In Many Religions and Cultures, According To The Standards of The Society; The essence of Marriage is to Marry A Woman as A Virgin.


The Virginity of A Woman is Why Her Dowry Should Be Paid in The First Place for Marriage.



However; Nowadays; We have Men paying for Dowries for Women who were not Virgins when They Met Them.



This is a Societal Decay that has corrupted God's Purpose of Marriage for Humanity.



Today, we have women putting on white gowns during their White Weddings in Churches to Symbolize that They Are Still Virgins after they must have Defiled Their Bodies which is Supposed to Be The Temple of God Almighty.






This is the Biggest reason we have many broken marriages in The World Today.



Many Marriages were established on Poor Foundations.









If you want to succeed in Life as A Man; Ensure Your Foundation is Not Faulty.



For If The Foundation is Faulty, What can the Righteous Do ?

marriage today has absolutely NOTHING to do with marriage back in the days....its called EVOLUTION!!!!
in the past, YES, all this nonsense about virginity mattered a lot, but today people rightfully dont give a fukc. the essence of marriage TO MANY TODAY, is just to legally have a family together.

MrBrownJay1:
marriage today has absolutely NOTHING to do with marriage back in the days....its called EVOLUTION!!!!
in the past, YES, all this nonsense about virginity mattered a lot, but today people rightfully dont give a fukc. the essence of marriage TO MANY TODAY, is just to legally have a family together.

You are right.


And this is the reason for the High Level of Crashes and Disapointments in Marriages Today.


The Real Truth is that The Foundation and Premise for which Marriages should be Established have been Crippled by People who Go Ahead Marrying Themselves UNRIGHTEOUSLY.

AfroAgroPower:
You are right.
And this is the reason for the High Level of Crashes and Disapointments in Marriages Today.
The Real Truth is that The Foundation and Premise for which Marriages should be Established have been Crippled by People who Go Ahead Marrying Themselves UNRIGHTEOUSLY.

i highly doubt that... today much more marriages are crashing because A) people today no longer need/desire to suffer silently in marital bondage (like our forefathers did), B) because walking away is easy today as more women are independent and can take care of their own self, C) because divorced women can easily get their sexy nyansh back on the market and find another man to marry them... but most importantly D) because people no longer care about religion today, thus divorce is a not looked down upon and instead is viewed as a positive solution to a failed marriage.

MrBrownJay1:


i highly doubt that... today much more marriages are crashing because A) people today no longer need/desire to suffer silently in marital bondage (like our forefathers did), B) because walking away is easy today as more women are independent and can take care of their own self, C) because divorced women can easily get their sexy nyansh back on the market and find another man to marry them... but most importantly D) because people no longer care about religion today, thus divorce is a not looked down upon and instead is viewed as a positive solution to a failed marriage.

You are extremely Right about all that you have written.

However, these all still stems from The Fact that The Foundation of Many Marriages have been Faulty from The Beginning.


People are Completely IGNORANT of the Purpose and Essence of Marriages according To The Principles of God Almighty.



Marriages are supposed to be Forever Enjoyable and Not Enduring because Men and Wombmen are supposed to be HELPERS of Each Other Bounded Under The Covenant of The Virginity of The Wombmen.



This is a Spiritual Enlightenment Sensitive Sensitization which I'm Revealing to you and many others who will be reading this thread.



Marriages are Supposed to Be Sacred Unions Established on The Covenant of Sacred Sex between Husbands and Wives.





Many Marriages established on The Right Bedrock don't Fail and Many Lasts Very Longer.

AfroAgroPower:
You are extremely Right about all that you have written.
However, these all still stems from The Fact that The Foundation of Many Marriages have been Faulty from The Beginning.
People are Completely IGNORANT of the Purpose and Essence of Marriages according To The Principles of God Almighty.
Marriages are supposed to be Forever Enjoyable and Not Enduring because Men and Wombmen are supposed to be HELPERS of Each Other Bounded Under The Covenant of The Virginity of The Wombmen.
This is a Spiritual Enlightenment Sensitive Sensitization which I'm Revealing to you and many others who will be reading this thread.
Marriages are Supposed to Be Sacred Unions Established on The Covenant of Sacred Sex between Husbands and Wives.
Many Marriages established on The Right Bedrock don't Fail and Many Lasts Very Longer.

- have you ever thought that maybe, just maybe, it has all to do with people realizing that religion is a sham?!
- have you ever thought that maybe, just maybe, it has all to do with people realizing that they dont need religion to have a fantastic life?
- have you ever thought that maybe, just maybe, it has all to do with people realizing that the essence of marriage DOES NOT lie in religious scriptures?
- have you ever thought that maybe, just maybe, it has all to do with people understanding that a marriage can end, and there is nothing wrong with divorce, rather than live in bondage and be miserable for the rest of their natural life?

here is a simple clue for you: RESPECT should be whats important in marriage. respect of your spouse but most importantly, respect of the marriage bond itself, and there is nothing more respectful than to accept that your marriage is not working and walking away from this failed marriage....staying married in a failed marriage is not only wrong, its a sin!

MrBrownJay1:


- have you ever thought that maybe, just maybe, it has all to do with people realizing that religion is a sham?!
- have you ever thought that maybe, just maybe, it has all to do with people realizing that they dont need religion to have a fantastic life?
- have you ever thought that maybe, just maybe, it has all to do with people realizing that the essence of marriage DOES NOT lie in religious scriptures?
- have you ever thought that maybe, just maybe, it has all to do with people understanding that a marriage can end, and there is nothing wrong with divorce, rather than live in bondage and be miserable for the rest of their natural life?

here is a simple clue for you: RESPECT should be whats important in marriage. respect of your spouse but most importantly, respect of the marriage bond itself, and there is nothing more respectful than to accept that your marriage is not working and walking away from this failed marriage....staying married in a failed marriage is not only wrong, its a sin!

Again, You are very Right with All That You have written.


And when I mean "All", I mean " All".



The Essence of Marriage is To Be Fruitful not just in Child Bearing.

Men and Women are supposed to be Helpers of Each other in Marriages.

But; In Today's World; Marriages Shamble because The Foundation is Mostly Faulty.


You will bear more with a Woman that You Disflowered Yourself.



Women still adores Marriages.

Men still do.


They All want it with The Right Persons. At least this will always remain The Highest Sexual Crave for Men and Women.


Even Pornstars and Sexual Hookers Crave for Marriages with The Right Partner that will Understand Them.



Marriage is The Oldest Institution between Man and Woman. Hence, The Innermost Desire of Everyone Who want to get Married is To Have And Enjoy Successful Marriages.


Nobody wants to Fail or plans to Fail when setting out to get married.

People don't want to be seen as a FAILURE when it has to do with Marriages.




However; Many Marriages Still End Up Failing Leading To Growing A Failed System of Families leading to a FAILED Community and Country in The Long Run.





My Point here is that The Biggest Problems of The World Stems from WASTED Sex and FAILED Marriages.





Do you have a broader view of my perspective now ?

AfroAgroPower:
The Essence of Marriage is To Be Fruitful not just in Child Bearing.

i fully understand what you are saying, but you are so far fixated in your religious ways, that you wouldnt understand that some people out there may be non religious, have different views and still be happily married... just like some god fearing religious people could be miserable in marriage and have failed marriages.

Men and Women are supposed to be Helpers of Each other in Marriages.
But; In Today's World; Marriages Shamble because The Foundation is Mostly Faulty

have you ever considered that the faulty foundation may be due to religious brainwashing which expect people to be a certain way while they aint?! many religious people out there aint got what it takes to be good husbands/fathers etc, but regardless of that, they will gladly go and marry a woman and then fail in marriage, simply because they never understood what it takes to happily stay married to someone. marriage aint a game and many people out there (religious or not) need to understand that.

You will bear more with a Woman that You Disflowered Yourself.

virginity does not equal to marriage longevity. many of these virgins out there are demons in disguise who just needed someone to marry them in order to show their true faces. many marriages with virgins have failed, and it wont be the last. in that same sentence, many non virgin marriage can last, so long as there is this understanding that virginity does not equal to marriage fidelity/wisdom etc

Women still adores Marriages.Men still do.They All want it with The Right Persons. At least this will always remain The Highest Sexual Crave for Men and Women.Even Pornstars and Sexual Hookers Crave for Marriages with The Right Partner that will Understand Them.

you are absolutely right about the above...

Marriage is The Oldest Institution between Man and Woman. Hence, The Innermost Desire of Everyone Who want to get Married is To Have And Enjoy Successful Marriages.Nobody wants to Fail or plans to Fail when setting out to get married. People don't want to be seen as a FAILURE when it has to do with Marriages. However; Many Marriages Still End Up Failing Leading To Growing A Failed System of Families leading to a FAILED Community and Country in The Long Run.

the reason why these marriages fail is very wide, and you cant certainly pinpoint it to ONE issue. not being religious is certainly not a direct result of marriage failure today.

My Point here is that The Biggest Problems of The World Stems from WASTED Sex and FAILED Marriages.

i beg to differ...times are changing, people are changing, society is changing and even religion is changing....thus you cant expect marriage not to change! what makes a successful marriage to you, may not be what another person views as successful marriage. let everyone be happy in their own life, and let everyone do what they please, so long as it aint illegal.

@op, you sound as if the non virgins disvirgin themselves. The problem we have all over in marriages today is beyond Virginity. If you're honest with your self, all the women you ever slept with, how many of them, did you marry?

AfroAgroPower:
1.This is a Societal Decay that has corrupted God's Purpose of Marriage for Humanity.
2. Today, we have women putting on white gowns during their White Weddings in Churches to Symbolize that They Are Still Virgins after they must have Defiled Their Bodies which is Supposed to Be The Temple of God Almighty.

3. This is the Biggest reason we have many broken marriages in The World Today.Many Marriages were established on Poor Foundations.If you want to succeed in Life as A Man; Ensure Your Foundation is Not Faulty. For If The Foundation is Faulty, What can the Righteous Do ?

1. What God's purpose would that be? Your Allah, Hindu or pagan god, this since none of what you here bears any resemblance to that ordained by the Christian God were marriage is concerned ?

2. But tye Christian God never proclaimed that marriage existed only for those who had never had sexual intercourse nor did He ascribe any importance to your ideas of virginity. Those ideas are instead born of your Pagan bias and not of anything that has to do with God who clearly said your marriages are of this world and not of His Kingdom- Luke 20 vs 34 - 36. So this perishable body which you refer to as God's temple, even that is of this world and not of the Kingdom of God so how you convince yourselves that your bodies mean so much to a God whose Kingdom is not of this world can only be explained by what is your Pagan delusions of choice.

3. Well, again, to highlight the fact that your ideas hold no meaning where the Christian God is concerned, you reason given here for why marriages fail run contrary to the reason given in scripture by God Himself for why marriages on the whole fail His standard. According to scripture, God Himself cursed the institution of marriage, right from after Adam and Eve fell , this in Genesis 3 vs 16 , and that which is cursed by Him cannot prosper cannot be made holy unless by Him, and for this reason. And it is for this reason that God then sent Jesus Christ to redeem all those who will choose to live in continuous submission and obedience to His teachings (and commitments) from His very same curse in Genesis 3 vs 16 - 22 .

So long as you live your lives according to your will and not in continuous submission to the Will of God, Jesus Christ, who all you churchians reject, expect tha to your marriages and lives will never live up to God's standard of righteousness, as set before you by and in Jesus Christ.

This isn't rocket science!

AfroAgroPower:
You are right.
And this is the reason for the High Level of Crashes and Disapointments in Marriages Today.
The Real Truth is that The Foundation and Premise for which Marriages should be Established have been Crippled by People who Go Ahead Marrying Themselves UNRIGHTEOUSLY.

What is this standard of righteousness you keep referring to? Where is it established and by whom? Men?

AfroAgroPower:
1. People are Completely IGNORANT of the Purpose and Essence of Marriages according To The Principles of God Almighty.

2. Marriages are supposed to be Forever Enjoyable and Not Enduring because Men and Wombmen are supposed to be HELPERS of Each Other Bounded Under The Covenant of The Virginity of The Wombmen.

3. This is a Spiritual Enlightenment Sensitive Sensitization which I'm Revealing to you and many others who will be reading this thread. Marriages are Supposed to Be Sacred Unions Established on The Covenant of Sacred Sex between Husbands and Wives.Many Marriages established on The Right Bedrock don't Fail and Many Lasts Very Longer.

1. What is this purpose you have believe marriage serves and whose standard is this you pretend to speak of where marriage is concerned?

2. Covenant of the virginity of the Wombmen? What is this? A pagan religion of some sort?

3. What pagan sect do you speak these words on behalf of?

AfroAgroPower:
My Point here is that The Biggest Problems of The World Stems from WASTED Sex and FAILED Marriages.
Do you have a broader view of my perspective now ?

Wasted sex and failed marriages? WOW... do you belong to some kind of "holy sex" cult or something?

MrBrownJay1:


i fully understand what you are saying, but you are so far fixated in your religious ways, that you wouldnt understand that some people out there may be non religious, have different views and still be happily married... just like some god fearing religious people could be miserable in marriage and have failed marriages.



have you ever considered that the faulty foundation may be due to religious brainwashing which expect people to be a certain way while they aint?! many religious people out there aint got what it takes to be good husbands/fathers etc, but regardless of that, they will gladly go and marry a woman and then fail in marriage, simply because they never understood what it takes to happily stay married to someone. marriage aint a game and many people out there (religious or not) need to understand that.



virginity does not equal to marriage longevity. many of these virgins out there are demons in disguise who just needed someone to marry them in order to show their true faces. many marriages with virgins have failed, and it wont be the last. in that same sentence, many non virgin marriage can last, so long as there is this understanding that virginity does not equal to marriage fidelity/wisdom etc



you are absolutely right about the above...



the reason why these marriages fail is very wide, and you cant certainly pinpoint it to ONE issue. not being religious is certainly not a direct result of marriage failure today.



i beg to differ...times are changing, people are changing, society is changing and even religion is changing....thus you cant expect marriage not to change! what makes a successful marriage to you, may not be what another person views as successful marriage. let everyone be happy in their own life, and let everyone do what they please, so long as it aint illegal.

You are right with all your points.


But don't get me wrong. I'm not insinuating that The Marriages of Irreligious people are Always going to FAIL, neither have I opined that The Marriages of Religious people will always be long lasting.


My point is that Historically; There used to be a Blood Covenant between Men Who got Married to Virgins which helped Make Men Stay Responsible in Their Marriages with Women.



However; The Ritual of This Blood Covenant for Marriages has been Trampled Upon due to The FAST GROWING and CHANGING WORLD.


Many Cultures and Traditions that helped Keep The Sanity of Sexuality between Men and Women have been trampled upon. Hence, many ills in the society.

Kobojunkie:
1. What is this purpose you have believe marriage serves and whose standard is this you pretend to speak of where marriage is concerned?

2. Covenant of the virginity of the Wombmen? What is this? A pagan religion of some sort?

3. What pagan sect do you speak these words on behalf of?

As an Historian gifted with The Spirit of Understanding - These things that I write are Factual.

Kobojunkie:
Wasted sex and failed marriages? WOW... do you belong to some kind of "holy sex" cult or something?

Yes. You'll understand clearly when you realign my statements with All of My Posts.

This is a very sensitive topic you may not understand in a hurry until you have got the mind of a Discerner.

Kobojunkie:
1. What is this purpose you have believe marriage serves and whose standard is this you pretend to speak of where marriage is concerned?

2. Covenant of the virginity of the Wombmen? What is this? A pagan religion of some sort?

3. What pagan sect do you speak these words on behalf of?

3) I'm not a pagan. I'm a Spiritual and Financial Rabbi.


I help people achieve Spiritual and Financial Freedom through My Teachings.

AfroAgroPower:
3) I'm not a pagan. I'm a Spiritual and Financial Rabbi.

I help people achieve Spiritual and Financial Freedom through My Teachings.

Rabbi? Do you have the blood of Jacob coursing through your veins?

Or is this another way of saying your are an affa aka pagan Spiritualist?

AfroAgroPower:
Yes. You'll understand clearly when you realign my statements with All of My Posts.

This is a very sensitive topic you may not understand in a hurry until you have got the mind of a Discerner.

Sensitive topic indeed. And what standard do these proclamations of you abide by?

AfroAgroPower:
You are right with all your points.
But don't get me wrong. I'm not insinuating that The Marriages of Irreligious people are Always going to FAIL, neither have I opined that The Marriages of Religious people will always be long lasting.
My point is that Historically; There used to be a Blood Covenant between Men Who got Married to Virgins which helped Make Men Stay Responsible in Their Marriages with Women.

you are right about the above in bold, but thats because A) non virgins were stoned to death and B) women were slave to their husband and had no say in their marriage- thankfully times have greatly changed now.

However; The Ritual of This Blood Covenant for Marriages has been Trampled Upon due to The FAST GROWING and CHANGING WORLD. Many Cultures and Traditions that helped Keep The Sanity of Sexuality between Men and Women have been trampled upon. Hence, many ills in the society.

you do know that there is a sodom and gomora since biblical days, right? lets us not use sexual freedom as a reason for whats happening today... but you are right to say that times are fast growing/changing. as i said earlier, we live faster lives and our attention span is reduced, so today its no big deal to fukc someone and forget about them tomorrow.

Kobojunkie:
Sensitive topic indeed. And what standard do these proclamations of you abide by?

Yes, It is indeed a very Sensitive Topic.


The Standard of TRUTH and RIGHTEOUSNESS.

AfroAgroPower:
As an Historian gifted with The Spirit of Understanding - These things that I write are Factual.

You say you are gifted with the Spirit of understanding, and since none of what you claim is of science, I will ask NY what god or deity?,

AfroAgroPower:
The Standard of TRUTH and RIGHTEOUSNESS.

What standard of Truth and righteousness would that be exactly? Obviously not science since all you spew here is no corroborated by it.

Kobojunkie:
You say you are gifted with the Spirit of understanding, and since none of what you claim is of science, I will ask NY what god or deity?,

My claims are of Science.

They are Omniscient. All that I tell you are a sum of All Arts and Science of The World.

MrBrownJay1:


you are right about the above in bold, but thats because A) non virgins were stoned to death and B) women were slave to their husband and had no say in their marriage- thankfully times have greatly changed now.



you do know that there is a sodom and gomora since biblical days, right? lets us not use sexual freedom as a reason for whats happening today... but you are right to say that times are fast growing/changing. as i said earlier, we live faster lives and our attention span is reduced, so today its no big deal to fukc someone and forget about them tomorrow.

It's no big deal to have Casual Sex with just anyone simply because Men and Women Find it difficult to Abstain from Sexual Impurity as a result of the Lustful Desire of Their Flesh.


Now; The Result ?


An Increasing Amount of Failed Relationships,

An Increasing amount of Untrust.

An Increasing Amount of Failed Marriages.

An Increasing Amount of Failed Families and Countries.

AfroAgroPower:
It's no big deal to have Casual Sex with just anyone simply because Men and Women Find it difficult to Abstain from Sexual Impurity as a result of the Lustful Desire of Their Flesh.

Now; The Result ?
An Increasing Amount of Failed Relationships,
An Increasing amount of Untrust.
An Increasing Amount of Failed Marriages.
An Increasing Amount of Failed Families and Countries.

explain to me (as if i was a 5yr old) how does casual sex got anything to do with failed relationship/marriages/families etc, especially when we all know that many people who aint into casual sex ALSO do fail in these departments? are you claiming that all failed R7ships, marriages and/or families are due to casual sex?!?

MrBrownJay1:


explain to me (as if i was a 5yr old) how does casual sex got anything to do with failed relationship/marriages/families etc, especially when we all know that many people who aint into casual sex ALSO do fail in these departments? are you claiming that all failed R7ships, marriages and/or families are due to casual sex?!?

Yes, Casual Sex is The Root Cause of The Untrust that Cripples The Established Relationship between People.


Now, You are getting my point now.

Sex is not just Physical as Most People Think they are.


They are Sacred and They have got a Great Spiritual Inclination with The Souls of Mates.

AfroAgroPower:
My claims are of Science.

They are Omniscient. All that I tell you are a sum of All Arts and Science of The World.

I am afraid you have lost me here.

Kobojunkie:
I am afraid you have lost me here.

My Premise is a Capsule of All Religions, Sciences, Philosophies, Traditions and Cultures of The World.


I relate with you from The Omniscient Point of View.

AfroAgroPower:
My Premise is a Capsule of All Religions, Sciences, Philosophies, Traditions and Cultures of The World.
I relate with you from The Omniscient Point of View.

Aka... Pagan ideas then!

AfroAgroPower:
Yes, Casual Sex is The Root Cause of The Untrust that Cripples The Established Relationship between People.
Now, You are getting my point now.

again, the question was EXPLAIN TO US ALL HOW/WHY CASUAL SEX IS THE ROOT OF FAILED MARRIAGE....and you didnt. so pls, care to answer the question in detail.

Sex is not just Physical as Most People Think they are. They are Sacred and They have got a Great Spiritual Inclination with The Souls of Mates.

sadly, you dont need to get married to have a great life (and even have kids) with your unmarried lover, do you?!

Kobojunkie:
Aka... Pagan ideas then!

What's your definition of Pagan ?

Simply put; "What does Paganism mean to you ?"


You seem to find it as a proper definition to root my ideologies ??!