Fiscus105:



But ur own wife must love you more than anybody right! Including her own father and mother?

SIMPleman man spotted

Cancer ate him like that? The end is near. This story won’t end happily. If you think otherwise, donate money to me.

DoctorOlasDesk:



I agree with staying with a spouse. I can stay with a woman I love to the grave. I have people who have loved me to the grave and are not even blood. My dear I've received such love in this life time however I'm only advocating fairness in judging issues

Let me put it this way, if in a marriage agreement for example, a party hides health status from the other and in the marriage the health issue rises up, do you know legally that's a fraud because the terms and conditions didn't spell out the condition?

I deal with things from an informational angle and factual POV. Not emotions

May we never experience such

My counsel to men, as we old, let's show love to our brother and sisters kids so we can have people to count on as we get older.

Let's make money to hire additional hands. If a party assisting a sick person has like 3 - 5 help maids, the burden will be reduced. Let's stop putting the entire burden on people and expecting them to deal with our lack of provision


That's why we should work hard with our youths. Jesus said night time comes when one can't be able to work. If we gather enough, one can hire 5 maids and then ease the other partner a little bit of too much


Go and check through out scripture, all early days Fathers in the scripture always had like 3 - 5 maids for their wives.. Home management is load, especially more in sickness. Thesedays we just heap loads on people and expect them to bear with it. Even Sarah had maids

Cc: Iyaebe Abi i lie?

You are so on point sir

Illuminatiship:
Any woman deceiving you and calling you honey is because of your large pockets.

I tell Relationship or marriage of convenience has nothing to do with Love. It's all about CONVENIENCE and once that isn't working or available their superficial feelings change and they move on.

A girl who hasn't gone/can't go through thick and thin is not supposed to ur wife.

Relationships and marriage are now a joke.

The tried is not easy.
14years is not 14days

afamaustin:
The tried is not easy.
14years is not 14days

People are not seeing it oh.

14 years. If a woman of 34 years spends 14 years with a sick husband means all her life like she never enjoyed the marriage

The people castigating her didn't ask, how many years did she enjoy the marriage against the number of years she spent in the sickness condition


If i marry such a lady, five years in good health and she stays 14 years, abeg e do to settle the woman with millions. She's human not an angel

How many of the hypocrites judging her can stay with their sick parents a year?

Blissb9:
One of his sidechicks should take care of him

https://punchng.com/controversy-surrounds-alleged-crash-of-julius-agwus-14-year-marriage/

U be imbecilic apparatus

Agwu. A brilliant comedian. Don't put your trust in today's women they are liable to fail you. Let's becareful. Marriage no be by force. Let's hail Davido who sabi handle them.

Note: everyone will abandon you expect God and your mother..

Don't play with these two..

Please with this your crashed mindset,DO NOT GET MARRIED because such a test will come your way

DoctorOlasDesk:




It is easy to always judge when one is an external parties. I've observed the narrative that men will always want to depict ladies as bad and evil especially on this forum project their weakness

Let me tell you. I told even my mother few weeks ago, rather than stress ad stress with consistent sickness, I will leave

If we also claim love, we should love the other party enough to want them to live and truly live in every sense of it. Not allowing one dragging a sick body for years.

Everyone and his/her perspective

It's not love burdening the other party with prolonged sickness. If old age, fine, if short term sickness, fine. But anything from 10 years and up is extreme. The other individual has a life to leave. A sick person can do the needful telling doctors what to do. It's better at peace in Heaven than bein a nusiance on earth

Anagkazor:
Please with this your crashed mindset,DO NOT GET MARRIED because such a test will come your way

Kid yourself. You think you're talking to a kid. You know the number of people/marriage i don start/involve?

Get lost

I say it again, of all of a man's family members, it's only his wife that is not his relative, know this and know peace, know this and bond with your children, know this and never leave raising of you kids to anyone including your 'wife'. Know that las Las na only your mother and your children way you raise closely go dey dia for you.

Only you, three tumor!!! God is your muscle.

Any Guy that marries the woman he loves will regret especially in situations. Marry a woman that loves you, most times guys don't love the women that loves them, but a man can grow to accept the woman. Such women will never leave you, because they chose you.

silibaba:


SIMPleman man spotted

Yes oooo, if I'm not simple for man wife and kids who will?


Frustrated urchin keep wailing.

However, one unforgettable lesson is that one needs to hold on tightly to God and not despise Him.


A lot of fallacies about women and marriage being bandied around here

asobo1:
When now? When he even needs her more.

Question for those sad deluded ladies and men who insist that marriage is the one solution to loneliness

yorubarere:

They will never learn

Na waiting fit all of them,

Woman

Fiscus105:



Yes oooo, if I'm not simple for man wife and kids who will?


Frustrated urchin keep wailing.

Don't come here and open any trend that your wife son japa with your kids tomorrow. We will distant ourselves from your post that day scum SIMPle man.

MAKE SHE GO NAH ... BUT NOT WITH MY KIDS

AFONJAPIG:
MAKE SHE GO NAH ... BUT NOT WITH MY KIDS

You obviously do not know the law and how they handle such matters

The legal system grants the children in a marriage automatically to who's healthy and capable of providing such care. When one is down, wom do you think would be ranted custody?

You youths don't seem to read much

Bitter truth tho....makes me cry�

legallyminded:
In the end you only have yourself and God. That's why life is per head. There are situations that will isolate you. We only pray not to fall into dire situations because nearly (if not) everyone will fail you.

DoctorOlasDesk:



You obviously do not know the law and how they handle such matters

The legal system grants the children in a marriage automatically to who's healthy and capable of providing such care. When one is down, wom do you think would be ranted custody?

You youths don't seem to read much

you meant customary law ??

silibaba:


Don't come here and open any trend that your wife son japa with your kids tomorrow. We will distant ourselves from your post that day scum SIMPle man.

Don't come here and tell us that ur ex wife is the reason u are being sent to prison, because of redpill u swallowed from nairaland ooo

asobo1:
When now? When he even needs her more.

Why now? Not "when now?"

adontcare:
I feel for this man. The wife never loved him in the first place. Men like marrying girls that don't love them. See the difference na. See olu Jacob and Julius agwu case

Wetin do olu Jacobs marriage

Thegoodone13:
Woman

They are blessing and favor from God

Till I hear from the couple. I don't trust any blogger

Juoflife1:
Till I hear from the couple. I don't trust any blogger

Yup

Graxie:
Thread for failures to insult women.

Says a female narcissist.

greypencils:
That is why you should marry a woman who meets you and loves you while you are still struggling.

True bro