Karleb:
Everything is no about money but money also matters tho.

Don't be ashamed to admit that.

johnmba:


one day your money will disappoint you.

Iyaebe:
Has he started giving you money?

Karleb:

You are a fool!

9182736455O1999:
So how did you settle the issue.
what made him to change?

Dailyparrot:
It depends on what you want from your brother. I believe we can love from afar.

I don't call my brothers and they don't call me and we're cool with that.

Anytime I ever see their calls coming in, I already knew that something has happened. But we're not enemies. We just want to mind each other's business.

Mariangeles:


When I read comments such as this one, it shows me how much I'm blessed.
I can't help but be grateful for the kind of family that I have.

Truly, some of us don't even realize how blessed we are until we read/hear the story of others.

Karleb:


You are a fool!

Calibrator:
Entitlement attitude is a progress blocker..... Doubt if you will notice your brother's cold shoulder if you are doing well yourself.


I don't blame him for cutting off dead weights.

Mariangeles:


Dude! Not everything is about money, as money cannot solve everything.
Of what value is what you have if nobody wants them from you?

Believe it or not, siblings are obligated to one another.
You're responsible for me as much as I am responsible for you.
No man is an island.

Mariangeles:


When I read comments such as this one, it shows me how much I'm blessed.
I can't help but be grateful for the kind of family that I have.

Truly, some of us don't even realize how blessed we are until we read/hear the story of others.

Calibrator:
Entitlement attitude is a progress blocker..... Doubt if you will notice your brother's cold shoulder if you are doing well yourself.


I don't blame him for cutting off dead weights.

Calibrator:
Entitlement attitude is a progress blocker..... Doubt if you will notice your brother's cold shoulder if you are doing well yourself.


I don't blame him for cutting off dead weights.

Calibrator:
I said what I said.


This mentality is always fronted by the less privileged and entitled peeps in every family.


If you are doing well for yourself, life na per head. Nobody should leech on another.



Face your immediate family and let communication amongst siblings be strictly about courtesy not billings as if the elder bro is in charge of the family trust fund


As the first son of the family who is forging ahead without any past or present assistance, just sheer individual willpower, I know first hand how people like OP reason, I also followed the initial thread page to page that year.


Nonsense and entitlement!

johnmba:
https://www.nairaland.com/5494102/rich-brother-does-not-care

Hello house, i opened the above thread some time ago about my elder brother attitude towards us his sibling. am here to give update.

my brother has gradually changed, he can now pick our calls and we have some discussion unlike before. He now calls to check up on us when there are issues in our places of residence. He has even joined our family whatsapp group and he participate actively.

i want to appreciate all who gave meaning advice during that discussion. money is good but everything is not all about money. most times what family members needs is love and care. I love a happy family and its wonderful to see family that live in peace.

i want to thank Madridguy, your post then really gave me hope that families with similar issues can be restored.

my advice to those who feel they can do without their family is remember God blessed you not because you are the smartest but by his grace. we dont have much time to stay here on earth so lets love and cherish one another.

Dailyparrot:



Sounds like it. When you are busy chasing money in the streets, you will not even know who called you and who did not.

Sometimes, when my sisters call, they'll be like, it's been a while. I don't even know it is.

Calibrator:
Doubt if they will be expending same energy if the guy is not well to do.


I know his type.

johnmba:


did you ever read the post before making your useless post. who is talking about entitlement here. for your information all of are doing well in our various field and nobody is asking him for money. all we were looking for was the love we all shared as a family.

read the initial post, i have 10 people am feeding to the Glory of God.

why did he come back to us if he fills we are pestering him