bukatyne:


Ideally, this is wrong and discriminatory.

Employees should be given same thing after all, same output is expected from married & unmarried employees.

that's how our society runs.

Cleanworld:


Everyone's life path is different so is our fate. we should strife to bring up our children in a way that they will not neglect us in our old age by showing and telling what a blessing is it to take care of our elderly and this can be pass on from generation to generation . my grandmother lived with us until when she was almost 85yrs. when mama wanted to go back home, we the children can't follow her so they have to get someone to stay with her and care for her while we go on holiday to see her.
There's no week that you won't see any of her immediate family visting her for a week or two BECAUSE SHE DIDN'T ABANDON THEM AND LOVE EVERYONE EQUALY
Firstly , Mama didn't depend on any one as she have already insured and planned for her future so she wasn't a burden.

There's a lot of reason why family matter. a lot that i can't find time to list here. i pray that the end will favour us all. thanks

should we totally depend on them

Fantastic bro

Hssd8:
Oga sir what are the probabilities or Chances you being like her ... Till you start ageing you'll understand the benefits, of course no body is forcing you to get married either... We are all entitled to our opinions

Tell me one benefit oga? The top five richest men in the world only one or two of them currently have a wife are home and they are all old.

ihedioramma:
The day you will sick, you all know that a day is three years .

My brother am a living example and that's when I realise having a family or partner is really good i mean having an helping hand when needed especially during emergency compared to when you are single

bepositive11:


There are some theories though that make sense

For example, one theory is that both partners pretend to be someone they're not. After marriage, they no longer feel the need to pretend because they have gotten what they wanted, so the masks fall off and they begin to hate their true selves

Another theory is that the woman pretends to love the man when she is really just after his money. After getting married, she gets tired of pretending to love him then the man feels betrayed and begins to hate her

Better oil dey your head. No cap'

Hssd8:
Oga sir what are the probabilities or Chances you being like her ... Till you start ageing you'll understand the benefits, of course no body is forcing you to get married either... We are all entitled to our opinions

60% of married couples in Nigeria are not even happy in marriage they are just married because of people with mentality like you...who thinks marriage is an achievement.

engrelvis:
lol...who told you dey r happy? Do whatever suit u but don't tell me marriages ain't good.One of d reason for decadence in our society is lack of good marriages.families values v been enroded n is reflecting in our society.lndiscipline n irresponsibility is what is making our present youths shy from marriages.Dey want to eat their Cake n also v it

And who told you those who are married are happy? And who told you those names I mention are shying away from responsibilities?

SmellySperm:
Two of my married friends narrated to me how unhappy they are in their marriage.
Both are waiting for the kids to grow a lil bit before opting for a divorce.
One can have his kids as a single guy,make money,bleep these hoes and have peace of mind.
Call it irresponsible life? IDGAF. After all women now marry for benefits. They benefit more in marriage than men. Bleep marriage!

marriage is about responsibilities and sacrifice

Zonefree:
There's nothing a wife can do that a girlfriend or babymama cannot do.

Keep praising nonsense!
Your girlfriend is nkt your wife.
Even by law your girlfriend is no where near the status of a wife get that into your thick skull.

No law in the world recognises a girlfriend.

Ask C.Ronaldo if you don't get it.

People of this generation are making abnormal things and are making normal things abnormal.

You guys are a disgraced to parenthood.

Kpekus ! Is it

thorpido:
Modified: Two good heads are better than one.
It takes marriage to understand this statement.

So, it is only in a marriage you can find two good heads?

folarin24:

marriage is about responsibilities and sacrifice

After the yahoo bois and numerous boy friends don fukk the so called wife and without any responsibilities or sacrifices.....?

MadeINchenzen2:
I was awake for hours last night trying to figure out what the married enjoys that the single people do not.

I couldn't come up with anything logical or cogent points at all.

I now understand the reason why a lot of persons have chosen to stay single for as long as possible without plans of getting married.

U go figure out when u don Marry. Marriage no be beans oga

Tayorshd2:


My brother am a living example and that's when I realise having a family or partner is really good i mean having an helping hand when needed especially during emergency compared to when you are single

Truth .

Goldbw122:
They enjoy their offspring.

Baby Mama's and papas don't?

Don't tell me chioma and Davido don't enjoy ifeanyi.
Or...
C.Ronaldo and Rodriguez don't enjoy d kids.

BABYharder:
Girlfriend no dey attend August meeting

Who August meeting help?

Also, u can b inducted into mother-hood at certain age nd u can now join in August meeting. Catholic does dat.

placeofallure:


How many people have the means and resources of Davido? Be realistic.

Is d resources now d issue?

We talk about married and unmarried.

Even in marriage, how many get Davidos money?

Ikem11:
You will never understand it till you in it. Marriage is the most beautiful thing when you married the right person.

The joy of rushing home from work to your beautiful wife and kids is something else.

I cant say same to a single man can rush home from work just to enjoy his girlfriend

No b all home b happy home.
E get some wey their breath dey cut wen dey remember going home.

MadeINchenzen2:
Well, in my own opinion I think being single has a lot of benefits than being married.

If loneliness deals with you, you will know what's up

SmellySperm:
Two of my married friends narrated to me how unhappy they are in their marriage.
Both are waiting for the kids to grow a lil bit before opting for a divorce.
One can have his kids as a single guy,make money,bleep these hoes and have peace of mind.
Call it irresponsible life? IDGAF. After all women now marry for benefits. They benefit more in marriage than men. Bleep marriage!

There's a reason we have a president or governor and first lady. You may not understand why

MadeINchenzen2:
Well, in my own opinion I think being single has a lot of benefits than being married.

I have not seen a governor sworn in before without a wife. Have you seen one before?

Zonefree:

Is Davido alone? Are his offsprings outcast?

You're comparing footballers with Messi and Ronaldo. Those ones are exception.

Emperor88:

60% of married couples in Nigeria are not even happy in marriage they are just married because of people with mentality like you...who thinks marriage is an achievement.

if you feel is not an achievement that's fine like I said you are entitled to your opinion, to me the two can't be compared if you are coming from a moral and ethical background.

Most girlfriends and babymamas just want to eat your money but wifes will not only contribute in your life but also bring about stability in one's life.

linearity:


So, it is only in a marriage you can find two good heads?

Two good heads for marriage. Two good heads for business. Two good heads for sports etc.

They just enjoy wahala my brother. Wahala. Many single people have kids and visit or stay with their kids. So na just the wahala dem de enjoy

dawnomike:
You may not fully understand until you are married... Provided you are blessed with a lovely family and money is not ypur problem

And money is not ur problem? Number one, some rich people are not happily married. Number 2,who knows when money go become problem?

lastchild:
you speak out of context. What you are describing here is a life of a born again. It's like asking a man who loves watching cartoon why would an adult watch cartoon?

it is foolishness to ask, that's what he likes, and lack of freedom from that is prison.

Going back to things i mentioned. You asked why would a married man be chasing women, even though this is a faceless forum but this speaks loud that you are either a kid or a virgin.

what else in this world is sweeter than a man fukcing different pu$$ies? even dedicated children of God needs holy spirit guidance not to indulge, and you are asking why would someone do it. Do you think everyone is born again or have the normal African moral bla bla bla

you asked what movement did i make that a married man can't make, aren't you seeing it there, can a married man wake up, leave his family for 10 years in pursuit of success just like that?

you said this :Which is more of a prison: a person who opens his life, let's someone else in, shares with them& also goes into d other person's life to experience same or a person who doesn't have anyone to share with but is locked up inside his life alone?

are you for real? who told you that single people are lonely, their are lovers everywhere, which is even more fun and loving because that person leaves to go back to his or her house, leaving room for you to miss them.

Do you think married people are missing themselves? Lol.. don't worry you'll get to that stage.When you sleep and wake up with the same person for 5 years, seeing them every morning with smelly mouth and white lines on their cheeks caused by saliva, then you'd know that marriage is just endurance not fun


Lastly, let me give you an assignment, look for a married person (preferably a man) who has spent upto 10 years in marriage, ask him what he felt for his wife in their first year of marriage, if that's a still what he feels now

After that, come back for more lectures

what life did i describe? how is asking questions the same thing as description? if i didnt describe anything, where did you get the "born again life" that you saw in my post? Jeez...what does this mean: "It's like asking a man who loves watching cartoon why would an adult watch cartoon?"

what has not sleeping around got to do with being "born again or having the normal African moral bla bla bla"?

you still havent said "What movements you have made in life that a married man can't make& why will a married man want to make those movements".

which "lovers" are everywhere in a single persons life? how long will those lovers stay with a single person? but you still havent answered the question: Which is more of a prison: a person who opens his life, let's someone else in, shares with them& also goes into d other person's life to experience same or a person who doesn't have anyone to share with but is locked up inside his life alone?

whats wrong with "sleeping and waking up with the same person for 5 years, seeing them every morning with smelly mouth and white lines on their cheeks caused by saliva"?

have you done the assignment yourself? have you "looked for a married person (preferably a man) who has spent upto 10 years in marriage, ask him what he felt for his wife in their first year of marriage, if that's a still what he feels now"?

tonquendo4u:
And money is not ur problem? Number one, some rich people are not happily married. Number 2,who knows when money go become problem?

I gave 2 conditions... But ofcos, you chose to see the part of the money alone

MadeINchenzen2:
Well, in my own opinion I think being single has a lot of benefits than being married.

Only irresponsible people think like this.

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Emperor88:


And who told you those who are married are happy? And who told you those names I mention are shying away from responsibilities?

R u married? If ur nt arguing with u is a waste of time