hooked, take your time besides you’re so busy and you’ve got so much to do and getting laid is not a problem, she’s a phone call away” I flake on dates with said girl, play too hard to get and the result is always the same, attraction dies down but I don’t give af, it’s unto the next right? Except some nights, you’ll lay awake at night and regret this. Women love dynamic, one direction gets boring and you know how fast she fell for you, she can fall twice as fast for some other nigga while you’re still thinking she’s in the bag. You know that feeling when you think, the sex is within grasps so why rush? Kill it. Put some excitement in, she’ll chase you even more when she has tasted that magic dïck. You’ll understand better when the heart emojis dry up and the “heyyyyyyyy” becomes “heyyy” then “hey” then “Hi” then you guys just view each other statuses.

ichidodo:
The Downfall of a man is not the end of his life. You must keep the belief going and never give up in yourself because if you do then it is all over...My people will say whatever you agree, your chi agrees with you....So agree to staying positive and keeping fire alive.

Nat404:
Okay, thanks, champ.

Late Last year, I met a very pretty young lady whose dad is a politician. We swapped digits. Called her a few times after three months of meeting her and never called her again because my mind was preoccupied with something else.

Just last weekend, she called me and we talked about 15 minutes and she was very upset with me probably because I haven't been calling her often. She said how could I live without even calling her a single day? How could I be happy without talking to my girlfriend? I told her she is not yet my girlfriend. She then asked me, when are we gonna meet again? Because she can't wait any longer. I told her on the phone next month and she said no, next month is so long. That she wants us to meet very soon. Then I said okay, next week. In a week time. She then asked me to kiss her on the phone but I refused. She then said she's going to come over the same day I would return and also said lots of fun stuff. And I felt like a hero.

Honestly, I do not want to have sex with this pretty damsel now. It's something I would have to think about later.

The question now is; would I lose this girl to another man if I do not act fast?