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Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by Wakins(m): 1:00am On Mar 31, 2022 |
You have time to cook o, i will just find fast food joint and do my thing 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by godofuck231: 1:44am On Mar 31, 2022 |
Just for once you have been in the shoes of a woman and you take disciplinary judgment against your wife so quick as pan, have you seen it from the angle that she could be pregnant, woman became terribly crazy when pregnant, or on her period, Or at least show your management skills in handling your home and cooking for one night , more a week , and get up in the morning and greet her good morning love and see how her conscience stirs , The samurai as fierce as they were were obliged as to some house chores as a relief of their everyday life as feudal lords and warlords, they were involved in literature , acting performance, tea ceremonies and crafts , Dont see this as an insult , move on and be at peace 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by wallarwallar(m): 2:37am On Mar 31, 2022 |
Na man u be 3 gbosa 4 u bt u go soon scatter ur home and u go also run come nairaland 4 advice. Jst one night she said she dey tire na hin u act like buhari like dis. Continue ..... All dose wey dey hail u are all single boys wey no get exprience and if u ask dem abt dere papa and mama na mute den go dey.. Alaye sometime u act as if it does not matter bt wen it become normal u can react in a mature way dat will make ur wife realise her mistake bt nt d one that wud result to confrontation.. In marriage we learn till we die on daily basis no be small thing bro. PEACE 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by Elporo(m): 4:35am On Mar 31, 2022 |
Animegirl: She can start divorce proceedings. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by bigcee(m): 4:44am On Mar 31, 2022 |
Animegirl:I am not surprised that you didn't condemn the rubbish the wife did. Na toto una dey take think ![]() 18 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by bigcee(m): 4:53am On Mar 31, 2022 |
motymop:Oga, did you read the part where the wife was shouting at him that she can't cook, she said she ain't eating. I'll gladly cook for the family anytime my wife is down. But in this case the woman needs to be disciplined and I love what the op did. 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by bigcee(m): 4:55am On Mar 31, 2022 |
Techsupport:Are you trying to advice the op or insult him. Wtf is "poverty alleviation marriages?". Na wa o! 4 Likes 1 Share
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Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by Mercury12(m): 5:07am On Mar 31, 2022 |
yinkaOdutuyo: Sometime some people gotta learn the hard way to make changes in their life. So you did the logical and the right thing. . . I would do same Las las, husband and wife matter Una go settle am but let her know some rules and boundaries pls so this won't happen again 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by Mercury12(m): 5:18am On Mar 31, 2022 |
Iyaebe: You talk too fast. Sex is the cheapest thing these days and most time men can even choose to get it without paying for it. .. Don't make that move. It is a wrong move. I believe in marriage everyone should play their roles. Simple as ABC 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by Contekbbc: 5:55am On Mar 31, 2022 |
yinkaOdutuyo: @ Op I thought you asked for people's opinion on what you wrote up there, Why fighting anyone that tells you the right thing to do If you didn't need opinion,you can easily delete those things and forget this shit. Why will you deny your woman food because she didn't partake in the cooking. How will you feel,if she tells you the same . Has she not been cooking all these while? But seriously,some women deserve people like you. Is this a marriage or contract? Are you even a Man? May my children never see or meet your kind IJMN 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by DaInferno(m): 6:30am On Mar 31, 2022 |
Try make you dey compassionate and exercise empathy at times. If she us not feeling well, cook and feed her, stop all these beige it gets out of hand. Nothing bad like sey you starve person, worse, your own wife. C'mon, yall 16? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by Blunttruth: 6:34am On Mar 31, 2022 |
yinkaOdutuyo:For you to be coming here to ask shows that your conscience tells you, you did wrong. I guess you don't have kids yet. The best way to punish her was to allow her eat after eating then you can talk to her. If she is not feeling fine get her drugs to take. Then watch what will happen. I believe she will be too ashamed of herself to try it. In marriage you take care of eachother. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by spice123(m): 6:34am On Mar 31, 2022 |
yinkaOdutuyo:All the people here praising you for your actions are not married. Even if they are, they do not understand what marriage is. You and your wife are one flesh. How can you be hurting yourself? You promised to love and take care of your wife and you really showed it (in the negative). This is all shades of wrong my brother. Love wins in all situation. Now, what if you guys go to bed and you did not wake up (God forbid). What will you tell your maker? 4 Likes |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by yinkaOdutuyo: 6:37am On Mar 31, 2022 |
siofra: To all moniker saying have I ever helped her before this is for you below: BTW I have cooked many times in the house, there are times she'll go to work before she comes back I'll have prepare good foods, that will atimes takes me 2 or more hours to prepare and she'll come back and eat and smile and say thank you. I use to get home between 5pm and 6pm latest, while she'll be coming home by 7pm, 8pm or latter. At times the two of us may be at home and I'll be the only one cooking, while she'll just lie down watching films or doing another thing while I do the while cooking. I think I have being helpful to her in cooking and other chores in the house. There are many times I'll be the one washing all the clothes in the house, while she's sleeping or doing something else. I literally do almost 80% of everything in the house if not more than. But me doing all those doesn't mean am a fool or I don't know what am doing. Bit I think as a man you have to man up. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by yinkaOdutuyo: 6:38am On Mar 31, 2022 |
Techsupport: To all moniker saying have I ever helped her before this is for you below: BTW I have cooked many times in the house, there are times she'll go to work before she comes back I'll have prepare good foods, that will atimes takes me 2 or more hours to prepare and she'll come back and eat and smile and say thank you. I use to get home between 5pm and 6pm latest, while she'll be coming home by 7pm, 8pm or latter. At times the two of us may be at home and I'll be the only one cooking, while she'll just lie down watching films or doing another thing while I do the while cooking. I think I have being helpful to her in cooking and other chores in the house. There are many times I'll be the one washing all the clothes in the house, while she's sleeping or doing something else. I literally do almost 80% of everything in the house if not more than. But me doing all those doesn't mean am a fool or I don't know what am doing. Bit I think as a man you have to man up. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by yinkaOdutuyo: 6:38am On Mar 31, 2022 |
LordIsaac: To all moniker saying have I ever helped her before this is for you below: BTW I have cooked many times in the house, there are times she'll go to work before she comes back I'll have prepare good foods, that will atimes takes me 2 or more hours to prepare and she'll come back and eat and smile and say thank you. I use to get home between 5pm and 6pm latest, while she'll be coming home by 7pm, 8pm or latter. At times the two of us may be at home and I'll be the only one cooking, while she'll just lie down watching films or doing another thing while I do the while cooking. I think I have being helpful to her in cooking and other chores in the house. There are many times I'll be the one washing all the clothes in the house, while she's sleeping or doing something else. I literally do almost 80% of everything in the house if not more than. But me doing all those doesn't mean am a fool or I don't know what am doing. Bit I think as a man you have to man up. 2 Likes |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by yinkaOdutuyo: 6:38am On Mar 31, 2022 |
Animegirl: To all moniker saying have I ever helped her before this is for you below: BTW I have cooked many times in the house, there are times she'll go to work before she comes back I'll have prepare good foods, that will atimes takes me 2 or more hours to prepare and she'll come back and eat and smile and say thank you. I use to get home between 5pm and 6pm latest, while she'll be coming home by 7pm, 8pm or latter. At times the two of us may be at home and I'll be the only one cooking, while she'll just lie down watching films or doing another thing while I do the while cooking. I think I have being helpful to her in cooking and other chores in the house. There are many times I'll be the one washing all the clothes in the house, while she's sleeping or doing something else. I literally do almost 80% of everything in the house if not more than. But me doing all those doesn't mean am a fool or I don't know what am doing. Bit I think as a man you have to man up. 2 Likes |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by yinkaOdutuyo: 6:39am On Mar 31, 2022 |
motymop: To all moniker saying have I ever helped her before this is for you below: BTW I have cooked many times in the house, there are times she'll go to work before she comes back I'll have prepare good foods, that will atimes takes me 2 or more hours to prepare and she'll come back and eat and smile and say thank you. I use to get home between 5pm and 6pm latest, while she'll be coming home by 7pm, 8pm or latter. At times the two of us may be at home and I'll be the only one cooking, while she'll just lie down watching films or doing another thing while I do the while cooking. I think I have being helpful to her in cooking and other chores in the house. There are many times I'll be the one washing all the clothes in the house, while she's sleeping or doing something else. I literally do almost 80% of everything in the house if not more than. But me doing all those doesn't mean am a fool or I don't know what am doing. Bit I think as a man you have to man up. 1 Like |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by yinkaOdutuyo: 6:40am On Mar 31, 2022 |
criuze: To all moniker saying have I ever helped her before this is for you below: BTW I have cooked many times in the house, there are times she'll go to work before she comes back I'll have prepare good foods, that will atimes takes me 2 or more hours to prepare and she'll come back and eat and smile and say thank you. I use to get home between 5pm and 6pm latest, while she'll be coming home by 7pm, 8pm or latter. At times the two of us may be at home and I'll be the only one cooking, while she'll just lie down watching films or doing another thing while I do the while cooking. I think I have being helpful to her in cooking and other chores in the house. There are many times I'll be the one washing all the clothes in the house, while she's sleeping or doing something else. I literally do almost 80% of everything in the house if not more than. But me doing all those doesn't mean am a fool or I don't know what am doing. Bit I think as a man you have to man up. 1 Like |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by LordIsaac(m): 6:59am On Mar 31, 2022 |
yinkaOdutuyo:You are correct. It's just that what if she decides to revenge? I'm just concerned about the circle of things. I hope she loves you enough not to want to harm you. That's why I said you should get ready. 3 Likes |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by criuze(m): 7:05am On Mar 31, 2022 |
360degreess: We all gotta be sort of simps when you ask a woman's hand in marriage You rather be a simp if being alpha male will send your marriage down the drainage Let's watch how new generations ruin their marriages trying to prove gender dominace The old people said you marry a wife with one eye closed I hope they're all simps because they've made lasting families than the non simps of today 2 Likes |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by criuze(m): 7:07am On Mar 31, 2022 |
yinkaOdutuyo: You are trying anyway I equally encourage you find a house help Maybe a little girl from a village |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by Cutehector(m): 7:11am On Mar 31, 2022 |
Marriage na your mate? ![]() I so much value peace of mind a whole lot and i wish a woman can understand that and not make it any harder for me. If i am not disposed to call, let her understand that she has to reach out to me to know whats up rather than nagging as to why i havent called her. Is this too much to ask for? 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by zexy2030(m): 7:17am On Mar 31, 2022 |
siofra:You r mad. |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by my3name(m): 7:20am On Mar 31, 2022 |
Techsupport:Mumu ![]() ![]() Shebi you no read the other part of the story |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by yinkaOdutuyo: 7:22am On Mar 31, 2022 |
LordIsaac: Revenge like hold her virginal and say noe sex? Sex is the cheapest to get in Nigeria or even free. Or she'll stop cooking in the house, then she'll never eat again in the house. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by zexy2030(m): 7:26am On Mar 31, 2022 |
yinkaOdutuyo:The reason you came here to enquire is showing the depth of love you have for ur wife and u r doing everything to make her happy but I see something.. I see 1. She is major provider in that home. 2. She has seen how lovely you have been as husband and you are petty. 3. She is in control of the home, I don't how actually, perhaps because of her contributions. 4. She is sending a rude message to go and pay her bride price, if not done. 5. She has heard a rumour that informed her behaviour. 6. Lastly, she is doing that because she has started comparing. You have done well. No harm in what you have done. She is not pregnant, she is not physically disabled, just headache and couldn't finish up cooking. She is provoking the demon of violence in you. What to do, just forgive and move on, women are tempters..if no be for woman, adam for no taste the forbidden fruit. Well, I see nothing 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by LordIsaac(m): 7:27am On Mar 31, 2022 |
yinkaOdutuyo:All of the above and more inclusive. So, where does this leave the poor soul? It is not easy to pull down your home over unfinished cooking. The mistake was how he handled her from the beginning. I'm afraid she's losing respect for him. 1 Like |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by EmzyT: 7:27am On Mar 31, 2022 |
[s] siofra:[/s] Senseless attention seeking Clown! 3 Likes
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Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by Dickson178(m): 7:29am On Mar 31, 2022 |
Try to talk to her , please don't treat her as a slave. Well I don't know how harsh you're. But try talk to her , cus the children are watching, STOP TREATING HER LIKE A SLAVE!
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Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 7:46am On Mar 31, 2022 |
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