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WHAT I KNOW ABOUT PASSING OF MRS. OSINACHI NWACHUKWU

We bring you greetings in Jesus’ Name.
We are in a season that calls for sober reflection in the light of the passing of our beloved sister, Osinachi Nwanchukwu who is a kingdom and generation asset to this generation. In the light of so much misinformation and misconstruction of events, I decided to set straight what I know concerning the situation.

Over two and half Months to Three Months ago, she came to see me with her husband with complainants of chest pain, respiratory distress. I prayed for her and prayed and prayed again. And when the symptoms did not abate, I counseled that they go to the hospital to help us to know exactly what we were dealing with. They asked if I could help them assist facilitate that process. I called our head of medical team, Dr Osang who is consultant pediatrician with the Federal Medical Centre, Keffi to assist handle their situation. And he called the Federal Medical Centre, Jabi, he called colleagues there where they attended to them.

On seeing her, ordered some investigations after examinations and that included CT Scan (Computed Tomography Scan). That was done, and from what the Doctor saw, they said there was need for further investigations either at the University of Abuja Teaching Hospital or the National Hospital in Abuja. I called the Doctor, consultant, A pulmonologist Respiratory Physician at the University of Abuja Teaching Hospital, Dr Akor Alexander, I told him the situation and he asked they come to see him immediately. And they went to the Gwagwalada Teaching Hospital. After they have examined her there and saw the situation, they felt there was a need for histology and biopsy of the Lung Tissue and they asked she goes to the National Hospital to get that done. I again called Dr Jubrin who is the head of pathology and consultant, histopathologist of the National Hospital in Abuja and reported the issue to him and to help us go ahead with the investigation and find out what exactly happened. I am calling names and calling places because the people are available and alive and they are all verifiable. And then, they continued the management. The histology was done from what I saw at that time.

The picture was much milder than what the CT Scan earlier on showed and so we felt very happy that atleast, there was relief. She called me literally daily and prayed with her. She reported progress. A point came where she needed no oxygen anymore according to what she said to me one night. And that they checked her oxygen perfusion and it was 100% and we were very very excited at that progress. That was the point it was before we went over to the Crusade in Cameroon. It was in Cameroon the second night that I got to know of the unfortunate incidence of her passing.

Now, if there was domestic violence that lead to or coincided with those symptoms that she came with two and half month to three months ago, there is no way I would know and if there had been perennial domestic violence, there was no way I would have known. The things we are hearing after her passing were things that were very very strange to my hearing. Then I began to ask questions.

First, I asked the twin sister, are you are aware that your sister passed through all these things. She said yes that she knew some of them. That the majority of them she was hearing from those she confided in. I asked her, I said if you knew, why didn’t you let us know? And the twin sister said, she always begged her, please don’t let the Church know, don’t tell the pastor, please the man will change, just pray for us. That the man will change. And that continued to happen.

I asked the first son yesterday, I said was this real? And the son told other stories. And I said so, why didn’t you tell me because typically they will run to me after service and I will pray for them. Lay hands on them. I said, why didn’t you tell about what was going on in the home? And the young man said, they couldn’t tell me because the father would always asked them after they left me and said, what did you tell the pastor? Did you tell him anything? And so on and so forth.

Other members in the Choir who were privy to these some of the things that were going on. I asked one of them when we paid a visit to the house of the deceased yesterday. What happened, why were we not aware of all these things? The same story that she could always go on her knees and asked them please, don’t don’t, just pray, don’t, we are trusting God for him to change.

The last one that touched me so much was the music producer, who came to see me in the office two days ago to tell me his own experience how he witnessed that the man slapped the wife in his music studio. And I said to him, you saw a man slapped a woman in your presence and you left the man alone and you are a man yourself. And he said before he could respond to the man, the woman again in tears on her knees begged him not to do anything. To leave him alone. And not to do anything at all. And so on and so forth. So, we have had these stories and these are all the things we got to know after she had passed.

As a person and as a Church, everyone who knows us knows that we have zero degree tolerance for domestic abuse and wife battering of any sort. If you ever listen to any of our relationship messages, there is a principle, policy and a rule we have and that is; it is better to be alive without a marriage than to die because of marriage. We’ve said that over and over. I am sure that some of us might have listened to the clips of those messages.
Now this kind of time is the time where people heap all manner of blames on the Church and that is typical because whatever goes wrong, the first point of call is the Church. I have seen people asked questions, why should a wife abuser be a member of the Church or how can somebody be so brutal and he is a member of the Church? That is not a question that people who know Scriptures should ask. You know the Ark of Noah, the same Ark that carried good animals also had evil beast inside the same Ark. You know Jesus Christ had a followership of what the Bible called the multitudes. And for me, multitudes means multiple attitudes; people with multiple inclinations; people with multiple tendencies; people with multiple behaviours. Infact, one of those that followed Jesus Christ was a thief who also sold him to death; he was called Judas Iscariot.

Question is, how could somebody followed Jesus Christ as perfect as Jesus was; as instructive as he was; as impactful as he was and still be a thief and a murderer? That question is left for everybody to answer. And I can tell you the worst of it all; There was personality called lucifer who was in Heaven and became satan the devil under the nose of God in Heaven; a place where there was no sin and could have been no sin at all. This guy became the inventor and the originator of sin. How is it possible for somebody to become a devil from being an Archangel right inside Heaven? That is how possible it is for anybody to be anything while inside the Church.

Even the best of pastors, teachers, preachers in the World cannot change any man or woman who is unwilling to be changed. In case you feel frustrated at anything and you are airing your frustration here and there, or a transfer of aggression or frustration, the Church is not your place for transferring frustration and aggression. We are willing to help you if you have so much bitterness, so much frustration and so much distraction in your life and you don’t know where to vent it but in situations like this, we can help you. I want to let you know that we love you and Jesus loves you. It is well with you and it is well with your loved ones. For the family of the deceased, we pray for strength and help and for the Body of Christ generally, it is well with you in Jesus’ Name.

This is Dr Pastor Paul Enenche, Senior Pastor, Dunamis International Gospel Centre,
God bless you

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My big worry now is that, her husband won't face the wrath of the law with nigerian police. They will let him free if he get money.

appishani1:
My big worry now is that,
her husband won't face the wrath of the law with nigerian police.
They will let him free if he get money.

There must be a complaint. Even if the police step in they must have folks willing to make a statement or two. The complaints and statements and autopsy must show that it led to her death.

appishani1:
My big worry now is that,
her husband won't face the wrath of the law with nigerian police.
They will let him free if he get money.

Why think like this bro?

Please change your mind. You may not like the police, but the judicial system is the last hope of man. As long as the man is found culpable, he will pay for his crime.

It's not the police that will try him.

The last one that touched me so much was the music producer, who came to see me in the office two days ago to tell me his own experience how he witnessed that the man slapped the wife in his music studio. And I said to him, you saw a man slapped a woman in your presence and you left the man alone and you are a man yourself. And he said before he could respond to the man, the woman again in tears on her knees begged him not to do anything. To leave him alone. And not to do anything at all.

We'll always assume we can change some people because they are dear to us, they are the only ones that can change themselves.

Never play the Holy Spirit, speak out. It's part of the tool that will convict the wicked.

Its your air I breathe oh God... May I not use the strength you gave me to beat a lady but spank her ass well during dobodobo

It is well

Nairalandhotboy:
Its your air I breathe oh God... May I not use the strength you gave me to beat a lady but spank her ass well during dobodobo

God have mercy.

The husband is a typical psychopath.

You see my problem with today's church, in those days God revealed things to men of God. How come as anointed as Pastor Enenche for once both him and the wife and as spiritual as the claim could not sense, percieve or hear from the spirit what this lady was passing through in the hands of her husband?

Again, I smell lies from this long epistle. A top singer of the church like this woman, pastor can't tell me he never heard for once what she was passing through at home. But of course it has happened everyone wants to pull their heads off that is the system we find ourselves.

More, some of these pastors make themselves too distanced from members and too busy also that members don't even have the space to get closer to them how much more to share their pains. They have becomes gods and presidents with heavy securities and protocols. Even to see some takes more than 3months, a pastor o.

All na cruise abeg.

RIP to her.

May her gentle soul rest in peace.

Good response.
To all using Osinachi story to abuse the church as if the church deliberately allow domestic violence, may God forgive you all.
It's true the church frowns against divorce. It's cos of people who take advantage of situations in to perpetrate their lust or desire which may not be Godly.
However separation is logically allowed cos no one must be allowed to die in an abusive marriage.
Last Bullet
It's difficult also to advise lovers.
A times, if you tell a woman that her husband just beat to stupor to leave her husband's home. After them settle. Maybe after a hot sex, she ll gist about you to her husband that you gave her a devilish advise.

Orangedreams:
You see my problem with today's church, in those days God revealed things to men of God. How come as anointed as Pastor Enenche for once both him and the wife and as spiritual as the claim could not sense, percieve or hear from the spirit what this lady was passing through in the hands of her husband?

Again, I smell lies from this long epistle. A top singer of the church like this woman, pastor can't tell me he never heard for once what she was passing through at home. But of course it has happened everyone wants to pull their heads off that is the system we find ourselves.

More, some of these pastors make themselves too distanced from members and too busy also that members don't even have the space to get closer to them how much more to share their pains. They have becomes gods and presidents with heavy securities and protocols. Even to see some takes more than 3months, a pastor o.

All na cruise abeg.

RIP to her.

You didn't read his message thoroughly. She and her family had regular access to the Pastor. Sadly she chose to keep her problems to herself.

This should serve as a big lesson for women in this kind of situation.

Silence is not the answer!!!

Women, please speak up!!!

These children and our 'reputation' we're trying to protect, will mean absolutely nothing when we lose our lives to a beastly partner.

Life will go on... And the children will survive somehow.

There is nothing wrong in probing into the affairs of those we care about.

Pastor enenche would no doubt have tried to help the gospel singer if she were to have opened up and narrate her deal, what happened is so sad to say the least. But I think the incident that happen would stand to correct the issue of domestic violence in marriages, both men and women who are abused by there partners would see the need to speak up and open up on there ordeals....

All attention is focused in the man who is a victim of circumstances.

No one is mentioning the root of that bitterness. If she had nothing to hide, why plead that her problem is kept secret?

Those who demand for peace must be willing and able to give peace to their partners in return.

Only a beastly Man lifts his hand on a woman at peace with him.

Lets all wait for d autopsy before hanging d man but emption wont allow us see it that way

Wow!

Beautifully said! I'd even thought the pastor was aware of history of domestic violence in their home.

Lalasticlala , you need to see this.

H

god of man

Just shut up silly boy. Osinachi is dead Al of a sudden errbody is speaking out.

Sons of whores

Orangedreams:
You see my problem with today's church, in those days God revealed things to men of God. How come as anointed as Pastor Enenche for once both him and the wife and as spiritual as the claim could not sense, percieve or hear from the spirit what this lady was passing through in the hands of her husband?

Again, I smell lies from this long epistle. A top singer of the church like this woman, pastor can't tell me he never heard for once what she was passing through at home. But of course it has happened everyone wants to pull their heads off that is the system we find ourselves.

More, some of these pastors make themselves too distanced from members and too busy also that members don't even have the space to get closer to them how much more to share their pains. They have becomes gods and presidents with heavy securities and protocols. Even to see some takes more than 3months, a pastor o.

All na cruise abeg.

RIP to her.

Contrary to what most people think about God and his servants God rarely invades peoples privacy and will to reveal things in their lives. I know we see men of God like native doctors because many so called prophets say things that scatter families and relationships and we hail them as powerful. God prefers that you change by the instrumentality of the Word. Such transformation is more effective and permanent than somebody you consult to tell you about your live. You are one step away from consulting mediums and witch doctors

"For the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any two edged sword, ..." Heb 4:12

This may be difficult for an unbeliever or a baby Christian who is so used to this abuse of prophecies to understand. God can move the man of God to keep emphasizing an issue because of someone he wants to minister to. If God will have to personalize a prophecy in other to reach you then you have been too deaf and stubborn.

Some men can be so toxic and callous, when I saw a video how she was being beating by her husband I was just shaking

That man should watch his BAY,when walking in d street.

How would someone tell you she had chest pain, and you prayed multiple times for her .......


When a complaint of chest pain is received, an immediate ECG, must be conducted .......

We are blinded by religion in this country ....... Shame .....

Prayers, would never change an abuser....... If a man/woman physically assaults you (only once)....

Time to quit that relationship or marriage...... ZERO TOLERANCE TO DOMESTIC ABUSE.......