godofuck231:
no worry no born male child first then see how you can control your home , women themselves know at a point thats they need a man in their lives , most of the girls into prostitution either had no fathers when growing or their fathers didnt impact on their lives, they hardly have regards for men

The point is that if God gives you one or more boys, be thankful. If not, why stress yourself chasing shadows? Actually, those who are still looking up to God for children would be happy and thankful with any gender should God answer their prayers.

ImaIma1:


In this day and age where men are giving their children their own name as their surname instead of the family name.

You got the point.

Mofun:


The point is that if God gives you one or more boys, be thankful. If not, why stress yourself chasing shadows? Actually, those who are still looking up to God for children would be happy and thankful with any gender should God answer their prayers.

a God father of mine was in the military and gave his sons military orientations , at a point he retired and on a day he had visitors who came by and one of his neighbors was under attack, armed men had taken into his house trough the gateman who stupidly opened up the pedestrian gates , on hearing the crash of dishes in the next compound he opened up his Armoury and handed 2 of his sons shotguns , 1 Keltec KSG tactical and 1 mossberg 590A1 persuader, tactical belts and claw knives , the guests were hysterical and scared shitless, the women and wives of the visitors were worried that he had sent his sons to an untimely death , the nigerian police got to the scene an were confused , the blood and gore was serious , that day the wife made pounded yam like she never had before, she was proud ,while chairman de read newspaper for parlour, guns de ring like music, long thing short I sorry for who enter that kind man house to come steal or kill, having men who are capable and loyal makes a woman no more than a queen .

Continuation of the bloodline is very very vital. Without the male children, the family name seize to exist.

Male children are non negotiable. They are as vital as they come.

godofuck231:
a God father of mine was in the military and gave his sons military orientations , at a point he retired and on a day he had visitors who came by and one of his neighbors was under attack, armed men had taken into his house trough the gateman who stupidly opened up the pedestrian gates , on hearing the crash of dishes in the next compound he opened up his Armoury and handed 2 of his sons shotguns , 1 Keltec KSG tactical and 1 mossberg 590A1 persuader, tactical belts and claw knives , the guests were hysterical and scared shitless, the women and wives of the visitors were worried that he had sent his sons to an untimely death , the nigerian police got to the scene an were confused , the blood and gore was serious , that day the wife made pounded yam like she never had before, she was proud ,while chairman de read newspaper for parlour, guns de ring like music, long thing short I sorry for who enter that kind man house to come steal or kill, having men who are capable and loyal makes a woman no more than a queen .

Sounds fictional!

Mofun:


Sounds fictional!

go try the wrong people and get your facts right ,

I pray to have three kids. All males.

OP, why are you obsessed with stupid questions.

Mofun:
Why are most Nigerian parents obsessed about having male children? Some just keep bearing many children because they're in search of at least a male. There are instances where men even marry extra wives just in order to have male children. Please what's the fuss about?

Because if you dont have a male child you name dissappears! All you work for will go to the hands of another man through your daughters and your name will eventually be erased from history.

Let me stress that I dont agree with that line of thinking but that is the thought process. Even if you have male children they may die or have female children. I think people worry too much about what will happen when they are dead.

Mofun:
Why are most Nigerian parents obsessed about having male children? Some just keep bearing many children because they're in search of at least a male. There are instances where men even marry extra wives just in order to have male children. Please what's the fuss about?

Is all over the world.

Mofun:
Why are most Nigerian parents obsessed about having male children? Some just keep bearing many children because they're in search of at least a male. There are instances where men even marry extra wives just in order to have male children. Please what's the fuss about?

Seek first the Children of Male then every other female can be added unto thee.

Mofun:


The point is that if God gives you one or more boys, be thankful. If not, why stress yourself chasing shadows? Actually, those who are still looking up to God for children would be happy and thankful with any gender should God answer their prayers.

Even the idea of “God” Is a man, for you to see how important male is. In the Bible if not for Adam loneliness there won’t be eve.. so god saw women as a want not a need.

Hmmmm!
Just imagine the reason people are given....lineage and bloodline. Wow!

Funny...those males are wicked oooo. Dem no dey send parent. I trust myself, na female a dey relate with. They take care of their parents very well.

See mumu Nigerians. They think about lineage....lol. do they know what will happen happen they are dead? Very useless way of thinking. As for me, I will live this life once. After it, we can only wait for judgement. Nothing concern me and the world again after God calls me. Lineage my foot.

You see them with 3 girls...they arent contented...they want more. What beats my imagination is that women are the ones forcing their husband after 3 girls. Wow! Before, they claim men are wicked. Now, they are the ones doing it. Just adding to the population like rabbits.

Nigerians with old mentality. I wonder when they are gone, will they still know what happens afterwards with the children?

Their claim is always about continuity in lineage which does not make any sense.

Mofun:
Why are most Nigerian parents obsessed about having male children? Some just keep bearing many children because they're in search of at least a male. There are instances where men even marry extra wives just in order to have male children. Please what's the fuss about?

Use Ukraine as a case study. The women are abondoning their homeland and fleeing to more comfortable places while the men are laying down their lives for their country.

Now you know why people are obsessed with male children.

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A pity since Nigerian men useless

To continue with the family's name...it's like a do or die affair for many families.

godofuck231:
Blood lines , its the task of a man to have a son in any way possible to continue his blood line , this very reason is why the uk needs caregivers who are migrants because the old are either homeless or abandoned , men are aware of the responsibilities in society and God has blessed them with strength to labour and provide for the family, even you his wives aged parents he's expected to function in time of need ,the war in ukrain would have been a walk trough if there were no men to fight and defend the countrys interest, think of that for a start

Blood line? Ok
But for issue of caregiver in the UK doesn't come into this. There is no relationship between having a male son and caregiver in any where in the world. Record even show that female folks do care for their parents more than their male folks. Bringing Ukraine here is quite odd.

It is our culture and is to retain the family lineage. Just a matter of decades, it will change as it is in Western world. From Clinton, Bush, Obama, all never had a male son and they don't give a damn

Reading..

Cuz the females are becoming Oloshos at the end of the day

Too rampant in our society now

Mofun:
Why are most Nigerian parents obsessed about having male children? Some just keep bearing many children because they're in search of at least a male. There are instances where men even marry extra wives just in order to have male children. Please what's the fuss about?

People having such a mentality ain't wise enough

our culture made it so....in other cultures, they value any gender, so long its a child. so as nigerians, we have deem it fit to have a continuity of our generations through the male offspring.

Most?!! In this present age and time??!! I doubt it.

ImaIma1:


In this day and age where men are giving their children their own name as their surname instead of the family name.

Can you name your female child 'Okoro', if Okoro was to be your first name or the ancestral name?

MEN, very important and endangered species

If not that they have commoned themselves and tainted their hearts, people would only want men

Have you not noticed how women want to be feminist so bad just to be on an edge with men until of course its time to do whats demanding.

Mofun:
Why are most Nigerian parents obsessed about having male children? Some just keep bearing many children because they're in search of at least a male. There are instances where men even marry extra wives just in order to have male children. Please what's the fuss about?

How does this sound to you.

A. Your son is fuckin girls up and down all over the estate

B. They are fuckin your daughter up and down in the estate


One you will hear it and smile inside
One you will hear it and cry inside



Choose ur answer


Say no to Bola Tinubu

Who won born olosho

The same way male child is important in a family to continue with the family name is the same way they are important in a country,see Ukraine for example imagine they have few men

They don't want their family name to die