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Companionship.

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Absolutely nothing.
Most of the married men I know don't like going back home sef.

If u ask someone with blissful marriage d answer will be different from someone with terrible marriage.

Hmmmmm

the thread and its commenters have broken my heart

Said it all!

SmellySperm:
Two of my married friends narrated to me how unhappy they are in their marriage.
Both are waiting for the kids to grow a lil bit before opting for a divorce.
One can have his kids as a single guy,make money,bleep these hoes and have peace of mind.
Call it irresponsible life? IDGAF. After all women now marry for benefits. They benefit more in marriage than men. Bleep marriage!

Regular sex , regular food , regular marital wahala plus plenty other responsibilities from in-laws

Guy wae no get gf get peace of mind

Your partner keeps getting better and literally speaking, tasting better like old wine and OMG! Your children, if you are married to the one you love and loves you back and even more


Nothing , sincerely , no achievement in life beats getting married to the one you love 100% and who loves you 101% back

You said it all

gentlestdude:
absolutely nothing... even dating has no benefits, just do hookups and have rest of mind...


as for me I will do hookup until I'm six feet under, if I see oyinbo to marry I will but to marry a naija girl I will rather kpaii

I don't even know but money should come first before anything else.


Marriage this days is boring and that's why there's high rate of divorce cuz couple gets tired of repeating same routine every damn week...


I think the only importance of Marriage is offspring and that can be achieved without getting married, so what's the Essence of Marriage since it's just offspring.

Marriage certificate. They also get to use the Mrs. appellation.

Different strocks for different wips

MadeINchenzen2:
Well, in my own opinion I think being single has a lot of benefits than being married.

What are the benefits?

thorpido:
Two heads are better than one.
It takes marriage to understand this statement.

Tell me it’s not all heads and sometimes, two heads are not even upto one head

Marriage is good if you marry the right,understanding and caring person. Marriage bring forth children,wealth,and harmony. Marriage gives new life compared to singleness,lastly marriage is sweet if you trust your spouse. God bless all the married men and women out there.

Bathroom ,kitchen ,toilet , Bedroom , Garrage ,anywhere around the house isa knack

Well Married Life has a few Benefits, such as:
• Sense of Satisfaction
• Emotional Fufillment
• Increased Mental Health( Effects of Serotonin and Other "Feel Good" Hormones are more pronounced in Married Folks)

But Marriage can also lead to depression and frustration in some cases. We should all approach the Aspect of Marriage with adequate preparation and Care.

As a guy you should never get married.

Marriage is societal construct put in place to guarantee the future of females and children. It doesn't pay you in any way.

You'll get tired of fc*$k#ig one woman.
You'll slave away your life and die earlier than said woman.
You'll loose you freedom and natural sense of male adventure.

The only allure marriage had for men was finding that one pure damsel who would do (and give) anything to keep you happy. So you slave away slowly to your death knowing the mother of your kids is truly 'yours' and yours forever in sickness, health and wealth. That was enough gratification at the time.

Nowadays that pure damsel is a myth. Marriage in the Nigerian society is an economic arrangement to yoke men with responsibilities without the 'joys' of marriage your forefathers had.

Your wife is not pure. She's fvcked a thousand and one dude before you. She probably thinks of her razz bf in Uni with the long schlong while fvcking you.

She's not loyal. She married you solely because you were her best option at the time for a better future. If this status quo changes her loyalty changes.

She's not 'yours' and I know that sounds possessive but in truth it was this 'possession' of women that fueled the male ego and spurred them on to accept the slavery that came with marriage.


21st century woman is not yours in any definition of the word. She probably has a better paying job than you. So you can't control her.
She probably has a literal horde of men chasing after her, so she has options.
You mess up and she fvcks her ex or her boss or your friend. And there's nothing you can do about it.

So you don't have any of that ego driving, testosterone pumping 'control' over your woman. She's your equal and rightly so. I genuinely believe a time will come when women will have more direct power than men. They already have more subliminal power.


Anyways. You're not getting any of the goods men used to enjoy in marriage before now. All you have is a yoke of responsibility.

You're tied down to one pvvssyy. When naturally you should be fvcccking as many as you could.
You have to devote a huge part of your income to raising kids who'll only remember their mother instead of polishing yourself up for more pussy and more worldly success.

You relinquish the two things that make you a man 'absolite desire to conquer the world' and 'absolute desire to fvvck as many young pussies as you can.'
As a man those two traits are ingrained in your mental state, yet marriage comes in and pacifies you turning you into a meek homely man who society tells must provide a good home for his family.

But society doesn't care about you. It only cares about your family. You're a readily disposable asset. You job on this planet is to work work work and raise a good home, then die. Why do you care about society?

When you marry you're dancing to the pied Piper tunes of a fundamentally corrupt world.
You're choosing society over yourself. Society doesn't care about you and it should burn.


Put yourself first. No, love doesn't come because cupid shot an arrow into heart of the girl of your dreams.
It comes when you prove your worth as a man. When you are successful. When you dominate your world however miniscule it might be.

Chase riches. Bang young bvctchess. Have a thousand baby mamas.

Think of Davido and think of your probably dead father.
The former might be a high riding junkie but he definitely smiles more everyday than your dead beat dad whose laughs come only in marriage anniversaries when he's told by a woman past her menopause that he was the best thing that happened to her.

You can be the best thing that's happened to many young girls in their 20s.

Work hard, retain your indominatable spirit and never settle for the 21st century marriage facade.


Edit. Oh, and if you're a girl reading this. Same thing applies. Don't lose your hot banging body bearing kids for a man who's only chasing you cos he needs companionship in his lonely world.

Society needs you to bear kids so society can continue. Hustle (or fvck your way to the top) and maybe when you're 35 you can consider giving up your body for those precious bundles of joy.

SmellySperm:
Two of my married friends narrated to me how unhappy they are in their marriage.
Both are waiting for the kids to grow a lil bit before opting for a divorce.
One can have his kids as a single guy,make money,bleep these hoes and have peace of mind.
Call it irresponsible life? IDGAF. After all women now marry for benefits. They benefit more in marriage than men. Bleep marriage!

Well, think about your old age.
When you have become like baby, helpless and dependent. Nobody can take care of you like your wife and children whom you raise in a beautiful family environment. If you no fear anything fear your old age.

SmellySperm:
Two of my married friends narrated to me how unhappy they are in their marriage.
Both are waiting for the kids to grow a lil bit before opting for a divorce.
One can have his kids as a single guy,make money,bleep these hoes and have peace of mind.
Call it irresponsible life? IDGAF. After all women now marry for benefits. They benefit more in marriage than men. Bleep marriage!

Why are they unhappy in their marriages? Did you ask that question?

manchyme:

Well, think about your old age.
When you have become like baby, helpless and dependent. Nobody can take care of you like your wife and children whom you raise in a beautiful family environment. If you no fear anything fear your old age.

Leave them make dem de run mouth

SugarGirl44:
Absolutely nothing.
Most of the married men I know don't like going back home sef.

Why don't they like going back home?

Any how una wan talk am I go still marry.. fine slim gal where dey hustle with no wahala in Jesus or Allah name.. amen