Many of you are buying into this idea of women carrying some financial load. Some even advocate for 50:50 which in turn becomes more like 50:80 for the woman.

She has to cook, clean, take care of kids etc then also work ?! Like seriously ? I don't care beautiful she's, she'd get ugly in months from all these stress. If God wants them to work like men, God will give them muscles for it.

As a man, you should take the majority of financial responsibility in the home. If a woman is helping you, it's a plus not a requirement and don't make it one. Heck even thank her for it.
Each have their own responsibility and finances is yours.

Of course there are situations where you need help from her, that's understandable. What's sad is the nonsensical "working women" men are peddling nowadays. In fact the more your wife or fiancee is exposed to the outside world the more she's likely to cheat - there's a reason 6 in 10 of DNA test are negative. Surprise! Surprise!
Married women are the easiest to bed - if you know you know.

As man, don't wish it was easier, wish you were better. Women always want someone who's above them and they can respect. Be that guy.

Lest I remember, guys don't forget: NO HYMEN, NO RING.

50:50

We split the bills and the chores...

The way men disrespect women they are richer than... I honestly can't depend on a man... God forbid!

Story for the gods...I make sure I pay all the bills and marry many wives!

money will melow every category of woman the richer you become the more respect you get from woman, money is the root of all evil!!! Mark my words[color=#990000][/color]

uthlaw:
I make sure I pay all the bills and marry many wives!

Exactly!
Did you even read the post ?

InfinityFabric:

Exactly!
Did you even read the post ?

yes na!

ERCROSS:
This OP never know wetin dey sup. Wait till you get married first

This is nonsense tho. It's the same crap that entered a lot young minds into University certs they'll neither need nor use.
Wait till you get there, wait till you get there.
I have to know "wetin dey sup" right now by necessity so that I'll prepare as much as I can. Why does a man have to wait till he marries ?

The problem is most men have been destroyed by getting useless education then blaming their failures on government instead of parents.

This is Nigeria, you can marry a woman who's not gonna bring debts to your life.
There are lots women who appreciates little to enough out there and there are extravagant leeches, your choice.
And if she's becoming trouble, divorce is cheap in this country. No alimony and child support.

uthlaw:
yes na!

Then you realize we are not contradicting each other. Most men don't want to do the work, but always want to blame everyone else.
The government, the girl. Never their parents who sheepishly place them at disadvantage in life, nor themselves for failing to see the crap.

InfinityFabric:

Then you realize we are not contradicting each other. Most men don't want to do the work, but always want to blame everyone else.
The government, the girl. Never their parents who sheepishly place them at disadvantage in life, nor themselves for failing to see the crap.

it not really easy for the women,wake up 4am,start cooking,bath the children, wash there dirty clothes,get them prepared for school, take them to school,go to your place of work,comes back early to pick the children,wash there school uniform,start cooking dinner, husband go still open your leg during the night,and as a man,you still want the bills to be split...that bullshit!

A sane and responsible Man will wish to provide at least 95% for his family. He will want to "maintain" his wife's beauty, make life easier for her and his kids. Even though he may not be able to avoid all these, but he will always strive towards achieving these goals.

Unfortunately, the increasing numbers of immature, mentally poor kids who don't wait to receive proper trainings of life from their parents before launching into relationship world are the ones littering everywhere more visibly internet with the "what do you bring to the table" or 50-50 ideology. Most of the propagators of such ideology are either kids who don't understand the feasibility of their demand or poor frustrated men who are not satisfied with their lives as married Men.

Funny enough, when you ask these people if the will share the chores with their wives, you begin to hear different excuses and defense mechanisms. Women in this part of the world have really suffered.

My dear OP...
Sheybi men and women are equal, ba?
So carry half the bills awk, I don't mind washing plate ((et Al))

InfinityFabric:
Many of you are buying into this idea of women carrying some financial load. Some even advocate for 50:50 which in turn becomes more like 50:80 for the woman.

She has to cook, clean, take care of kids etc then also work ?! Like seriously ? I don't care beautiful she's, she'd get ugly in months from all these stress. If God wants them to work like men, God will give them muscles for it.

As a man, you should take the majority of financial responsibility in the home. If a woman is helping you, it's a plus not a requirement and don't make it one. Heck even thank her for it.
Each have their own responsibility and finances is yours.

Of course there are situations where you need help from her, that's understandable. What's sad is the nonsensical "working women" men are peddling nowadays. In fact the more your wife or fiancee is exposed to the outside world the more she's likely to cheat - there's a reason 6 in 10 of DNA test are negative. Surprise! Surprise!
Married women are the easiest to bed - if you know you know.

As man, don't wish it was easier, wish you were better. Women always want someone who's above them and they can respect. Be that guy.

Lest I remember, guys don't forget: NO HYMEN, NO RING.

Maids do 90% of the things you listed above as a woman’s responsibility in my house including cooking my food. Many men really don’t need a wife in this modern world.

No female showed support for the guy's thread

The one who commented even made it worse

Na God catch am

Show me a husband who expects his wife to bring something to the table when she does all those things you listed without nagging and I will show you an idiot. Only an idiot will stress a virtuous wife who takes her role and place in marriage. But when a wife sees herself as another husband in the house, then she better gets ready for it in all ramifications. You don't claim to be lion and later switch to being the weaker sex when fight breaks out.

No wonder when the man dies you see how majority of them will be suffering. Women keep depending on men.