I have to come out and ask for help here because I can't tell my family members Pls don't judge me

My male Cousin on the mother side actually came home from Abroad 2 weeks ago for visiting so he choose our house as his base, he is in his late twenties while I am in my early twenties! I don't really know him that much and he is planning on staying for 6months. So me and him use to be home alone most times since my parents goes to work and my siblings are in school

He is so handsome, he actually looks like my dream man so I actually started crushing on him, wishing I could have him, but It is all shades of wrong having anything to do with my cousin so I keep it to myself So 2days ago we were home alone as usual but he said he wanted to gym, once he took off his clothes remaining his boxer I couldn't hold back myself and I was forced to give him a kiss which he loved it and we started kissing so passionately that we were about to get down, wen I realized that it wrong and had to pull away from him.

Since then I have hated him passionately and don't want to see him but he said he love what we had but my Conscience is killing me and my parents can kill me if they know about it... Nairalanders pls help me

I am stuck with him for now and he won't stop telling me how he wants more and I don't want to do anything further

Joseph and potiphar's wife.....

All I see here is xvideos

If him serious,him go still bang u

What should we do about it
You are in best position to judge yourself

If you guys want to marry and have the blessings of your family members, do what is right for your self

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Let's be frank here you're a prostitute and my advice to you is to stay away from your dogs or one day you will go intimate with them..

SportsHD:
Fuvck do you want us to tell you, unkiss him?
What in the stupid and jonzing questions do bot accounts ask on nairaland nowadays?

You kissed him and you're asking us if you should tell your parents and you know that's going to cause you trouble.

You can just kindly pass without commenting if you can't comprehend...all I am saying is he won't stop telling how he wants more and I am stuck with him for now so I don't want to commit incent

Illuminatiship:
Let's be frank here you're a prostitute and my advice to you is to stay away from your dogs or one day you will go intimate with them..

Simple and short. Thank you.

If you can travel somewhere or find a way to leave the house everyday so that you wont be tempted.
It's understandable you didn't know him or live with him so you dont have family ties with him but still it's wrong on all levels.
So just stay away from him until you have sort your feelings out.
Goodluck

Wat a Useless, fabricated topic! All diz small girls looking for attention! OP is probably a Jambito or an ASUU Strike victim!

Both of una dey ment big time.

I no insult you oh . Just saying

Vinnie2000:
Wat a Useless, fabricated topic! All diz small girls looking for attention! OP is probably a Jambito or an ASUU Strike victim!

No I am still in primary school, rubbish! you guys are not helping I am dying of guilt here

It's normal, but the question is do you guys fvck ?
Because na there real problem dey

SurvivorM:
If you can travel somewhere or find a way to leave the house everyday so that you wont be tempted.
It's understandable you didn't know him or live with him so you dont have family ties with him but still it's wrong on all levels.
So just stay away from him until you have sort your feelings out.
Goodluck

Thank you I have to look for somewhere to go!

Vinnie2000:
Wat a Useless, fabricated topic! All diz small girls looking for attention! OP is probably a Jambito or an ASUU Strike victim!

No mind them. Small children craving for stvpid attention.

OK

Uzomacharles:
Joseph and potiphar's wife.....

All I see here is xvideos

Legend

Cardealer2021:
Legend

Comrade my hands dey up

Uzomacharles:
Joseph and potiphar's wife.....

All I see here is xvideos

If him serious,him go still bang u

This is not xvideo, okay I think Nairalanders are the wrong set of people to ask for advice

U SAID WE SHOULDN'T JUDGE U, SO WHAT DO U WANT US TO SAY NOW?

SilentQueen:
This is not xvideo, okay I think Nairalanders are the wrong set of people to ask for advice

It's simple. Admittance of guilt is good for the soul. It will help to steer you in the right path " avoidance ". Avoid him, forget about him. Confess your sins to your creator alone, who can bear your guilt. Turn a fresh chapter. It's not that complicated

SilentQueen:
This is not xvideo, okay I think Nairalanders are the wrong set of people to ask for advice

Then y don't you f**k off or stop quoting the wrong set of people giving advice...


you're a Nairaland member too

Cardealer2021:
It's normal, but the question is do you guys fvck ?
Because na there real problem dey

No we didn't

DoctorOlasDesk:



It's simple. Admittance of guilt is good for the soul. It will help to steer you in the right path " avoidance ". Avoid him, forget about him. Confess your sins to your creator alone, who can bear your guilt. Turn a fresh chapter. It's not that complicated

Thanks really I love your advice sir

Desrey baby, there's nothing wrong in two cousins having sex. In many parts of the world, cousins marry. There is no a taboo or abomination about it.

SilentQueen:
No we didn't

Even you did, it doesn't matter.
After all we are all children of Adam and Eve

Uzomacharles:


Then y don't you f**k off or stop quoting the wrong set of people giving advice...


you're a Nairaland member too

yes I am a Nairalander for over 5years and it takes courage for me to come out like this, only for you to say it fabricated. Thank you

Na Nairalanders wey dey watch xvideos everyday, and xvideos wey contain too many family related porn, na them you dey ask??
E be like say u don make up your mind already, u just dey find approval to clear your conscience, because I no see wetin NLanders go tell you pass approval

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The guilt will go away. Just give it time. You guys only kissed. U didn't get down on it. But don't let it happen again. Make it very clear to him that u are not interested in the song he is trying to sing to u. Try not to be alone with him in the house. Also, try get a part time work or go for ICT training. That way, u are not always around and u can even get to meet and mingle with other attractive males. An idle mind is the devil's workshop. You will be alright.

So we should help you to unkiss him?

SilentQueen:
I have to come out and ask for help here because I can't tell my family members Pls don't judge me

My male Cousin on the mother side actually came home from Abroad 2 weeks ago for visiting so he choose our house as his base, he is in his late twenties while I am in my early twenties! I don't really know him that much and he is planning on staying for 6months. So me and him use to be home alone most times since my parents goes to work and my siblings are in school

He is so handsome, he actually looks like my dream man so I actually started crushing on him, wishing I could have him, but It is all shades of wrong having anything to do with my cousin so I keep it to myself So 2days ago we were home alone as usual but he said he wanted to gym, once he took off his clothes remaining his boxer I couldn't hold back myself and I was forced to give him a kiss which he loved it and we started kissing so passionately that we were about to get down, wen I realized that it wrong and had to pull away from him.

Since then I have hated him passionately and don't want to see him but he said he love what we had but my Conscience is killing me and my parents can kill me if they know about it... Nairalanders pls help me

I am stuck with him for now and he won't stop telling me how he wants more and I don't want to do anything further

Find out from your parents....one of Yu is adopted I to the family cos it never possible for you to develop feeling for your blood relative