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Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Nobody: 1:19pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Fahdiga:Okay. |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Housing(m): 1:19pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Cherrycherry you are the cause of his continue cheating sexual escapades. He is cheating on you but you always allow him to lie out his way. With this tell him no sex without condom. He will be angry and said why. Let him know your health and safety is very important to you. This will touch him. 1. It will send the message that he had been caught. 2..That he is risking not only his health but that you inclusive. Taunt him with word like "don't use that your mouth that is public kissing point on me." It will to get to him 3. That will lead to a more serious reconciliation heart to heart talk. You should know when to stop accept his apology. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by adisacool: 1:20pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
MY SISTER, THE BEST YOU CAN DO TO SAVE YOURSELF FROM DEPRESSION IS TO LEARN TO LOOK AWAY FROM HIS PHONE. DO NOT TOUCH HIS PHONE FOR ANY REASONBECAUSE YOU WILL FIND WHAT YOU DID NOT KEEP THERE. YOU WILL HAVE INNER PEACE IF YOU LEARN TO MIND YOUR BUSINESS BY SCROLLING THROUGH YOUR PHONE ONLY. I AM NOT IN SUPPORT OF HIM DOING BAD, BUT IT BRINGS PEACE WHEN BOTH PARTIES LEARN. |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Mercisharelove(f): 1:20pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Get the thought of divorce out of your mind, this shall pass, after now you shall understand what I am talking about. Stay put and don't run out like untrained married woman |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Chaiz: 1:20pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
pls stop going to ur hubby phone in African culture men dont cheat to know this, try and report ur hubby to his or ur people and listen to they reply Marriage didn't favour women in africa if u make noise, u will leave and that strange will come in use ur head |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Fahdiga(m): 1:21pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Juliet751:Yeah baby |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by deebrownneymar: 1:23pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
It’s your type I’m looking for. I’m available if you decide to quit it. He’s definitely sleeping around Cheerycherry: 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Chaiz: 1:23pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
men are Solomonstic in nature just make sure he always come back home for u (avoid nagging) |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by thinkmoney(m): 1:23pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Cheerycherry:Speak to him and beg him to see that he is being selfish. Show him that he isn't disregarding you alone but that he is disregarding your kid also. Let him know his pervert ways is going to ruin any trust between you and that its naturally going to inhibit you from rendering assistance as you are going to be thinking that you will loose out. I will advice you too to spice up your sex life. Try and never say no. KISS EVERYWHERE MY DEAR. Become a bitch of a wife. It has a way of conquering the guy. Do this not only for your marriage but for your kid. |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by PrimadonnaO(f): 1:24pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Klass99: I read the bottom text!!! 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by thinkmoney(m): 1:27pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
lilvicky68:Terrible advice. Typical advice of this senseless generation. If refuse to look, she probably will still loose weight through STD and or in the future when she will have to be contending with a rival and her children 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by dalass(f): 1:30pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Cheerycherry: A cheat will always cheat..... Most men are thIs way.... They love to talk dirty... I'm sure you self will have one or two former classmates or ex s on your contact who would be doing so to you.... Go ahead and talk dirty with the two and make sure he sees it.,. ... He'll know what it feels like too |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by SympleSam(m): 1:33pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Men that cheats will never marry their preferred specs in a woman. They marry a good woman that they think will not cheat on them. So after marriage there eyes go still dey wetin them like. From what what you said I don't think you are a burden on him. Hope say the house, na two of una name dey inside. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by fasa199(m): 1:33pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
If you would read and take my advice, do not go through his phone. I repeat do not go through his phone.. If you get BP and something happens, he will go ahead and marry another woman. |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by PreetyAngel4U: 1:34pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
He's never going to change. I guess you must have seen one or two signs before you wedded. Unless maybe he finds salvation and begins to detest his past life. My advice to you. If you can endure this behaviour and his actual cheating and ready to face and handle any consequences that cheating results in, e.g. STI, STD, children from the other women, embarrassment from him/ his side chicks, friends/family telling you they saw your husband at so and so with a lady, someone trying to kill you because she's fallen in love with your husband (lol), him wanting you dead because you've refused to leave him(in rare cases) then stay. If you cannot, leave. For the main time, buy your own property in your name, save your money. If he can give babe 13k without keeping feeding money, he should not eat. Don't give him anything that would hurt you and only give things that would be easy to let go. Start using protection. Go to the movies, hang out with friends do what you love, look good and ignore him and his phone. Let him alone carry the financial burdens of the house, I think he feels he has enough to spare for the ladies. Maybe give him a taste of his medicine, keep male friends that you chat with 'without the do' just like him. Trust me if he is doing, he will tell you you are doing, because he's guilty. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by IamSainted(m): 1:39pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Simran94:You seem to be a feminist. And A very bad one! The situation at hand is the one being presented by the op. So don't twist it or turn it on its head to fit a disingenuous feminist theory. Men and women have different roles! And most ideas fit a particular gender more. |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by ariesbull: 1:40pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Cheerycherry: 1. Ignorance is bliss leave his phones 2. Following his youthfulness he will always cheat 3.He will outgrow it |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Tompee2: 1:52pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
He will not stop Cheating... Firstly, my Concern in the midst of this Cheating spree...did you notice any behavioural changes the way he acts towards you emotionally and otherwise? I will not tell you to leave him...that won't be the solution. When u try discussing it with him...does he react Violently? |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by koyyess: 2:08pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Cheerycherry: You better stop this project. Your 'horseband's' second wife will be the one to enjoy it. In 2022, it will be foolish for any woman to run a joint project with an adulterous partner. You will lose. Your marriage is dead on arrival. If you can't leave, have it at the back of your mind you are in a domestic partnership. Face your huzzle and child...pack that Yoruba demon one side...all his side chicks will deal mercilessly with him. Watch. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Nobody: 2:10pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
IamSainted: I don’t even understand the word “feminist” to begin with neither do I want to. It is difficult for women to now respond to something without you people always tagging feminism here and there. There are so many men that condemned the man’s actions but I don’t see anyone calling them “feminists” I asked the person I quoted that question because I noticed whenever the reverse was the case, a lot of people always call the woman a slut and all sort of names. So that was why I asked the question. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by LaJoe2: 2:11pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Remain or Separate (not Divorce) are your only options as you keep your focus on Christ; You're too attached to your husband, that attachment should spur out of your attachment to Christ. |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Omohena: 2:12pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Fr the story u told ,all I can say here is that .You don't give your husband good sex.So,he tends to get satisfaction outside .That is not to say that what is doing is right oo.Try and be innovative when it comes to sex |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by JackWolfskin: 2:15pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Cheerycherry: Tease tease tease. |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by dontrulee: 2:15pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Why you dey stumble upon his chat na? Most married men out there chat dirty on social media. It's their nature. Only few of them are clean on social media but can be worse in physical reality. Marrying someone you had sex with before marriage has a high chance of cheating on you after marriage. The summary is that, you can't stop your partner from cheating if they decide they want to cheat. Stay or leave, it's your choice but whatever you choose think of the consequences very well. God help you, I wish you the best. |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Nobody: 2:19pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Cutehector:Brolosho mentality |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by theamazonguru(m): 2:24pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Your husband dey cheat. He derives joy in dosing so. He doesn't look like someone who is gonna backtrack. He is enjoying his life. Na you I go tell, keep your sanity. Stay away from his chats. You will keep seeing more of such chats. Abeg it's not worth it jare. Live your life, enjoy the company of your children. God be with you. God heal your marriage.
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Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by frozen70(f): 2:26pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Mom007: I am a married woman for over 20yrs Uptill today I don't open my husband phone for just one reason I don't want to see anything that will make life miserable for me A man's phone is like Onion, the more you pill it the more your eyes will be teary 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Pimine: 2:29pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
talk2hb1:Aswearugaaad She doesn't even kiss him when they have sex. You're not far from the truth, bruh. She's obviously a rigid, uptight and boring woman. Who doesn't kiss their husband during sex for Pete's fuc.king sake? |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by DEMZEE(m): 2:29pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
MEN CAN STILL LOVE HIS WIFE THE SAME AND FVCK OTHER HOES ACCEPT THIS AND KNOW PEACE |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Mom007(f): 2:29pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
frozen70:Seen and duely noted. This simply means you have accepted deep in your heart that your husband is cheating and as long as he doesn't rub it in your face, you are OK with it. Not everyone is as strong as you madam. Anyways, good luck! 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by DEMZEE(m): 2:31pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
frozen70: YOU ARE A SMART WOMAN WHO FULLY UNDERSTANDS AND ACCEPTS THE MALE NATURE WHEN IT COMES TO SEX MEN CAN LOVE THEIR WIVES THE SAME AND STILL FVCK HOES |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Gamesmart: 2:34pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Cheerycherry: Sorry, I want to ask some few questions. Feel free to not be too specific if you want to tighten your anonymity. I will also try to make the questions vague. 1. Is your husband ugly, okay, quite good looking or hot? 2. In which range is your husband's monthly income: Less than 100K, 101K to 250K, 251K to 600K, 601K to 1.2m or Over 1.2m 3. Use 5 words to describe his personality that you find attractive (e.g. funny, confident, dresser, masculine etc.) 4. Use 3 words to describe his personality that you find unattractive or irritating (e.g. boring, selfish, alcoholic etc.) When you answer these, then I shall be able to give you advice that helps your life. |
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