So today I went for the induction ceremony of a close family friend and the mum to the overall best medical graduating medical student was giving a speech about how she almost aborted him because she got pregnant as teenager out of carelessness and the father didn't want anything to do with the baby so she almost aborted him.

She ended by saying: "God I would have never forgiven myself if I had aborted this baby"

This had me wondering guys if you have ever aborted or failed to abort a baby and how it made you feel on the long run, are you thanking God you didn't or you are happy you did and if you did does the guilt still hunt you till today?

Nairaland girls will avoid this thread like poverty.

If the boy turn agbero, she no go regret o...

I once read a man’s comment here on nairaland on how he wanted his daughter aborted at all cost.
They later had the baby, and according to him, she’s the sweetest girl.
The thought still haunts him every time he looks into her sweet eyes.

Like I once typed; it is hard enough to uproot a growing plant, how much more a growing child.

Will they admit to having done an abortion?

No, but I suspect that my former girlfriend who ran to Dubai got pregnant for me but denied that am not the owner of the pregnancy which she later aborted without my consent

Nope, it was never a baby

My ex gf and I aborted a baby way back and I still feel sad anytime I remember it. I wish I had my own house and everything going on for me like now

Answer

my ex removed 3 babies for me no regret s

I still regret a few in 2015....

Hmmm the more reason it should be legalised....


... If Finacially you aren't capable to go through the process of raising a child, then I support abortion. No child in this 21st century deserves to suffer, at least not even your own child.

I know everyone will say what happened to condoms, contraceptive.... Bra, mistakes happen in sex.

Modified: some hyprocrites are attacking me

brainhgeek:

'Everyone below 18 deserves death' Is that what you are saying?
How old are you by the way?

Stop being a hyprocrite lad... I hope you do not masturbate and cum on your toilet floors because you haven't given those "children" a chance at better life.

I hope you keep your used condoms in a refrigerator for future use.

A child is a parents responsibility until he or she is at least 18 when they can fend for themselves. Now as a man or woman, is this a responsibility you are prepared for? Otherwise take the abortion pills.
... it should be legalised for a certain pregnancy months ( maybe 1 to 2months max, after that the woman is not eligible for abortion and must Birth the child.


Read below and understand what responsibility of raising a child is because clearly you are still a " mummy, thank you boy :

Eyeness:

5 years later

I don't regret it and never will

I wasn't ready for motherhood, I am still not ready. I would have been in poverty and miserable if I had it, I might have even resented it.

Whenever I think about it, all I feel is relief.

True I may not have the life I want now, but I am working towards it.

A child is a big responsibility with little to no return on investment. I'm even thinking if motherhood is not for me. Parenthood is scary. I'm not saying I won't love my children, but it's harder to love what you didn't want, than something you planned for with someone

I see terrible parents all the time and it has scarred me, I see children die due to the parents' ignorance, I see women in labour unprepared for the shit they signed up for. I see kids for what they are, being a bundle of joy is a very small portion of it and the rest isn't joyful


I cannot do parenthood alone, God knows. I don't think I can be a baby mama, a single mother, or married to an irresponsible mAn. I'll abandon the kid with him. I cannot have more than 2.


I don't think motherhood is for me. Yet.

If you think I am a wicked person, I can take that, but what I cannot do is deceive myself.

All the feminists with half a womb would avoid this thread

Zonefree:
Nairaland girls will avoid this thread like poverty.

Lol

Zonefree:
Nairaland girls will avoid this thread like poverty.

Cuz it says Guys

say no to abortion

Hmmmm

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Try not to think of abortion as murder. A fetus is not a baby, neither is a sperm nor an egg.

What kind of evil thread is this?

See as them paint aborting baby like a normal stuff. Kai!

Absolutely No

You will not see most of those useless Nigerian youths here.
Let it be about Buhari,Tunubu,osibanjo ,atiku ,Peter obi ,election on social media or bbn they would have flood this space.

Are you really asking conscienceless Nigerian girls murderers this question?

Just parked to read.

W

No never

Zonefree:
Nairaland girls will avoid this thread like poverty.

So also many Nairaland boys.