Hssd8:
You got to be kidding me, this shows how the society have deteriorated in terms of ethics, how can you even Compare being single and married, it can't be compared. The reality will start setting in as you age ... The play with lineage ...

Which lineage? Millions are roaming about without parents... Ophrah Winfrey is single without kids but her name will live forever than your fath*rs name.

Its all about possession ,takes more than love for 2 people to decide to spend the rest of their lives together thats not something that has a reason or an explanation, you only have to be fortunate enough to get it and not everyone would.

lexy2014:


There's nothing like outcast offspring. Pikin na pikin

I know but the feeling of family being together feels like being married but when all children's that you are giving birth just go their separate ways of life they will be alone it feels like an outcast.

WatchYourSix:


U tried your best..but you ddnt make any sense..

What da fvck do you mean by outcast offspring

He said legitimate sef, you know how many kids dna go spoil, im yet to c an advantage

gentlestdude:
absolutely nothing... even dating has no benefits, just do hookups and have rest of mind...


as for me I will do hookup until I'm six feet under, if I see oyinbo to marry I will but to marry a naija girl I will rather kpaii

for this was not review to you by flesh and blood

MadeINchenzen2:
I was awake for hours last night trying to figure out what the married enjoys that the single people do not.

I couldn't come up with anything logical or cogent points at all.

I now understand the reason why a lot of persons have chosen to stay single for as long as possible without plans of getting married.

By single do u mean not having kids?
There are certain things u will not understand, till u get to a certain age. If u are below 40, u are likely to have a change of mind when u cross 40.

MadeINchenzen2:
Well, in my own opinion I think being single has a lot of benefits than being married.

Single life is sad , I'd rather be married, who are you making all these money for Emotional support matters for a man, Imagine busting your ass at work to come home to an empty house or no loved ones.

To each their own.

thorpido:
Two heads are better than one.
It takes marriage to understand this statement.

if they are both contributing not one working n sweating the other opening legs

MadeINchenzen2:
I was awake for hours last night trying to figure out what the married enjoys that the single people do not.

I couldn't come up with anything logical or cogent points at all.

I now understand the reason why a lot of persons have chosen to stay single for as long as possible without plans of getting married.

Try d sleep

kingPhidel:
I think is not really being responsible but one will be seen as having the sense of responsibility. Which actually it’s true. Only the married can tell you the exact but no matter how one see examples of failed and successful marriages around still you can’t tell talk about the benefits of you are not into. You can only sound as MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKER just like you did. No hard feelings anyways One

There are irresponsible single people and there are irresponsible married people.
Being responsible has nothing to do with marriage.

The benefit I found is: When you attend an occasion with your wife, you get more respect. But, who respect help? It's better to be feared than respected. Anyway, it's good to marry if you find someone with a great character. If she changes to a character you don't like, warn her and if she refuses, divorce her.

Hssd8:
You got to be kidding me, this shows how the society have deteriorated in terms of ethics, how can you even Compare being single and married, it can't be compared. The reality will start setting in as you age ... The play with lineage ...

Oga....unless you are blessed with an amazing woman, your friend, that supports you when the chips are down, takes care of your kids and give you peace of mind....Oga marriage will be hell ooooo...

being single is way better that being married to some broken, evil, twisted mentality people...

WatchYourSix:


U tried your best..but you ddnt make any sense..

What da fvck do you mean by outcast offspring

Like giving birth to children that you do not take care of, children that are not with you, so you feel lonely, but when they are with you, it is a blessing.. you grab?

Zonefree:

Is Davido alone? Are his offsprings outcast?

I know some people whose fathers behaved like Davido.

One of them is married with 2 children. His father has never held those his grandchildren children in his hands because he did not have a relationship with his son due to him being like Davido....spreading his seed everywhere...in his younger days.(Guy would talk highly about his mother, but his father...)

The truth is, at the end of the day, those kids who know their dads are coming home in the night after a hard day work every day are happier than those whose dads are away with their concubines, or mistresses, or whatever. Even if the dad is 'sending them money'

Zonefree:

Is Davido alone? Are his offsprings outcast?

dey are bastards.illegitimate children.children of love.do u get it now?

Most young folks here can never know the benefits that marriage has over premarital relationships until they hit late fifties. Companionship can’t be faked. It grows. Baby mamas and papas will never get this straight. God wasn’t a fool when he created that institution for a pair. Growing old together is priceless. God bless Olu Jacobs and Joke Sylva.

Family trouble while single rest of mind.

JERRY1925:


You will understand better when you 50.

Actually, I'm 59 now.

How about that?

Goldbw122:
They enjoy their offspring.

Is it all of them that enjoy their offspring. Some are a thorn in their flesh.

Zonefree:
There's nothing a wife can do that a girlfriend or babymama cannot do.

only people who's mum had babymama relationship with their dad will like it. So I understand your package.

Goldbw122:
They enjoy their offspring.

singles have offspring too and enjoy them

gentlestdude:
absolutely nothing... even dating has no benefits, just do hookups and have rest of mind...


as for me I will do hookup until I'm six feet under, if I see oyinbo to marry I will but to marry a naija girl I will rather kpaii

how much do you pay for shortrest?

If you are single if you have money you will enjoy

If you are married if you have money you will enjoy

But the oga kpata kpata of all
If you married with kids and you have money with zero worries you will enjoy more

Acidosis:
When you have kids, probably a baby mama and still sleep around, then you're no longer single.

You're only f00ling yourself when you call yourself single. You will pay bills like every other married man, attend to your kids, and spend even more. You have children calling you "daddy" and you think you're single and free from responsibility? That's pure madness, unless your definition of single is "deadbeat".

Well, I like the way you put it because bills must be paid.

So this is how I'm seeing it now:

If given the option of having a baby mama or having a wife, I will choose having a baby mama.

It's all about choosing your preferred hell.

Marriage is the hell which I'd rather steer clear from.

Ikem11:
You will never understand it till you in it. Marriage is the most beautiful thing when you married the right person.

The joy of rushing home from work to your beautiful wife and kids is something else.

I cant say same to a single man can rush home from work just to enjoy his girlfriend

But there are married people that are very very miserable in it

JERRY1925:



Mehn..marriage is beautiful. Seriously I really wished I did it early. I never wanted getting married.. till I met my woman.
Sometimes, when I am at home probably after work, and my wife not back..I jump up at the slightest bike or car sound I hear.
Mehn, I really don't want to wake up to hear my wife is no more.

She's so lovely.

When planning marriage, being a virgin should not be a cateria.

Just the way relationships crash, marriage also crashes.

My advice, get married to who want to be a wife/husband.
Get married to who want to be married and know what it means to be married.
For men, marry a woman, who sees u as her everything...most men do otherwise.

If your wife loves u, the chance of marriage lasting long is really high.

And before marriage, make sure u tell ur partner where u stand.
If u drink, tell them u drink.
If u smoke, tell them you smoke.

Marriage is really beautiful.

We expecting our first child..and it feels really great..its with a woman my child can call mum..not side chic.

If marriage is as sweet as u've said, why are u cheating on your wife?

Ikem11:
You will never understand it till you in it. Marriage is the most beautiful thing when you married the right person.

The joy of rushing home from work to your beautiful wife and kids is something else.

I cant say same to a single man can rush home from work just to enjoy his girlfriend

girlfriend wey go dey give another man wey promise am marriage na him e dey run to?

Goldbw122:

Yeah, being married create that opportunity of producing legitimate and not outcast offspring, while being single you are just alone, even when you go about enjoying and caughting all the fun you want.

Lol, oga it's a lie

who told you that single people are alone, there are relationships that are more fulfilling than marriages. The truth is, marriage is more of a prison

thorpido:
Two heads are better than one.
It takes marriage to understand this statement.

It depends on the quality of the heads

Nothing too special about marriage. being single has its own problems and being marriade has its own up and downs.

See all these fingerlings... All they know is Davido, Olamide, Wizkid... Life is more than all that... By the way, do you have Davido's type of money or are your parents rich like his parents? Think boy, think!

Life is Life!

Zonefree:

Is Davido alone? Are his offsprings outcast?