Don't marry because of love otherwise you may be disappointed.

Find other reasons that are not limited to love,so that if it packs up you would have achieved something worth the trouble.

Fafoba:
What is happening to our generation?

Look at our fathers. What is their secret?

The had no secret oo. They did not face what men are facing now. The social setting was mild then.

Their Eve's were never presented with the apple. So they were not tempted to eat.

Exposure brings temptation. In their era, their was no phones,Cable TV and internet nor Uber and all ease in doing stuff that it brings.

Today's women are in a radically different world from their mothers.

Sad one

The woman really tried,I won't bash her...I once had a wealthy neighbor from the North who suffered gunshot injury from robbers which became complicated. He died at home but not before the wife ran off abandoning him...

God please show Julius and family your mercy we are all sinners. Restore them Oh Lord !

yorubarere:
That gender is never to be trusted. They all came for the sugar.

That is what we keep telling these dudes but love would have blinded them.

Out of your family, you wife is not your blood. They are strangers who come for the benefits.

This is why marriage to me is a scam. A BIG scam

MY MAMA AND MY SISTERS FOR ME. MY WIFE PART OF ME BT CNT BE AS TRUSTED AS MY SISTERS. THE ACT TOUGH BT ARE SIMPS . THE WILL CALL U BROKE\MYSYGONIST BECUS U REFUSE TO WASTE MONEY ON WOMEN

You nairalanders should please stop being bias against women. For a woman to have stood with a man at the height of his illness (according to the write up) and later abandon the man could be due to several reasons..

What if the man became someone else due to his financial strait and the woman couldn't cope again;I have seen men who reverted to dangerous habits all because they lost their source of livelihood.. I have seen otherwise responsible men who upon experiencing financial problems turned to wife beaters and irresponsible fathers..
I am not calling Julius Agwu irresponsible,I am just trying to stress the fact that we should all be open minded
.
What if the man's family have been giving her tough time.. I know for a fact that the Igbo culture and the African culture by extension is not always kind to women in situations when things are not going smoothly and sometimes even when they are...The possibilities are endless..

The woman could indeed also have left him because of the reasons y'all said..but we couldn't be so sure..

For the 'redpillers' calling women scum..you guys are actually the scum...and I find it a shameful thing that you don't have the decency to show a lil bit of respect to the gender largely responsible for your existence.

Very bad, probably signs of end time.

salesbloo:


https://punchng.com/controversy-surrounds-alleged-crash-of-julius-agwus-14-year-marriage/

the man look sick but the wife shouldnt run away because of that.marriage is for better and for worst

It's well.... Get well soon

yorubarere:
That gender is never to be trusted. They all came for the sugar.

That is what we keep telling these dudes but love would have blinded them.

Out of your family, you wife is not your blood. They are strangers who come for the benefits.

This is why marriage to me is a scam. A BIG scam

So you won’t get married because according to you marriage is a scam??

Snowx:
If you re a man reading this may the good Lord give you a woman that will endure with you if the bad days finally comes..

Am 36 getting to 37 but still not have any girl in mind to settle down with..girls have beenseing have their lives rule by social media and pressure group..me getting married is by miracle from above..and I believe I wld find someone that understand me and someone I will also torrelate.

Ure not dat old bro.. No be by age o. One need to be very careful.. Girls of nowadays are just too dangerous. But we still hv very few good ones. But it takes grace to get them

Illuminatiship:
Any woman deceiving you and calling you honey is because of your large pockets.

Wahala for who never experience true love before, keep your hateful venom to urself

These Hoes ain't loyal. .

Major1984:
the man look sick but the wife shouldnt run away because of that.marriage is for better and for worst

U sick dosent mean u will finish her emotionally and kill her spirit...fight and encourage yourself not take the frustration on the wife and pikin

I personally use to tell people...

DryMouth:
Men will never learn.

No woman loves any man.

Seconded

I feel for this man. The wife never loved him in the first place. Men like marrying girls that don't love them. See the difference na. See olu Jacob and Julius agwu case

porthouse7:
not at this stage when he's battling health issue... women are wicked

Can you stand with a spouse who remains persistently sick without any hope for recovery as a woman, that's sick for 7-10 years at a stretch without improvements?

Before we all judge, let's be careful o. The burden of a sick person is not a small one o


Abi I lie ? Uyailcomparabl

What happens to "Till Death Do Us Part."

Men say "For Better For Worst...Till Death Do Us Part."

Women say "For Better For Better...Till Death Do Us Part"

My friend's wife moved out this morning too.
When I went thinking I can mend tho he I find out they both made up their mind. D wife too stubborn I swear

adontcare:
I feel for this man. The wife never loved him in the first place. Men like marrying girls that don't love them. See the difference na. See olu Jacob and Julius agwu case

Be careful judging. This lady is young and should be enjoying marriage, not otherwise. People should be easy on her. It's not a burden everyone can bear, just few years of marriage and persistent sickness, when she sees her age peers enjoying marriage?

It's not his fault his sick, but have you considered it could be more than her pain threshold?

VIKTO83:
My friend's wife moved out this morning too.
When I went thinking I can mend tho he I find out they both made up their mind. D wife too stubborn I swear

Yes, she moved out. It's okay. But stop spreading half tales. Do you have the full info?

A woman leaving a marriage doesn't make her evil. Never judge issues without full facts oga. Don't be emotional

DoctorOlasDesk:



Can you stand with a spouse who remains persistently sick without any hope for recovery as a woman, that's sick for 7-10 years at a stretch without improvements?

Before we all judge, let's be careful o. The burden of a sick person is not a small one o


Abi ? Uyailcomparabl

Yes, I can. Forget that I love money. But, I'm a ride or die.

However, caring for a sick person can be burdensome. It takes someone with a large dose of patience to take upon that service. For the fact that another person cannot do it doesn't make them wicked. I can't judge them.

I was in a very sound relationship years baack and suddenly had a fatal accident .. I broke my leg from my knee up...

Sweetheart gf ran away... And never tried calling again after visiting once. At the hospital....

Manny years later two years ago.. had another sweet relationship that we are planning to get married this year...

I had a sudden shake. In my business and lost alot of. Money and was shaking to stand... Gf abandoned me and ran away... Till date...

Conclusions... If u don't have money women will always run.... And for those that have. It.. don't fall in love, cuz if. U do, u lose... They ty tto tie u down with love cuz u have moneey...

If u havve. Moneey allways enjoi ur life and cheat alot.. even in marage.. those. Genda are dangerous

Chriswazo:


I don't know for u, my mom is an exception, maybe with today's generation, we de God's hand...

Obviously he didn't mean one's mother. He was referring to wives and girlfriends.

Yemideee:
You nairalanders should please stop being bias against women. For a woman to have stood with a man at the height of his illness (according to the write up) and later abandon the man could be due to several reasons..

What if the man became someone else due to his financial strait and the woman couldn't cope again;I have seen men who reverted to dangerous habits all because they lost their source of livelihood.. I have seen otherwise responsible men who upon experiencing financial problems turned to wife beaters and irresponsible fathers..
I am not calling Julius Agwu irresponsible,I am just trying to stress the fact that we should all be open minded
.
What if the man's family have been giving her tough time.. I know for a fact that the Igbo culture and the African culture by extension is not always kind to women in situations when things are not going smoothly and sometimes even when they are...The possibilities are endless..

The woman could indeed also have left him because of the reasons y'all said..but we couldn't be so sure..

For the 'redpillers' calling women scum..you guys are actually the scum...and I find it a shameful thing that you don't have the decency to show a lil bit of respect to the gender largely responsible for your existence.

How many men will stay with a woman if she's persistently sick for i.e 7-10 years in a roll?

It's a huge toll. May God not let us experience what's too much for us.

Humans shouldn't avoid the urge to judge. You spoke well

Focusmind:


My brother, I don't know o.

My father has been down with the usual old men sickness like prostate, mild memory loss, HBP. But my mum has been steadfast with painstaking love, feeding him, changing his clothes and dressing the bed for him. I have insisted on getting an assistant for her but she said no because of the negative news about house girls that connives with outsiders to murder the old people they are living with.

She stayed with him in the hospital for a complete year, bathing and dressing him. Our prayers is that we should all be there together for our partners - the man or the wife. Nobody knows tomorrow

Lol. That's because she's old too. If your dad came down with any serious illness in his 30s-40s she'd have eventually japa'd or cheated on him.

And I'm not trying to bash women here, even your dad too would've japa'd or gotten himself a mistress if your mom came down with a debillating illness when she was much younger.

Its just how life works. Marriage used to be an institution that sorta held against the trials and tribulations of life - for better, for worse - but that's no longer the case.

DoctorOlasDesk:




Yes, she moved out. It's okay. But stop spreading half tales. Do you have the full info?

A woman leaving a marriage doesn't make her evil. Never judge issues without full facts oga. Don't be emotional

It's a family I know too well. I follow happenings there day after day.
I'm not an emotional person.
If my papa does badly I'm d first he should expect to tell him.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Yes, I can. Forget that I love money. But, I'm a ride or die.

However, caring for a sick person can be burdensome. It takes someone with a large dose of patience to take upon that service. For the fact that another person cannot do it doesn't make them wicked. I can't judge them.

Anyways sha, Virgos are stay there till I die. But the writeup i read else where was more elaborate than this. Ten years of illness can break anyone o. I won't blame anyone. It's not easy being in that spot for the long run. It's why I encourage young ones to have holistic health check before agreeing to anyone


May we not experience such.

VIKTO83:


It's a family I know too well. I follow happenings there day after day.
I'm not an emotional person.
If my papa does badly I'm d first he should expect to tell him.

Then when communicating. State what party A and B did. If all men keep demonizing women, abeg na which toto we go fvck na?

Money finish
Marriage finish

Simple!!!

Good health ooo lord

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