sajmark:

Lol, Society has made it seem like marriage is a must, especially from the moment a man clicks 30.
Even when he isn't well-to-do, a new notion is being planted in our heads that blessings will start coming when you're married... Leading a lot of men into amplified suffering, frustration and death.
I've lost interest in getting married but whenever I say it, my family and friends never seem to take it seriously.
I'm interested in having and raising kids of my own though, let's see how it pans out.

Creeza:
In all my years of studying stupidity, I've never found a specimen less worthy than yours

JESHAL:
@ ubunja and @ CaveAdullam, religion plays in the innate savior schema of men look at the story of the patient Abraham waiting for the fruit of the womb of his barren wife, look at the story of Joseph who was destined to take up a Single mother as is bride, religion weaponises love and makes it seem likes it's the Divine best interest of man to be aligned with it's dictates which mordern pastors and traditional conservatives have all positioned it to be at the best interest the Feminine imperative, when she needs it and at whatever time she's tired of her debauchery and whoredom she will find solace that the institution is cucking out beta males who see to it that it's their life mission to bring redemption to this so-called forsaken post wall hoes, at least Sarah referred to her husband as LORD and was willing to have her maidservant bear children to please her husband, how many mordern women can do what she did, look at the story of Leah and Rachel in constant competitive anxiety and dread to win the heart of their husband by giving him children even with their maidservant, how many mordern men can ever experience that Alpha like status of Jacob this 21st century where men are the ones pedestalizing and celebrating their wives, desperate for marriages, allowing their wives to control their frame, religion this 21st century specifically Christianity is very weak and has been hijacked by the Feminine imperative that's the bitter truth, no difference from the liberal ideology of tolerance and acceptance is what mordern churches are preaching too, to their members under the cloak of love and redemption

emmaodet:


Hahahaha

It is like I live rent free in her head.
Sometimes I will just see 2 or more of my mention after log-in.

Even if am happily married, does it mean I shouldn’t say the things I see going on around me or within so as to share first hand information and also compare and contrast?

Herbworks:
On Going on A Date With A “high class” Girl

Some years ago while living in Lagos, I decided to start attending Sam Adeyemi’s Daystar Church. During their leadership class, we were required to write a test. All through the lecture I didn’t take note of the lady seated by me not until we were asked to exchange answer sheets for marking that was when I noticed her cos I exchanged my script with her.

I was surprised that as beautiful as she looked that babe was dull. She scored 3/10 while I scored 9/10. It was while marking that I saw her name and phone number cos we were required to write them on our answer sheets. I codedly copied her number and I never spoke a word to her. When I got home I sent her a message on WhatsApp and was shocked and laughed when she discovered I crammed her phone number.

While chatting I discovered she was working with one of the telecom companies in banana island but was living with her parents on the mainland. We chatted for some time before we decided to meet cos I was trying to raise funds for the date The first day we were supposed to meet she didn’t show up after I was already waiting for her at ikeja shopping mall. So we rescheduled.

The next date, I had just 7k on me and was praying not to be embarrassed. She actually got there before me and was calling. When I got there, she came out and said she wants to eat pizza so I paid for pizza and drinks N4,500. After eating pizza she said she wanted to lick ice cream but I couldn’t take her to cold stone cos I knew it will be expensive so we went to another ice cream shop and bought ice for 2k.

After licking Ice cream she said we should check out the Chinese shop that sells baby wears that her little niece birthday was coming up and she wanted to buy her a gift. So before we got to the shop we saw a guy selling baby toys inside the mall and the guy told us 12k for one small toy like that
I had to ask her the age of her niece and to my surprise she said 7months

We later left there and went to the Chinese shop. She did something that day that made me laugh. She will walk around the shelfs and she will call me to come see a particular toy and how beautiful it is (So that I will ask to pay) When she noticed I didn’t fall for the trick she said she wanted to get some things from shoprite inside the mall. So we entered shoprite and she started picking body spray, Body cream, soaps etc. I was just escorting her until we got to the counter and she was waiting for me to pay ( I turned my eyes and was pretending to be pressing my phone )

She later brought out her atm card and paid. While we were leaving she told me that there’s a new eatery she saw inside the mall that she wanted us to use for our date at first but she didn’t know my budget. So she decided we just enter inside and check out their menu. When we entered there, to my surprise, a glass of drink alone was 4k We later left the mall while she took a cab, I had to trek home

After our date she stopped replying like she used to. She later told me we can hangout anytime but can’t date. So after spending 7k she ended up not dating me or giving me pussy. So since that day I made up my mind not to go on a restaurant/mall date with any girl.


I’m going to share how a girl refused to carry a friend in her car after he spent almost 30k on a date

AntichristXXX:
If you don't think you're at least a bit superior to her, she'll detect that and assume the opposite.

If you're not above her, you're below her.

And women only like men that are better than them.

Nobody believes in equality, just some idiots think they do.

Tell your son this.

heartofcity12:
Madness

Herbworks:
On Going on A Date With A “high class” Girl

Some years ago while living in Lagos, I decided to start attending Sam Adeyemi’s Daystar Church. During their leadership class, we were required to write a test. All through the lecture I didn’t take note of the lady seated by me not until we were asked to exchange answer sheets for marking that was when I noticed her cos I exchanged my script with her.

I was surprised that as beautiful as she looked that babe was dull. She scored 3/10 while I scored 9/10. It was while marking that I saw her name and phone number cos we were required to write them on our answer sheets. I codedly copied her number and I never spoke a word to her. When I got home I sent her a message on WhatsApp and was shocked and laughed when she discovered I crammed her phone number.

While chatting I discovered she was working with one of the telecom companies in banana island but was living with her parents on the mainland. We chatted for some time before we decided to meet cos I was trying to raise funds for the date The first day we were supposed to meet she didn’t show up after I was already waiting for her at ikeja shopping mall. So we rescheduled.

The next date, I had just 7k on me and was praying not to be embarrassed. She actually got there before me and was calling. When I got there, she came out and said she wants to eat pizza so I paid for pizza and drinks N4,500. After eating pizza she said she wanted to lick ice cream but I couldn’t take her to cold stone cos I knew it will be expensive so we went to another ice cream shop and bought ice for 2k.

After licking Ice cream she said we should check out the Chinese shop that sells baby wears that her little niece birthday was coming up and she wanted to buy her a gift. So before we got to the shop we saw a guy selling baby toys inside the mall and the guy told us 12k for one small toy like that
I had to ask her the age of her niece and to my surprise she said 7months

We later left there and went to the Chinese shop. She did something that day that made me laugh. She will walk around the shelfs and she will call me to come see a particular toy and how beautiful it is (So that I will ask to pay) When she noticed I didn’t fall for the trick she said she wanted to get some things from shoprite inside the mall. So we entered shoprite and she started picking body spray, Body cream, soaps etc. I was just escorting her until we got to the counter and she was waiting for me to pay ( I turned my eyes and was pretending to be pressing my phone )

She later brought out her atm card and paid. While we were leaving she told me that there’s a new eatery she saw inside the mall that she wanted us to use for our date at first but she didn’t know my budget. So she decided we just enter inside and check out their menu. When we entered there, to my surprise, a glass of drink alone was 4k We later left the mall while she took a cab, I had to trek home

After our date she stopped replying like she used to. She later told me we can hangout anytime but can’t date. So after spending 7k she ended up not dating me or giving me pussy. So since that day I made up my mind not to go on a restaurant/mall date with any girl.


I’m going to share how a girl refused to carry a friend in her car after he spent almost 30k on a date

djon78:


Serious!! For real?

Hulk now has a female one

Chei Hollywood has turned the world upside down.

Damn

CaveAdullam:
I will not really concur that religion put a lot of power in the hands of women. Because if you really check it in the Bible you'll find out it was men calling all the shots from Genesis to Revelations, women's aspect was not really pronounced.

Different religious interpretations + the government now in charge of marriage + (the advent of simps) are the real culprits. Add tolerance to this equation and you'll arrive at the current mess we are talking about. If we're to even follow the Christian doctrine unbiased, women don't have any power.

Even Christian men are way more effeminate than their biblical counterparts. Many are just running with a baton they don't understand how come about + there's a mixture of religious doctrines and secularism.

What women are truly taking advantage of in religion is the doctrine of forgiveness, and it is really a good leverage for them. And this same 'forgiveness' is the downfall of Christian men because in order to be seen as saints of God, they must recede into the feminine imperative. After all, they are practicing what their religion admonish them.

Lest I forget, what about Rehab, Mary Magdalene and the adulterous woman? They were all forgiven.



Christian men will always misconstrue vetting as being judgmental..."judge not so that ye may not be judge..."

Many even want to please their clergymen, so once this clergyman spot a repentant wh0re, they don't waste time in commiting, couple alongside the sexual deprivation they've experienced for a long time..."thank you o Lord, it is high time I cúm". The fear of missing out, family pressure, religious pressure etc always makes these men hasten into a long term relationship.

Though, it will be impossible to achieve a singular religious interpretation, however, to the nemeses splayed across the sexual market place, religion will be an effective tool as a means of correction. Let religion be in full charge of marriage or let the state accords punishment as necessary, and these messes will greatly reduce.

Thanks.

heartofcity12:


Yes o.. The show will be released soon.. they said she’s the hulk’s cousin. Mad ppp

heartofcity12:


At bolded is what simps think as well, you shouldn’t have paid, that’s the whole point of the redpill, to avoid being manipulated by these jezebels, having money or not, rich or broke. You actually simped, desist from such acts, you should have just left the disobedient bitch all alone by herself and simply walk away.

Raalsalghul:


Lol, you were suppose to reply Iyaebe and not this person. It seems this person was mentioning you because your name was in Iyaebe's post he was replying.

djon78:


Chei

The world has been completely messed up

Everything is geared towards weakening men, making many effeminate.

Damn

ubunja:
what I've realized is that the things that men think gave them power over women actually enslaved them.
See, men want sex from women while women want money from men. But then Men have to be married to get sex from women (as per the Bible), but women can get money from men with or without marriage - now who is the Bible empowering?

sajmark:
Luke 16:8 in the Bible clearly tells us that we shouldn't take religion into every other aspects of our lives.

A man's wife cheats on him and pastors start preaching to him about forgive and forget, blaming women's promiscuity on the devil.

A hoe is tired and wants to retire and she is automatically made a beacon of hope in our churches, old things have passed away... Then a brethren sweeps her off her feet.

I am a Christian but dealing with women is one aspect I know that if I bring religion into it, I will fail woefully... So I don't.

Some of the greatest simps in the world can be found in churches.

Dliquidmetal:
damn!!! Women are brutal in this game! If she had genuine desire in you I'm sure she would be more interested in knowing you by asking questions rather than her belly,she weighed her client and discovered she couldn't milk much thats why I her chatting frequency reduced lol I've learnt not to fuvk with those bitches without genuine desire for me.

I cant afford not to have more leverage in a relationship,she must always love me more than I love her.

heartofcity12:


It’s crazy, they can’t even create their own special characters, it must always be a female version of known male characters but when it’s time for war in real life, women run and categorize themselves with children and leave the battlefield for men to fight and die.

djon78:



The white man has turned everything about life completely upside down.

They are encouraging and supporting gays, lesbians, transexuals etc. But they will frown at polygamy, calling it abomination. But will support monogamy

Everything that weakens men is what they are supporting.

Many men today are completely confused.
They are being weakened while the women are being empowered to be stronger.

I wonder how the future of the world will be.
A lot of strange things are happening.

Redpill is out there to warn men, but how many of our men are listening?

How many

CaveAdullam:


1. Religion is a perfect niche repentant wh0res, unrepentant wh0res and pretentious folks normally recede to when exhibiting their charcter. The essence is for you to loose guard because religious people are seen as people with better character than their secular counterparts. So, these pretentious folks mimicks or camouflage themselves with religion in order to wave off any suspicion.

2. Men normally fall for this when it comes to women because what they truly need in a woman is not her status, beauty or money - though these are important, but men used this religious insignia to judge a woman's chastity, modesty and submissiveness because these qualities ensures a better and lasting union. If she's obedient to God, definitely, she must be obedient to her husband and respect him. However, this is not the case when it comes to those with religious affectations - they are wolves in sheep clothings.

3. Because men are pragmatic they can hold on to moral codes and conduct, emotional beings like women lacks good sense of justice and will rationalize around it in order to come to their own satisfaction, rather than the truth in particular. This is because women are scared of the punishment that comes in failing with keeping up with their duties and responsibilities; accusations and punishment is like ostracism, and because they're weak by nature and can't fully fend and cater for themselves, they'll not keep up to fairness, justice and truth when they're being tested.

4. Women are more religious than men, yet are ruthless when it comes to sexual relationship. This is because of their love for mysteries, and religion carries that mysteries. Superstitions, folktales and myths only works true for those that are highly emotional, and women falls into this category. Women also love religion because they're able to decipher the part of it that best favours their nature and either throw away or subdue the other part that scares them.

5. These pretentious women always make a funny but cunning move. That is, they always like persuading their prey/spouse to their religious circle. This is done so that their victim can loose guard and not doubt them. And when their victim fails to comply, they accuse them of worldliness, which is another way of projecting their shortcomings to their unsuspecting victim and taking the position of a judge.

6. Since religion frowns against divorce and should be seek as a last option, these women always used it to compel the man to remain in that relationship. Now, the man wants to both keep to the tenets of his religion + want to make the relationship work, however, he's very unsatisfied about it.

Remember that religion preaches tolerance, peace and forgiveness; welcome to the last machine in women's arsenal; "if God can forgive you and all of us our sins, why do you find it difficult to forgive me?" Tears is always accompanied with this phrase in order to demonstrate her genuineness and change of heart. And at the end, the man is tethered to her.

7. Women will never find it difficult to fvck a man they desire, religion or not. The religious ones that want to fvck will always run back to God for forgiveness after satisfying their hypergamous instinct - resources and/or quality genes. But on vetting women, this even is a dealbreaker, because if she's not faithful to her God who is more superior than her man, then she will definitely betray that man at any given opportunity.

Like I'm about bringing myself to a stalemate here and now. Looool!

8. Religious women are still the best when it comes to a long term relationship, but herein, as a man, before you commit, you must not be swayed by her religious harangues. It is your duty to vet her within and without. Two or more of the most important factors to check before you commit to them:
A. Age. If she is not close to the wall + faithful to her God, it indicates quality.

B. Virginity. No need to be pretentious or nice when it comes to questioning a woman's sexuality, however, it must be done with intelligence and subtlety in order to get to the end point. If you're satisfied with her sexual history you can decide what to do from there.

C. Materialism. Is she contented with what you give? Does she weigh you with other men? Does she keeps quiet when you squander your resources? Does she has a long term investment plan?

Religion preaches contentment, but once you sense an unappreciative lifestyle + entitlement mentality, call off the relationship.

9. Like I said before, religion or not, women will fvck when they want to fvck and can choose to start a relationship from there. If she gravitates towards your sexual flirtations but yet still maintaining a good boundary with her God and you alone, not adding other men secretly to the equation, then, she's a good bet.

This is very difficult I must say. Sigh!

Without further ado:

DAY 91, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Learn to separate chaffs from wheats.

Herbworks:
So a colleague and friend then in Lagos told me about this babe he has been interacting with in church. According to him the babe is one of those girls forming high class in church. She worked as a chartered accountant and also drives an Hyundai car that her brother bought for her.

So, he told me he has fixed a date with the babe in Ikeja shopping mall and asked me to accompany him. We got there and waited for the girl for almost an hour before she finally came. He took her to a restaurant inside the mall and the babe was just ordering for everything orderable I couldn’t order much cos I was trying to pity him. After they ate, and drank wine she decided to take her leave.

Mind you, that restaurant sells expensive foods and wine and my guy spent almost 30k at that sitting. After we came out from the restaurant, followed her to her car, and my guy asked her to drop us at our route since she was going same way this babe refused

I was angry cos I couldn’t understand why she couldn’t drop off a guy that just spent almost 30k for a date. That was how she drove off and we had to trek home cos our apartment wasn’t too far from the mall.

After that meeting the girl stopped communicating with my guy and even told a member of the church that my guy didn’t have shame for asking a girl to drop him off when he should be the one dropping a girl off

Mhenn!! Forget naija girls abeg

ubunja:


This is what happened back in the day in my very own church that clarified the "Nice Guy like Bad Girls/The Good Girl like Bad Boys" thing for me.

So around the time of finishing my secondary schooling back in Zimbabwe, one guy in our clique was a dedicated Christian belonging to a certain denomination and it so happened that we all ended up joining that denomination. Till date I'm with the denomination. It's one of the very conservative churches.

So there was this chick in our hood, a hot thick delicious yellowbone whose young sister was a member of our church. But this thick mami was not a Christian and ran with local thugs who were definitely using her as a sperm dish. As time went on and she neared 30 suddenly she did a 180° turn, dropped the wwhoring and joined our church (because young sis was already there) getting baptized in record time! Then swiftly, in the space of a few months, some brother snapped her up and cuffed, giving her a respectable white wedding!!. I was dumbfounded!! True, the lady was fireeee, but c'mon! Girl's history was too much. I remember saying too myself "what about the long time female members who have been overlooked, how does this make them feel. Don't they feel betrayed?"

Funny thing,, barely a few months later, the hottest girl in church, a petite hun with a golden voice who every brother wanted, suddenly turned up pregnant! What? And that wasn't the worst part. Turns out the dude who impregnated her was some heathen thug who never set foot in church! We were stunned. And for her part, the girl quickly migrated to South Africa to escape the shame.

Those two events, happening so closely, gave me much food for thought for years and helped define the game for me: good men are turned on by hoes, and good girls are equally turned on by thugs. Good girls and Good men don't mix - Cause they're both boring and would bore each other to death. Hoes and thugs don't mix - two fast people will soon burn each other out. If a guy is good, he's looking for a hoe for excitement and to bring out his dark side through her and live out his dirty fantasies via her [while the bad girl is with the good guy for some calm and peace]. If a guy is bad, he's looking for good girl to bring out his bright side through her and for her to bring some calm to his life [while the good girl is with the bad man for the excitement and energy] Good Men are captain save a hoe, just like Good Girls themselves are captain save a hoe. Good men want to save, Bad Men want to be saved. Good girls want to save, bad girls want to be saved.

CaveAdullam:


What you stated here is actually correct! Especially when we take men's sexuality into cognizance. Religious restrictions on sex actually hinders men sexual prowess.

However, this restriction is an advantage when it comes to long term commitment to both sexes. Because promiscuity on the side of the woman makes bonding impossible and (same as the man). While promiscuity on the side of the man leads to less productivity.

(Though, men are checking out of the sexual market place, which indicates low sex rate for men. But I don't really categorize it as a lack of sex per se, but that there are less quality women to commit to). The secular world is void of religious constraints, yet, same problem is still recognized there.

Then, on the issue of money, men will not feel jilted when they keep sex/lust aside, as all money given must have good returns. Once they've this at the side of their minds they won't persuade women into their web with their money + resources, (however, these are what women are really attracted to).

Be as it may, you made a valid point.

Thanks.

Herbworks:
So a colleague and friend then in Lagos told me about this babe he has been interacting with in church. According to him the babe is one of those girls forming high class in church. She worked as a chartered accountant and also drives an Hyundai car that her brother bought for her.

So, he told me he has fixed a date with the babe in Ikeja shopping mall and asked me to accompany him. We got there and waited for the girl for almost an hour before she finally came. He took her to a restaurant inside the mall and the babe was just ordering for everything orderable I couldn’t order much cos I was trying to pity him. After they ate, and drank wine she decided to take her leave.

Mind you, that restaurant sells expensive foods and wine and my guy spent almost 30k at that sitting. After we came out from the restaurant, followed her to her car, and my guy asked her to drop us at our route since she was going same way this babe refused

I was angry cos I couldn’t understand why she couldn’t drop off a guy that just spent almost 30k for a date. That was how she drove off and we had to trek home cos our apartment wasn’t too far from the mall.

After that meeting the girl stopped communicating with my guy and even told a member of the church that my guy didn’t have shame for asking a girl to drop him off when he should be the one dropping a girl off

Mhenn!! Forget naija girls abeg

blinking001:

Naija girls are terrible

CsRockefeller:
How do you handle a situation where you have been in talking stage with a colleague in different departments. Had some romantic chats, and a botched romantic date, still a virgin and a high flier. Just to suddenly find out today that the same colleague has been promoted to Head of Accounts. In my Dept I'm not even top 3.

Reason I've been foot dragging on a relationship has been because of our status as colleagues and she being in a relatively top position than me prior to now.

Now the die is cast and I don't even know what to do anymore.

Note: 2 young staff are married to themselves here where I work. Heard they met themselves here before getting married.

How do you guys think I should handle this situation?

ubunja:
long term commitment to one woman is a beta device to secure sexual security. A true alpha who gets women is enslaved by this custom. He loses more than he gains.

sajmark:
Try something new kings, change your hairstyle, grow a beard, build some muscle, up your hygiene, dress better, wear a cologne... These little things can make a big difference.