Even the one controlling their husbands and treating them like thrash will still be claiming that they are happily married

MadeINchenzen2:
Well, in my own opinion I think being single has a lot of benefits than being married.

Sense no go kill you.

JERRY1925:



Mehn..marriage is beautiful. Seriously I really wished I did it early. I never wanted getting married.. till I met my woman.
Sometimes, when I am at home probably after work, and my wife not back..I jump up at the slightest bike or car sound I hear.
Mehn, I really don't want to wake up to hear my wife is no more.

She's so lovely.

When planning marriage, being a virgin should not be a cateria.

Just the way relationships crash, marriage also crashes.

My advice, get married to who want to be a wife/husband.
Get married to who want to be married and know what it means to be married.
For men, marry a woman, who sees u as her everything...most men do otherwise.

If your wife loves u, the chance of marriage lasting long is really high.

And before marriage, make sure u tell ur partner where u stand.
If u drink, tell them u drink.
If u smoke, tell them you smoke.

Marriage is really beautiful.

We expecting our first child..and it feels really great..its with a woman my child can call mum..not side chic.

Exactly, whenever my spouse is absent and it's almost time for his return from work ehn. I will just be restless until I sight him. The joy of seeing him after a long day can't be compared to any feeling in the world.

lexy2014:


Why is the love fading? Is the love not supposed to grow? What is making the love to fade? If the love is fading and friendship keeps things going, why are they still afraid to go home?

Is it because of naija economy and kids that's why your married male friends can't go back home everyday after work? Is that how every married is afraid to go back everyday from work because of children & naija economy?

Well I'm saying the little I've heard them say, can't speak for them.
Na them know wetin dey pursue them.

MadeINchenzen2:
Well, in my own opinion I think being single has a lot of benefits than being married.

Marriage is only good when there's money from both sides, good woman,good man, beautiful kids,there's peace,love and happiness between both families and there's fear of God in all.... Anything asides this is a waste of time and vexation of spirit...Never you marry poor,instead,remain single and live happily with the little you have...A man deserves respect but fools do things that attracts much disrespect then they blame the women....who no like better thing?.

lastchild:
Now listen. I woke up one morning, picked up my bag, withdrew all the money in my account, went to park, entered bus and found myself in Ghana, from Ghana i headed to Senegal. was about going to France before error occurred.

I went back to Ghana, stayed few months and head back to Senegal, took the highest risk of my life and entered France, though still wasn't successful in that journey.

I've made alot of movement in life that a married man dare not leave his family to make.

Marriage is good when you look at it in Christianity point of view. Look at it in a secular way, it's a bondage.

Another example : a single man is proudly chasing women of different types, bringing them home, and nobody gets angry at him. A married man has to smuggle a woman to hotel just to have her. Everybody crucifies him for having another woman when he has a wife

single man stays outside till dawn, nobody sees him as irresponsible, the moment married man stays outside till 10pm,both his wife and people he's with, start urging him to go home

single man gets provoked by his girlfriend, he dumps her and nobody will query him. Married man is dying inside by his wife misbehavior and refuse to speak up

the list loooooong

waking up all your life beside one person in the name of marriage is a prison

How does withdrawing all your money, going to Ghana& Senegal, almost going to France not bondage?

What are the movements you have made in life that a married man can't make& why will a married man want to make those movements?

Why would a married man be chasing women & smuggling into a hotel & why should you be doing same cos u are single? Do you think there will always be women to chase?

Why should you stay outside till dawn because u are single? What is responsible about that?

Is peace a function of who isn't in your life or a function of who you are inside?

Which is more of a prison: a person who opens his life, let's someone else in, shares with them& also goes into d other person's life to experience same or a person who doesn't have anyone to share with but is locked up inside his life alone?

Ikem11:
You will never understand it till you in it. Marriage is the most beautiful thing when you married the right person.

The joy of rushing home from work to your beautiful wife and kids is something else.

I cant say same to a single man can rush home from work just to enjoy his girlfriend

na everyday you dey rush from work to meet your wife? Or u go fes branch to that place first. Make I no talk

Two good heads are better than one.

SugarGirl44:


Well I'm saying the little I've heard them say, can't speak for them.
Na them know wetin dey pursue them.

But u said that married people gain "absolutely nothing" from marriage. You based this conclusion on what you say you heard them say. If u did, then you should know what is pursuing them

MadeINchenzen2:
I was awake for hours last night trying to figure out what the married enjoys that the single people do not.

I couldn't come up with anything logical or cogent points at all.

I now understand the reason why a lot of persons have chosen to stay single for as long as possible without plans of getting married.

It only makes sense when you find the right one. It will feel like coming home. The difference between a Wife and baby mama is the avowed commitments. But this generations no longer values vows and commitment.

The purpose of marriage is companionship. As you grow older you will understand the value of a committed companionship with someone who gets you, who you get. Who accepts you as you are, and as you do them. It is possible to achieve this without marriage, but how seriously will it be taken, if it has not been declared before Men & God ( assuming one believes in God)?

SmellySperm:
Two of my married friends narrated to me how unhappy they are in their marriage.
Both are waiting for the kids to grow a lil bit before opting for a divorce.
One can have his kids as a single guy,make money,bleep these hoes and have peace of mind.
Call it irresponsible life? IDGAF. After all women now marry for benefits. They benefit more in marriage than men. Bleep marriage!

Have you thought about your old age when your strenght will fail and there's will be no one to help you get to the hospital or take good care of you except the bleeping hoes.

Un mumu never do.

Ikem11:


Na so my brother. Problem with this young generation is they already have a mindset of the quality of woman they want as a wife (tall, beautiful, nice curve backside) all those can't give you a wife rather you bring fire into your home..

Your divine wife may be one ugly babe for corner wey dey eye you since but because u wan big yarsh and better face u go carry jezebel put for house

Exactly bro,people no go ever understand.

Uchedizzy:
Marriage gives a man sense of responsiblity

And sense of fulfilment for the lady i guess?

Cleanworld:


Have you thought about your old age when your strenght will fail and there's will be no one to help you get to the hospital or take good care of you except the bleeping hoes.

Un mumu never do.

No be who live reach old age go dey worry ...

sleemomymy:

Sense no go kill you.

Yeah, being married comes with a lot of unimaginable baggage of stress and sudden death

manchyme:

Well, think about your old age.
When you have become like baby, helpless and dependent. Nobody can take care of you like your wife and children whom you raise in a beautiful family environment. If you no fear anything fear your old age.

Why would you want to continue living when you're as helpless as a baby?

Life is short and fleeting. Make the most out of it and enter your grave when you're far spent.

Being with a likemind gives room for cooperation...less stress, no lonely moments, you plan your future together - your children gives you joy & hope!

I neva marry-o, but I wish to get a unique person wey match every side of me

It seems a majority of people here do not understand the QUESTION.
This is a very topical issue and the Question asked is very very vital.
I can see people putting up benefits like;
.... companionship.
.... Regular uninterrupted sex.
.... Babies.

Please I want to ask,
Can't single people achieve all these?
Of course there are many single people with kids everywhere, having far better companionship with regular unabated sex, if so.

PEOPLE should learn to understand questions.
I don't mean to be insensitive.
Let's answer the question.
For me MARRIAGE is completely overrated
As a man or woman all you need in life is :
... uninterrupted peace of mind.
... Quality source of Income.
... & a Lady willing to give you few kids.
... By doing this, your Freedom (man & woman) is not hinged on someone or somewhere.
No In-Laws. , No unnecessary obligations with minimal & tolerable insults.

MARRIAGE can only equate this feat, if you cleave to someone who offers all of the above including ur "PEACE OF MIND" which is non-negotiable.

Chaii,you must be a sweet wife.

I can do anything for women like you.

Amazinggrace71:

Exactly, whenever my spouse is absent and it's almost time for his return from work ehn. I will just be restless until I sight him. The joy of seeing him after a long day can't be compared to any feeling in the world.

Cleanworld:


Have you thought about your old age when your strenght will fail and there's will be no one to help you get to the hospital or take good care of you except the bleeping hoes.

Un mumu never do.

Yeah at my old age I will have enough money to hire your kids to help me get to the hospital... I will pay them good money to clean my ass and do some domestic chores.

Money is all that counts at old age. You can afford to buy a complete human being to do all that crap !!!

Emperor88:


Which lineage? Millions are roaming about without parents... Ophrah Winfrey is single without kids but her name will live forever than your fath*rs name.

Oga sir what are the probabilities or Chances you being like her ... Till you start ageing you'll understand the benefits, of course no body is forcing you to get married either... We are all entitled to our opinions

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MadeINchenzen2:
Well, in my own opinion I think being single has a lot of benefits than being married.

You are correct!
Marriage can only measure up to that if you can land the right person who will ensure your peace of mind.

one of d benefit is u... if not u won't have been their to ask dis question. one of d benefit is u... if not u won't have been their to ask dis question.

MadeINchenzen2:
Well, in my own opinion I think being single has a lot of benefits than being married.

you don't want to have children?

bigiyaro:
This kind of questions are normally asked by irresponsible and broke guys, people that are mentally unstable, mentally and socially healthy people don't waste time asking stuupid questions, they simply get married when their time comes. Anyway, police treat married women far more respectably than single women, in the society, married people comes first before singles, in my work place, married people are given 10 of all gifts while singles are given 1.5, eg, last December, married people were given half bag of rice, 2 chicken, 5 liter v/oil and 25k while singles shared 15 to a bag, 5k, and no chicken and oil,

Ideally, this is wrong and discriminatory.

Employees should be given same thing after all, same output is expected from married & unmarried employees.

minasu190:
Marriage is good if you marry the right,understanding and caring person. Marriage bring forth children,wealth,and harmony. Marriage gives new life compared to singleness,lastly marriage is sweet if you trust your spouse. God bless all the married men and women out there.

For example BigWiz, Davido, Jazzy and myself is not married. Point to one thing in your list we are not enjoying..

Tonytonex:
you don't want to have children?

what's all this primitive talk about getting married for sake of breeding kids? Meaning if that's the main reason for getting married and it's not working out then u'll be gutted ?

My brief reaction to the matter, there are numerous benefits in marital status. Firstly, Marriage makes you more responsible most especially when you are married to the right partners. Secondly, it earns you honour and dignity. Psychologically, most people prefer to entrust things in the hands of married than singles. But bitter truth is that being single is highly benefial than married when you got married to LAI MOHAMMEDIC OR BUHARISTIC SPOUSE.

FaithBrain1994:
For example BigWiz, Davido, Jazzy and myself is not married. Point to one thing in your list we are not enjoying..

Behind every successful man,there must be woman,this generation dont valve wedding,but its a good thing,check ur scripture man.

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Fuckaniza:


Person wey dey craze.

djon78:



We talk like it always ends cool.
Many married people are in misery
Let's not come online and not talk reality

Very many married people are miserable, worse than singles

People should concentrate on being fulfilled on there own.
The mistake many people make is thinking that there happiness is tied to someone else

That's how when they now get married and don't see that happiness, there world turns upside down

Everyone should find there own happiness. Find things that fulfill you. Waiting on another is a recipe for disaster

Choosing to marry or not is a matter of choice. But I’ll tell you that old age looks and feels better with a fulfilled family(couple plus children, wether by adoption or by birth) than a fulfilled single.
There’ll be a time as a married couple,when sexual urges will decline, beauty will fade. The beauty left will be of bonding memories of victories through past hurdles, products/benefits of a lifetime investments and of values shared. There’ll be a time where your mistresses, as a single man would want to settle down. They’ll either try to pin you down by deliberately getting pregnant for you. Possibility that you’ll have created several baby mamas and at least one bastard; a child you’ll likely deny , through your lifetime , will be very high. Being single or being married have challenges to face. Bottom line is whichever you choose, weather it and end better than you began. But I tell you what, God wasn’t a fool when he created that institution.