Romanoff:
I've seen this work for many couples, especially when the man knows he's not prudent and his wife is a better manager.

If it works for them, mind your business.

When you marry, do wetin work for you.

If it works them, I don't see any reason why the husband should go to his colleague to beg for money.

Cadamlk:

If it works them, I don't see any reason why the husband should go to his colleague to beg for money.

The man probably can't go to the wife cause he's either a gambler or plans to use the money for frivolous things.

I know a marriage where the wife manages the finances cause the man is a cheerful giver. E fit comot him shirt give person.

She gives him allowance.

Once allowance finishes, whatever else he needs money for, na to go meet wifey explain how e spend him allowance or wetin e wan use the money wey e wan collect do.

Wifey is a bank manager, he's into construction.

If they don't do it that way, they wouldn't have a dime.

haslaw:


Most hypocrites would kick and raise hell if the tables were turned or if it was your blood brother

its goodie she handles cash better.

saintjimos:
As far as they've peace , please let them be

Which peace? He said the man came begging for money after his wife hijacked his salary. Na that one you call peace.

Yes,I will agree he is not prudent but just as you ask,why can't he go to the for this money why trying to borrow?

Favfables1:
I see no problem with allowing a woman to run the finances of the home, especially if the man is not a prudent spender ...

But my problem is why the man in question couldn't go to his wife to ask for money but rather went to beg from his friend ...

Lordmech:
One of my colleague at work came begging for cash and I ask him. What happen to your ATM or salary and he reviewed that the wife is the one who sees alert and holds the card.. I was shocked.
My pipo is this love or stupidity?

is he in the military?

Lordmech:
One of my colleague at work came begging for cash and I ask him. What happen to your ATM or salary and he reviewed that the wife is the one who sees alert and holds the card.. I was shocked.
My pipo is this love or stupidity?

Stupidity

Ontop work wey he dey use him sweat dey work? Mchew.. Fake story

sonofElElyon:


Don't be quick to judge.. maybe he doesn't have financial discipline and the only way he can stop himself from profligacy is to hand it over to his wife who may act as a check and accountability partner

but he should see his alert at least and also monitor where the money goes

Lordmech:
One of my colleague at work came begging for cash and I ask him. What happen to your ATM or salary and he reviewed that the wife is the one who sees alert and holds the card.. I was shocked.
My pipo is this love or stupidity?

Peace loving husbandee

There are a lot of men like that.

haslaw:


Most hypocrites would kick and raise hell if the tables were turned or if it was your blood brother

Try to calm down.
The man might be addicted to gambling or something and when money enters his account, he uses it up to gamble again. In such scenario, if such man needs healing he needs someone closer to him and trustworthy to hold his ATM card to avoid relapsing.

wpadmin:


The man is not complaining.

Do you know if they are building a house somewhere and the man cannot save?

Do you know if they are planning to travel abroad and the wife knows how to manage the money?

Shey the man complain say him money dey miss any how?

Omo

But the man dey ask another person for cash.

Romanoff:


I don't interfer with my brother's home and he doesn't interfer with mine.

Why worry about how another person runs their home?

Does it stop your own salary?

Abeg make we hear word

Romanoff:
I've seen this work for many couples, especially when the man knows he's not prudent and his wife is a better manager.

If it works for them, mind your business.

When you marry, do wetin work for you.

BLOOD OF JESUS
The disciples said to him, “If this is the situation between a husband and wife, it is better not to marry.” Matt 19:10
If it's your husband that is doing you like this , hope you will be happy?

15ssDRIVE:



its goodie she handles cash better.

Maybe so. But not to the extent of not being able to consult with the wife when issues come up.

It's not a good sign at all.

MAY GOD DELIVER THE GUY

chiefolododo:



BLOOD OF JESUS
The disciples said to him, “If this is the situation between a husband and wife, it is better not to marry.” Matt 19:10
If it's your husband that is doing you like this , hope you will be happy?

My husband is not imprudent.

But if he was, I'd work on handling the finances.

If you don't trust your wife with money, why marry her?

haslaw:


Abeg make we hear word

Who block your ear before?

Abeg go see ENT doctor, make you for know wetin dey make ear pain you.

MoneyGoDrop:
This actually worked for my parents till date. It happens where the couple are open and true to themselves and know each others capacities. Women are better managers than men.

Please which research concluded that women are better managers than men? Most businesses in the world that thrived and got to the top 10% were started and managed by men. So, please, show me the research that says women are better managers, and while at it please also tell me the sample size of such research.

The guy in question is simply funny. How does his wife hold his ATM? Most likely he gave it to her and if he did he should stop begging for money! The day he has a fight with the wife and she withdraws all the money and moves on he will come on Nairaland to disturb people with stupid stories.

Romanoff:


My husband is not imprudent.

But if he was, I'd work on handling the finances.

If you don't trust your wife with money, why marry her?

Trusting your wife with money doesn't mean being stupid. Why give her sole access to his finances, and even excluded himself.

And oh, he doesn't even see his alerts. Hahaha... what a sissy!

People fight. They quarrel and bad things happen. That trusted wife or husband could do a volte face tomorrow and take all the money and dissappear. I mean, we have heard such stories before.

The man can let his wife handle his money, but he should have access to it when he wants, or he can restrict the amount he can withdraw in a month. There are several options better than giving his wife sole access and then going to the office to beg.

Romanoff:
I've seen this work for many couples, especially when the man knows he's not prudent and his wife is a better manager.

If it works for them, mind your business.

When you marry, do wetin work for you.

hmmmmmm women,
Now you want people to leave them because it's the woman getting the alert.

If it was the man getting the woman's alert, you will begin to tell us how and why you can never do that.lol

Continue

Lordmech:
One of my colleague at work came begging for cash and I ask him. What happen to your ATM or salary and he reviewed that the wife is the one who sees alert and holds the card.. I was shocked.
My pipo is this love or stupidity?

What you don't know is bigger than you.

I have one like that. Before the wife was given custody of the man salary. Once he receives alert, he will disappear to a beer parlor/brothel for as long as the salary would last. Sometimes three days or a week.

Things dey happen.

saintjimos:
As far as they've peace , please let them be

Good , but let him spend his peace and stop going about inconveniencing people of their hard earn money kept by them for personal reasons.

Pure unadulterated stupidity taught in most climes nowadays, how can you keep your alert with your wife , even your ATM . Afriend of mine that did that years back got his hands burnt. The lady always withdraw the money to give another guy and they even rented an apartment together with my friends money. But today he is a us soilder while the girl is a medical doctor fucking around

Romanoff:
I've seen this work for many couples, especially when the man knows he's not prudent and his wife is a better manager.

If it works for them, mind your business.

When you marry, do wetin work for you.

How come he his now begging others for money if it works for him?

People won't agree something is foolish.

Kelechi009:


How come he his now begging others for money if it works for him?

People won't agree something is foolish.

Have you considered if he's a gambler or a frivolous spender?

Tell him ur wife has collected ur ATM too

Mavrick2012:
hmmmmmm women,
Now you want people to leave them because it's the woman getting the alert.

If it was the man getting the woman's alert, you will begin to tell us how and why you can never do that.lol

Continue

Like I said, if it works for them, mind your business.

If the man is the one managing all the money, if it works for them, mind your business.

GreyLaw:


Trusting your wife with money doesn't mean being stupid. Why give her sole access to his finances, and even excluded himself.

And oh, he doesn't even see his alerts. Hahaha... what a sissy!

People fight. They quarrel and bad things happen. That trusted wife or husband could do a volte face tomorrow and take all the money and dissappear. I mean, we have heard such stories before.

The man can let his wife handle his money, but he should have access to it when he wants, or he can restrict the amount he can withdraw in a month. There are several options better than giving his wife sole access and then going to the office to beg.

What if they agreed on a certain amount the man can spend and he already exhausted that amount on either gambling or frivolous spending?

Romanoff:


The man probably can't go to the wife cause he's either a gambler or plans to use the money for frivolous things.

I know a marriage where the wife manages the finances cause the man is a cheerful giver. E fit comot him shirt give person.

She gives him allowance.

Once allowance finishes, whatever else he needs money for, na to go meet wifey explain how e spend him allowance or wetin e wan use the money wey e wan collect do.

Wifey is a bank manager, he's into construction.

If they don't do it that way, they wouldn't have a dime.

He his a very stupid person, so he wouldn't have prospered in life if he never married his wife?

Before he got married, how did he save for marriage.
How did he save to help his family and needs of his family, He needs therapy.

lagosrd:


Good , but let him spend his peace and stop going about inconveniencing people of their hard earn money kept by them for personal reasons.

Pure unadulterated stupidity taught in most climes nowadays, how can you keep your alert with your wife , even your ATM . Afriend of mine that did that years back got his hands burnt. The lady always withdraw the money to give another guy and they even rented an apartment together with my friends money. But today he is a us soilder while the girl is a medical doctor fucking around

Thank you sir, married folks people would come to the office and start begging me for money. Borrowing money. They are inconveniencing me because I am a coworker. What kind of life is this? If it really works for him, then why am I suffering from another person's problem. What have i done?

You earn a living but you will not let others rest because of stupid personal decisions.