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Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Ndidi2: 2:34pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Cheerycherry:Tame him through ur knees.. It works. |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by frozen70(f): 2:35pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Mom007: My dear, men will cheat because of their Africa mentality that I am a man Women too do cheat but in a coded way I use to leave my phone unlock until I saw my husband going through my phone, I actually kept the phone in a funny position, by the time I was back my phone position changed, meaning he was going through my phone When I came back I didn't ask him anything I just password my phone till today and he didn't ask me why I decided not to touch his phone because I want to be happy with myself Every one has a cross to carry At a stage in your marriage, you will develop thick skin and concentrate on your children as a mother 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by DEMZEE(m): 2:35pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Simran94: MEN AND WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT AND PLAY BY DIFFERENT RULES WEN IT COMES TO SEX AND RELATIONSHIPS A PROMISCUOUS WOMAN IS VERY DIFFERENT FROM A PROMISCUOUS MAN FEMALES SHOW LOYALTY THROUGH SEXUAL FIDELITY MALES SHOW LOYALTY THROUGH PROVISIONING, PROTECTION AND BEING READY TO DIE FOR THEIR WOMEN |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Born2Breed(f): 2:37pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Cheerycherry: He is already cheating. Let him know two can play the game. Firstly, reduce your financial contribution to the home. Secondly, ignore his phone. Lastly, do something, anything that will make you happy. Like I said two can play the game. Dull yourself and you become an emotional wreck. |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by olak4gold(m): 2:39pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
I love the way you don't hold it up. Talk to him and ask him how he'd feel if you were the one caught up with his cheating and lying antics. Your marriage is too young for see finish to set in so soon. Talk to your husband because men generally wish to Bleep other women they like but the respect and Godly attitude won't allow some and some men would go ahead to cheat. May GOD save your home from any calamity and uphold your family. He loves you so much he just wanna test some waters but tell him to fear God and if reverse is the case how would he feel? I am a counselor and therapist and would tell you the truth without fear or favour. GOD bless all families and would be couples. |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Ndidi2: 2:39pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
ChoCho54:is good to check phone sometimes. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Pimine: 2:40pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
dalass:Aswearugaaad I always pity Men and women don't show love the same way. You end it with a man who loves you because he slept with a girl he doesnt give a shịt about, only to end up with another man who's gonna do the same. Try that your advice at home and find your ass on the streets where you belong in less than 2secs. |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by fluffybaby(f): 2:43pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
If this was a post created by a guy now, heavens would have been pulled down by males and cheap score hunting females lamenting how all women are not loyal. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by lilvicky68(m): 2:44pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
MeghaneMorgane:I'm here.. prayers answered 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by mbjsuki(m): 2:45pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Cheerycherry: My dear sister, Please get a seat and listen carefully to what I'm about to say. 80% of men cheat, it is their DNA. I'm a man, I have been married for about 15 years. I travel a lot before and after I got married, all work related.It was a perfect opportunity to get laid. My boss was not helping either. He offered me this opportunity to get laid even when I'm not interested, all expense paid for. My Ex-boss was a chronic womanizer and a chief priest when it comes to women's affairs. That rubbed off on me over the period I was working with him. Undue influence. Check his circle of friends. And change some if need be. Keep an open communication with him, tell him what you might resolve to if this act of his continue. Ask him how he will feel if he found you in similar act! If you leave him right now, it will not change a damn thing! My wife saw and noticed all these too with me, she stood by me and changed me to a better person. Because the next guy could be brutal and worse than this current guy. Rather, sit up and be determined to make your marriage work, by all means necessary crook or by the truce. Don't you walk away because there are many consequences to that action. You can win him over with love. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by frozen70(f): 2:48pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
DEMZEE: Yes thats why the matured ones do over look that side of them When he is tired he will come back home but by then the love is gone to the kids And he will remain lonely and probably irrelevant to the woman 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Kobojunkie: 2:48pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Mom007:I wouldn't go as far as to claim that a sign of strength on her part. More like she accepts the situation no matter how demeaning it may be for her person. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Mom007(f): 2:49pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
frozen70:Good luck to you ma. I'm 9yrs and counting and I'm glad that I and my husband have not gotten to this stage yet and by Gods grace, we never will. Both our phones are unpassworded and open for anyone to use, even our kids. I'm not saying you didn't raise genuine concerns but I am saying not everyone can take what you have accepted as your fate. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Kobojunkie: 2:51pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Mom007:That is what it is. This fate people accept all so they can continue as Mrs in marriage. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by ArcSEMPECJ(m): 2:51pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Marriage is either you stay, have patience since your husband has no domestic violence abuse over you......or you leave because you feel you have a better man who won't cheat on you... All you need to do as a woman is to find other ideas your husband can divert his money into, like , building a house in the village or city, opening an investment business that will make him spend his money tightly and rightly .... |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by frozen70(f): 2:52pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Mom007: Thanks dear, I accepted my faith because there are much things to chase with my strength than chasing to know who my spouse sleeps with The children always look up to mum because they know that mum understands more than dad And they expect the mum to keep a smiling face at all time So I have to brace up 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by AfroKnight: 2:56pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
My sister, from your username Cheerycherry, I can almost guess your personality. Sometimes people think the fact that they have a good thing in hand means they can get something even better outside and move from enjoyment to enjoyment. But they are often disappointed. It is a sad thing to discover that one’s partner is cheating or at least flirting with other people. Make sure you document all your expenses towards the building project properly. Prepare yourself but hope for the best. He enjoys the thrill of flirting. He won’t stop just because you appeal to his sense of fairness. His problem is contentment. He lacks it. If you want to divorce, hope you know it’s a long journey. Don’t start without legal advice (especially concerning all joint projects and accounts). Ask plenty of questions. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by MrBroke(m): 3:09pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Y check his phone. A man is a man, you are his wife, as long as he puts you first, Bleep dem other bitches, let him eat dem. Love ain't sex. Okay. Don't continue on his phone, it might just cause a shit problem for you both. Be a Good wife that's all |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by SweetDipBenny(m): 3:10pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Cheerycherry:There're two things involve here, its either u not doin ur job well as a wife or he's jus joking wit those girls |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by AdedoyinO(f): 3:11pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
ChoCho54: Hypocrite! Would you spew this trash if it was a woman cheating on her husband covertly or overtly? Wouldn't you have told the man to send the ashawo parking? Rubbish and ingredients. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by AdedoyinO(f): 3:14pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
frozen70: Hoping that he has not infected the woman with one deadly STD by the time he is done and tired with his cheating. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by okunwaye(m): 3:18pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Why is it that if a man cheating, you will all advice the woman to cope with him and not read his chats and the rest. But if it's a woman that's the cheat it outright divorce?. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Nobody: 3:23pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
DEMZEE:OK |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Banbanna(m): 3:25pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Considering the situation, isn't it high time you start being uptight for once, since he keeps taking your jovial and amiable nature for granted. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by DeRealRalph: 3:26pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
We got married last November after 1child and 5years of dating, I borrowed close to 500k for our wedding, 2weeks after our wedding her colleague at work lodged her in a hotel and they had sex, after series of video calls asking her to show him her breast, her butt and all that, I wouldn't have known. If not for the fact that I bought her a phone on her birthday and decided to restore her WhatsApp... And all the messages started popping up, I don't what to start talking about what they said, It will break me. It's hell dealing with a cheating partner, but just move on, you may end up picking another one if u decide to divorce. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by HRMK: 3:26pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
i dont know how old u are but ur simply not yet matured for marriage!u dated a man for 6yrs and already married to him for 3yrs!u still dont understand him!cant u think of why he allows u access to his phone?dont u think he wuld rather be secretive about it all?he isnt at all cheating on u but simply catching cruise on social media!a man u share joint project with and never defaults?what else do u want?UR ON UR OWN! |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by nedekid: 3:28pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Hmm. See, if you think your husband has not or will never cheat on you, then you are living in fantasy land. The same applies with your wife. The issue is that you pray it is not excessive. This is the fact, but people look at it as impossible. |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Kobojunkie: 3:29pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
DeRealRalph:That very Hell is reason why some chose to exit such situations. Not everyone believes Hell is worth having or living with here on earth, neither worth dying in when you only have one life and chance to be happy. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Kobojunkie: 3:31pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
nedekid:What do you mean by the statement in bold though? What is the difference between cheating and excessive cheating? Does the one hurt less than the other or what? 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Ekzoba(m): 3:33pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
Your husband is an akwuna man.Sorry for your predicament.If you believe in prayers then take it to God in prayers. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by Kingpele(m): 3:33pm On Apr 01, 2022 |
U didn't catch your husband cheating on you ,best it could be attempted cheat ,now I believe just maybe your husband want to drive you nuts with jealousy o that u will pay more attention to him ,because if he is really cheating on you ,he won't live any chat for u to read ,at best your husband is cunning and manipulative, try to make him feel truly loved he will outgrow this childish behaviour, am married for 11years now believe me |
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