sajmark:



ubunj @
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C@veAdulla m

I'll like to send you guys an email, and also
Can we get together in a WhatsApp/Telegram group for a discussion?

I want us to gradually start talking about the bolded message, and how to actualise it... I see a lot of kings here benefiting from it if we can pull it off.

Serious and interested guys can indicate too, especially if you know a thing or two about blogging and web development/ design.

daharry:
who said there is no good in being chosen!. imagine a girl taking taking you outing and still thanking you for spending time with her.. jeez her atm was on me the who f***ing time ....
who talk say these girls no get money?
abeg,I no dy stress myself chyme banny again..
Shout out to ubunja and all the advoctes of the game of chosen..

Calibrator:
I personally find it a waste of time advising people who are in your present circumstance because breakfast is the only way you will/can learn but let me touch this particular point.


"Never ever refute or object if a girl you find attractive call you her boyfriend in a private conversation, rather you should tell her that since you are now occupying the position, you will very much like to enjoy the accompanying privileges"



Breakfast is sacrosanct for you in this case regardless

chikasnight:


I remember when I was around 18 I went to hang out with my guys, this very dope beautiful fair lady came in with a guy not so good looking both in dress and physically, after they sat down the lady went brought out money from her bag bought everything they ate and carried it alone back to their table where the man was sitting...for years so many things ran thru my head I’ve been trying to understand what happened there that day until I came upon this thread... chosen is life

ProphetJeroboam:
Imo you should seal the deal asap to avoid regrets. I’ve been in this position a lot than I can remember. I meet a lady, i get her attached and wanting to talk to me all the time, I convince myself “why rush, you’ve got her hooked, take your time besides you’re so busy and you’ve got so much to do and getting laid is not a problem, she’s a phone call away” I flake on dates with said girl, play too hard to get and the result is always the same, attraction dies down but I don’t give af, it’s unto the next right? Except some nights, you’ll lay awake at night and regret this. Women love dynamic, one direction gets boring and you know how fast she fell for you, she can fall twice as fast for some other nigga while you’re still thinking she’s in the bag. You know that feeling when you think, the sex is within grasps so why rush? Kill it. Put some excitement in, she’ll chase you even more when she has tasted that magic dïck. You’ll understand better when the heart emojis dry up and the “heyyyyyyyy” becomes “heyyy” then “hey” then “Hi” then you guys just view each other statuses.

Calibrator:
I personally find it a waste of time advising people who are in your present circumstance because breakfast is the only way you will/can learn but let me touch this particular point.

"Never ever refute or object if a girl you find attractive call you her boyfriend in a private conversation, rather you should tell her that since you are now occupying the position, you will very much like to enjoy the accompanying privileges"

Breakfast is sacrosanct for you in this case regardless

sajmark:

Women always have guys on the bench, waiting to substitute a niggar in a moment's notice... But I guess his girl ain't like other women.

Nat404:
She's mine. I am the one who is delaying everything. Babe told me on the phone that I can have her but I am not rushing it. Her dad for sure would give me cover. I know I would finally sleep with her but sex is never on my mind. Money is more important to me than sex.

CaveAdullam:

DAY 80, REDPILL 2022

She doesn't want you to be careful with her, that's why she surrendered herself to you. And if you're scared, it means the attraction level is low.

Authority: Maintain frame.

Calibrator:
You can't make this up

Nat404:
She's mine. I am the one who is delaying everything. Babe told me on the phone that I can have her but I am not rushing it. Her dad for sure would give me cover. I know I would finally sleep with her but sex is never on my mind. Money is more important to me than sex.

ubunja:
the money you'll get from her WITHOUT SEX is going to be LESSER THAN the money you'll get from her AFTER SEX. Sex creates the emotional connection that will make her give you more.

ubunja:
every man must have standards and a code he lives by. That's how you foster respect for self which in turn inspires women to respect you. Women are drawn to a man who deals with many females but if those females are trash no woman will want you because you don't have quality control. Quality control can mean the difference between life & death and between jail & freedom. Trashy females are the ones most likely to give you disease, and also the ones most likely to get you in trouble with the law. Stay away. As a rule of thumb mess only with females who have something to lose. Those are the ones who insist on healthy practices and will rarely backstab you. It be those girls that no longer care about their life who are the easiest to fucc but will land you in the biggest troubles - after all, Your future is destroyed by those without a future.

Personally one of my foremost standards is that I'll not fucc a prostitute, no matter how pretty and how cheap. Some standards are: there are certain South African tribes I'll never touch with a 5M pole, sexual acts like bondage and bdsm I will never do, no matter how willing the woman is, shiit like this can be easily used against you in a court of law when things turn sour, and any female who was once raped or whose female relative got raped I NEVER associate with. These are just a few.

Calibrator:
You can't make this up

Calibrator:
You can't make this up

ProphetJeroboam:
Being chosen gives the “high” feeling, it doesn’t happen to the average guy a lot so it’s understandable most would want to savor it, enjoy it and relish it. In all cases you’ll start thinking she wants to be with you and just you, she chose you so you must be special, you have her in your hands. When a woman chose you, the onus is on you to steady the dynamic of your relationship with her. Most guys enjoying the moment don’t realize this until replies start getting dry and monotonous then they create throw-away accounts to ask “How do I keep a girl interested” . She chose you today cos you’re funny and you make her laugh, she could chose another guy tomorrow cos he has a nice physique. For women it’s all about satisfying their biological urge to be physically and mentally hooked to a guy with qualities they find endearing at that moment. At the same time, playing the no-sex game works sometimes albeit for a short time when you’re higher value than all her options at the moment. The only way to keep a woman is to consistently prove to be higher value than any guy she has met or will potentially meet. You can have the keys to her emotions at the moment but some guy elsewhere has the keys to her body , you gave her the feel good emotional feels, some guy gives her the mind blowing orgasms. Both guys are equally as important to her and her selfish nature will convince her that both needs must be met regardless of who she hurts. Remind me of when I was in 1st year in the university, i flaked on this chick so hard during a Sunday , she called me and was crying asking why I like to hurt her, came to class on Monday to see some nigga grabbing her ass in class. I never got the chance to smash though but I am positive that guy did.

ubunja:
true,,, fucc these hoes but love none of them!!
I don't know why guys think playing hard to get sexually increases attraction. A man is not "cheap" or "easy" for smashing a woman ASAP. That's a quality of the feminine. Cause the feminine controls sex. So restricting sex makes a woman valuable.

The masculine, in turn, controls COMMITMENT.

Meaning a guy plays hard to get by fuccing a woman BUT REFUSING TO COMMIT. That's the way of the masculine. A man's commitment is gold. Just like woman's puccy is gold. And For gold to retain its value it must be rare. The woman must close her legs, and the man must close his heart. Meaning a woman can commit to 20 men and love them all - but as long as SHE'S NOT SLEEPING with any of them, she's Valuable. And a man can sleep with 20 women - but as long as HE DOESN'T LOVE any of them, he's valuable. A man's body count is romantic, while a woman's body count is sexual. a female hoe gives puccy freely and has a ran through damaged body, while the male hoe gives HIS HEART freely and is emotionally damaged. The most valuable man is that man who has never fallen in love but is always screwing women. That's the male equivalent of a virgin. Every woman wants to be the one to make the Player change his player ways and settle down, to make him fall in love for the first time,, That's the equivalent of him losing his virginity. It's very significant because MEN DON'T FORGET THEIR FIRST LOVE just like women don't forget their first sex.

Really speaking, a man's pussy is his heart. Keep it closed. Stay taliban. Stay cold. Keep that body count low. But make sure you're bedding these hoes.

To add to this playing hard to get thing: A real female player is that woman getting men's love, commitment and resources WITHOUT giving any sex: The virgin.
And a real male player is that man getting non stop puccy from different women WITHOUT giving any love. The player.

Why is a hard to fucc woman valuable? Because her man can trust her not to cheat regardless of what she's offered and so the man's offspring are guaranteed his.

Why is a hard to commit man valuable to women? Because his wife can trust him not to run off with just any woman who offers him puccy. All it takes to steal many husbands is just to give him puccy and boom he's gone! The value of a Player is that he can separate sex and emotions so as a husband if he cheats it won't be the end of the family cause he's coming back home after the sex no matter how good it is. A Player can't be stolen by puccy. Unlike the average guy who starts doubting his love for his wife if another woman sex him real good. That's why women want to date the Player and speak of him the same fond way men speak of virgins.

A woman whose puccy can't be bought has the same value as a man whose heart can't be bought.

ubunja:
true,,, fucc these hoes but love none of them!!
I don't know why guys think playing hard to get sexually increases attraction. A man is not "cheap" or "easy" for smashing a woman ASAP. That's a quality of the feminine. Cause the feminine controls sex. So restricting sex makes a woman valuable.

The masculine, in turn, controls COMMITMENT.

Meaning a guy plays hard to get by fuccing a woman BUT REFUSING TO COMMIT. That's the way of the masculine. A man's commitment is gold. Just like woman's puccy is gold. And For gold to retain its value it must be rare. The woman must close her legs, and the man must close his heart. Meaning a woman can commit to 20 men and love them all - but as long as SHE'S NOT SLEEPING with any of them, she's Valuable. And a man can sleep with 20 women - but as long as HE DOESN'T LOVE any of them, he's valuable. A man's body count is romantic, while a woman's body count is sexual. [/b

Really speaking, [b] a man's pussy is his heart. Keep it closed. Stay taliban. Stay cold. Keep that body count low. But make sure you're bedding these hoes.

To add to this playing hard to get thing: A real female player is that woman getting men's love, commitment and resources WITHOUT giving any sex: The virgin.
And a real male player is that man getting non stop puccy from different women WITHOUT giving any love.

A woman whose puccy can't be bought has the same value as a man whose heart can't be bought.

ProphetJeroboam:
I wish I read all of this in my high school or Early university days lol. The only way you can mess with a woman’s mind by not fvcking her is when she see you fvck every other woman but her. Like when you’re standing in front of her, she can smell puccy all over you or you don’t text her for days and when you finally text, you tell her you’ve been busy and she’ll murmur under her breathe “busy fvcking other bitches” because she knows you get bitches thus she is frustrated because she is losing her bargaining power,rest assured this ch*ck will go to any lengths to fvck you because securing this player’s commitment and changing him is her goal. When a lady loves you, she wants you to fvck her, when you don’t then it becomes a matter of over investment on her part and from her POV so what she does is, she pulls back. When a man commits without getting sex, he is playing all his cards, when a woman fvcks without getting commitment, she has played all her cards. What people don’t understand is attraction naturally descends down a downward trajectory unless the particular object of attraction remains constant by finding new ways to impress, it peaks then diminishes. What this means when you haven’t fvcked her is you’ll have to keep coming up with new ways to keep her interested, good luck with that because at that point you’re just entertaining her while she searches for a real man that gets the job done. An orgasm remains ever fresh in her brain, each time you give her an orgasm, it’s like her first orgasm. It’s a sin to use possessive pronouns for a girl you’re yet to bed because such women always have one foot outside the door. Fvck her good then sit back and relax, let her fight tooth and nail to keep you.

ProphetJeroboam:
I wish I read all of this in my high school or Early university days lol. The only way you can mess with a woman’s mind by not fvcking her is when she see you fvck every other woman but her. Like when you’re standing in front of her, she can smell puccy all over you or you don’t text her for days and when you finally text, you tell her you’ve been busy and she’ll murmur under her breathe “busy fvcking other bitches” because she knows you get bitches thus she is frustrated because she is losing her bargaining power,rest assured this ch*ck will go to any lengths to fvck you because securing this player’s commitment and changing him is her goal. When a lady loves you, she wants you to fvck her, when you don’t then it becomes a matter of over investment on her part and from her POV so what she does is, she pulls back. When a man commits without getting sex, he is playing all his cards, when a woman fvcks without getting commitment, she has played all her cards. What people don’t understand is attraction naturally descends down a downward trajectory unless the particular object of attraction remains constant by finding new ways to impress, it peaks then diminishes. What this means when you haven’t fvcked her is you’ll have to keep coming up with new ways to keep her interested, good luck with that because at that point you’re just entertaining her while she searches for a real man that gets the job done. An orgasm remains ever fresh in her brain, each time you give her an orgasm, it’s like her first orgasm. It’s a sin to use possessive pronouns for a girl you’re yet to bed because such women always have one foot outside the door. Fvck her good then sit back and relax, let her fight tooth and nail to keep you.

ubunja:
A Player Is Nothing But A Woman With A Dick (And A Nice Guy Is Nothing But A Man With A Pussy)

HOW A PLAYER PLAYS A VIRGIN.
Players know 1 thing other men don't: A virgin is the only GF you can cheat on with her approval. A Player need only sit his virgin down, hold her hands, look deep into
her eyes and solemnly say "I wanna do everything right by you, that's why I'm saving everything for marriage because you're the only girl i care about and i respect you too much to do to you the things i do to those other girls" ; and the Virgin's eyes fill with wonder and awe. to her this man is a Marvellous Wonder. she's amazed at how easily he can fvck 10 women and not feel anything inside! because to herself Love And Sex are the same thing she's 100% sure she'll marry the first guy who'll fvck her and never cheat on him.....and that is exactly what the Player is counting on, for when the time comes, he will not forsake all others for her, but will bring in a new manipulation and continue his womanizing ways while knowing 99.9% his Woman is his and his alone; while men fight each other to wife up his hoes....

ubunja:
@bolded, reminds me of a paragraph from a writeup I posted back in 2019 on this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/5001466/ubunjas-miseducation-player-nothing-woman

ProphetJeroboam:
Being chosen gives the “high” feeling, it doesn’t happen to the average guy a lot so it’s understandable most would want to savor it, enjoy it and relish it. In all cases you’ll start thinking she wants to be with you and just you, she chose you so you must be special, you have her in your hands. When a woman chose you, the onus is on you to steady the dynamic of your relationship with her. Most guys enjoying the moment don’t realize this until replies start getting dry and monotonous then they create throw-away accounts to ask “How do I keep a girl interested” . She chose you today cos you’re funny and you make her laugh, she could chose another guy tomorrow cos he has a nice physique. For women it’s all about satisfying their biological urge to be physically and mentally hooked to a guy with qualities they find endearing at that moment. At the same time, playing the no-sex game works sometimes albeit for a short time when you’re higher value than all her options at the moment. The only way to keep a woman is to consistently prove to be higher value than any guy she has met or will potentially meet. You can have the keys to her emotions at the moment but some guy elsewhere has the keys to her body , you gave her the feel good emotional feels, some guy gives her the mind blowing orgasms. Both guys are equally as important to her and her selfish nature will convince her that both needs must be met regardless of who she hurts. Remind me of when I was in 1st year in the university, i flaked on this chick so hard during a Sunday , she called me and was crying asking why I like to hurt her, came to class on Monday to see some nigga grabbing her ass in class. I never got the chance to smash though but I am positive that guy did.

ProphetJeroboam:
There’s this movie quote “We are a generation of men raised by women and I’m wondering if another women is really the answer we need” I have been thinking about it for awhile now.

sajmark:

Okay