Fuckaniza:


Person wey dey craze.

People worship craze man??

Ikem11:

Did you read what I wrote at all?

How many people are married to there rightful person

Just very few

There are more people married that are miserable than otherwise

Even the scenario you painted, I have seen men that had those your scenario but when things turned South, money no dey, they saw the other side of there so called sweet wife

I even know of one that later died miserably

This life no balance at all. Smile today can turn to bitterness tomorrow. Life no dey straight forward

Na to just ask God for strength to bear when things turn South, because challenges definitely do come

Even my parents that have been together for over 4 decades and are example to others had there own terrible challenges. That lasted for a while

Challenges do come to everyone. Whoever

If I did all I do with my husband with anybody else as a boyfriend, I would have regretted it big time.

As a single lady, never do what you ain't supposed to do for a man if you ain't married to him. Life as a woman bearing kids, cooking, home keeping, earning your income and all the other tag alongs as a legitimate wife is difficult enough to be doing all that without any commitment (not engagement) from a man. Even after you do all that for him, why do we hear of guys leaving their girlfriends to marry someone else?

Stop giving these men reasons not to respect women. Respect yourself. He says you should do all that if you love him right? He should do all the commitment procedures before he gets any, so when he thinks of leaving you, at least you weren't the one who sold yourself cheap. Love yourself that much, they don't really care.

What is wrong is wrong. People with this type of mentality that a relationship is equal to marriage will never take their vows seriously, respect their partners or be loyal to a partner.
If such persons ever get married, they become thorns to their spouses because marriage makes no sense to them. Resulting in one bad home which is heading for divorce.

Marriage is a scam i repeat marriage is a simp scammed

I pray in the years to come, the OP does not regret this post. Anyways happy Single Life..

Blablamalala:


Or even more better with a misogynist.

Iwo wi

Ximenez:
They get public validation.
Among the ignorant black people, being married is equal to being responsible.

That's actually the only 'benefit' in this primitive clime - that is if you can call it a benefit. I'm just sorry for marriage

They enjoy the sufficiency of God's presence.

Goldbw122:
They enjoy their offspring.

Generally, yes. But, it's relative, bro. It depends on the quality of training and upbringing you gave your child/children. There are lots of parents out there whose children/wards have turned out to be rogues, menace 2 society. Some even turn out to be a family burden/liability due to the fact that they have a congenital mental retardation or they were born with cerebral palsy. So what then are the benefits you'd be getting from the likes of these sorts?

There is anointing on your head...#committment.

Mostly the men na to dey carry am for head about I don marry,see my pikin,any small thing he don show people wedding picture for him phone

wunmi590:


All I now is marriage is sweet

with the right person

bigiyaro:
This kind of questions are normally asked by irresponsible and broke guys, people that are mentally unstable, mentally and socially healthy people don't waste time asking stuupid questions, they simply get married when their time comes. Anyway, police treat married women far more respectably than single women, in the society, married people comes first before singles, in my work place, married people are given 10 of all gifts while singles are given 1.5, eg, last December, married people were given half bag of rice, 2 chicken, 5 liter v/oil and 25k while singles shared 15 to a bag, 5k, and no chicken and oil,

a married illiterate spotted!!! What a shame !

No fornication

djon78:


How many people are married to there rightful person

Just very few

There are more people married that are miserable than otherwise

Even the scenario you painted, I have seen men that had those your scenario but when things turned South, money no dey, they saw the other side of there so called sweet wife

I even know of one that later died miserably

This life no balance at all. Smile today can turn to bitterness tomorrow. Life no dey straight forward

Na to just ask God for strength to bear when things turn South, because challenges definitely do come

Even my parents that have been together for over 4 decades and are example to others had there own terrible challenges. That lasted for a while

Challenges do come to everyone. Whoever

My brother my concern is not about those that are unhappy. Am talking about those who are happy with their marriage.

Marriage is a personal experience so don't generalise. Am a happy married man with kids and I been to poor and rich stage in my marriage and not at any point did it change the love we have as a family.

Like I pointed to another guy above, your inability to find a wife is your personal problems

bluefilm:


Actually, I'm 59 now.

How about that?

You can't be 59 and be having such signature. I don't see it

MadeINchenzen2:
a married illiterate spotted!!! What a shame !

oga go and marry....abgaya!!!!

lexy2014:


How's it a prison?

Now listen. I woke up one morning, picked up my bag, withdrew all the money in my account, went to park, entered bus and found myself in Ghana, from Ghana i headed to Senegal. was about going to France before error occurred.

I went back to Ghana, stayed few months and head back to Senegal, took the highest risk of my life and entered France, though still wasn't successful in that journey.

I've made alot of movement in life that a married man dare not leave his family to make.

Marriage is good when you look at it in Christianity point of view. Look at it in a secular way, it's a bondage.

Another example : a single man is proudly chasing women of different types, bringing them home, and nobody gets angry at him. A married man has to smuggle a woman to hotel just to have her. Everybody crucifies him for having another woman when he has a wife

single man stays outside till dawn, nobody sees him as irresponsible, the moment married man stays outside till 10pm,both his wife and people he's with, start urging him to go home

single man gets provoked by his girlfriend, he dumps her and nobody will query him. Married man is dying inside by his wife misbehavior and refuse to speak up

the list loooooong

waking up all your life beside one person in the name of marriage is a prison

Person wey no come, no go know.

OP when you're tired of hookups you'll see the bigger picture

dawnomike:
You may not fully understand until you are married... Provided you are blessed with a lovely family and money is not ypur problem

As far as money dey, you dare not compare married life to single life

ITS EVERYWHERE, DEMONS WILL PICK TOPICS & HIS AGENTS WILL PUSH THEM TO FRONT PAGE

ernestobumneke:
I pray in the years to come, the OP does not regret this post. Anyways happy Single Life..

The best thing that's ever happened to me since sliced bread is my singleness... I feel so alive and healthy. I promise to remain single until Jesus comes again for the second time.

Op there's oil in your head. All these people who believe that marriage is better than singlehood is because they married good wives. Marry a bad wife, you will know hell on earth.

Allisgud:
with the right person

You are absolutely right

Zonefree:

Is Davido alone? Are his offsprings outcast?

His children are bastards

One of the benefits is that the married are accorded with more respect
in social functions and people tend to associate with them more than singles. Even if they're "irresponsible", people take them to be "responsible".

Zonefree:

Is Davido alone? Are his offsprings outcast?

Are you Davido?

FLYFIRE:
ITS EVERYWHERE, DEMONS WILL PICK TOPICS & HIS AGENTS WILL PUSH THEM TO FRONT PAGE

Hey ! watch your mouth angel of God

I think "single" in this context can be said to be a grown up adult of marriageable age already doing all what the (society and religion) accepted to be the basic definitions of marriage (copulation and reproduction) but irresponsibly decided to remain single or hate the title "married" because he/she found someone of same mindset. Courtesy of the adaptation of animal kingdom civilization in human reproduction.

Oga..! Remain single without f*cking & raising children.

Ijoba85:
Regular sex , regular food , regular marital wahala plus plenty other responsibilities from in-laws

Rubbish abeg

Ximenez:
They get public validation.
Among the ignorant black people, being married is equal to being responsible.

Yeah, this is true.