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5 Mistakes You Must Avoid While Choosing Your Life Partner by africamediang(m): 8:53am On Mar 24, 2022
Everyone should exercise extreme caution when selecting a life mate because of the pledge that will be taken, for better or worse. A person’s most significant life decision is whether or not to find a life partner.

When it comes to finding a relationship, most people aren’t sure what they want or what they’re searching for in a guy or a woman.

When picking a life mate, there are some blunders you should never do. It’s important to know how to pick the right person for your life, the one that truly knows you.

Never choose a life partner based on their appearance, wealth, or fame. Because of your acts now, you may come to regret them later on. I’m going to give you some pointers on how to steer clear of common blunders when it comes to finding a life companion.

1. Being in a relationship with someone who manipulates you.

Beware of people who constantly pressure you into doing things in their favor, regardless of how you feel about it. This is a bad idea.

Relationship or marital manipulation can be an art form for certain people. This is not conducive to a long-term relationship or marriage of any kind. You’ll be manipulated and tricked into thinking you’re a bad person by people like this. Learn to think for yourself and avoid being swayed by others to do things that are not in your best interest.

Getting married to someone who manipulates you in a negative way will lead to a bad marriage. Your relationship should assist you grow and not bring you down or mistreat you.

2. Getting married because of s£x.

Mistakes When it comes to a relationship or marriage, s£x is wonderful, but only if you find a person with whom you want to spend the rest of your life. It’s not just s£x that you need to think about. Consider their other qualities as well, not just how good they are in bed. That’s not marriage. You need a partner who will accept you as you are, no matter how out of shape you are. If you want your marriage or relationship to last, it must be built on a solid foundation of realism and genuine feelings.

3. Anticipating that they will change over time.

If you care about or love someone, there’s a good chance they won’t change who they really are, so don’t waste your time hoping they would. You depart if you can’t accept them as they are. It is not a good idea to be in a relationship or marriage with someone that you continually feel the need to change.

If you can’t take the relationship any farther and think you can alter them after you get married to them, you should accept them for who they are. Things could go awry if you expect them to.

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Re: 5 Mistakes You Must Avoid While Choosing Your Life Partner by Rastaramsey(m): 8:59am On Mar 24, 2022
All those things you wrote nah scam grin grin

MAke I advise real niggarrs, if you wan marry, go babalawo place, them go show your real one....
Re: 5 Mistakes You Must Avoid While Choosing Your Life Partner by neonly: 9:08am On Mar 24, 2022
Rastaramsey:
All those things you wrote nah scam grin grin

MAke I advise real niggarrs, if you wan marry, go babalawo place, them go show your real one....


They sef no accurate best thing is just have baby mama and peace
I know someone dat did dat be4 marriage I mean consultation from IFA but today dat marriage Na war so baby mama is d best for now
Re: 5 Mistakes You Must Avoid While Choosing Your Life Partner by Rastaramsey(m): 9:20am On Mar 24, 2022
neonly:



They sef no accurate best thing is just have baby mama and peace
I know someone dat did dat be4 marriage I mean consultation from IFA but today dat marriage Na war so baby mama is d best for now

grin grin
Maybe the babalawo no standa grin grin
Re: 5 Mistakes You Must Avoid While Choosing Your Life Partner by neonly: 9:26am On Mar 24, 2022
Rastaramsey:


grin grin
Maybe the babalawo no standa grin grin

Nope confirm one d truth be say even d god's no understanding dis people all Na guess thing
Re: 5 Mistakes You Must Avoid While Choosing Your Life Partner by Boogyman557: 9:29am On Mar 24, 2022
Holly Gram cool As u SEE me So, I No get RELATIONSHIP


WEED is my RELATIONSHIP and MOTIVATION!


WEED is my LOCATION and RELOCATION!


WEED is my PREPARATION to my EXAMINATION!


WEED is my EXAMINATION and CALCULATION!


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

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Re: 5 Mistakes You Must Avoid While Choosing Your Life Partner by Nobody: 9:45am On Mar 24, 2022
neonly:


Nope confirm one d truth be say even d god's no understanding dis people all Na guess thing
You mean even the gods no understand women matter? grin grin

Yesterday,2 of my married friends after buying beer for them told me for the past 6 month they've not said hi to their wife,talk more of f**king them. Telling me how unhappy they are in the marriage.
I dey fear marriage bro,be like this baby mama thingy sure. I'm not even capping.
Re: 5 Mistakes You Must Avoid While Choosing Your Life Partner by mirexxx(f): 9:58am On Mar 24, 2022
Those shouting baby mama as if dem get financial backup to keep one. grin
Re: 5 Mistakes You Must Avoid While Choosing Your Life Partner by neonly: 10:00am On Mar 24, 2022
SmellySperm:

You mean even the gods no understand women matter? grin grin

Yesterday,2 of my married friends after buying beer for them told me for the past 6 month they've not said hi to their wife,talk more of f**king them. Telling me how unhappy they are in the marriage.
I dey fear marriage bro,be like this baby mama thingy sure. I'm not even capping.

Me too have not been talking with Wify since December last year if u follow my post u we read more just trying to cope with her till my children comes of age
So am not d only person going tru dis kind of shit in d Nigeria sha

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Re: 5 Mistakes You Must Avoid While Choosing Your Life Partner by Nobody: 10:12am On Mar 24, 2022
neonly:


Me too have not been talking with Wify since December last year if u follow my post u we read more just trying to cope with her till my children comes of age
So am not d only person going tru dis kind of shit in d Nigeria sha
We are the endangered species in marriage bro.
Hey guys,if you're not happy in your marriage pls file for a divorce,mk woman no kill u before ur time. Single daddies are the happiest. I'm not capping ✌️

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Re: 5 Mistakes You Must Avoid While Choosing Your Life Partner by Nobody: 10:15am On Mar 24, 2022
mirexxx:
Those shouting baby mama as if dem get financial backup to keep one. grin
Hanti rest ijn cheesy
Re: 5 Mistakes You Must Avoid While Choosing Your Life Partner by neonly: 10:37am On Mar 24, 2022
SmellySperm:

We are the endangered species in marriage bro.
Hey guys,if you're not happy in your marriage pls file for a divorce,mk woman no kill u before ur time. Single daddies are the happiest. I'm not capping ✌️

Not dat easy bro
It easy to say than done
Belief me
Re: 5 Mistakes You Must Avoid While Choosing Your Life Partner by SandraIkuboR(f): 10:49am On Mar 24, 2022
so it's to avoid all these ones
Re: 5 Mistakes You Must Avoid While Choosing Your Life Partner by tayo60(f): 11:04am On Mar 24, 2022
neonly:


Not dat easy bro
It easy to say than done
Belief me
What could have happened? What went wrong? Have you both checked yourselves? Why not come in agreement and settle your differences because of your children? I always pity men who are suffering in their marriages.

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