chatinent:
You don go carry four-corner head show dem say you be resident Elon Musk na. Why dem no go bill you?

8 gallons of palmwine? Na drunkard competition?

Kolanut/Kanda enough? Na food dem come chop for your head? And they called this part items for knocking the door? Na your money dem wan use design their stomach interior decor.

So after they knock the door eating all those, they'll now loosen their belt to eat the main bride price?

16 gallons of palmwine? Mehn.
Look at all the crates of beer there!

Only compensations na N250k? Compensating them for what? Na cow dem rear?

Under “other items,” bride price is there but they said negotiable. Wetin come be all these ones dem dey list before?

Uncle mah confuse call am “traditional wedding list.” Na marriage only o make e no double your eye.

Baba, after marrying her, she dare not call you honey. You are her personal lord and savior!


Obinna, my heart goes out to you.

Abeg jare, contact me for thesis and dissertation writing.

That list eeeeeehn
You are funny, I am laughing right now

Bros that's list is very cheap try akwa ibom

For a lady who most likely started having sex at tender age of 13 (yes, stats has shown that's the average age girls in that region started having sex) and whose body count will most likely be over the roof top. Very ridiculous list.

That's first grade extortion from the lady's family.

Viking07:
Please check, this is urgent.

Please drop your mail. Let me rather message you.

My mail is chatinent@gmail.com (I didn't receive any mail)

Why are you whining? Is the list longer than that of Anambra or IMO girls?

Only 2 pages, you dey cry, if you re not ready to be a man comot for road, goto Maiduguri and pick a bride for free.

Items like fathers labor and box are negotiated, if the parents are well off they can help.
Stop begging for wedding assistance on forum.
Remember the foundation you lay for your marriage goes a long way. Don't pay your bride price with IOUs.

What is the cost of that door that i will need all that to knock on it?

Carolcitycartel:


Abii/yakurr local govt

You don't even know the tribe and ethnic group of your fiancee.

Calabar is the capital of Cross River State .
And the people are Efiks.

Abii/Yakurr is nowhere close to the Efiks.

SmileDance:
Go and pay and take home your slave. If you pay to collect a human being that person is a slave.

I beg to disagree.. a man must pay his dues to his inlaws according to tradition of her tribe .. it is traditional rights not a slavery matter .. don't get things mixed up..

Carolcitycartel:
This is my traditional wedding list...to fulfill for my bride to be mine....This is Americandad...I deactivated my profile for certain reasons. Iv fulfilled the knocking on the door list

Front page pls

madoo

Charly68:
I beg to disagree.. a man must pay his dues to his inlaws according to tradition of her tribe .. it is traditional rights not a slavery matter .. don't get things mixed up..

it is what it is unfortunately, the bride price thing is just another form of slavery, which is why women are forced to drink the water used to bath her dead husband in some cultures, as per the woman was bought and paid for like a slave.

Carolcitycartel:


I will full fill the list...they look up to me

They look up to you, as in how?

Skyview01:


I won't give such list for my daughter.

It's not your right to compile the list.

UyaiIncomparabl:


It's not your right to compile the list.

Ok. I hear you.

UyaiIncomparabl:


It's not your right to compile the list.

Says who?

Acidosis:


Says who?

Says the "village people".

UyaiIncomparabl:


Says the "village people".

Life is evolving jare. People now download the list online.

Many don't know their village. Extended family relationships are becoming more impossible to keep.

Me i done conclude say na hausa girl i go marry. Kaduna South to be precise.
My only fear na boko haram

Acidosis:


Life is evolving jare. People now download the list online.

Many don't know their village. Extended family relationships are becoming more impossible to keep.

Hmmm. These villagers can be petty when you don't involve them in these things we may see as unnecessary.

Bros abeg go and pay biko......


I married from Akwaibom (Oron)

Those guys finish me.


Assuming I see ya list then, eh...... I for happy.


Me wey dey collect 2 VSOP (original), 2 Remy Martin, and 2 goats.

Them say I insult dem by sleeping with their daughter...... I think dey called it NSO UFOT.


BROS go pay bikoooo

Oga pls this is not Calabar Knocking of door list and marriage list. This is Akwa Ibom, find out well she is not a Calabar babe

UyaiIncomparabl:


Hmmm. These villagers can be petty when you don't involve them in these things we may see as unnecessary.

I know right.



Hope our IV is still valid?

They even type am,and write signed at d end ..no be lie ..compound women wey no knw how d gal Dey survive .100k n so for d fada n mother after dat bride price is still negotiable .I rest my case

Mehnn your wife na her parents investment, time for them to collect profit...

everythinggirly:
This is outrageous! Was this what her father paid to marry his wife? This is pure exploitation!


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na d gal allow all dat exploitation, na to tell dem say papa if u no collect d one wey Dey available na straight to court wedding as una worn keep una blessing make una keep an,even if we av d money let us decide to spend it as much as we want no be to Dey mandate d poor man to do this out of selfishness

EmptyGarden:
It's the "Enough" for me

Acidosis:


I know right.



Hope our IV is still valid?

Yes o.

;

Teejayadex:
Na 2 trailer go deliver this package to your drunkard in-law

All these are initial gragra, no matter what is written there, divide each by 3 and tell them that's what you are capable of, they will renegotiate with you. Except it's a wicked family that doesn't want their daughter married; it's all part of the custom to goes with marriage.

no wonder then go tey before getting married or no body marry them

Acidosis:


Life is evolving jare. People now download the list online.

Many don't know their village. Extended family relationships are becoming more impossible to keep.

Nobody downloads list online. If you like, be in Kuvukiland, if you can’t come, you have to send someone to collect it. That is the standard.

jimcaddy:
Like why do we still do this in Africa? Under the guise of tradition Abi.

one if the reasons why domestic violence is a thing is because the woman was paid for like a slave

Comrade I no dey move that way....
Tradition is killing us in some type of way