| Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by Bahose(m): 10:01am On Mar 23, 2022 |
Ishilove:
Hold up... Wait... Are you saying a 31 year old woman does not "market value" or whatever the fvck you Nairaland males mean?
Yes he's right if you really want to hear it row, fibroid is our mate.
I'm speechless. |
| Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by professore(m): 10:02am On Mar 23, 2022 |
Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���
Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.
He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him
Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.
I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.
Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?
I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him
My heart is bleeding.
I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''
He feels I don't deserve an explanation ����� Sorry for that Ma. God uses situations like this to avert furture and more dangerous pains. You don't want to imagine ending up with someone like that. Now to the main issue, if you are so sure you are good, continue, yours will 'Surely' come. 1 Like |
| Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by istifk(m): 10:02am On Mar 23, 2022 |
My sister that is how life is. But i believe the guy is not yours because what will be yours will surely be yours. May God give you a wonderfull and caring husband. |
| Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by dalass(f): 10:02am On Mar 23, 2022 |
Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���
Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.
He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him
Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.
I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.
Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?
I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him
My heart is bleeding.
I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''
He feels I don't deserve an explanation ����� Sorry dearie... Time heals everything, including heartbreak.... Just pick yourself up, do a make over, look drop dead gorgeous. Take yourself out and celebrate something... anything, that you can even type out your feelings here... You're a strong woman..... Don't allow that fool to laugh at your expense... The guy is a wicked soul, lying eediat... You're better off without him.... Your right guy will come .....and holler when it happens, we'll be there to celebrate with you ijn  1 Like |
| Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by Zico007: 10:02am On Mar 23, 2022 |
Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���
Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.
He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him
Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.
I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.
Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?
I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him
My heart is bleeding.
I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''
He feels I don't deserve an explanation ����� [color=#000099][/color] so sad I pray you stand tall in time like this. Take heart. 1 Like |
| Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by immortalityk: 10:03am On Mar 23, 2022 |
Parizz:
have you tested your thing to know if it's working Please boss What thing exactly I don't know what u are talking about |
| Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by lordlugards: 10:03am On Mar 23, 2022 |
Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���
Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.
He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him
Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.
I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.
Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?
I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him
My heart is bleeding.
I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''
He feels I don't deserve an explanation ����� people like you will surely win last last, qoute me your best suitor will locate you soon, Don't ever you cry again, look forward for greater Blessing coming B/4 end of this year. You will know it's him when he will worship you like a Goddess. Cheers Dear |
| Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by Patnelly: 10:03am On Mar 23, 2022 |
This too shall pass sis. I can imagine the kind of pain you are going Tru right now,but you just hold on to God pls. He will turn your weeping to joy soon. Hold on |
| Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by BnQoyyim(m): 10:04am On Mar 23, 2022 |
"I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question"
Considering your above afforementioned assertion, you must be somehow rigid and hellbent in getting your civil rights; which is good but not always applicable in the chemistry of love and partnership.
The guy was at fault all things been equalled.
Meanwhile, your heart shall soon sound again on getting your own real love because, that man is never yours. What belongs to you shall never missed you, okay. 1 Like |
| Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by blacknoir: 10:04am On Mar 23, 2022 |
Well f him.move on and find urseelf a better man |
| Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by Nobody: 10:04am On Mar 23, 2022 |
pyyxxaro:
That boy must be a member of APC BMC
You should be happy you weren’t entangled with the CEO OF LIZARDBBQGRILL, by now e for done grill and barbecue you finish 
Don’t worry a good guy like Pastor Righteousness is on his way 
Useless eboe boy already turned this thread into political wailing and usual crying they are known for. 1 Like |
| Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by Boatswain: 10:07am On Mar 23, 2022 |
Girl Zero your mind and take it that he is not yours and he has just lost the good thing in his life... 5 years is a long time and that's why it's breaking your heart, you never know if God answered your prayers by separating the two of you, what if he married you and he starts cheating and sleeping around? How would you have handled it? To me the situation now is better than the latter |
| Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by rajiedreez: 10:08am On Mar 23, 2022 |
This is so sad but life goes on |
| Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by Peace081: 10:08am On Mar 23, 2022 |
Nigerian men are Useless, all of them 1 Like |
| Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by RIO1987(m): 10:08am On Mar 23, 2022 |
D Lord is your strength sis, always know that age is just a number and not a barrier,he is not yours and will be never be, you don't need a pastor revelation,God just spoke to you, relax and Wait for your own |
| Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by Lastmankc(m): 10:09am On Mar 23, 2022 |
I dey here dey fine wife,and some dey break the ones dem get heart.This life no balance at all . Dear,don't worry,I am here for you |
| Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by Ishilove: 10:09am On Mar 23, 2022 |
czarr:
From a mating and attraction(physical) point of view. You mean your own point of view, because I know several men who prefer ladies in their 30s. What does 'market value' even mean sef? I am truly speechless |
| Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by Ethereal0110(f): 10:10am On Mar 23, 2022 |
Wickedness.....
Please take heart, many had gone through this kind of pain like u, be strong.
If u believe in God then move closer to him. |
| Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by YoungDaNaval(m): 10:10am On Mar 23, 2022 |
E be like this guy in question hold bar 1 Like |
| Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by Mrkumareze(m): 10:11am On Mar 23, 2022 |
U re worried about your age, everybody must not arrive early. Your man may be Ned, don't give up..
I just hope u didn't rely on him, no job, no profession thinking marriage is the goal to life. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by Bellalove11(f): 10:12am On Mar 23, 2022 |
Hmmm....my dear just take heart
I know it hurts but thank God that he didn't leave you hanging with a kid
God has a better stock for you out there so just forgive him nd free him from your mind .
I pray I dont get this type of heartbeat cos I fit die
I have been dating mine for the past 11 years yet no ring nd am still there waiting for the right time...God abeg help me cos the shame is just becoming unbearable for me before person commit suicide one day |
| Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by Nobody: 10:12am On Mar 23, 2022 |
MARS1:
Hmmm...
it is well.......
Mercychen, what have you to say on this. All of them are the same. Op, stop crying. Embrace Jesus and serve God with your whole heart. Don't kill yourself because of a mere man who doesn't care about you. Not worth it! Marriage doesn't even bring happiness or fulfillment. So, enjoy your singlehood while it last because you'll soon find your rightful man. |
| Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by AutoC: 10:12am On Mar 23, 2022 |
Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���
Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.
He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him
Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.
I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.
Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?
I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him
My heart is bleeding.
I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''
He feels I don't deserve an explanation ����� Take hearth dear...Your own man will come...the truth is, whoever we choose to love is ingrained in our DNA...that speak to the fact that the other lady is necessarily not better than you...We unconciously form picture of a wife from very tender age as boys and whoever we Date and does not fit into that narrative, we do not marry...I'm sorry to say I did exactly thesame to a lady before I got married...thesame lady is now married happily, I am married happily and life continues...she was hearth broken, lost weight etc but she healed eventually...have faith, develop urself, dress well but most importantly , don't give up on love, don't view all men as cunt ,cos it will eventually affect you...best of luck |
| Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by Olatlaccon(m): 10:13am On Mar 23, 2022 |
Same has happened to some men before...some men are evil while some women are evil.... everybody is mad...the cycle will go on and on and on till the end of time 1 Like |
| Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by Obastick: 10:13am On Mar 23, 2022 |
This too shall pass. |
| Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by CHAQUR: 10:14am On Mar 23, 2022 |
Now you know why it should be "NO $£X" before marriage...? 1 Like |
| Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by TheExclusive: 10:14am On Mar 23, 2022 |
Any relationship that is not leading to marriage withnin one year is a total waste of time.
Why should I give another human being five years of my life in the name of relationship?? 1 Like |
| Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by RevolverOcelot(m): 10:16am On Mar 23, 2022 |
I don't know you but you were gullible. 1 Like |
| Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by Olatlaccon(m): 10:16am On Mar 23, 2022 |
Bellalove11:
Hmmm....my dear just take heart
I know it hurts but thank God that he didn't leave you hanging with a kid
God has a better stock for you out there so just forgive him nd free him from your mind .
11 years? Wow...for you to stay with one man for that long you deserve a good home and I pray that man gives you what you really want
I pray I dont get this type of heartbeat cos I fit die
I have been dating mine for the past 11 years yet no ring nd am still there waiting for the right time...God abeg help me cos the shame is just becoming unbearable for me before person commit suicide one day |
| Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by Rubyjade: 10:16am On Mar 23, 2022 |
Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���
Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.
He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him
Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.
I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.
Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?
I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him
My heart is bleeding.
I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''
He feels I don't deserve an explanation ����� So sorry about this |
| Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by SunMusk(m): 10:17am On Mar 23, 2022 |
So 31yrs old woman no get value nawa oooo czarr:
That guy has been detaching himself emotionally from you little by little and you failed to notice it. It's not easy for a guy to move on to another lady if he is emotionally invested for up to 5 years.
Here is what I believe, he is paying you back for something you did to him in the course of your relationship, he felt hurt and betrayed, he may even have discovered something you did behind his back and chose not to confront you but just to waste your time as revenge. Did you cheat on him in the 5years period and thought he won't find out, after all what he doesn't know won't kill him.
It's easy to be an angel when you are 31 what about when you were 26 and you still had market value, did you do something that you thought he may have forgiven you because he can't do without your hot body.
Think hard and well, nobody is that terrible of a person,it's just that some people don't forgive betrayal. |
| Re: My Heart Is Shattered � Battered And Scattered by Olatlaccon(m): 10:17am On Mar 23, 2022 |
Bellalove11:
Hmmm....my dear just take heart
I know it hurts but thank God that he didn't leave you hanging with a kid
God has a better stock for you out there so just forgive him nd free him from your mind .
11 years? Wow...for you to stay with one man for that long you deserve a good home and I pray that man give you what you really want...hope he's also reciprocating and trying to make you his wife
I pray I dont get this type of heartbeat cos I fit die
I have been dating mine for the past 11 years yet no ring nd am still there waiting for the right time...God abeg help me cos the shame is just becoming unbearable for me before person commit suicide one day |
