haslaw:


Most hypocrites would kick and raise hell if the tables were turned or if it was your blood brother

Leave em bastard hypocrites....
They won't come out clean..... atamo-atamo still the order of the day.

frozen70:


So if he wants to use the money to flex with his side chick, she will give it to him, when his family needs it more

...Will you be saying this same thing if the situation is reversed?

JONNYSPUTE:
...Will you be saying this same thing if the situation is reversed?

What's the business of a married woman with external affair

Munzy14:

That is how some homes operate o, if not na war

Chineke e kwela ihe ojoo!

Either way, it's not right.

Mariangeles:


Chineke e kwela ihe ojoo!

Either way, it's not right.

Lol..

What if it prevents violence?

I just checked the first page, see comments attesting to the fact some couples operate like that.

Some women do the same, even 50naira worth of goods , Oga go do transfer

I know one ghan ghan, rich couple o, but na her baby the handle Any thing money and purchase.

Munzy14:

Lol..

What if it prevents violence?

Is violence common in a marriage?

I think spouses should have control of their own money they worked for. Right?

Munzy14:

Lol..

What if it prevents violence?

I just checked the first page, see comments attesting to the fact some couples operate like that.

Some women do the same, even 50naira worth of goods , Oga go do transfer

I know one ghan ghan, rich couple o, but na her baby the handle Any thing money and purchase.

I don't find that cute or romantic at all.
I see people who do that as financially lazy/irresponsible.

Mariangeles:


Is violence common in a marriage?

I think spouses should have control of their own money they worked for. Right?

Well sometimes, unserious things might be reason for violence..Based on unhappy situation.

Some partners are extravagant, so they on their own will want the other partner to be in charge.

When I was in school, my guy gets tipsy easily, so he had an agreement with his babe to act whenever he comes near alcohol..Then we get pissed when the babe humiliate him in Public...But it is what works for them..

They are married today...So imagine who will flex muscle pass..And the babe was recently commissioned as an officer with the customs..So power don add.

Mariangeles:


I don't find that cute or romantic at all.
I see people who do that as financially lazy/irresponsible.

Lol, well the best manager is handling the resources for both.

You may condemn it now, you won't know when you will find yourself doing as a married woman.

O kwa i ma ihe zodiac gi wu? unu ji a procrastinate ofuma...That alone could lead to such.

But, I think everyone is best to manage their money, and comes in when the other partner calls for help, verbally or by non-verbal actions.

haslaw:


Most hypocrites would kick and raise hell if the tables were turned or if it was your blood brother

Lol... lol lol ... I guess you were born in the Congo just like me ... lol

Munzy14:


Lol, well the best manager is handling the resources for both.

That is too much responsibility for one person, and I don't like it. (It'll stress me out, and I hate being stressed out)
Spouses should ease the stress for one another by doing their part.

You may condemn it now, you won't know when you will find yourself doing as a married woman.

O kwa i ma ihe zodiac gi wu? unu ji a procrastinate ofuma...That alone could lead to such.

But, I think everyone is best to manage their money, and comes in when the other partner calls for help, verbally or by non-verbal actions.

I'll definitely do what is expected of me.

Not in all aspects.

Exactly.

.

Mariangeles:


That is too much responsibility for one person, and I don't like it. (It'll stress me out, and I hate being stressed out)
Spouses should ease the stress for one another by doing their part.



I'll definitely do what is expected of me.

Not in all aspects.

Exactly.

I wu onye shakara? ..

One thing you must know, marriage changes a lot, and kids changes everything..Positive adjustment

So your hubby cannot leave some of his business in your hands to manage and handle proceeds and payments? ka m nukwa na ikwe hu..lol

It is fun for some women when oga leave a lot in their hands..Or they leave more in their hubby's hand.

Again what you see as stress, might be fun to the next woman/man..

A couple have what makes their union move sweetly.

Lol...Why the emphasis of not all in all aspect?

Munzy14:

I wu onye shakara? ..

Okwu m o di ka okwu onye shakara?

One thing you must know, marriage changes a lot, and kids changes everything..Positive adjustment

So your hubby cannot leave some of his business in your hands to manage and handle proceeds and payments? ka m nukwa na ikwe hu..lol

Of course.

If it's a joint business, then yes.
Otherwise, it has to be temporary.

It is fun for some women when oga leave a lot in their hands..Or they leave more in their hubby's hand.

Again what you see as stress, might be fun to the next woman/man..

A couple have what makes their union move sweetly.

Lol...Why the emphasis of not all in all aspect?

It is even better when couples plan and work together.

What I mean is we don't procrastinate in everything.

Mariangeles:


Okwu m o di ka okwu onye shakara?



Of course.

If it's a joint business, then yes.
Otherwise, it has to be temporary.



It is even better when couples plan and work together.

What I mean is we don't procrastinate in everything.

O di ka o Mgbe nwaanyi si she no want wetin go stress her, o wu nu onye guy..

If na so, I ga agbara marriage oso...Maka stress ya na ya so wu a must.

No mata how you see it, ofu partner will always come with lackadaisical attitude towards some things..I am talking from experience with the women av been with...Then, my parents and some married friends.

In all, just don't marry a push and start partner..It will drain the energy in the union.

Romanoff:


What if that's the only way they can have savings?

What if he has a gambling problem?

All blame must be shifted away from the lady abi, continue.

This is why i like men,they support fellow men when necessary,and criticize men when necessary, but ladies......

'HI

'YES

U\0027 U\00027 \0027 NO

Munzy14:

O di ka o Mgbe nwaanyi si she no want wetin go stress her, o wu nu onye guy..

If na so, I ga agbara marriage oso...Maka stress ya na ya so wu a must.

No mata how you see it, ofu partner will always come with lackadaisical attitude towards some things..I am talking from experience with the women av been with...Then, my parents and some married friends.

In all, just don't marry a push and start partner..It will drain the energy in the union.

Elee ke wu push and start?

Mariangeles:


Elee ke wu push and start?

Udi di that lady si she is burnt out some days ago..Ihe a wu typical example of push and start.

When you look at beauty of a woman or handsomeness of a man as main reason for marriage.

She avoided your question of what attracted her To the guy O ga akarikwanu fine boy and great in bed.

Forgetting bills will double when kids start coming.

Munzy14:

Udi di that lady si she is burnt out some days ago..Ihe a wu typical example of push and start.

When you look at beauty of a woman or handsomeness of a man as main reason for marriage.

She avoided your question of what attracted her To the guy O ga akarikwanu fine boy and great in bed.

Forgetting bills will double when kids start coming.

A ma'm eshi ahu o, but she rather went with those making excuses for her, than accept the consequences of the decision she made.

Mariangeles:




A ma'm eshi ahu o, but she rather went with those making excuses for her, than accept the consequences of the decision she made.

Good you noticed...
How she avoided those who blamed her for her wrong choice and was mentioning ndi kwuru nke o likiri..Typical of Most nairalanders.

To the issue of discourse, make kwa sure si onye i ga e choose nwere the major things needed.

O kwa Ada nna ya ji eme onu ka i wu o.

I lu Ada na Igbo neediri nwoke nor ka nwoke si anor..lol

Munzy14:

Good you noticed...
How she avoided those who blamed her for her wrong choice and was mentioning ndi kwuru nke o likiri..Typical of Most nairalanders.

To the issue of discourse, make kwa sure si onye i ga e choose nwere the major things needed.

O kwa Ada nna ya ji eme onu ka i wu o.

I lu Ada na Igbo neediri nwoke nor ka nwoke si anor..lol

A nula'm.

Mariangeles:


A nula'm.

Ngwanu o..