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Re: Is There Still Hope For Her? by baby124: 10:46pm On Mar 23, 2022 |
Don’t contact anyone offline. They will take advantage of your desperation and scam you! Anyone that has anything to say or solution to provide should post it here. If you want to meet someone, safer to meet through people who you know. All the best! |
Re: Is There Still Hope For Her? by ThankUUJesus: 10:50pm On Mar 23, 2022 |
You see creepsyme u just made one mistake here, mail me let's talk... |
Re: Is There Still Hope For Her? by Kobojunkie: 10:56pm On Mar 23, 2022 |
ThankUUJesus:The only way to getting anything from God is by submitting to and obeying the teachings and commandments given us by Jesus Christ..... there is no secret to any of this. Stop deceiving people using God's name.. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is There Still Hope For Her? by Kobojunkie: 11:22pm On Mar 23, 2022 |
Klass99:1. There is absolutely nothing wrong with asking God, the one who said He will be our one and only provider, for any and everything one need. God wants us to depend wholly on Him for all our needs. The problem is in the how we go about getting these needs from God. Your starvation diets, for example, which many consider fasting are not according to God, but according to the doctrines and traditions of men( and their churches). God instead gave clear commands on what we should instead do on our days of fasting if we truly desire to receive from Him in Isaiah 58 vs 1 - 13. So when we choose to, against God, continue to practice these religious rituals that have absolutely nothing to do with that which God desires, pretending we do it all in honor of God, how can we expect to receive from Him? 2. These religious rituals practiced year after years by billions are meaningless since they have absolutely nothing to do with God and this more than explains what is Christianity today in relation to God. |
Re: Is There Still Hope For Her? by Klass99(f): 11:33pm On Mar 23, 2022 |
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Re: Is There Still Hope For Her? by oglalasioux(m): 11:41pm On Mar 23, 2022 |
Hello. From your story you need serious counseling. A lot of things happening in our world need to be understood so as to have a better life. Please drop your email so I can send you a message to help you get over your current feelings. Be strong. You'll win! |
Re: Is There Still Hope For Her? by TayehJiboluwa(m): 12:05am On Mar 24, 2022 |
Check my profile for personal deliverance messages and prayers. It's helped a lot of people in your situation. You can join our personal deliverance WhatsApp group. WhatsApp no is on profile. 1 Like |
Re: Is There Still Hope For Her? by ststyreal(f): 12:35am On Mar 24, 2022 |
creepsyme:Aunty no vex oooo, I just say make I ask you this question... Hope you haven't dated people's husbands in the days of your youth? Because you know go destroy person own come want make your own better. Well, whatever be the case repent wholly from every possible sin, embrace the lord Jesus with all your soul, serve God happily and free your mind.... Miracle God is still on the throne! 1 Like |
Re: Is There Still Hope For Her? by JoyousFurnitire(m): 12:46am On Mar 24, 2022 |
At10tion: Na this kind thing dey tire me for una mata. Tell me who is right between you and Jesus. Jesus for Mathew 6 talk say make you pray silently because before you talk God don know wetin dey sup seff. You bin dey talk say make person pray aggressively. Who is the son of God again?? |
Re: Is There Still Hope For Her? by Kobojunkie: 12:49am On Mar 24, 2022 |
JoyousFurnitire:The prayer life of the average Christian out there indeed looks nothing of what Jesus Christ commanded of His followers. |
Re: Is There Still Hope For Her? by JoyousFurnitire(m): 12:54am On Mar 24, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: I dey wonder the kind Jesus wey dem be sabi |
Re: Is There Still Hope For Her? by Vision101(m): 1:28am On Mar 24, 2022 |
Life is mystery. There are too many things that happen to us that we can't understand nor explain. Between 1991 and 1992 I did extremely well as a young man in my late 20s. I was in the financial sector. But I was not born again and I didn't patronize the devil. I just believed in brilliance and hard work. Then the attacks came. Everything crumbled like pack of cards. I told my wife then that the issue was not whether I will get job but whether I'll get the job that I liked. I started applying for jobs. Invitations were coming and I attended interviews. Offers were coming. None of the offer letters ever got to me. Mind you I used personal letter box and not street address. Each time I got to the companies they will show me copies of the letters they sent to me. They will tell me that after waiting for me they decided to take the next person. I became born again. Went for deliverance and prayers but no result. One day I attended a service and preacher preached on ASK - ask seek and knock. He said that if God shows you that your destiny is in a room that is locked up, if you knock and the door refuses to open, go back and throw your whole body on the door. The door must open and God will understand. I told myself that my problem has gone beyond traditional deliverance and prayers. I decided to embark on a type of prayer that I had never done before. After it God opened my eyes and showed me the source of my problems and how they were destroyed. I applied for an accounting practice job and I got instant favourable consideration. I worked there for only one month and I got an offer from a foreign construction company. I worked there for 17 years. LESSONS 1 life is full of mysteries 2 No one can go far in life without a spiritual force behind him - either positive or negative. 3 The spiritual controls the physical. 4 Desperate situations demand desperate action. 5 When you read the Bible or listen to messages look out for the life in the word. This can only be shown by the Holy Spirit. THE OP 1 Your situation is redeemable in Christ. 2 Give your life fully to Christ not because you want solution but because he is all that you have. 3 Don't focus on Christ giving you husband, child or job but just love and serve him. 4 If what you wrote is true, there's definitely spiritual reason behind your problem. 5 As you get closer to Christ begin to refocus on your career. God can only bless the works of your hands. 6 When testimonies begin to arrive, don't relax but get closer to Christ. Don't allow the devil to deceive you that you have arrived. 7 One by one lines (husband, children, prosperity etc.) will begin to fall for you in pleasant places. 8 You must be ready to fight the good fight of faith. This doesn't exclude "physical fight". 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is There Still Hope For Her? by JoyousFurnitire(m): 1:37am On Mar 24, 2022 |
Vision101: Wouldn't you want to metion this type of prayer? |
Re: Is There Still Hope For Her? by Kobojunkie: 1:53am On Mar 24, 2022 |
JoyousFurnitire:By their religious rituals and practices which they pretend is of God they, in Ignorance, proclaim God a liar. It has become so bad that most every new Prayer formulae now looks nothing like any of what Jesus Christ infact commanded of His followers, yet all continue to claim they are of Him. 1 Like |
Re: Is There Still Hope For Her? by Vision101(m): 2:03am On Mar 24, 2022 |
@JoyousFurnitire Wouldn't you want to metion this type of prayer? @me 1 I declared a three-day dry fast. 2 I moved to the church to do it alone. 3 Within these three days I didn't bath, change my dress, brush my mouth. 4 I maintained a three hourly prayer through out the three days. I'm not advising the op to follow the same pattern. Let her practice as she is led. I can offer guidance if needed. By the grace of God I'm a senior pastor in one of the major churches even though I render my service for free. 1 Like |
Re: Is There Still Hope For Her? by Klass99(f): 2:42am On Mar 24, 2022 |
Re: Is There Still Hope For Her? by sisisioge: 5:01am On Mar 24, 2022 |
Drfernandez: Dont waste your prayers o....many dire situations need it more. As for husband matter...it is not your worry at all....leave it to me. Saw your mom at the joint yesterday |
Re: Is There Still Hope For Her? by Acidosis(m): 7:19am On Mar 24, 2022 |
creepsyme: I'm really interested in this part. What happened to your finances? Did you engage in a scam investment? Were you scammed by men? Did you invest in people, or you gave your funds to the needy, or sponsored your siblings' education? Money don't just disappear to thin air even if the devil is involved. I had good relationships that never resulted to anything, at the beginning of any relationship the men could literally lick my feet and move mountains for me but eventually it ends in premium tears for me. This shows that your issues are not necessarily spiritual. Men propose marriage but women have a lot of roles to play in that process. I don't want to make needless assumptions but it's important to ask yourself whether you actually put in the effort to sustain these relationships to the point of marriage or you were just okay with men falling at your feet, taking your numbers, etc., and hoping that one will propose marriage. What women don't realize is that men also have options. So it's a contest between two indecisive people. I know it's normal for women to say that "a man who loves me will do this and that..." but that only applies to dating. It is in dating/woo-ing that some men wish to do everything, including feeding you breakfast, lunch, and dinner. When it comes to marital decisions, it is completely different. In a spousal decision-making process, men's expectations rise above sea level. The sad thing is you will never hear them talk about these expectations. They will buy you a car and still mark you zero or delete you from their "marriage-possibility list". They won't leave you either until they find the right one. The bible mentioned something about "when a man finds a woman.." but the reality is men who are in relationships are still in the finding process. Only a woman can hasten, fast-track, and influence a man's marital plan. Mothers do their part, ladies have their roles to play too. With men, there's no such thing as "I think I am now ready for marriage so let me find a woman". Men who say this are typically romance scammers, dating enthusiast, etc.. Finding comes before readiness. That's the hard truth. That being said, not everyone will be married. I think this is one 21st-century hard truth we all need to accept. The internet is supposed to make relationships and connections better but, so far, it has only improved the alternatives and eroded the need for commitment. Are your concerns valid? Absolutely! Nobody wants to live a lonely life. I think I had a discussion about this a while ago. Those who think they can have obviously not gotten to that level. So I absolutely understand your concern. I think at this stage, you should be intentional and realistic with your spousal decisions. The men you will probably marry are not the regular social media user. So you have to be open-minded. As per your finance issues, I may be able to advise one or two things if you respond to the questions raised above. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is There Still Hope For Her? by Evergreen4(m): 7:28am On Mar 24, 2022 |
May God grant you your heart desires. Do not loose hope God is still God. He can still turn your situation around. Remain blessed |
Re: Is There Still Hope For Her? by Newusername(m): 7:28am On Mar 24, 2022 |
First and foremost, from what I can deduce from what you typed. It is apparent you don't have a vision you are pursuing or you are currently not fulfilling your purpose. You need to and very importantly discover yourself first(the essence of your being) , it is crucial as that will form the basis of your existence, what you want from life and what have you. One will continue to move in circles, unhappy and deep down in one's have this feeling of not really doing what one like and passionate about. You need to consider the above and if you are a believer commune with your maker, go to a quiet place for meditation and deliberately start working on the journey of self discovery. In addition, begin to think positive, say positive and the universe will work with you in bringing your positive thoughts to reality. NB: Shun those that said you are late, your discovery of anything might what will be turning point of your life and the world at large. I wish you happy self discovery. 1 Like |
Re: Is There Still Hope For Her? by creepsyme(f): 7:57am On Mar 24, 2022 |
Acidosis:I truly appreciate the time you took in responding to me, I feel so ventilated. Firstly, concerning the issues of my finance, I noticed while I worked in the bank I made series of errors that got me paying monies, no matter the department I am being transfered to. Secondly, I was literally the only one working in my family, it may interest you to know that I am from a family of 10, 3 boys and 7 girls all from the same mother, I am the second child and the bulk of financial responsibility rested on me. I trained 4 of my siblings in the university upon graduation I thought I could be relieved but not job came around them only menial jobs . Concerning relationship, saying good things about myself may sound like blowing my own trumpet, I did all I could in my relationships to work but to no avail, it may interest you also to know that I grew up in my family to discover my cousin sisters were just there without marriage, my siblings never got married until from 2016 - 2017 it was so glaring that everybody knew something was basically wrong iny family. As I speak right now, my major challenge is self discovery, life isn't all about going to school to acquire degrees, I wish I know how to go about it. However, If I know a different approach to give the situation I will gladly do it without hesitation. 3 Likes |
Re: Is There Still Hope For Her? by creepsyme(f): 8:06am On Mar 24, 2022 |
Klass99:Thank you so much and God bless you real good. Like I said earlier, I am open to suggestions that can bring a change for me, I had always known there's yet something I am yet to do or I am doing something wrongly. Because surely when the right approach is giving to a situation, no matter how tough it gives way, your story looks like a way to me, I will gladly apply it to my life. Once again, thank you so much. |
Re: Is There Still Hope For Her? by creepsyme(f): 8:11am On Mar 24, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:I am sincerely speechless by this question, I wish I have an answer to it. However, I am now feeling stupid. |
Re: Is There Still Hope For Her? by creepsyme(f): 8:13am On Mar 24, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:I think I should seriously consider this. Thanks so much for your time. |
Re: Is There Still Hope For Her? by azammi(m): 8:16am On Mar 24, 2022 |
If that guy is making you doubt then your faith was never strong or you never had atall. If you are feeling like a fool now then maybe you never believed anything atall . Why not ask God directly and then he will answer you and show you your problem thru dreams or prophecy instead of one moniker making you doubt what you’ve been told . Life is more spiritual than physical don’t let anyone fool you into believing otherwise. Instead of asking God for a husband or job why not ask God for his will for you in those areas then you can start from there. creepsyme: 3 Likes |
Re: Is There Still Hope For Her? by azammi(m): 8:30am On Mar 24, 2022 |
creepsyme why don’t you contact enthronedbyGod1 , tayehjiboluwa And CharlyG1 they are good Servant of God here on nairaland and I know that God can use them to help you and give the solution of your problem. I will be waiting to hear your testimony in Jesus name . 2 Likes |
Re: Is There Still Hope For Her? by heniford2: 9:38am On Mar 24, 2022 |
Get urself pregnant and have a baby |
Re: Is There Still Hope For Her? by Vision101(m): 9:49am On Mar 24, 2022 |
@Klass99 Vision, pls what was the source of your problems and how was it destroyed? Who was behind it and how did God show you all this? Through a dream, vision or some other way? It's an interesting story but indulge me and provide clarity. @me I would have been happier if the above was asked by the op as my intention is to assist her. Regarding you: It was an old uncle who felt that I was too young and rising too fast. What he did was shown to me in a vision. There was physical evidence as he sort the assistance of his colleague at work who happened to be a relation of my wife(unknown to him). By a casual discussion between my mother-in-law and the relation he (the relation) got to know that I was the one and he told my mother-in-law. The story of how God destroyed it will be too lengthy. He was alive and he saw me rise again. His death is one story and what is happening to the children now is another. I even gave money for his burial. I think the op's case is ancestral (I.e. foundational). There appear to be a recurring pattern. 1 Like |
Re: Is There Still Hope For Her? by At10tion: 10:45am On Mar 24, 2022 |
creepsyme:You welcome beloved sister. With God all things are possible, stay in His presence till you get what you desire. Stay blessed. 2 Likes |
Re: Is There Still Hope For Her? by creepsyme(f): 10:48am On Mar 24, 2022 |
azammi:Thanks very much. |
Re: Is There Still Hope For Her? by BennyDGreat: 12:25pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
The solution-You need a female mentor who has capacity and willingness to guide you |
Re: Is There Still Hope For Her? by Klass99(f): 12:29pm On Mar 24, 2022 |
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