Johnny147147:
Go do juju

anthonyuncle:
in this fasting?

SilentQueen:
Yes Sam ended the relationship peacefully, but the stupid lady will not let go until she is embarrassed

Let go of sam and move on too!!!

BigRocky:
Simp of a woman

*Spits*

Mk una Sha no use juju kill the young man o

Elitefosa:


This is a no go area,

Moreso, it has repercussions now, dont you think?

Elitefosa:



haha.... lols... babe no dey even reason juju self

any advice?

BigRocky:


Maybe the guy never loved her and just
used whatsoever he called red flags to get away from her.

She should move on..
Others guys might be in a dieing need of her.

Johnny147147:

All is Fair in War and Love... Even Olamide say "U fit Kanyamata u fit use Juju"...

MrBrownJay1:
A) why would anyone want to be taken back by someone who doesnt want you?
B) why would anyone want to be taken back out of pity?
C) as much as you dont have to let go, you have to accept that this person does NOT want you because you are wrong for them.
D) the above is probably part of the red flags that had him run away from you

Elitefosa:


Nicely said,

Please what other phrase can I use aside Move On?


Because she is adamant about moving on!

she still test him stuffs like "I am sorry my love"

still views his whatsapp status...

Elitefosa:
its actually not me...
your point C got me thinking though!
how can a person that has professed love, then change course all of sudden be wrong for her?

a quick question for you...
Have you ever loved before you find it hard to let go?

Johnny147147:
Go do juju

Elitefosa:
This sounds strange right?

I mean how do you win back someone after breaking their heart?

Here's the summary…

Sam (not real name) met a beautiful damsel in the month of September in the year 2020. That was after the lock down…

Friendship blossomed into a relationship and the relationship blossomed into talks of marriage.

Somewhere along the line, about 8 months into the relationship, Sam saw some red flags he couldn’t cope with and decided that ending the
relationship was the only way out.

Though he did not meet any counselor for advice, he just decided to end the relationship with her.

Sam broke her heart by ending the relationship and decided to move on.

But the Damsel wanted him back, she begged and begged but he said NO.

That he was done with the relationship.

He left her heart broken.

The thing is she wants he back.

Abeg ladies in the house…

Make una chook mouth for this matter…

PS: Please this is a real life something.

okoroemeka:
what the damsel must understand is that it is not a must for us to get whatever we want, sometimes we have to let go

BigRocky:
First of all,she have to make the decision to heal.
She have to understand that a relationship is not worth dieing for.

Then everything that brings in memory of the guy should be erase I.e delete his number (very important)his cloths in her possession, pictures they both in etc.

She should be going out,to offload and reload her mind.talk to friends and try out new things

She will be fine eventually.

MrBrownJay1:

it is very easy to love someone but not being right for them/you.... you see, nobody shows their true self at the beginning of r/ship, you always hide your negative/bad/failed side and/or character. it takes a while for people to be relaxed enough in a r/ship to now show their true nature.
many people, when they realize the true nature of their partner's characters and ways, they stick to them because of love, but there are also few people who cant and just prefer to let go, simply because these negative/bad character traits are completely against their own ways of thinking.



love is a feeling brought by both the heart and the mind... and as much as you can love someone, its pretty easy to let go of that person, if they ever do something wrong and/or turn into someone you are against. you just need to surpress your heart's desire and use solely your brains to judge the issue.
here is a clue: it doesnt matter how much i love someone, if that person is disrespectful/unfaithful or physically abusive, i will leave her with never ever looking back!

Preciousomakiye:

Unzerious:
Poor Thing, You see those RED Flags He pointed out, get rid of them. See him (Sam) as a Dress Rehearsal before the main Filming.

MadamOk:
Well winning him back is not the problem

Is she sure he is the right one for her
If she is sure he the right one
She should keep praying to God to touch his heart and show him the love she has for him of good, peace, joy and everlasting end

Elitefosa:


Hang out more right...

Create new memories...

I Feel so glad I could glean all these from nairaland...

Elitefosa:
This sounds strange right?

I mean how do you win back someone after breaking their heart?

Here's the summary…

Sam (not real name) met a beautiful damsel in the month of September in the year 2020. That was after the lock down…

Friendship blossomed into a relationship and the relationship blossomed into talks of marriage.

Somewhere along the line, about 8 months into the relationship, Sam saw some red flags he couldn’t cope with and decided that ending the
relationship was the only way out.

Though he did not meet any counselor for advice, he just decided to end the relationship with her.

Sam broke her heart by ending the relationship and decided to move on.

But the Damsel wanted him back, she begged and begged but he said NO.

That he was done with the relationship.

He left her heart broken.

The thing is she wants he back.

Abeg ladies in the house…

Make una chook mouth for this matter…

PS: Please this is a real life something.

Elitefosa:


Haha....

Olamide na strong man now...

Juju no fit catch some people...

Na, all is not fair in Love and War o!

Take the lady that was rumored to be killed by her husband...

shey no be love ni?

but las las no be jail him go go?

Reason am no?

SoapQueen:



Omo, I really wish I can go and beg someone who "dumped" me. Choi! I admire such ladies for their tenacity. Me and my craziness wey go delete your numbers and photos, unfriend you everywhere, and lock up in less than 2 market days. I don't block, just delete reminders and lick my wounds. As emotional, sweet-natured or sensitive I can be, I've got pride. Na man dey beg me, no be the other way round.

No matter how hurting or heartbroken you may be, never beg anyone to take you back. Somethings are meant to break if they ain't strong enough.