Big boi, that girl dey used u keep company. Guy dey flow with her maybe one day in go set pass for u.
I know say u wan knack sha but just play along with her and don't let know ur feelings.

Pukkalolo:


Can I know why you are really find of her

I'm probably fond of her because I kinda enjoy talking to her, I guess. Don't really have a solid explanation.

killmods:


She's not interested in u the same way why not switch off that mumu feelings..

Understand the above
Reduce time spent with her
Spend time with urself
Meet other bannies and place them above her
Don't cut ties with her over nothing. It's childish.
Treat her like she treats u.
Avoid fantasizing.. it wouldn't help u here

Man the fůck up and start living

Thank you...

czarr:
You have a small chance of escaping the friend zone, it's small but it's still a chance worth taking. Make friends with other better looking bannies, reduce the time and attention you give her, but still be friendly.

Make sure she sees that a girl or girls better looking than her are taking your attention away from her. Competition anxiety will kick in and if you can leverage her possible jealousy where you can bargain "indirectly" an exchange of attention for sex...

But I doubt you have it in you...

LOL.... Thank you.
But, it is someone I never want to play games with right from day one. It's okay if she doesn't want me. I just want to totally crush the feelings I have left for her now, and keep the friendship.

arthurwillia:
Hmm

Well the way you are typing, you don’t seem like someone who can stand by his words never to date the lady again..

The thing is the feelings can never leave if it was genuine in the first place, so just hold on to that friendship, trust me you’ll need it but just make sure you don’t go back to her, once it crosses your mind, remember that shii she told you that hurt you and retrace...get busy with other things also

At your first paragraph is something I am afraid of too. More reason I want to disconnect from her. I don't trust myself that much when it comes to her...

Well, I was genuinely interested in her. The feelings wouldn't fade away? Hmmmm... I'll stop talking to her then, I just hope I never get to regret that...

Paulianfa:
Big boi, that girl dey used u keep company. Guy dey flow with her maybe one day in go set pass for u.
I know say u wan knack sha but just play along with her and don't let know ur feelings.

LOL... It should be more like, we're using each other to get over boredom. I don't care if she's using me to keep company because I'm using her to get distracted from stuff too.

And, no be just say I wan knack. Far from it. My interest in her was way more beyond seeing her pants.

Oh...I even forgot the lady is on nairaland...
She'll probably get to see this someday

Please, can I get a wider view? Lalasticlala

Adejoncy01:



At your first paragraph is something I am afraid of too. More reason I want to disconnect from her. I don't trust myself that much when it comes to her...

Well, I was genuinely interested in her. The feelings wouldn't fade away? Hmmmm... I'll stop talking to her then, I just hope I never get to regret that...

Probably don’t stop, give it a break
If she loves you likewise it will be a blissful friendship later on trust me
I’m talking from experience

arthurwillia:


Probably don’t stop, give it a break
If she loves you likewise it will be a blissful friendship later on trust me
I’m talking from experience

Yeah, I'll give it a break. I already low-key bid her farewell yesterday night, but she didn't know. I have to stop talking to her, at least for now. It seems like I'm mentally tormenting myself talking with her. I just hope the feelings go away someday.


And, I don't really know about her loving me. Her attitude doesn't seem like that of a mere friend to me, but she would say, she doesn't want me to think she has romantic feelings for me.

I just hope nothing happens to the friendship, and if anything does... So be it!

Adejoncy01:



Yeah, I'll give it a break. I already low-key bid her farewell yesterday night, but she didn't know. I have to stop talking to her, at least for now. It seems like I'm mentally tormenting myself talking with her. I just hope the feelings go away someday.


And, I don't really know about her loving me. Her attitude doesn't seem like that of a mere friend to me, but she would say, she doesn't want me to think she has romantic feelings for me.

I just hope nothing happens to the friendship, and if anything does... So be it!

Love your write up, just ghost and return in next 6 months by then your head will be clear and you’ll just pursue friendship with her!!

arthurwillia:


Love your write up, just ghost and return in next 6 months by then your head will be clear and you’ll just pursue friendship with her!!

Thank you.

Reduce the conversation between you both and give her less Attention,... it might be hard, but it will help you

Go and Talk to other women
Oneitis is paralysis