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Re: I Am In A Dilemma, Please Help! by 21sailor: 2:35pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Depends on your uncle's character. Hope he doesn't change after sometime, Any where you're learning work and they're feeding you and paying you, Trust me it won't last. If Na me I go stay for Onitsha! I'm trying not to be tribalistic here but ur uncle go suffer u lass lass. |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma, Please Help! by Odin13: 2:35pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Op anybody telling you to come to Abuja Na scammer walahi.. If you’re uncle no Dey stay for town .. forget am Hustle for onitsha .. you go raise capital times 2 of what you will make in Abuja for two years under 6 months .. No Dey underate Otu.. nwanne... 2 Likes |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma, Please Help! by jeff1607(m): 2:36pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
onlyson16: So you had the time to check on his old posts so you can spew it back at him , na wa |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma, Please Help! by Kingoslo(m): 2:36pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Which delima... brother Onitsha is calling |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma, Please Help! by Fatbam003: 2:37pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Hope say your uncle no be the type way go promise heaven and earth and later disappoint, is your uncle married? To what type of woman? Baba look before you leap 1 Like |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma, Please Help! by AmgMakanaki(m): 2:38pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Lastpharoah33: Hahahahaha. But those post never reach 8 month Na... Oga you’re always in dilemma |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma, Please Help! by julybaba(m): 2:38pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Winneygirl:You hit the nail on its head. |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma, Please Help! by Dada4me: 2:38pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Run to Abuja, that work will settle you. But pray to your God for guidance. |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma, Please Help! by Ofadaman(m): 2:38pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Go with your uncle learn a trade, dedicate time to learning and being a man. Once you're good, you can set up your own shop and be a boss. Don't fall for the 35k salary scam. 35k salary can not even make you through the month. You can't save more than 5k monthly and how many years would it take you to make up to 150k? With the level of inflation in the country, that's if you don't lose the job before then. This isn't a dilenma , the best option is clear and that's staying with ur u learn to learn a trade 1 Like |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma, Please Help! by Freemasonry: 2:39pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Bros your uncle is offering you a life-changing opportunity. All you have to do is go there, pay attention and master every skill in the craft and the actual business. Then reach deep into your soul and bring out the creative genius in you. Use it to create designs that people will love. And when you eventually start, do your best to deliver jobs on time. Make it your goal to under-promise but over-deliver... you'll win your customer's loyalty and respect. Come back and share your testimony. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma, Please Help! by Heterodox(m): 2:45pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
You can't live on promises. |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma, Please Help! by gracealonev: 2:45pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Wonderz1:True. The skill is important. Infact, most welders I have around my location live in their own houses. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma, Please Help! by aklion: 2:46pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Stay in onisha. Work. Earn n safe up. Start your biz n own yours. You can learn your uncle kind of work somewhere else. Mustn't be with him. My point be your own man. Earn your respect. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma, Please Help! by Evidenx(m): 2:47pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
My friend go to abuja and learn work and thank me later. Note:If only your uncle is a good man and the wife likes you. |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma, Please Help! by oodua1stson: 2:48pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Lastpharoah33:if I were you I would take the opportunity to learn that skill from that uncle. It's a new city, new experience. Try it. And if things did not go well with you there ( which I doubt) you can still go back to your mom's business 1 Like |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma, Please Help! by Lastpharoah33: 2:48pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Ofadaman: Okay |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma, Please Help! by drLammy(m): 2:50pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Go with your uncle option I live in Abuja and I know how lucrative that metal fabrication is. Considering the fact he's even still planning to set you up after the whole apprenticeship. Don't be deceived 100k or so you plan to save from that 35k salary is not feasible and it's not even a lot of money in this present Nigeria. I hope you'll follow this , and also trust your gut feeling on wherever it's directing you. I wish you all the best in your final choice. 1 Like |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma, Please Help! by Lastpharoah33: 2:51pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Fatbam003: He is well grounded, he's married too. According to him, I won't be living in the family house. That I can stay at the factory, that is if I want. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma, Please Help! by Aaaaarghmed(m): 2:51pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Learn from your uncle,if you travel out with that skill to places like Qatar or any good country in need of welding skills.people will think you did money ritual.forget salary causal work.i speak from experience as the experience master 2 Likes |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma, Please Help! by MrQuadri: 2:52pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Lastpharoah33:I will advice sticking with your uncle since he promise to teach you the basics. Never underestimate the importance of knowledge. |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma, Please Help! by purpleicious(f): 2:54pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
My dear, go with your 35k work, and start your business. 1 Like |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma, Please Help! by my3name(m): 2:55pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Lastpharoah33:Bro I will advice you to go stay with your uncle and learn that work,it's a good hand work You won't regret rather than working in a place they might own you for months If you even need connect when you come abj you hala me na we dey run the town |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma, Please Help! by ibechris(m): 2:56pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
If ur uncle's business is in Abuja like u mentioned earlier,pls join him and see how your life will change. Crafts men are making it in this town seriously. Believe this and rethink your future. |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma, Please Help! by Lastpharoah33: 2:57pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Winneygirl: Noted. |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma, Please Help! by Cleanworld(f): 2:57pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Lastpharoah33: Okay here is my a little advice. 1st, Learning the welding trade will guarantee your future as the business is booming in Abuja and any other place you will find yourself i n future 2nd, While in Abuja it won't take you 6 month to come up with N150k and with this money you can send to your mum to contiune with her trade. (you can agrre for mum to be sending you some stipend from time to time). 3. The breweries job is for someone that doesn't have any other option and when making decision think of long time achievement . If you can endure whatever you will face in Abuja as a starter , you will have God to praise later in life. Take care and choose wisely. 1 Like |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma, Please Help! by emmatuegbe(m): 3:00pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Compare what your mum has achieved and acquired with the proceeds of her business in the last five years, and compare what your uncle has achieved and acquired also in the last five years. The answer you get will guide your quest. Also, note that every body doing a particular business and succeeding has grace for such. Know where your grace lies. Not because Mr. A is succeeding in poultry business means Mr. B will also succeed in same poultry business if he ventures into it. It will be foolish for fowl to imitate the dock when they go near water (african parable). Be guided 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma, Please Help! by Lastpharoah33: 3:02pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
julybaba: That I can understand, we are all humans after all. |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma, Please Help! by ajayiopy: 3:03pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Lastpharoah33:IF YOU WANT TO LEARN WELDING,LEARN DIFFERENT TYPES OF WELDING. WELDING OF BIG STRUCTURES LIKE WATER AND OIL STORAGE TANKS . UNDERGROUND TANKS AND LEARN SOME FUNDAMENTAL OF CORROSION. IF YOU CAN CAN GO TO THE FEDERAL UNIVERSITY EFURUN IN DELTA. TRY TO ENROL THERE AND YOU WILL NEVER REGRET IT |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma, Please Help! by frozen70(f): 3:03pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Lastpharoah33: Forget about your uncle offer, it doesn't always end well as family matters Save and join your mum business and be your own boss |
Re: I Am In A Dilemma, Please Help! by ThinkSmarter: 3:07pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
Go for the skill, and it will pay u in the longrun.
it will serve as option b when biz fails and u will still teach others. |
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