CAPSLOCKED:


MAYBE THEY'RE SINGLE BECAUSE MOST SUCCESSFUL WOMEN WOULD RATHER GO FOR MORE SUCCESSFUL MEN, AND WE KNOW THE NUMBER OF MEN UP IN THAT ZONE IS LIMITED COMPARED TO AVERAGE AND POOR MEN.

A RICH MAN CAN FALL IN LOVE WITH A STRUGGLING GRADUATE OR FRUIT HAWKER. A RICH WOMAN WILL ONLY SETTLE FOR RICH DUDES. THE SMARTER SHE IS THE SMARTER A PARTNER SHE'LL SEEK FOR. THE MORE EXPOSED SHE IS THE MORE SHE'LL BE LOOKING TO SETTLE FOR A MORE EXPOSED MAN. LET'S NOT PRETEND TODAY THAT HYPERGAMY DOESN'T EXIST.

Ekwutox:


And this so called hypergamy is mostly as a result of insecure men who feel threatened by every thing their wealthy wives does.

What woman would want to deal with such?

socialmediaman:
Many men would've loved to marry their high school or college sweethearts with similar education if they had the means while they were dating or after graduation, so is this just a figment of your imagination?

1Sharon:
I've seen some men state they do not want to marry highly educated women because they feel she'll butt heads with them and be too opinionated. So instead they feel lowly educated women make better spouses and opt for them instead.

Now when these men have daughters, they wouldn't want her to have little to no academic education, they'd want her to make the most she can of herself. They might even call her lazy or unambitious if she decides not to pursue further or higher education.

Now these type of men are encouraging and moulding their own daughters to be the kind of women they would have never picked for a spouse.

So is this hypocrisy or nature?

For men like this, if women that are highly educated are a turn-off and have already priced themselves out of the market:

Why do you encourage your own daughters to be exactly like them?

1Sharon:


That's funny because alot of successful BLACK women are single.
Look at the Nigerian women in entertainment, in music and film.

Compete with who? A man?

CAPSLOCKED:


MAYBE THEY'RE SINGLE BECAUSE MOST SUCCESSFUL WOMEN WOULD RATHER GO FOR MORE SUCCESSFUL MEN, AND WE KNOW THE NUMBER OF MEN UP IN THAT ZONE IS LIMITED COMPARED TO AVERAGE AND POOR MEN.

A RICH MAN CAN FALL IN LOVE WITH A STRUGGLING GRADUATE OR FRUIT HAWKER. A RICH WOMAN WILL ONLY SETTLE FOR RICH DUDES. THE SMARTER SHE IS THE SMARTER A PARTNER SHE'LL SEEK FOR. THE MORE EXPOSED SHE IS THE MORE SHE'LL BE LOOKING TO SETTLE FOR A MORE EXPOSED MAN. LET'S NOT PRETEND TODAY THAT HYPERGAMY DOESN'T EXIST.

1Sharon:
I've seen some men state they do not want to marry highly educated women because they feel she'll butt heads with them and be too opinionated. So instead they feel lowly educated women make better spouses and opt for them instead.

Now when these men have daughters, they wouldn't want her to have little to no academic education, they'd want her to make the most she can of herself. They might even call her lazy or unambitious if she decides not to pursue further or higher education.

Now these type of men are encouraging and moulding their own daughters to be the kind of women they would have never picked for a spouse.

So is this hypocrisy or nature?

For men like this, if women that are highly educated are a turn-off and have already priced themselves out of the market:

Why do you encourage your own daughters to be exactly like them?

bukatyne:


Have you thought that maybe the 'successful black woman' doesn't want a man?

addictiv:
Op... Only yeye men want that... True alphas want the best for their wives and daughters. Stop breeding with rifrafs.

1Sharon:
I've seen some men state they do not want to marry highly educated women because they feel she'll butt heads with them and be too opinionated. So instead they feel lowly educated women make better spouses and opt for them instead.

Now when these men have daughters, they wouldn't want her to have little to no academic education, they'd want her to make the most she can of herself. They might even call her lazy or unambitious if she decides not to pursue further or higher education.

Now these type of men are encouraging and moulding their own daughters to be the kind of women they would have never picked for a spouse.

So is this hypocrisy or nature?

For men like this, if women that are highly educated are a turn-off and have already priced themselves out of the market:

Why do you encourage your own daughters to be exactly like them?

Lari03r:
Be specific about the category of men you are talking about.

An educated man can not enjoy companionship with an uneducated woman. The thread binding them will only be intercourse and mundane matters, they can never connect on an intellectual level. And this means the man will definitely prefer a different woman as time goes by.

You are probably referring to semi-literate men who learned a skill after secondary school. While all men are men, there are differences in orientation, quality and outlook.

I personally love intelligent women especially female lawyers. Men who are afraid of a woman's education belong to the last century.

MadamVanessa:



All men are hypocrites seriously.

They called every man that love and respected women simp, but same men will call a man that shows their own daughter so much love, respect and care a responsible and God fearing man.

If the man be a little hard on their daughter has they been preaching that men should be, you see them opening the gate of hell for the man.


That's them for you, especially most of them parading here in Nigeria.

Confused lots.

CuteMike01:


There could be a lot of reasons for that but a major one is that the life of an average lady is very complicated and bleeped up. Remember it is a man's world.

We want to have our peace of mind thus our marriage with less educated women. We also wouldn't like our daughters to be far behind at this time of the world that we are. With the way things are tough now, it wouldn't be a good idea to raise a daughter who isn't capable of at least fending for herself. Thus, we empower our daughters.

Hypocritical you say?

We humans, male or female are all hypocritical in one way or another. Your feelings can't change this dear. If you want people to act according to your thoughts, feelings or imagination, you're living in a fool's paradise.

1Sharon:


Well you know you're ruining your chances of your daughter finding a spouse if she's too educated.

I'f you're saying not being educated kepps you far behind. You don't want it in a spouse?

Do you feel a woman highly educated is good or not?

CuteMike01:


For others maybe yes but for marriage stability and longi
etivity, I personally would prefer a less educated lady. No offense.

1Sharon:


Would you want your daughter to be less educated?

1Sharon:


Well you know you're ruining your chances of your daughter finding a spouse if she's too educated.

I'f you're saying not being educated kepps you far behind. You don't want it in a spouse?

Do you feel a woman highly educated is good or not?

Favfables1:
Sweetheart...

I don't know where you heard this from, but I WILL NEVER MARRY AN UNEDUCATED WOMAN

likeeee....
How we won communicate?
How will she raise my kids?

Abeg o...
The future of my seeds is at stake here ....
Make she carry her wahala comot Biko....

MrBrownJay1:
who wants an uneducated olodo as a wife?! who wants an uneducated olodo as the mother of his children? isnt it that same uneducated olodo that will now raise your kids?

only a very insecure man would look down on an educated woman...

Ekwutox:


And this so called hypergamy is mostly as a result of insecure men who feel threatened by every thing their wealthy wives does.

What woman would want to deal with such?

1Sharon:
I've seen some men state they do not want to marry highly educated women because they feel she'll butt heads with them and be too opinionated. So instead they feel lowly educated women make better spouses and opt for them instead.

Now when these men have daughters, they wouldn't want her to have little to no academic education, they'd want her to make the most she can of herself. They might even call her lazy or unambitious if she decides not to pursue further or higher education.

Now these type of men are encouraging and moulding their own daughters to be the kind of women they would have never picked for a spouse.

So is this hypocrisy or nature?

For men like this, if women that are highly educated are a turn-off and have already priced themselves out of the market:

Why do you encourage your own daughters to be exactly like them?

1Sharon:
I've
Why do you encourage your own daughters to be exactly like them?

kkins25:
Its not insecurity sir, its basic biology. You don see loneliness being dorminated by a weaker male?? Its the same priniciple.
Why do you think a girl would not mind dating a married man? Especially if he is successful? Biology sir! Biology.. Go and find out why women also over look short men. Its not culture, its biology sir, Biology!!

1Sharon:


This topic is about men that feel women who are less educated make better spouses

Don't pretend you haven't heard men say this

Ekwutox:


Hypergamy has nothing to do with biology okay. Its all about social/educational status which most women who are higher in that aspect refuse to date men who are lower due to insecurity and toxic masculinity.

1Sharon:


Don't gaslight me abeg. On this very forum, men have repeatedly stated women who are highly educated and thus very successful are a turn off because they won't submit and allow them to dominate.

Nigerian men have an issue with a woman that even owns a car for Christ sake!

Favfables1:


Sweetheart...
To a man who has an MSc. or a PH.D, a secondary school lady is no different from an illiterate, no offence...

And that kind of individual (a lady with "less education) in my opinion isn't good enough to raise my kids...

1Sharon:
I've seen some men state they do not want to marry highly educated women because they feel she'll butt heads with them and be too opinionated. So instead they feel lowly educated women make better spouses and opt for them instead.

Now when these men have daughters, they wouldn't want her to have little to no academic education, they'd want her to make the most she can of herself. They might even call her lazy or unambitious if she decides not to pursue further or higher education.

Now these type of men are encouraging and moulding their own daughters to be the kind of women they would have never picked for a spouse.

So is this hypocrisy or nature?

For men like this, if women that are highly educated are a turn-off and have already priced themselves out of the market:

Why do you encourage your own daughters to be exactly like them?

Dynmyt:

If the topic was "why do men go after classy educated ladies", u will see them coming out of their holes saying, who wants a classy educated lady.. Those evening newspaper? Is it those ones that don't respect their husbands? Everyone will claim redpiller automatically

1Sharon:


Don't mind them. Even here, they have revealed the truth eventually.