Disvirgin in a brothel tried my best to stop for the past 11yrs I have been a sex slave to brothels women fast pray but is like there is a demon controlling me to always go there 33yrs no job, no wife, no ambition, looking wretched.

A graudate of UNIBEN with 2.1. Still on menial job.

Parents wealthy and Ist son, dad has techinically disown me. My younger brothers don't even respect me even though i am older than them with almost 10yrs.

My childhood friends start avoiding me only my mum regard me as a human being Please pray for me .

Just switch to mastvrbation instead bro. Make you rest small.


**Modified: It's disheartening that majority of Nigerians claim to understand English, but sarcasm which is a critical component of the language always flies over their heads.

Na free you dey knack there?

I was partly just like you OP... But the day I started diverting my time and attention to things that are productive (though another type of addiction entirely) the urge to visit brothel died of totally...

Also ashawo girls no matter how much you pay them won't give u that satisfaction you need, for example... Can u kiss, become an head master to an ashawo... I Believe ur answer is no... Since this ashawo girls don't give me that satisfaction I need, I lost interest in visiting them, cos money spent on them is a waste...

I rather use that money to play bet, e enter good, e no enter good...

I would advice u get urself a girl with whom both of u can plan marriage together.....

DanseMacabre:
Just switch to mastvrbation instead bro. Make you rest small.

I stop masturbation 2yrs ago after 9yrs in bondage u asking me to go back to it

kenzysmith:
Disvirgin in a brothel tried my best to stop for the past 11yrs I have been a sex slave to brothels woman fast pray but is like there is a demon controlling me to always go there 33yrs no job, no wife, no ambition, looking wretched a graudate of uniben with 2.1
Still on menial job . Parents wealthy and Ist son

It's not over, Jesus can set you free.
Don't end your life
Your life is beautiful and God's plan for your life has not changed.

He will give you a fresh start today.

DanseMacabre:
Just switch to mastvrbation instead bro. Make you rest small.

And you think masturbation is what will help him? It seems you guys really do not know the effect of masturbation.


OP, go and read the meaning of “Will Power”
If you cannot use your will power to do and undo, you are already dead but waiting to be buried.

YeyeGbami:
Na free you dey knack there?

not free but sometimes free when I don't ve money

Profwriter:



It's not over, Jesus can set you free.
Don't end your life
Your life is beautiful and God's plan for your life has not changed.

He will give you a fresh start today.

Stop bringing Jesus into it. We Christians makes everything about Jesus. You see people blindly fast and pray and think Jesus will take it from there. The OP is a man like Jesus, tell him he can do it even if he’s a Christian or not.

If you had summoned the courage to go public then take it from me that 90% of what you need to turn your life around is right there inside of you.

I took interest in you cos you are first son. Please bro, have a sincere quiet time with your God, preferably if you are a Christian, take drastic and frantic steps to walk your way out of your present predicament.

Since you feel the regret deep down then your life is not over yet. If you feel there is a demon inside of you be ready to fight it head on.

Walk with your demon one or two steps backwards while you take eight steps forward in due time you will understand the tricks and you will never walk backwards again.

Wishing you God's divine intervention and restoration in Jesus mighty name.

With love.

Hmmmm

Quite unfortunate that many people are battling with brothel addiction. I was once like you op. I never had a girlfriend back then, I was always visiting a brothel.

But since when I met my girlfriend, everything changed. She was like a divine therapist assigned to me by God. It wasn't easy but I fought my way out of my addiction.

Fighting such an addiction is not a day job, you need someone to guide you through. Do you have a girlfriend? If No, then look for a decent girl who truly loves you.

She will do all her best to get you out of the addiction. You can't do it alone, you need someone to guide you.

kenzysmith:
Disvirgin in a brothel tried my best to stop for the past 11yrs I have been a sex slave to brothels woman fast pray but is like there is a demon controlling me to always go there 33yrs no job, no wife, no ambition, looking wretched a graudate of uniben with 2.1
Still on menial job . Parents wealthy and Ist son

you probably have their numbers on your phone.
you use your legs to go there because they give you cheap attention.
you have planted your roots there by having circle of friends in the brothels.

there is no demon. if you leave brothel, brothel seff go leave you.
anytime wey you wake up na that time be your good morning

Carcholce:



Stop bringing Jesus into it. We Christians makes everything about Jesus. You see people blindly fast and pray and think Jesus will take it from there. The OP is a man like Jesus, tell him he can do it even if he’s a Christian or not.

I wonder o... They keep attributing everything to religion and prayer... No wonder blacks are where they are today, something that's solely ur responsibility, you keep calling Jesus as if Jesus will come down and work magic...

If Op wants to stop this thing, it's not hard... Everything depends on him...

superCleanworks:


you probably have their numbers on your phone.
you use your legs to go there because they give you cheap attention.
you have planted your roots there by having circle of friends in the brothels.

there is no demon. if you leave brothel, brothel seff go leave you.
anytime wey you wake up na that time be your good morning

i dont ve their number on my phone but anytime i take ahchol d ist thing on my mind is sex

Profwriter:


It's not over, Jesus can set you free. Don't end your life Your life is beautiful and God's plan for your life has not changed.
He will give you a fresh start today.

u think God still ve plan for me?

kenzysmith:
Disvirgin in a brothel tried my best to stop for the past 11yrs I have been a sex slave to brothels woman fast pray but is like there is a demon controlling me to always go there 33yrs no job, no wife, no ambition, looking wretched a graudate of uniben with 2.1
Still on menial job . Parents wealthy and Ist son

First get engaged with work that demands your time plentifully. Where will the time for brothel avail itself if you only have time for work and rest?


The root cause is too much spare time and idleness

And you can make it in 30s

Joseph became prime minister in 30s

Jesus began public ministry in 30s


30s is a period God does a lot of repairs to damaged lives

kenzysmith:
i dont ve their number on my phone but anytime i take ahchol d ist thing on my mind is sex

now this is a good start, you have identified your problem.
what advice can i possibly give to a 33 year old guy who keeps falling for the same trick he is already aware of for 11 years ?
on the bright side, you have an angle from where you can tackle your problem and you need to do so quickly before you give this same excuse for something more vile and sinister called rape. This is the same excuse we have heard from many. They started with brothels till they found themselves in a place where there was no money or even a brothel around. some go home and rape their neighbour, sister, wife, daughter or even mother because their mind have already been configured this way for a long time since they were single like you are right now.
you have identified where the remote control is operating you from. whatever controls you can kill you.

it is never too late to take a step in the right direction. start now bro. good luck.

kenzysmith:
Disvirgin in a brothel tried my best to stop for the past 11yrs I have been a sex slave to brothels woman fast pray but is like there is a demon controlling me to always go there 33yrs no job, no wife, no ambition, looking wretched a graudate of uniben with 2.1
Still on menial job . Parents wealthy and Ist son

.

The first person you encountered sex with really matters... Carry your cross bro...
Though Its high time you leave this shii...

Carcholce:


And you think masturbation is what will help him? It seems you guys really do not know the effect of masturbation.


OP, go and read the meaning of “Will Power”
If you cannot use your will power to do and undo, you are already dead but waiting to be buried.

What will power...
Expanciate on this

kenzysmith:
I stop masturbation 2yrs ago after 9yrs in bondage u asking me to go back to it

Omo only you one dey masturbate dey still go brothel nack ashewo habitually.

Sorry.


Kukuma commit the suicide.

Holly Gram


I never one CAPRISUN 4 dis MATTERZ now..


On my way to ASHAWOO house!


make nobody spoil my VIBE abeg..


I just de REASON d Chinese style wey I go use NACK Kate, dat ASHAWOO BANI sweet well well..


LITE UP my WEED in peace



WTF MAN!

Omo I dey fvck well well,
I dey carry hookups always
But you that thing call brothel ehhn I dey fear am. Shame no go allow me enter ashawo house no matter how konji hold me I no fit enter brothel

Carcholce:


And you think masturbation is what will help him? It seems you guys really do not know the effect of masturbation.


OP, go and read the meaning of “Will Power”
If you cannot use your will power to do and undo, you are already dead but waiting to be buried.

how can I use that power?

guy get busy, very busy,too busy to do anything else. when you get free time You would be too tired to do anything .

kenzysmith:
Disvirgin in a brothel tried my best to stop for the past 11yrs I have been a sex slave to brothels woman fast pray but is like there is a demon controlling me to always go there 33yrs no job, no wife, no ambition, looking wretched a graudate of uniben with 2.1
Still on menial job . Parents wealthy and Ist son

Try get yourself a girl that u will be with, and plan life with when u need sex, Bleep only her with time the urge to visit brothels will die off.

This brothel addiction is strong like that of masturbation. If one don't have a girl friend, it takes the grace of God for one to overcome them permanently.

DoctorOlasDesk:



First get engaged with work that demands your time plentifully. Where will the time for brothel avail itself if you only have time for work and rest?


The root cause is too much spare time and idleness

And you can make it in 30s

Joseph became prime minister in 30s

Jesus began public ministry in 30s


30s is a period God does a lot of repairs to damaged lives

this commet gives me hope

your problem is very easy.just cut off your penis and thank me later.the bible says if any part of your body will take you to hell.you better cut it off and discard it so you can make heaven.so just cut off your penis and be free from brothel addiction,at least its better than allowing brothel addiction to push you to frustuation and suicide.