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Re: About My Elder Brother Who Does Not Care About Us by johnmba: 4:21pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
https://www.nairaland.com/5494102/rich-brother-does-not-care Hello house, i opened the above thread some time ago about my elder brother attitude towards us his sibling. am here to give update. my brother has gradually changed, he can now pick our calls and we have some discussion unlike before. He now calls to check up on us when there are issues in our places of residence. He has even joined our family whatsapp group and he participate actively. i want to appreciate all who gave meaning advice during that discussion. money is good but everything is not all about money. most times what family members needs is love and care. I love a happy family and its wonderful to see family that live in peace. i want to thank Madridguy, your post then really gave me hope that families with similar issues can be restored. my advice to those who feel they can do without their family is remember God blessed you not because you are the smartest but by his grace. we dont have much time to stay here on earth so lets love and cherish one another. NB nobody was asking him for money for people shouting entitlement this entitlement that. we are all doing well and we wanted our brother back. now that he is back everybody is happy and the family is moving fine. 235 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: Re: About My Elder Brother Who Does Not Care About Us by johnmba: 4:23pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Lalasticlala, myd44, seun you can move to front page for update as the thread made front page then 3 Likes |
Re: Re: About My Elder Brother Who Does Not Care About Us by Karleb(m): 4:27pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Everything is no about money but money also matters tho. Don't be ashamed to admit that. ![]() 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Re: About My Elder Brother Who Does Not Care About Us by johnmba: 4:29pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Karleb: one day your money will disappoint you. 83 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Re: About My Elder Brother Who Does Not Care About Us by 9182736455O1999(m): 4:32pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
So how did you settle the issue.
what made him to change? 16 Likes |
Re: Re: About My Elder Brother Who Does Not Care About Us by Arkmanbuddy(m): 4:32pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Good to know. |
Re: Re: About My Elder Brother Who Does Not Care About Us by Nobody: 4:33pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Has he started giving you money? 12 Likes |
Re: Re: About My Elder Brother Who Does Not Care About Us by Mjshexy(f): 4:47pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Love conquers all, God bless your family 9 Likes |
Re: Re: About My Elder Brother Who Does Not Care About Us by Karleb(m): 5:00pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
johnmba: You are a fool! 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Re: About My Elder Brother Who Does Not Care About Us by Halimaatz(f): 5:05pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Iyaebe: ![]() 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Re: About My Elder Brother Who Does Not Care About Us by Halimaatz(f): 5:07pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Karleb:A hungry man is an angry man lol ![]() 75 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Re: About My Elder Brother Who Does Not Care About Us by BabbanBura(m): 5:26pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
9182736455O1999: OP Me too i wan know how una do change am 2 Likes |
Re: Re: About My Elder Brother Who Does Not Care About Us by Nobody: 5:53pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Awesome 1 Like |
Re: Re: About My Elder Brother Who Does Not Care About Us by Dailyparrot: 6:52pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
It depends on what you want from your brother. I believe we can love from afar. I don't call my brothers and they don't call me and we're cool with that. Anytime I ever see their calls coming in, I already knew that something has happened. But we're not enemies. We just want to mind each other's business. 35 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Re: About My Elder Brother Who Does Not Care About Us by Mariangeles(f): 7:19pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Dailyparrot: When I read comments such as this one, it shows me how much I'm blessed. I can't help but be grateful for the kind of family that I have. Truly, some of us don't even realize how blessed we are until we read/hear the story of others. 94 Likes |
Re: Re: About My Elder Brother Who Does Not Care About Us by johnmba: 7:34pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Mariangeles: some people dont know the joy in a happy family. some pray for the downfall of others because of the katakata in their own 51 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Re: About My Elder Brother Who Does Not Care About Us by johnmba: 7:36pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Karleb: keep exposing yourself 30 Likes |
Re: Re: About My Elder Brother Who Does Not Care About Us by Calibrator: 7:40pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Entitlement attitude is a progress blocker..... Doubt if you will notice your brother's cold shoulder if you are doing well yourself. I don't blame him for cutting off dead weights. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Re: About My Elder Brother Who Does Not Care About Us by Mariangeles(f): 8:11pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Calibrator: Dude! Not everything is about money, as money cannot solve everything. Of what value is what you have if nobody wants them from you? Believe it or not, siblings are obligated to one another. You're responsible for me as much as I am responsible for you. No man is an island. 79 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Re: About My Elder Brother Who Does Not Care About Us by Calibrator: 8:30pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
I said what I said. This mentality is always fronted by the less privileged and entitled peeps in every family. If you are doing well for yourself, life na per head. Nobody should leech on another. Face your immediate family and let communication amongst siblings be strictly about courtesy not billings as if the elder bro is in charge of the family trust fund As the first son of the family who is forging ahead without any past or present assistance, just sheer individual willpower, I know first hand how people like OP reason, I also followed the initial thread page to page that year. Nonsense and entitlement! Mariangeles: 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Re: About My Elder Brother Who Does Not Care About Us by Dailyparrot: 8:30pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Mariangeles: Are you insinuating that my family is not blessed because we don't call each other? I talk with my sisters everytime. Besides, I am the kind of person that don't like disturbance, reason I don't keep friends. I'm very comfortable as we love each other from the comfort of our homes. As far as no one is in distress, that's all that matters. Calling to check up on people is just formality. I don't value it. 36 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Re: About My Elder Brother Who Does Not Care About Us by Dailyparrot: 8:33pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Calibrator: Sounds like it. When you are busy chasing money in the streets, you will not even know who called you and who did not. Sometimes, when my sisters call, they'll be like, it's been a while. I don't even know it is. 6 Likes |
Re: Re: About My Elder Brother Who Does Not Care About Us by johnmba: 8:39pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Calibrator: did you ever read the post before making your useless post. who is talking about entitlement here. for your information all of are doing well in our various field and nobody is asking him for money. all we were looking for was the love we all shared as a family. read the initial post, i have 10 people am feeding to the Glory of God. why did he come back to us if he fills we are pestering him 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Re: About My Elder Brother Who Does Not Care About Us by johnmba: 8:42pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Calibrator: people like you are the problem we have in this part of the world. you just open your mouth and vomit rubbish without reading the post 27 Likes |
Re: Re: About My Elder Brother Who Does Not Care About Us by madridguy(m): 8:42pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
I am happy to hear your brother has changed for good. johnmba: 7 Likes |
Re: Re: About My Elder Brother Who Does Not Care About Us by Calibrator: 8:49pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Doubt if they will be expending same energy if the guy is not well to do. I know his type. ![]() Dailyparrot: 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Re: About My Elder Brother Who Does Not Care About Us by johnmba: 9:55pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
Calibrator: we use the same energy for all family members even extended families. we dont behave like you people. Jesus said the man left 99 sheep to go look for just 1 22 Likes |
Re: Re: About My Elder Brother Who Does Not Care About Us by oshonwambada: 10:30pm On Apr 03, 2022 |
johnmba:Never you reply to some idiots here cos majority of them are empty heads. 17 Likes |
Re: Re: About My Elder Brother Who Does Not Care About Us by Emmexguy123: 7:53am On Apr 04, 2022 |
We all thank God for such a peaceful experience and testimony you're having now. It shall be permanent Amen Meanwhile, This is my mood till I leave Africa continent 4 Likes
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Re: Re: About My Elder Brother Who Does Not Care About Us by EmzyT: 7:54am On Apr 04, 2022 |
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