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Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by TOPCRUISE(m): 5:55am On Mar 26, 2022 |
benzics:Seems you have aborted a lot without a sense of remorse 1 Like |
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by Munzy14(m): 5:56am On Mar 26, 2022 |
AnthonyAk:Chai...And you would have been happy looking at him/her.. |
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by Munzy14(m): 6:01am On Mar 26, 2022 |
Dmacqh:If you are serious, you will meet her...Many ways to go about it. Just make a move...Women are understanding in this kind of situation. So as you are sure you were responsible. But una get mind, At least if you must breakup, don't do it with burden na ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by Nobody: 6:19am On Mar 26, 2022 |
I've never done abortion and I will never do it 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by AnthonyAk(m): 6:25am On Mar 26, 2022 |
Munzy14: Perhaps , but it the wrong time, my girl and I would have probably dropped put of school. Life would have been soo much harder right now. I regret it but given the conditions at the time I would probably do it again. Even if we are older now we are in a much better place 1 Like |
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by Dmacqh(m): 6:26am On Mar 26, 2022 |
Munzy14: Right now , I’ve no justification. I was too stupid I was considering the shame ( and my age ) instead of been humane and looking at the bigger picture . I consider myself a failure . I pray I’ll meet her soonest . And yes we already parted like more than 2 months before she discovered the pregnancy. Part of my fear or caution then was that maybe she got pregnant elsewhere and and wanted to hang it on me . She left me , knowing I wasn’t serious. I was a playboy then. She discovered I wasn’t serious with her. She blocked and deleted my contact . I want to know if she’s alive first . She got depressed and traumatized with that incident . The big challenge why I denied her then was, over brokenness. Managing my life in school was a hell already. I was managing to sip garri once a day then . I begged her to go and stay in her family house . She refused and ran away . |
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by WHITELIGHTER: 6:28am On Mar 26, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: FYI, I'm not a lady... |
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by DrFunmisticGlow: 6:35am On Mar 26, 2022 |
klawaaa:the side effects are terrible, weight gain, higher blood pressure, acne sometimes, then it can cause blood clots which can kill, depression, low libido, breakthrough periods, the list goes on 2 Likes |
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by Sugarmerab88: 6:42am On Mar 26, 2022 |
Eweeeeeeeeeeee! Despite the lesson. I've the blessing. It's a boy and a girl. |
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by Eyeness: 6:51am On Mar 26, 2022 |
5 years later I don't regret it and never will I wasn't ready for motherhood, I am still not ready. I would have been in poverty and miserable if I had it, I might have even resented it. Whenever I think about it, all I feel is relief. True I may not have the life I want now, but I am working towards it. A child is a big responsibility with little to no return on investment. I'm even thinking if motherhood is not for me. Parenthood is scary. I'm not saying I won't love my children, but it's harder to love what you didn't want, than something you planned for with someone I see terrible parents all the time and it has scarred me, I see children die due to the parents' ignorance, I see women in labour unprepared for the shit they signed up for. I see kids for what they are, being a bundle of joy is a very small portion of it and the rest isn't joyful I cannot do parenthood alone, God knows. I don't think I can be a baby mama, a single mother, or married to an irresponsible mAn. I'll abandon the kid with him. I cannot have more than 2. I don't think motherhood is for me. Yet. If you think I am a wicked person, I can take that, but what I cannot do is deceive myself. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by BRATISLAVA: 6:58am On Mar 26, 2022 |
Dmacqh: Your problem with her is that they sell condoms and give them out free in certain places, but you feel that you can't use them. Then you want to deny the fruits of not using a condom in 2021. 4 Likes |
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by Mustoph1(m): 7:02am On Mar 26, 2022 |
Till today. The baby would have been as tall as myself now. Would have long been a father. May the Almighty forgive � me for all my sinful acts. |
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by DrFunmisticGlow: 8:11am On Mar 26, 2022 |
Eyeness:this is profound |
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by bora1(m): 8:12am On Mar 26, 2022 |
You need to heal of your psychological trauma, mostly childhood. No insult intended plz. Talk to a counselor, someone with deeper knowledge of family psychology or DM 5 years later I don't regret it and never will I wasn't ready for motherhood, I am still not ready. I would have been in poverty and miserable if I had it, I might have even resented it. Whenever I think about it, all I feel is relief. True I may not have the life I want now, but I am working towards it. A child is a big responsibility with little to no return on investment. I'm even thinking if motherhood is not for me. Parenthood is scary. I'm not saying I won't love my children, but it's harder to love what you didn't want, than something you planned for with someone I see terrible parents all the time and it has scarred me, I see children die due to the parents' ignorance, I see women in labour unprepared for the shit they signed up for. I see kids for what they are, being a bundle of joy is a very small portion of it and the rest isn't joyful I cannot do parenthood alone, God knows. I don't think I can be a baby mama, a single mother, or married to an irresponsible mAn. I'll abandon the kid with him. I cannot have more than 2. I don't think motherhood is for me. Yet. If you think I am a wicked person, I can take that, but what I cannot do is deceive myself. [/quote] |
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by mofresh(m): 8:18am On Mar 26, 2022 |
[same happened to me bro ,I and she still regret that every time..=SPAMBOX7 post=111366052]My ex gf and I aborted a baby way back and I still feel sad anytime I remember it. I wish I had my own house and everything going on for me like now[/quote] |
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by mofresh(m): 8:21am On Mar 26, 2022 |
[same happened to me bro ,I and she still regret that every time..=SPAMBOX7 post=111366052]My ex gf and I aborted a baby way back and I still feel sad anytime I remember it. I wish I had my own house and everything going on for me like now[/quote][size=8pt][same happened to me bro ,I and she still regret that every time ] |
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by Nobody: 8:23am On Mar 26, 2022 |
Missyajoke:How many times ![]() |
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by Munzy14(m): 8:24am On Mar 26, 2022 |
AnthonyAk:That circumstances beyond humans control... |
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by Munzy14(m): 8:25am On Mar 26, 2022 |
Dmacqh:Bad. |
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by HRMK: 9:08am On Mar 26, 2022 |
the only time any lady regrets abortion is when it affects her reproductive organs and unable to get pregnant again!we may say her other regret is when it claims her life!i dont know if people do regret in heaven but surely in hell!! 1 Like |
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by Missyajoke(f): 9:09am On Mar 26, 2022 |
henrybangs44:None just that the topic is funny thats why am laughing |
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by Solowsky(m): 9:11am On Mar 26, 2022 |
Have u ever wondered that,(about to be aborted babies) who eventually were being given birth to, turn out to be exceptional, door openers, great children in the long run, E.g Cristiano Ronaldo was an example, look at him today May take on this is that any baby tagged to be aborted are always exceptional,talented and gifted ones 1 Like |
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by khome(f): 9:26am On Mar 26, 2022 |
Myzubby:Why? |
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by brainhgeek(m): 9:26am On Mar 26, 2022 |
tonididdy:'Everyone below 18 deserves death' Is that what you are saying? How old are you by the way? |
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by khome(f): 9:28am On Mar 26, 2022 |
Elpibe:. Advice her to always opt for safe abortion. |
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by khome(f): 9:32am On Mar 26, 2022 |
Senomii:On top wetin nah? You people should be calming down o |
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by Lukmanraji(m): 9:50am On Mar 26, 2022 |
![]() ![]() It's 2 weeks already. A lady living next to my door told me she's pregnant and it's mine. I actually thought it was a joke cos she rarely allow me to penetrate her not until 2 days b4 she opened up to me that she's pregnant. Although we had a quickee sometimes around late January / February in which I knew that I released inside her and ever since then, she always stops me from ducking her. I told her to go and do a lab test to affirm the result and boom. The result was positive. The pregnancy is 6 weeks old and 2 days. Omo. I was shocked � and my thinking changed totally. Before I utter a word, the lady said she's removing it cos she has alot ahead of her and she can't bear the shame. Recently, my mom warned me not to abort incase my gf which knows conceive. But this random girl came up with this shit. Although, I still find it difficult to believe this is mine cos this looks like a blackmail to me. But since she insisted on removing it, I have no choice than succumbed to it. Last Thursday, she did the abortion and every since then. I have been having regrets of involving myself into this right from onset. I'm cutting all ties with this girl once everything dies down. 1 Like |
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by tonididdy(m): 10:14am On Mar 26, 2022 |
brainhgeek: Stop being a hyprocrite lad... I hope you do not masturbate and cum on your toilet floors because you haven't given those "children" a chance at better life. I hope you keep your used condoms in a refrigerator for future use. A child is a parents responsibility until he or she is at least 18 when they can fend for themselves. Now as a man or woman, is this a responsibility you are prepared for? Otherwise take the abortion pills. ... it should be legalised for a certain pregnancy months ( maybe 1 to 2months max, after that the woman is not eligible for abortion and must Birth the child. Read below and understand what responsibility of raising a child is because clearly you are still a " mummy, thank you boy : Eyeness: |
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:20am On Mar 26, 2022 |
Dmacqh: Use an outsider to reach out to her. Has she moved away from her house? Can't you visit? |
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:28am On Mar 26, 2022 |
Eyeness: Eye-opening and profound. I share this same sentiment. |
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:29am On Mar 26, 2022 |
WHITELIGHTER: Of course, I know. They are waiting for you on the other side of life. |
Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:43am On Mar 26, 2022 |
AnthonyAk: Has the babe remarried? |
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