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Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by freemi(m): 8:45am On Mar 31, 2022 |
siofra:children full here o |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by almarthins(m): 8:45am On Mar 31, 2022 |
yinkaOdutuyo: If no be say I respect u as a man, I for call you "house boy". She is now exploiting Ur kindness and patience as weakness. Na so women just dey, if u give dem small space, them go control u, manipulate and ditch u in d end. You have not done bad at all. Omo declare Ur place as d man of the house, if you re the breadwinner but if u r not. No take my advice at all, just dey manage am dey go like that. 2 Likes |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by Therealjosh1992: 8:46am On Mar 31, 2022 |
yinkaOdutuyo:Gosh!..see the likes, how more toxic can we be as a people, that your wife doesn't feel strong to cook is too much for you to understand.and that's a marriage you both enjoy?.. well well |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by Born2Breed(f): 8:46am On Mar 31, 2022 |
yinkaOdutuyo: @d bolded. Osenobula!!! My sister you dey try oh!!! ![]() |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by Kingjay5(m): 8:47am On Mar 31, 2022 |
siofra: I pity the man that will end up with you. SMH 1 Like |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by Olumaeme: 8:47am On Mar 31, 2022 |
You are very wrong. You don't behave that way, she's your wife! |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by bizgenera: 8:47am On Mar 31, 2022 |
Take her to MFM, let them cast out the evil spirit of wickedness out of her. No godly and well brought up lady would put a man through tough times at this troubling times. Most times, no be me ordinary. 1 Like |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by zakkxx: 8:48am On Mar 31, 2022 |
Sir you acted very foolish, go and apologise! The food you have been eating since, who de cook am? Once a while treat your wife like a Queen! You loose the opportunity to be romantic to her! Is not fair! She told u she was sick and tired! This is one of the reasons men die before their time! The next time she cook u will carry your big head to come to that same table to eat shamelessly. Go and beg her!! If she want to kill you slowly she will do it! And no body will know!! |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by zuraking(m): 8:48am On Mar 31, 2022 |
yinkaOdutuyo:mumu man, ladies don't deserve all that treatment, they will turn u to swegbe if they have the power. |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by Dozieson(m): 8:48am On Mar 31, 2022 |
You did very Right. I will do worse |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by emmanuelbrown26: 8:48am On Mar 31, 2022 |
Blunttruth:Another follish comment |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by nrexzy: 8:48am On Mar 31, 2022 |
Looool... Nah drama queen ... For ur sanity to remain, call her to order .. na ur wife no b gf.. if na gf I go say make she bawl |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by Awise09(m): 8:49am On Mar 31, 2022 |
yinkaOdutuyo:I don't think she means that now eh! |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by Kuriosmynd: 8:49am On Mar 31, 2022 |
Ausmos: Lol..Man wake up!! This is theoretical definition and approach to love. . Stop kidding yourself man, if you follow this idealistic definition of love, and apply it with while living with the so called disrespectful, entitled and feministic belligerent wives of today, sufferhead and frustration will kill you. Any man still defininig love as above is dead already with the crop of ladies around. . You have to be firm, firm and take NO for NO. Otherwise she will turn u to doormat in the guise of love. May u wise up. Love has changed, it's now a game of power. If u like listen. |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by SocialJustice: 8:49am On Mar 31, 2022 |
yinkaOdutuyo:Why did you start what you can't finish? Are you tired of pretending that you are domesticated? Guys who truly like domestic work won't mind the stunts your wife is pulling. They even prefer eating their own food, bathing the kids and keeping the house clean by themselves. The woman told you she was having headache, you didn't even show any concern. All you cared about was to enforce your power as a man. I don't care if she was faking. Under no circumstance do you deny any human under your care food. What were you trying to achieve by starving her? Is this how you will starve your children food too? Go and apologise to your wife and have a meeting where you set boundaries and consequences for exceeding such boundaries. 2 Likes |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by Carcholce: 8:49am On Mar 31, 2022 |
We4all: Haha. I thought as much. The switch up is very glary. He knows he cannot take that bullshit from a woman. |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by jkuvira: 8:50am On Mar 31, 2022 |
[quote author=yinkaOdutuyo post=111514356][/quote] Were you wrong? Absolutely not. The only thing you did wrong was trying to be a good husband in the home, helping out with the kitchen. And I wouldn't say you were wrong in helping out in the home, it's just too bad she's mistaking your being nice for something else. Even if you know the way around the kitchen more than she does, that doesn't mean it is your kitchen. It's her kitchen, not yours. Now, to her actions. If it was that she was truly tired and needed a break, you sure wouldn't be there watching a movie and even hav the strength to search for BT Audio. She clearly just didn't want to cook. It's best if you relegate her duties back to her and you just do yours. At least until she gets her acts back. What she needs right now is just a husband, not one who assists her with her duties cause she's taking it for granted. |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by PrinceOfLagos: 8:50am On Mar 31, 2022 |
siofra:You deserve all the curses you getting on this thread |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by sisisioge: 8:50am On Mar 31, 2022 |
Childish husband and wife ![]() ![]() The story is funny though....nollywood couple. 1 Like |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by RPG2020(m): 8:50am On Mar 31, 2022 |
siofra: Your husband don enter one chance if he nor get work na pepper �️ you go dey used rob his face ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by nerus419(m): 8:51am On Mar 31, 2022 |
LordIsaac: |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by nattyGENT: 8:51am On Mar 31, 2022 |
Mumu lazy girls rushing to marry to be counted among married people without knowing there's a price. |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by inioluwaDaniels(m): 8:51am On Mar 31, 2022 |
U did wrong oga so wat point av u made by starving her all night. Next tym allow her and let her conscience be judging her. Also stop acting like a houseboy in ur own home. Eat out if she won't cook and if it persist get a side chick dat can be cooling ur nerves from d drama u n ur wife dey act |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by Lizzydonnah(f): 8:52am On Mar 31, 2022 |
Contekbbc: Amen o, I claim it in Jesus name 1 Like |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by emifunrami: 8:52am On Mar 31, 2022 |
I believe you missed a golden opportunity to teach your wife what true love means. Love forebears, is kind, is gracious and doesn't repay evil with evil. Being a man is about setting godly examples. Making sacrifices doesn't make you a fool especially when it's a one off issue. You should have even taken the food to her in bed and laugh over it later. That is the right Spirit of love. Be blessed. |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by Nobody: 8:52am On Mar 31, 2022 |
Iyaebe:Your own gender can brutalize person organ if bn cheated on |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by frozen70(f): 8:52am On Mar 31, 2022 |
yinkaOdutuyo: You have tried You spoilt her from day one and now you want to put things right She will resist all attempts from you at the initial time and over time she will accept her role as a wife By the time you guys start having children, make sure she nurses the baby herself with just little help from you if not you will become a baby sitter Some women don't know how to preserve good men like you who are handy men 1 Like |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by ashjay001(m): 8:52am On Mar 31, 2022 |
yinkaOdutuyo: Na so women be. Very entitled beings. Once you act responsible like this, they turn it to work. You go cope nooni, cos she will repeat it. Na their way. Just move in from it, hopefully she will learn from it too |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by Nemesis08(m): 8:52am On Mar 31, 2022 |
This is the disadvantage of showing a woman you can cook, she obviously knew this and bluntly refused to cook. you did the right thing, ifna me further sanctions will follow. Nonsense |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by sosowater: 8:53am On Mar 31, 2022 |
Iyaebe: Denying a man sex isn't the best solution. He will get it outside from different ladies if he wishes to be flirty. The woman will lose out because the man will get it outside if he wants and in some cases, the end is always a new mistress, chronic cheating, a new baby outside, and maybe a new marriage. All they need is dialogue and understanding. |
Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by emmanuelbrown26: 8:53am On Mar 31, 2022 |
yinkaOdutuyo:U are a true son of your father and a typical African man The earlier u put a woman where she belongs d better for your health and sanity. I hv a brother that's in similar situation all bcs d wife took brother's gentility as stupidity
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Re: I Denied My Wife Food This Night, Are My Right Or Wrong. by almarthins(m): 8:53am On Mar 31, 2022 |
Animegirl: How can she be pretending ? What is not good is not good. If I were the man, I go stand my ground. It is not d duty of a man to cook |
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