MrBrownJay1:


again, the question was EXPLAIN TO US ALL HOW/WHY CASUAL SEX IS THE ROOT OF FAILED MARRIAGE....and you didnt. so pls, care to answer the question in detail.



sadly, you dont need to get married to have a great life (and even have kids) with your unmarried lover, do you?!

My Write-ups on this thread already have done Justice to this question if you Settle Your Mind To Read Through Our Conversations with an Opened Mind.




Particularly; My First and Opening Post of This Thread explains Your Question.

Kobojunkie:
Aka... Pagan ideas then!

What's your definition of Pagan ?

Simply put; "What does Paganism mean to you ?"


You seem to find it as a proper definition to root my ideologies ??!

MrBrownJay1:


again, the question was EXPLAIN TO US ALL HOW/WHY CASUAL SEX IS THE ROOT OF FAILED MARRIAGE....and you didnt. so pls, care to answer the question in detail.



sadly, you dont need to get married to have a great life (and even have kids) with your unmarried lover, do you?!

I'm not Arguing it that it that you don't need to get married to have a great life ...


However; There is a Greater Life That comes with Marrying Your Right Partner.



The Scripture records it that "He that Finds a WIFE finds a Good Thing and Obtaineth Mercy From The Most High".




So, what could have been Greater for You could be Cut Short when You Engage in Improper Marriage.

AfroAgroPower:
I'm not Arguing it that it that you don't need to get married to have a great life ...
However; There is a Greater Life That comes with Marrying Your Right Partner.
The Scripture records it that "He that Finds a WIFE finds a Good Thing and Obtaineth Mercy From The Most High".
So, what could have been Greater for You could be Cut Short when You Engage in Improper Marriage.

many people dont believe in your holybook or whats written in it, thus they couldnt care less about the greatness in marriage it offers. as i said earlier, stop thinking that everyone is religious and/or stop caring about what non religious people do. to each their own!

AfroAgroPower:
What's your definition of Pagan ?
Simply put; "What does Paganism mean to you ?"

You seem to find it as a proper definition to root my ideologies ??!

Paganism refers to ideas that are not born of, or founded in a specific religion, philosophy, neither the science of men for that matter.

You claim your ideas adhere to a standard as far as truth and righteousness, then submit that this standard you speak of is infact arbitrary- unfounded - when you suggest it is to be of what you call the "Capsule of All Religions, Sciences, Philosophies, Traditions and Cultures of The World".

Kobojunkie:
Paganism refers to ideas that are not born of, or founded in a specific religion, philosophy, neither the science of men for that matter.

You claim your ideas adhere to a standard as far as truth and righteousness, then submit that this standard you speak of is infact arbitrary- unfounded - when you suggest it is to be of what you call the "Capsule of All Religions, Sciences, Philosophies, Traditions and Cultures of The World".

It is exactly as I've Described.



I'll drop you a Sensitization Message that will Subtly Explains To You About My Personality so that you may clearly understand My Purpose on Earth so far You Keep an Opened Mind.

Kobojunkie:
Paganism refers to ideas that are not born of, or founded in a specific religion, philosophy, neither the science of men for that matter.

You claim your ideas adhere to a standard as far as truth and righteousness, then submit that this standard you speak of is infact arbitrary- unfounded - when you suggest it is to be of what you call the "Capsule of All Religions, Sciences, Philosophies, Traditions and Cultures of The World".

Here is The Sensitization Message:



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ENLIGHTENMENT is The PURE TRUTH.

EDUCATION Acts Like A PERCEIVED or PACKAGED TRUTH.



Men and Women of The World are Supposed To Live A Life of Spiritual and Financial Freedom because of The Abundance That The Scriptures already Mandated We Dominate Over.

Genesis 9:7 says:

"Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it, and have dominion …"




As You can SEE; This Scriptural Verse already Assures Us of Our Potentials to Multiply and SUBDUE The Earth.

However; We cannot SUBDUE The Earth if We don't REPLENISH It.



Many People do not REPLENISH The Earth; Hence They Live in Spiritual and Financial Poverty.


They Make Their Spiritual And Financial Poverty Tougher for Themselves even as They MULTIPLY without Having The Mentality to REPLENISH The Earth.



What Does REPLENISHING The Earth have to Do with Your Spiritual and Financial Freedom ?



Well; Now The Answers To This Question is What Distinguishes ENLIGHTENMENT from EDUCATION.


However;


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This Simple Instruction is necessary for The Advancement of The Kingdom of God on Earth.


As You can see;
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Many Christians remain Financially Poor because They also Lack UNDERSTANDING as a Result of Their Spiritual Poverty.



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MrBrownJay1:


many people dont believe in your holybook or whats written in it, thus they couldnt care less about the greatness in marriage it offers. as i said earlier, stop thinking that everyone is religious and/or stop caring about what non religious people do. to each their own!

The Belief around Marriage is not only confined in These So called Holy Books.


They spread across The COMMON SENSE of Humanity through Diverse Cultures, Traditions and Religions.

AfroAgroPower:
The Belief around Marriage is not only confined in These So called Holy Books.
They spread across The COMMON SENSE of Humanity through Diverse Cultures, Traditions and Religions.

here is a clue as to why the above in bold is far from the truth.... diverse cultures and traditions have a very wide different view as to what makes a great marriage (or not). Mormons read your holybook and say that god told them to marry wives as young as 10yrs old and/or marry multiple wives, while some other xtians branch look down on such act; some hindus believe that a woman can marry multiple husbands thus fraternal polyandry is practiced among various Tibetans religion in Nepal, parts of China and part of northern India etc, while many xtians look down upon it.

the common sense of humanity around marriage (that you talk about) is NOT so common, and what you may see as rightful may not be for everyone out there. OPEN YOUR MIND, respect others and their life wishes and stop trying to enforce your views unto others.

AfroAgroPower:
Here is The Sensitization Message:
Africans and People of The World generally needs The RIGHT Spiritual and Financial Enlightenment.
*ENLIGHTENMENT* Supersedes *EDUCATION*.
ENLIGHTENMENT is The PURE TRUTH.
EDUCATION Acts Like A PERCEIVED or PACKAGED TRUTH.
Men and Women of The World are Supposed To Live A Life of Spiritual and Financial Freedom because of The Abundance That The Scriptures already Mandated We Dominate Over. .....

Your Sensitization message reads more like the usual pagan hogwash which only seems to resonate with the ignorant and gullible-minded.

Kobojunkie:
Your Sensitization message reads more like the usual pagan hogwash which only seems to resonate with the ignorant and gullible-minded.

He that thinks He Knows but do not Know that he doesn't Know is Most of All IGNORANT and GULLIBLE-MINDED.



Understanding doesn't come from Rebelliousness.

It comes from Wisdom which is Profitable to Direct All Your Ways.


Your ONLY Avenue to Understanding The Things of The Spirit is to Understand That You are Spirit. And The Only way to Receive Understanding is to be Meek/Humble so that you may receive The HOLY SPIRIT into Your Conscience which will not leave you to rely on your own thinking but His Righteous Directions.

MrBrownJay1:


here is a clue as to why the above in bold is far from the truth.... diverse cultures and traditions have a very wide different view as to what makes a great marriage (or not). Mormons read your holybook and say that god told them to marry wives as young as 10yrs old and/or marry multiple wives, while some other xtians branch look down on such act; some hindus believe that a woman can marry multiple husbands thus fraternal polyandry is practiced among various Tibetans religion in Nepal, parts of China and part of northern India etc, while many xtians look down upon it.

the common sense of humanity around marriage (that you talk about) is NOT so common, and what you may see as rightful may not be for everyone out there. OPEN YOUR MIND, respect others and their life wishes and stop trying to enforce your views unto others.

I have kept an opened mind all through our conversation if you have observed.

I respect the views of cultures and other people.


As a Life Journalist, I understand that people's views and religious beliefs are very different and many people's views around Christianity or any particular religion are mostly Contracdictory.


I am not shoving any belief on anyone. For I've not come to this world to condemn anyone but to help people make amendments through my Righteous Teachings.



For instance; it is anyone's business to marry as many wives as he likes. It is not a Sin before God Almighty as many people will think it is. However; there is a RIGHT WAY To Go About Marrying Many Wives if You So Desire.


In Today's World, Many Christians will Cheat on their Wives by having secret affairs with other Women simply because They Built The Foundation of Their Marriages on Hypocrisy.

Please Note: The same thing goes with Women too.



They simply lack The Confidence to Marry according to their WILL. They lack this CONFIDENCE because of their Poor Understanding of what Marriage should be All About.

When The Purpose of A Thing is Not Understood, Abuse is Inevitable.

So, what is the Essence of Going into Marriage when You do not know the ESSENCE of It ?



There are RIGHT WAYS of Doing Things.

There are WRONG WAYS of Doing Them too.



So, if The Right Things are not Done in The Right Ways; They will eventually Go Wrong.

AfroAgroPower:
1. He that thinks He Knows but do not Know that he doesn't Know is Most of All IGNORANT and GULLIBLE-MINDED.

2. Understanding doesn't come from Rebelliousness.
It comes from Wisdom which is Profitable to Direct All Your Ways.

3. Your ONLY Avenue to Understanding The Things of The Spirit is to Understand That You are Spirit. And The Only way to Receive Understanding is to be Meek/Humble so that you may receive The HOLY SPIRIT into Your Conscience which will not leave you to rely on your own thinking but His Righteous Directions.

1. Seems that first statement aptly describes you.

2. Isn't it the other way around? Wisdom comes from using that which is known in order to gain understanding ?

With knowledge, you acquire understanding by using said knowledge, and continuous achievement of understanding, that is a deeper level of understanding aka wisdom in that particular area of study.

3. All this tanka-gworo claims come out meaningless to those who still have their heads on, so spare me abeg!

If men are the ones taking the virginity's of young girls, why do same men wish to marry virgins?

If you want to preach chastity, preach it to both genders, if you preach it to ladies alone, then you are wasting your time.

Do you expect a man who lived his life frolicking around, to pick a virgin when he's ready for marriage? Joker....

AfroAgroPower:
In Many Religions and Cultures, According To The Standards of The Society; The essence of Marriage is to Marry A Woman as A Virgin.


However; Nowadays; We have Men paying for Dowries for Women who were not Virgins when They Met Them.

AfroAgroPower:



You are right.


And this is the reason for the High Level of Crashes and Disapointments in Marriages Today.


The Real Truth is that The Foundation and Premise for which Marriages should be Established have been Crippled by People who Go Ahead Marrying Themselves UNRIGHTEOUSLY.

You don't know anything about what is happening in real life. I personally know a middle aged man whose marriage is a war zone and his wife was a virgin. Worst part is that the wife reminds him about her virginity status whenever they are quarreling.

bigjackass:
You don't know anything about what is happening in real life. I personally know a middle aged man whose marriage is a war zone and his wife was a virgin. Worst part is that the wife reminds him about her virginity status whenever they are quarreling.

A WIFE never quarrels with her Husband.

A WIFE is Meek/Humble.

A WIFE is A Woman Who has Her FAITH in God Almighty.



The Scripture says "He who finds a WIFE findeth a Good Thing".


The Bible did not say: " He who finds a WOMAN findeth a Good Thing".



Many Men are not married to WIVES but Mere WOMEN who don't understand The Principles of God.


A WIFE is a Virtuous Woman. And Her Virginity is a Great Foundation for an Established Marriage.



When I'm talking about WIVES, I'm not talking about Mere Church goers. I'm referring to Women Who Have Complete FAITH in God Almighty.


W - Women

I - In

F - Faith

E - Eternal

LilMissFavvy:
If men are the ones taking the virginity's of young girls, why do same men wish to marry virgins?

If you want to preach chastity, preach it to both genders, if you preach it to ladies alone, then you are wasting your time.

Do you expect a man who lived his life frolicking around, to pick a virgin when he's ready for marriage? Joker....

https://www.nairaland.com/7056568/women-see-disvirgined-women-root


Maybe this will answer your question. That's the thread that addresses Women.

This thread is actually for men. This thread isn't for Women.


As it seems; If The Women learnt how to Keep Their Legs Closed; Many Men wouldn't be getting them banged anyhow and this will lead to more fulfilled Marriages.

AfroAgroPower:
A WIFE never quarrels with her Husband.
A WIFE is Meek/Humble.
A WIFE is A Woman Who has Her FAITH in God Almighty.The Scripture says "He who finds a WIFE findeth a Good Thing". The Bible did not say: " He who finds a WOMAN findeth a Good Thing". Many Men are not married to WIVES but Mere WOMEN who don't understand The Principles of God. A WIFE is a Virtuous Woman. And Her Virginity is a Great Foundation for an Established Marriage.
When I'm talking about WIVES, I'm not talking about Mere Church goers. I'm referring to Women Who Have Complete FAITH in God Almighty.
W - Women
I - In
F - Faith
E - Eternal

These your hogwash delusions of yours which have absolutely nothing to to with the Christian faith by the way, seem to be very strong with you, I see.

Welll sha, Life has a way of showing people like you the truth and when it does, it never fails to humble even the most ignorant of minds.

Kobojunkie:
These your hogwash delusions seem to be strong with you, I see.

And I'm loving it.

AfroAgroPower:

And I'm loving it.

You don't even have a wife yet, so how could you be said to be 'loving' it?,

Be sure not to get one from those born on this here planet. Your Pagan ideas which seem to have you monitoring her existence... may not agree with her.

Kobojunkie:
You don't even have a wife yet, so how could you be said to be 'loving' it?,

How do you know so?

Do you even know if I'm a Woman?

Don't be too hasty in your unhealthy generalization.

AfroAgroPower:
How do you know so?
Do you even know if I'm a Woman?
Don't be too hasty in your unhealthy generalization.

Hasty Generalization? Far from it!.

AfroAgroPower:



You are right with all your points.


But don't get me wrong. I'm not insinuating that The Marriages of Irreligious people are Always going to FAIL, neither have I opined that The Marriages of Religious people will always be long lasting.


My point is that Historically; There used to be a Blood Covenant between Men Who got Married to Virgins which helped Make Men Stay Responsible in Their Marriages with Women.



However; The Ritual of This Blood Covenant for Marriages has been Trampled Upon due to The FAST GROWING and CHANGING WORLD.


Many Cultures and Traditions that helped Keep The Sanity of Sexuality between Men and Women have been trampled upon. Hence, many ills in the society.

Marrying a virgin wife doesn't keep a man from being unfaithful to her.

Wow.... A thread about women completely avoided by women, I guess that tells you all that you need to know.
My fiance is a virgin... Let's hope we can make it to marriage.

This your topic has been proven to be null and void through different people and experiences. So My brother, marrying a virgin does not guarantee successful marriage of any kind. Secondly everything else you pointed out are nothing but the truth. The only difference is that, they are your own truth. Truth is relative, so your truth is different from mine and different from others as you can see from canter argument in this post. And you must be delusional to think your truth is better or truer than everyone else. Majority can relate with science because it works with facts and not truth. And there is a huge gap between facts and what you claimed to be the truth.

ImaIma1:



Marrying a virgin wife doesn't keep a man from being unfaithful to his her.

I never wrote anything about "Virginity assuring Men's Faithfulness to their wives".

I wrote that " Virginity of Wives builds An Experiential Level of High Trust and Regards for Husbands to Their Wives which makes their Union Meaningful and Last Longer than what we have in today's world of sodomy."


There is alot big difference between "Faithfulness" and "Long Lasting".



Get This Point and Be Good.

ImaIma1:



Marrying a virgin wife doesn't keep a man from being unfaithful to his her.

Now; Get this point too.

What is Unfaithfulness to you?

I'm quite sure Unfaithfulness to you would mean that a man remains Married to Only One Wife.


However; This is not the meaning of Unfaithfulness.


Unfaithfulness has nothing to do with Having Other Wives.

Even The Bible doesn't record Abraham, David, Joseph, Solomon and Many others Who married more than One Wife as UNFAITHFULS simply because they had other wives.

Why?


These Men Understood the Principles of Marriages which have been lost in today's world of confusion.



There exist THE RIGHT FOUNDATION which Marrying More than One Wife is Justifiable before Man and God.


The Right Way for A Man to Marry More Wives is to Seek The Consent of His First Wife.

And Most often, She will accept His Proposal of marrying more wives if she Understands His Reasons which most likely will be favorable to her.



It is recorded in some instances in the scriptures where Wives Insinuated, Begged and Convinced Their Husbands to Marry Another Woman for The sake of Child bearing.

For example: Sarah to Abraham.



Now; here is the truth.


Real Men are Men of Truths.

Real Men are very confident to Marry More Wives through Their First Wife.

The First Wife is The Door of Every Marriage and Family.

Real Men don't lie to their First Wives.

They know how to Love and Care for Them.

Hence; The Affection shown to These First Wife provides these Real Men The Advantages of Doing Their Wishes as Their First Wives Permit.


On the other hand; FAKE MEN are LIARS. They LIE up to the extent that They LIE To Their First WIFE.

They Lack CONFIDENCE. You lack CONFIDENCE as a Man the moment you begin Lying to Your FIRST WIFE because it simply means You are Lying To Yourself. The Bible puts it that A Husband and His Wife will come together to become ONE (1) Flesh.

Hence, if you are a man; and you are Lying To Your First Wife, then you are doing yourself more Evil.

AfroAgroPower:


Now; Get this point too.

What is Unfaithfulness to you?

I'm quite sure Unfaithfulness to you would mean that a man remains Married to Only One Wife.


However; This is not the meaning of Unfaithfulness.


Unfaithfulness has nothing to do with Having Other Wives.

Even The Bible doesn't record Abraham, David, Joseph, Solomon and Many others Who married more than One Wife as UNFAITHFULS simply because they had other wives.

Why?


These Men Understood the Principles of Marriages which have been lost in today's world of confusion.



There exist THE RIGHT FOUNDATION which Marrying More than One Wife is Justifiable before Man and God.


The Right Way for A Man to Marry More Wives is to Seek The Consent of His First Wife.

And Most often, She will accept His Proposal of marrying more wives if she Understands His Reasons which most likely will be favorable to her.



It is recorded in some instances in the scriptures where Wives Insinuated, Begged and Convinced Their Husbands to Marry Another Woman for The sake of Child bearing.

For example: Sarah to Abraham.



Now; here is the truth.


Real Men are Men of Truths.

Real Men are very confident to Marry More Wives through Their First Wife.

The First Wife is The Door of Every Marriage and Family.

Real Men don't lie to their First Wives.

They know how to Love and Care for Them.

Hence; The Affection shown to These First Wife provides these Real Men The Advantages of Doing Their Wishes as Their First Wives Permit.


On the other hand; FAKE MEN are LIARS. They LIE up to the extent that They LIE To Their First WIFE.

They Lack CONFIDENCE. You lack CONFIDENCE as a Man the moment you begin Lying to Your FIRST WIFE because it simply means You are Lying To Yourself. The Bible puts it that A Husband and His Wife will come together to become ONE (1) Flesh.

Hence, if you are a man; and you are Lying To Your First Wife, then you are doing yourself more Evil.

How do all this you wrote mean that marry a virgin will make him more responsible? Your examples are from thousands of years ago.

Can you teleport back to the real word? A man marries a virgin and still sleeps around.

The wife doesnt beg him to sleep around or to get a second wife. How does getting a second wife favour the first wife? They get to share the man's problems?

How many wives these days want their husbands to marry another wife? Christians and even muslims. Come down from the clouds. You don't sound like you live on earth in present day.

Virginity is not necessarily purity. Purity concerns itself with the state of one's heart and the contents of one's thoughts.

There a physical virgins who have kept their virginity for lack of opportunity but have gone down the road of soddom and Gomorrah within their physical confinement. While many a good woman can lose their virginity through carelessness, ignorance or even willfully but it doesn't really make them evil. And a promiscuous woman can have the grace of repentance and marry afterwards and have a successful marriage.

While virginity is to be encouraged, asserting that it is the cornerstone of marital success is foolishness and myopic. It stems from a close-circuited thought process which seek to narrow down the complexity of life and nature to a simplified prism where everything is painted in black and white.

(Un)fortunately, it's not.

AfroAgroPower:
In Many Religions and Cultures, According To The Standards of The Society; The essence of Marriage is to Marry A Woman as A Virgin.


The Virginity of A Woman is Why Her Dowry Should Be Paid in The First Place for Marriage.



However; Nowadays; We have Men paying for Dowries for Women who were not Virgins when They Met Them.



This is a Societal Decay that has corrupted God's Purpose of Marriage for Humanity.



Today, we have women putting on white gowns during their White Weddings in Churches to Symbolize that They Are Still Virgins after they must have Defiled Their Bodies which is Supposed to Be The Temple of God Almighty.






This is the Biggest reason we have many broken marriages in The World Today.



Many Marriages were established on Poor Foundations.









If you want to succeed in Life as A Man; Ensure Your Foundation is Not Faulty.



For If The Foundation is Faulty, What can the Righteous Do ?

postmann:


Virginity is not necessarily purity. Purity concerns itself with the state of one's heart and the contents of one's thoughts.

There a physical virgins who have kept their virginity for lack of opportunity but have gone down the road of soddom and Gomorrah within their physical confinement. While many a good woman can lose their virginity through carelessness, ignorance or even willfully but it doesn't really make them evil. And a promiscuous woman can have the grace of repentance and marry afterwards and have a successful marriage.

While virginity is to be encouraged, asserting that it is the cornerstone of marital success is foolishness and myopic. It stems from a closed-circuited thought process which seek to narrow down the complexity of life and nature to a simplified prism where everything is painted in black and white.

(Un)fortunately, it's not.

Thankfully, I've not asserted that "Virginity is The Cornerstone for Every Successful Marriage."


Gracefully, I've been able to explain how Women can Gain Respect and Dignity in The Hearts of Their Husbands Who Marry Them as Virgins.

Matured Women who are Married as Virgins are Normally Adored by Their Husbands and The Society of people who knows about them.

Whether anyone likes it or not; Marrying A Virgin Wife with The Right Character will be Considered as A Pride to Men.

And whether anyone likes it or not; Women who keeps their Virginity till after Their Marriages are Adored and Glorified Specially.


Even Women Themselves Know this fact.



Many Men of Nowadays are just caught up in a society of marrying women who have had excessive body counts before Marriage simply because Most Women care less about Keeping Their Virginity. However; As for Those Who could keep theirs for the purpose of Sexual Purity - "They Have Their Rewards."

ImaIma1:


How do all this you wrote mean that marry a virgin will make him more responsible? Your examples are from thousands of years ago.

Can you teleport back to the real word? A man marries a virgin and still sleeps around.

The wife doesnt beg him to sleep around or to get a second wife. How does getting a second wife favour the first wife? They get to share the man's problems?

How many wives these days want their husbands to marry another wife? Christians and even muslims. Come down from the clouds. You don't sound like you live on earth in present day.

How do all this you wrote mean that marry a virgin will make him more responsible? Your examples are from thousands of years ago.

I never wrote anything of this nature. Stop confusing yourself with your own preoccupied thoughts of what you think I mean. Everything I wrote remains readable and you can read them again to understand my validations. I already described to you the difference between REAL MEN and FAKE MEN; so - inside there lies my cogent points to your rhetorical question.

In Short: I concur with you that Marrying a Virgin has Nothing to do with Men being Responsible.


Can you teleport back to the real word? A man marries a virgin and still sleeps around.

Of course. No one is arguing that.


How does getting a second wife favour the first wife? They get to share the man's problems?

Genesis 16:2 :
so she said to Abram, “The LORD has kept me from having children. Go, sleep with my slave; perhaps I can build a family through her.” Abram agreed to what Sarai said.


And if you think this is not possible and still ongoing in Today's World; then check out the news on the screenshots below.

All you’ve highlighted are simply symptoms.

There are deeper issues to be addressed.

The concept of marriage is grossly been abused globally because most people have a vague or warped idea of it.

Abuse is inevitable without knowing the intent and processes of a thing.

God, who instituted marriage, had a plan and procedure for marriage; Read, Genesis 2 and Ephesians 5.

From those preceding Biblical chapters, you’d understand that only people who have genuine encounter with God and totally submitted to Him can make a good marriage. (Not church-goers or mere believers).

You can’t take out God and His full instructions on marriage and expect a successful outing. It’s illogical, unrealistic and profane.

Take some time to think of the causes of unhappy and short-lived marriages: You’d realise that they’re all centered around selfishness; cheating (self-gratification), ego (overblown self-esteem), what else? Everything still has SELF in its expression.

Remember the golden rule? Yes, it kills self.

Walking with God for sterling result requires denying self and looking out for the good of God and his people. The husband does that to his wife and vice versa “even as Christ loves the Church”.

MrBrownJay1:


i highly doubt that... today much more marriages are crashing because A) people today no longer need/desire to suffer silently in marital bondage (like our forefathers did), B) because walking away is easy today as more women are independent and can take care of their own self, C) because divorced women can easily get their sexy nyansh back on the market and find another man to marry them... but most importantly D) because people no longer care about religion today, thus divorce is a not looked down upon and instead is viewed as a positive solution to a failed marriage.