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Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by ellaV(m): 2:18pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
I am married to a man for 6 years who goes about telling anyone whose cares to listen that he is not the marriage type and family guy..we have two kids,he doesn't want to set a business up for me,give me money for upkeep,or give me money to start my Masters...this is someone that has millions as savings and I borrowed 20k from access bank since last year March he can't give me money to pay...I decided to work, 3 months to the work,I was dropped I did my findings,someone came to testify negatively about me to my boss and that was it...I apply for jobs,a contradicting mail will be sent to the company and i won't be calledi,I graduated with 2:1...my husband buys my phone and it's only him that has access to my mail,i asked him if he did that he said no, but I know it's him...as am talking to you know everyone in my area has light since 4 days ago because we use prepaid meter,light has finished, he is not moved that we are in darkness? He traveled for a job since 5 days ago and he don't care,there is so much I want to say but let me not bore you...I feel unproductive and stucked in this marriage, pls what should I do? I went to church and I was told his mum is in the water kingdom and tied him to herself that he only listens to her and whatever I say means nothing, all he does is sleep with me , that's all, if you knew me when I was single , you will be in awe to see me now...what should I do pls? 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by Nobody: 2:24pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
Did he cage you?If no,then you are the one holding yourself back from been productive. This is what you get when you absorb things you won't be able to take in relationships but begin to complain in marriage. I'm sure he treated you same way in your premarriage days but as an independent good woman wey you be,you proved yourself to be a marriage material.Its not too late, grab him by the balls to perform his responsibilities or you go out there to take charge of your life. 6 Likes |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by Pierocash(m): 2:26pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
ellaV:intensify your prayer. Seek counselling from your pastor. |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by ellaV(m): 2:28pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
Pierocash:I talked to my pastor he was called but never showed up,he told me I was wasting my time |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by thesicilian: 2:30pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
Look for a way to set up an online business for yourself that you can operate from the comfort of your home. Do your research well before you start. All I see is a man who is overly insecure, there's nothing spiritual about the issue that should make you be running from one pastor to the other. Your husband thinks he's smart, find a way to outsmart him without being rebellious or disobedient. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by Pierocash(m): 2:31pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
ellaV:then I advise you visit another church like winners, or MFM. That your pastor is not a serious pastor. If you are in Ph, I can recommend one for you |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by ellaV(m): 2:36pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
Pierocash:pls recommend |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by Pierocash(m): 2:37pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
ellaV:are you in Ph? |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by MadamVanessa(f): 2:38pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
So if you quite such a stupid marriage, what will happen? 12 Likes |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by ellaV(m): 2:40pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
MadamVanessa:it's easy to say |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by ellaV(m): 2:42pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
Iyaebe:it's beyond physical and he was not like this when I was dating him 1 Like |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by MadamVanessa(f): 2:43pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
ellaV: I have been there before my dear, I quit it myself even when he pleaded , I still go ahead with the process in the court. No useless Idiotic nonentity of a man can make me lose my sanity. 17 Likes |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by ellaV(m): 2:45pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
Pierocash:yes |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by ellaV(m): 2:47pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
MadamVanessa:it's well I started dating him when I was 16, he was jobless then,he is my first love, until I married him at 21, when he got a job,I love him, but I detest his personality..maybe am not strong enough yet but if he doesn't change, the cup will be filled soonest 2 Likes |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by Pierocash(m): 2:51pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
ellaV:Where in Ph,so i can know how to direct you? |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by ellaV(m): 2:52pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
Pierocash:send me your no pls pm |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by Pierocash(m): 2:53pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
ellaV:send me mail 1 Like |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by Richy4(m): 2:57pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
<<<If the story is true, then I have issues with the "M" that shows that u are a male except maybe.... <<< Please kindly Keep his mother out of your matters...That church aspect is just irritating.. 4 Likes |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by ellaV(m): 3:00pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
Richy4:it's an error the user name should tell you it's a female |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by ellaV(m): 3:01pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
Richy4:well it's true cos he always goes to her for advise instead of me his wife, whatever she says it's what's he will do, so tell me why I should not believe it's true 1 Like |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by Richy4(m): 3:05pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
ellaV: So because your Husband goes to his mother for advise, that's what made her a marine kingdom candidate? 3 Likes |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by ellaV(m): 3:07pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
Richy4:you should be single...this write up is for people that are married and are the responsible type, thank you 6 Likes |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by Richy4(m): 3:09pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
ellaV: 7 Likes |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by olusam4: 3:15pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
MadamVanessa: |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by ellaV(m): 3:16pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
Richy4:lol |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by Blue86(m): 3:19pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
Get the scriptures that addresses your situation, and use them to pray. A wife can sanctify her husband. 3 Likes |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by olusam4: 3:19pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
Pray more dont go to any pastor. Pour ur mind to your maker he will surely rescue u 4 Likes |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by ellaV(m): 3:25pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
olusam4: I have been praying, but it's looking like the more I pray the more he gets worst, a lady Neighbor of mine I told my problems to told me to follow her to ijebu that my case is moi moi... am seriously thinking of going because I have suffered alot |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by ibechris(m): 3:27pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
This kind of story is shameful to hear because if u are my sister,this marriage would be done and dusted honestly. How do u chose to stay in such a home when it is obvious he has turned u to a slave and nothing more. Madam,find ur way and live for your children,if anything bad happens to that man,then u will know what it means to be an independent woman. I am a married man who believed that women should be empowered financially either through business or conventional jobs and I hate to hear stories like this coming from a 2.1 candidates. Be wise madam. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by Klass99(f): 3:27pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
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Re: Married To A Man Who Doesn't Want Me To Grow by olusam4: 3:30pm On Apr 08, 2022 |
ellaV:Dont be tired please devil is trying to discourage you. God has been answering your prayers, you will soon testify 1 Like |
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