Gamesmart:


Your question is irrelevant when the real world fact is that you women, en masse, crave and dream of getting married.

If it is unfavourable to women, why are women craving for it?

The answer is either:

a) It is favourable.

or

b) Women are stupid because they all continue craving for what does not favour them.

By you answering the question, all other questions become irrelevant and no need for back and forth.

Hassanmaye:

How do we do in old age?

Blunttruth:

Because they are eating their cake and having it. Desperate girls are busy doing wife duties for a boyfriend. Lack of finance is another reason.

Highlyrespected:
Marriage is blissful when you are with right person.

Marriage is fruitless when you are wrong person.

To settle down is not the issue but to find the right person is the main issue.

tayepop:
I have realised so many of my friends and colleagues at over 30 years are still single, this doesn't use to be the case.

paulemmy19:
that risk of missing the right person is a big cause for concern.

Gerrard59:


Achievements are subjective. How you view an achievement is different from the next person and that should be regarded and respected.

AfroKnight:
For those naija men outside naija, it’s because they think too much and are afraid to love a woman who would use the system to defraud them legally.

For those in naija, it’s for a number of reasons. Naija babes are not loyal. They always lookout for themselves first. Once your usefulness in their lives end, they end the relationship/marriage. Men are trying to avoid that, so they remain single and opt for babymama arrangement if they need kids.

It may also be because the men intend to relocate abroad and they would rather not take their nemesis along. So they resign to a single life.

Thirdly, it could be that some men want to solve certain economic/financial issues before adding the responsibilities of a wife to the load they carry.

Everything here points to the prevalent fact that young Nigerian women do not carry their own weight. Once you ask them out, it’s like they open a ledger for you as a debtor. They use you for your resources then demand to be treated like an equal. Lol. Men are tired of slaving for women.

You see single and even married women online openly asking for trips, perks, gifts and money. It’s almost like every man owes them. You never know who is going to use his money to trigger your wife’s release clause. Even the faithful ones think they must be rewarded with marriage for standing by you while you were struggling. Why would any sane man want to marry such a woman who thinks she’s entitled to his possessions just because she was present while he was struggling without even contributing tangibly to his progress?

So unbalanced.

If marriage was such a sweet deal, more men would embrace it. Many of those who are married were pressured by their parents to get married or were young and blinded by initial infatuation which later faded away and revealed the true nature of their wives.

Women have turned this marriage thing into a punishment for men. It shouldn’t be so.


Men are the ones truly settling down. They settle and put up with broke, unworthy women who offer nothing but drama and the possibility of paternity fraud and strife in a family that was fine until the man brought in a wife.

Marriage should be sweet but naija women fail to realise that both partners MUST contribute to a happy marriage, not just the man.

Tonytonex:
very true. Part of the reason I'm still single. The person I'm supposed to marry is ...

Magnoliaa:
Redpillism is destroying them. It is a cancer to the society. Ordinary bird, an average man cannot kill anymore. Deth to all alphas and cheers to the restoration of the Matriachy.

Gamesmart:

Nonsense!
Marriage can never be "sweet" for a man!

Here are facts:
1. No matter what you do, a woman would never be happy and satisfied sustainably; they never know what they want.

2. A man has a natural need to spread his seed; not be with one woman till he dies.

Olam09:


Broke ass you can simply click on my username and check it yourself.. if you need data to check just quote me I'll get you data.

Uchedizzy:
pls stop misleading people, there are alot of places in imo state that ther marriage list is very cheap,

Osilama1:
since your entire lineage are stupid and useless I ain't surprise idiotic fool

Demigod22:
Marriage should be a thing of choice. Although, the economic reality is affecting, and most importantly, the scary stories of paternity fraud, infidelity and domestic violence is discouraging guys.

I told my mom that marriage is not my priority, I just want to live my life. If it happens fine, but if it doesn't, I am still great. Peace of mind is my priority.

yemi1504:


Abi. It has taught women they can eat their cake and have it by hoeing around while being liabilities!

Gamesmart:


It is your lineage that thinks marriage is an "achievement".

That means una be foooools when such is an achievement. In my family, it is merely an event/life stage.

Gamesmart:


And never to be accountable for any of their wrong behaviours or choices; they should always instead transfer accountability to men or society.

Blame "The Patriarchy" for all their failures and incompetence.

pekisdgee:


if i even shagging other girls outside at least i don sow seed for this earth.... but funny enuf i dont shagging other girls

MrBrownJay1:
redpillism has nothing to do with the world we live in today.... what you are experiencing is called EVOLUTION. back in the days, our forefathers needed a wife to cook/clean/take care of the kids etc but now today, we can do all this and dont need you as our forefathers did.... thus the babymama era. things will never be back like before and you may as well accept it. today its ok to either be married and/or be single for the rest of your life....remember, being single doesnt mean that you have no one in your life, it just means that you have no life bond with them.

Okay. But why did you have to quote my monicker alongside that *****?

Hassanmaye:

You mean even if you give a woman your soul and everything she will still not be satisfied?

faithfull18:

Like seriously Apart the money you guys always claiming you provide, what else do you bring to the table.

Even the money self, in today's world, more ladies are more financially stable than the guys.

Say something else please.

Gamesmart:


Cretin, all your posts are cretinous and show your low IQ that is why you can't dig 5 out.

MrBrownJay1:

why would you say that? are you claiming that the majority of married men are not happy in their marriage?!

Osilama1:
your lineage are stupid and idiotic sadist bastard cretin

Olam09:

E
Yea, e be like say your papa just hear the word Cretin

Out of 11 topics one made frontpage and this particular post that made frontpage was about salary, you posted that topic just to salivate on other people's huge income compared to your low salary even though you're working your ass of..

Gamesmart:


Answer the gaddam overarching question and stop beating about the bush:

If marriage is unfavourable to women, why are majority of women craving for it 24/7?

Gamesmart:


Fooool, this is how hard it is for you to show us just 5 of your 1937 posts on NL that you can claim you actually said something that is intelligent?

Magnoliaa:
Redpillism is destroying them. It is a cancer to the society. Ordinary bird, an average man cannot kill anymore. Deth to all alphas and cheers to the restoration of the Matriachy.