Just thinking how many women will pass this test.

Dear men, take your 21 days leave from work. Go home and tell your woman that you lost your job. Explain further that there was some loss and you had to use your savings to settle. Spend the next 14 days observing how you are treated at home and discover who you married.

That's when you'll realized that the Honey she's calling you is cos of what you're bringing home.

Your name will change from Honey to Hey-you in the shortest period of time.

From my unbiased point of view and being very objective in this matter. A lot of women will surely fail this test. They will start disrespecting the husband so much. But inasmuch as I will agree that there many women who will fail this test, there also many women who will pass it. They won't change, they treat you fine, they give you their respect in full dosage that's if you were not a death beat partner.

Best time to take charge and show him all the undiluted love and support he needed especially if he has been a good husband. Best time to leave if he has been a beast,that's it.

Iyaebe:
Best time to take charge and show him all the undiluted love and support he needed especially if he has been a good husband. Best time to leave if he has been a beast,that's it.

So, you are with the beast cos he was bringing home some funds?
When there's scarcity of funds, you discard the beast. Interesting.

Whenever such happens, it can be to a man or woman, anyone of your beneficiaries, especially the close and major beneficiaries, who has always, covertly or overtly, seen you as an object of utility/doesn't have an altruistic interest in you will definitely fail the test; it doesn't matter whether it's your wife, husband, mother. father, sibling, etc.

For the perpetrator/enemy within, it has always been either the victim's dominion and possession or dignity and sanity subject to the circumstances of the victim's life trajectory at any given time.

Well, if you are from strong ethical leanings, grit, discernment, and sensitivity will always save you from the pernicious acts of an enemy within at every given time.

at the end of the 21 days, many men would simply realize they were single all along "in this marriage", and didnt know about it!

Very very few women will pass this test ...

Just 21 days?

As in 1, 2, 3........ to 21 days?

All these jokers sef.

When some women have been feeding their families for months & years.

Iyaebe:
Best time to take charge and show him all the undiluted love and support he needed especially if he has been a good husband. Best time to leave if he has been a beast,that's it.

Cyntie55:
Personally I will pass the test and my fiancé can vague for that. By the special Grace of God we'll be getting married before the end of next year. Marriage is for better or for worse

2020 (May) during the lockdown my fiancé was among the people that got sacked in their company, Infact he was jobless for over a year (till 2021 July last year), he was so restless, jobless and always angry with himself.

He was always sending his C.V to different types of companies yet no reply, he did little commission jobs just to be busy, sometime he won't see a client for a whole month, he will be so frustrated, sometimes he goes to the bar and get himself seriously drunk. I will be so angry with him for being drunk.

There is this bet9ja shop close to his house, he will stay there from morning till night, thinking about his life and playing betting with the little money he had without winning. I will be so angry with him, I felt his frustration that period but I motivated him to stay focus.

I stood by him, once my salary entered, I send him some money for upkeep, I cooked for him, It wasn't really easy for him, but now he's gainfully employed since last year July earning a very decent pay, he's also doing business, I do remind him of the past, he will just be laughing.

Wow!!!

Personally I will pass the test and my fiancé can vague for that. By the special Grace of God we'll be getting married before the end of next year. Marriage is for better or for worse

2020 (May) during the lockdown my fiancé was among the people that got sacked in their company, Infact he was jobless for over a year (till 2021 July last year), he was so restless, jobless and always angry with himself.

He was always sending his C.V to different companies yet no reply, he did little commission jobs just to be busy both online and offline, sometime he won't see a client for a whole month, he will be so frustrated, sometimes he goes to the bar and get himself seriously drunk. I will be so angry with him for being drunk.

There is this bet9ja shop close to his house, he will stay there from morning till night, thinking about his life and playing betting with the little money he had without winning. I will be so angry with him, I felt his frustration that period but I motivated him to stay focus.

I stood by him, once my salary entered, I send him some money for upkeep, I cooked for him, It wasn't really easy for him, but now he's gainfully employed since last year July earning a very decent pay, he's also doing business, I do remind him of the past, he will just be laughing.

Men have always been cheated in almost all areas of life......if you like pluck off your eyes and give to a lady,the day her brain will enter gear one,she will look u straight on ur face and ask you what have you done for her ever since you met her.

But why would a man take 21days leave just to prove that his wife truly loves him in times of trouble? Some women are either breadwinners or they earn more than their husbands yet such marriages are going on well.

To me, the OP is absolutely senseless

You will still chop breakfast. Forget all this nonsense you are cappin

Cyntie55:
Personally I will pass the test and my fiancé can vague for that. By the special Grace of God we'll be getting married before the end of next year. Marriage is for better or for worse

2020 (May) during the lockdown my fiancé was among the people that got sacked in their company, Infact he was jobless for over a year (till 2021 July last year), he was so restless, jobless and always angry with himself.

He was always sending his C.V to different companies yet no reply, he did little commission jobs just to be busy both online and offline, sometime he won't see a client for a whole month, he will be so frustrated, sometimes he goes to the bar and get himself seriously drunk. I will be so angry with him for being drunk.

There is this bet9ja shop close to his house, he will stay there from morning till night, thinking about his life and playing betting with the little money he had without winning. I will be so angry with him, I felt his frustration that period but I motivated him to stay focus.

I stood by him, once my salary entered, I send him some money for upkeep, I cooked for him, It wasn't really easy for him, but now he's gainfully employed since last year July earning a very decent pay, he's also doing business, I do remind him of the past, he will just be laughing.

op no try am ohhhhhhh, whether na joke or not,no just try am with any nigerian girl.
They all would fail this kind joke of a test, all these daughters of eve

He lost his job, not his life. He can definitely get another job while 8keep working to keep things together.

Any marriage that is one-si3in terms of finance, etc. That marriage is not different from a three legged table.