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I Think Life In Nigeria Looks Fair Enough For Women Than Men!!! by MadeINchenzen2: 8:03pm On Apr 03, 2022
That's my thought though... call it my opinion if you like.

Well I think generally speaking, God created women to have it come good, nice and easy without having to cut an artery to get what they want.

Sometimes I hear some wailing men say, life is too hard and it wouldn't be so if they were born as women.

In some climes, this wouldn't be a subject worth discussing... but here in Africa, Nigeria precisely... it is something one would give some attention to most time because of the ever escalating hardship and unprecedented rising poverty levels that's gone close to 95%, people living in abject penury and depression.

Categorically speaking more than 60% of people in this poverty line are men and you are left with more questions as to why has it got to be the men. Well... according to mentality, the men are the ones who have to do all the work and bring it home to the price at home.

Life is so unfair to Men...why?? grin

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Re: I Think Life In Nigeria Looks Fair Enough For Women Than Men!!! by snillocer(m): 8:05pm On Apr 03, 2022
Actually, It is the other way round.
Re: I Think Life In Nigeria Looks Fair Enough For Women Than Men!!! by EzegeNdiigbo: 8:08pm On Apr 03, 2022
MadeINchenzen2 which part of Zoo are ya from because you sound Nervous
Re: I Think Life In Nigeria Looks Fair Enough For Women Than Men!!! by MadeINchenzen2: 8:09pm On Apr 03, 2022
EzegeNdiigbo:
MadeINchenzen2 which part of Zoo are ya from because you sound Nervous

Re: I Think Life In Nigeria Looks Fair Enough For Women Than Men!!! by Blakjewelry(m): 8:10pm On Apr 03, 2022
If you are a man you are definitely going to say it favors the ladies more, but if you are a woman you are definitely going to say otherwise
Re: I Think Life In Nigeria Looks Fair Enough For Women Than Men!!! by MadeINchenzen2: 8:11pm On Apr 03, 2022
Blakjewelry:
If you are a man you are definitely going to say it favors the ladies more, but if you are a woman you are definitely going to say otherwise
so what do u think?
Re: I Think Life In Nigeria Looks Fair Enough For Women Than Men!!! by MadeINchenzen2: 8:12pm On Apr 03, 2022
snillocer:
Actually, It is the other way round.
u think so??
Re: I Think Life In Nigeria Looks Fair Enough For Women Than Men!!! by Halimaatz(f): 8:12pm On Apr 03, 2022
Most ladies wish they were men.

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Re: I Think Life In Nigeria Looks Fair Enough For Women Than Men!!! by Realmi: 8:14pm On Apr 03, 2022
The world favours women mostly not just Nigeria
Re: I Think Life In Nigeria Looks Fair Enough For Women Than Men!!! by snillocer(m): 8:14pm On Apr 03, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
u think so??

No, it is. I'll explain later.
Re: I Think Life In Nigeria Looks Fair Enough For Women Than Men!!! by Blakjewelry(m): 8:15pm On Apr 03, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
so what do u think?
Neither because in some aspect it sucks to be a man, but then again there are areas were I will never dream of ever been a woman
Re: I Think Life In Nigeria Looks Fair Enough For Women Than Men!!! by Abudu2000(m): 8:16pm On Apr 03, 2022
How many ladies u see as graduates complain of unemployment? How many women are in prison, how many women have to really work hard to make money in their place of work it's still favours them more than their male colleagues. I know alot of ladies that were retained in their ppa but guys are hardly that lucky.

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Re: I Think Life In Nigeria Looks Fair Enough For Women Than Men!!! by Youngpo413: 8:19pm On Apr 03, 2022
It favors the beautiful and hardworking women aka goal getters...they always know the right place at the right time.
Re: I Think Life In Nigeria Looks Fair Enough For Women Than Men!!! by MadeINchenzen2: 8:22pm On Apr 03, 2022
Youngpo413:
It favors the beautiful and hardworking women aka goal getters...they always know the right place at the right time.
elaborate pls grin
Re: I Think Life In Nigeria Looks Fair Enough For Women Than Men!!! by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:38pm On Apr 03, 2022
A) let us all understand that what you wrote is based on the good ol' days.
B) its just as hard for men AND women out there, the difference is that some deluded men want to go and take care of women's need before their own, lol!
C) as much as having a toto greatly help in life, it sure aint nothing compared to being a hardworking/smart person (and this has no gender)
D) as much as some women can sell themselves and/or get married to the highest bidders, these women are still very much POOR.

society, culture, religion, family AND KONJI should be blamed for that

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Re: I Think Life In Nigeria Looks Fair Enough For Women Than Men!!! by Truvelisback(m): 8:43pm On Apr 03, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
That's my thought though... call it my opinion if you like.

Well I think generally speaking, God created women to have it come good, nice and easy without having to cut an artery to get what they want.

Sometimes I hear some wailing men say, life is too hard and it wouldn't be so if they were born as women.

In some climes, this wouldn't be a subject worth discussing... but here in Africa, Nigeria precisely... it is something one would give some attention to most time because of the ever escalating hardship and unprecedented rising poverty levels that's gone close to 95%, people living in abject penury and depression.

Categorically speaking more than 60% of people in this poverty line are men and you are left with more questions as to why has it got to be the men. Well... according to mentality, the men are the ones who have to do all the work and bring it home to the price at home.

Life is so unfair to Men...why?? grin
Women suffers too.
Re: I Think Life In Nigeria Looks Fair Enough For Women Than Men!!! by MadeINchenzen2: 8:48pm On Apr 03, 2022
MrBrownJay1:
A) let us all understand that what you wrote is based on the good ol' days.
B) its just as hard for men AND women out there, the difference is that some deluded men want to go and take care of women's need before their own, lol!
C) as much as having a toto greatly help in life, it sure aint nothing compared to being a hardworking/smart person (and this has no gender)
D) as much as some women can sell themselves and/or get married to the highest bidders, these women are still very much POOR.

society, culture, religion, family AND KONJI should be blamed for that
lol...konji grin
Re: I Think Life In Nigeria Looks Fair Enough For Women Than Men!!! by tensazangetsu20(m): 9:07pm On Apr 03, 2022
Yeah especially if the woman is educated. It's much more easier for a woman to get a job in Nigeria than a man. I was extremely shocked when a lady I met who was in customer support got a 250k a month data analyst job. She knows absolutely nothing about data analysis and the company wants to train her on the job.

On nairaland here alone, there's 100s of guys who have devoted years to learn that skill and no one will ever give them a job but a woman who doesn't know will get it and be taught on the job. Educated women here have it so much easier.

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Re: I Think Life In Nigeria Looks Fair Enough For Women Than Men!!! by pansophist(m): 9:41pm On Apr 03, 2022
To add to this, the hardship men face would be soften if they are not carrying heavy financial burden of others such as old parents, siblings, and God forbid, a materialistic girlfriend.

If its just him alone, most men will be good. Men's life are practical and easily adapted to reality. Most men can personally live in one room with only a bed and a plate comfortably. We are that simple.

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Re: I Think Life In Nigeria Looks Fair Enough For Women Than Men!!! by pansophist(m): 9:51pm On Apr 03, 2022
tensazangetsu20:
Yeah especially if the woman is educated. It's much more easier for a woman to get a job in Nigeria than a man. I was extremely shocked when a lady I met who was in customer support got a 250k a month data analyst job. She knows absolutely nothing about data analysis and the company wants to train her on the job.

On nairaland here alone, there's 100s of guys who have devoted years to learn that skill and no one will ever give them a job but a woman who doesn't know will get it and be taught on the job. Educated women here have it so much easier.

Where most female hardship comes from is relational (relationships), and hardly existential. By the virtue of a woman's life, society in all level caters for women than men, and men generally have a soft spot for women, meaning men will give women a pass for something they will grab other's men throat for. Men hardship are existential in nature.

Compare a girl child to a boy, she will be taken cared of by parents, then by boyfriends, then by husband, and later on by her children. It's a well-integrated circle of provision that falls outside men's reality. Not to talk of societal provisions for her (eg exempting her from war, lesser jail time, more job opportunities, presumption of innocence etc).

For boys generally, after his parental care, it ends there. As early as 18, if he starts dating, then he will begin taking care of others, and society will expect more from him (eg wars, burden of performance, being the provider etc), just take a look at Ukraine where women are allowed to leave the country and men as old as sixty must stay back and fight. Doesn't matter if he is weak.

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Re: I Think Life In Nigeria Looks Fair Enough For Women Than Men!!! by InfinityFabric: 10:52pm On Apr 03, 2022
Halimaatz:
Most ladies wish they were men.
No they don't. There are more transgender male to female than female to male.
Life of a man is hard, he has to create a value. Females are born with their value.

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Re: I Think Life In Nigeria Looks Fair Enough For Women Than Men!!! by EASYGURU(m): 11:47pm On Apr 03, 2022
I already ended about three relationships this year because I cannot serve a woman's needs on a platter of gold at the expense of my own hard labor. let it be known that for the sake of courtship, I would never marry a woman who isn't up to 1/3 of my financial and educational level. women never settle for less because we men put them on high pedestals and its high time all that societal ills change.

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Re: I Think Life In Nigeria Looks Fair Enough For Women Than Men!!! by Karleb(m): 3:28am On Apr 04, 2022
How do you explain some women get paid to be in a relationship?

Funny thing is, some of these women, there's nothing, I mean, absolutely nothing special about them but they still get paid per month for being a girlfriend.

...or that ugly girl that keeps getting random gift from men for being a woman.

It's a reality I have made peace with a long time ago.

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Re: I Think Life In Nigeria Looks Fair Enough For Women Than Men!!! by Boogyman557: 6:21am On Apr 04, 2022
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Re: I Think Life In Nigeria Looks Fair Enough For Women Than Men!!! by Chaos14: 6:48am On Apr 04, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK I'd like to see your perspective on this case
Re: I Think Life In Nigeria Looks Fair Enough For Women Than Men!!! by FERNANDEZISBACK: 6:54am On Apr 04, 2022
Chaos14:
FERNANDEZISBACK I'd like to see your perspective on this case
It all depends on the society..can't say much about your country..
Generally speaking both genders have their own challenges..

They have it equally hard...
Despite what different people of different genders say.. each gender has their unique hardships that the other one may lack and hence they do not get how hard some things can be....
Re: I Think Life In Nigeria Looks Fair Enough For Women Than Men!!! by Chaos14: 7:14am On Apr 04, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

It all depends on the society..can't say much about your country..
Generally speaking both genders have their own challenges..

They have it equally hard...
Despite what different people of different genders say.. each gender has their unique hardships that the other one may lack and hence they do not get how hard some things can be....

i wouldn't say nigerian girls are useless but due to social media the bad lot have been exposed making people generalise them and i believe the rise in redpillers is because heartbroken girls go into rebound relationships which they know wouldn't last but in the end they break the guy's heart then the cycle continues
Re: I Think Life In Nigeria Looks Fair Enough For Women Than Men!!! by FERNANDEZISBACK: 7:16am On Apr 04, 2022
Chaos14:
i wouldn't say nigerian girls are useless but due to social media the bad lot have been exposed making people generalise them and i believe the rise in redpillers is because heartbroken girls go into rebound relationships which they know wouldn't last but in the end they break the guy's heart then the cycle continues
It's a case of both gender here..the same way guys break the ladies heart too..just like saying all heartbroken girl should become a feminist.. undecided
Re: I Think Life In Nigeria Looks Fair Enough For Women Than Men!!! by Chaos14: 7:21am On Apr 04, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

It's a case of both gender here..the same way guys break the ladies heart too..just like saying all heartbroken girl should become a feminist.. undecided
now you see what am saying a lot of heartbroken girls say they want to be feminists but they don't know the meaning thats why there are posts like "men are dogs" online do you agree with me or not
Re: I Think Life In Nigeria Looks Fair Enough For Women Than Men!!! by FERNANDEZISBACK: 7:24am On Apr 04, 2022
Chaos14:
now you see what am saying a lot of heartbroken girls say they want to be feminists but they don't know the meaning thats why there are posts like "men are dogs" online do you agree with me or not
Now you see it's from both sides right?
Wannabe redpillers say ladies are us***lesss... feminist say men are s***m..they are both clueless.. cheesy
Re: I Think Life In Nigeria Looks Fair Enough For Women Than Men!!! by Chaos14: 7:36am On Apr 04, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

Now you see it's from both sides right?
Wannabe redpillers say ladies are us***lesss... feminist say men are s***m..they are both clueless.. cheesy
i guess your right i don't support redpillng but i like their method of getting girls it was nice having an intellectual convo with you good morning

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