A friend asked me this question, recently.

A guy, as a matter of fact. He said he doesn't mind his wife reraining her maiden name.

What do you guys think?

As long as the kids takes the fathers name. I don't see any implication of this. They may be rejected by immigration to provide enough documentation to support the claim.

Apart from that, nothing more that I know of.

LegitGirl:
A friend asked me this question, recently.
A guy, as a matter of fact. He said he doesn't mind his wife reraining her maiden name.
What do you guys think?

To reduce any unnecessary record keeping burdens, women should keep their maiden names after marriage. It is not like marriage is some sort of rebirth, but instead a mere transitioning from one location to another in many cases.

LegitGirl:
A friend asked me this question, recently.

A guy, as a matter of fact. He said he doesn't mind his wife reraining her maiden name.

What do you guys think?

Whatever that rocks their boat

If the husband is ok with it, why not?

The only way she is retaining her name is if her maiden name is already well established, asides that, nahhhhhh ...

It's not a big deal if the couple agrees on doing it this way. I prefer that all members of my family respond to the same name but it's personal choice.

Well it has never been an issue for me. My wife still bears her father's name. I can say mostly in the north that's how it is.

Kobojunkiee:
To reduce any unnecessary record keeping burdens, women should keep their maiden names after marriage. It is not like marriage is some sort of rebirth, but instead a mere transitioning from one location to another in many cases.

As if we care.

We guys are not begging you to bear our surname, in fact, we do not want to get married, you ladies are the ones doing everything possible including going diabolical to make us marry you. If not, we no want marry.

Saifullah01:
Well it has never been an issue for me. My wife still bears her father's name. I can say mostly in the north that's how it is.

You are in the North and you are here typing on Nairaland? Terrorists never see you?

simpleseyi:
As if we care.

We guys are not begging you to bear our surname, in fact, we do not want to get married, you ladies are the ones doing everything possible including going diabolical to make us marry you. If not, we no want marry.

What you guys? It is tradition in much of Nigeria that the woman change her name once married so what are you rambling about abeg?

Kobojunkiee:
What you guys? It is tradition in much of Nigeria that the woman change her name once married so what are you rambling about abeg?

We no wan marry I beg. Make una stay una side, make we too dey our side.

During the last general meeting of the Yoruba Demons Association (YODA) and the Sweet Boys Association (SBA), we resolved that we no dey marry again. Just fucck the pusssy and pass it on. You ladies too can have as many dicccks as you want, let's see who will regret it.

simpleseyi:
We no wan marry I beg. Make una stay una side, make we too dey our side.

During the last general meeting of the Yoruba Demons Association (YODA) and the Sweet Boys Association (SBA), we resolved that we no dey marry again. Just fucck the pusssy and pass it on. You ladies too can have as many dicccks as you want, let's see who will regret it.

"We no wan marry" yet every weekend, all across Nigeria, men are busy marrying?

You sure say you no go retire this "we" you keep insinuating and start instead speaking of yourself in this?

Mine uses her maiden name for her professional pursuits at least of today. I don't care as a person provided the children take on my last name.

If she's from a prominent family, she can keep the maiden name.

For example you don't expect Mike Adenuga or Olusegun Obasanjo's daughter to switch surname to a non known name.

When I get to this bridge, I will know how to cross it

LegitGirl:
A friend asked me this question, recently.

A guy, as a matter of fact. He said he doesn't mind his wife reraining her maiden name.

What do you guys think?

I don't discuss washing of plates and surnames.

If your family no popular
No retain your maiden name
E get why

Some women are actually doing this as a backup of all the legal brouhaha should they get a divorce in the future

LegitGirl:
A friend asked me this question, recently.

A guy, as a matter of fact. He said he doesn't mind his wife reraining her maiden name.

What do you guys think?

There's nothing wrong in it.

It doesn't make the woman less or more faithful or less or more committed to the marriage.

Everyone knows she's your Mrs, the stress of going to change name upandan is not easy.

qtguru:


I don't discuss washing of plates and surnames.

Does that mean you're fine with whatever outcome?

Or that you already have the status quo expectations (women for domestic chores...woman takes your name)?

I'm tired

Feminist alert! Unless I didn't use my hard earned money to pay her bride price; she will retain it but if not she will either stop the madness or go back to her father's house!!! Thank you...

Its nothing as long as she live in her personal house or her father's house


Definitely not in my own house

Only SIMPS would allow that