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Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Akuruoulo(m): 7:50pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
faithfull18:AMEN, AND ALL THEY WOMEN U KNOW SHOULD DESIST FROM SUPER NAGGING BECUS VERBAL ABUSE IS ALSO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND CN LEAD TO DEATH TOO. 1 Like |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Magnoliaa(f): 7:55pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
cococandy: And a sens£less, brainl*ss one at that. ![]() I know they won't learn, even most of them. I do not care about educating block-h--ds. So even if his comment got so much likes, my counter-argument to the bullshit he spilled needed to be there, to be seen. Thoughts like that should not be left to go unchallenged on a public forum, nahh. The few people my response will have feeing reflective will do so. 2 Likes |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Ekzoba(m): 7:57pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
![]() luminouz: 1 Like |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by BRATISLAVA: 8:02pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
MNDY: Everyday you tell us a woman is more wicked than any man, yet statistics that show evil meted on humanity daily is by men who are the wicked ones with unfettered capacity for evil. Have a look at headlines and visit any police station. Men are DESPERATELY wicked! The sooner you accept that, the less you will have to type. 3 Likes |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Magnoliaa(f): 8:08pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
achimendy: If a man cannot beat a woman without her asking for it, a woman too cannot insult a man without him asking for it. That's what I'm saying. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by TONYE001(m): 8:15pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
kazyhm: Again, shifting the goalpost. Never said there's an article without limitation. Whatever you may write, published articles remain the basis of research. How did we even end up here? Talking about articles and stuff? We have successfully deviated from the essence of this thread. Let's leave the matter here, please. |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by sagod: 8:22pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
The problem with the society is that we tend to be biased in favour of the women when it comes to domestic violence. I honestly, without sounding immodest, wonder why the OP did not balance his/her investigation and narration by also documenting the number of men killed by their wives. The society appears to be turning blind eyes to what some men have been going through in the hands of their wives. The society has been turning deaf ears to the cries of men who are domestically abused every now and then by their wives. I am certain that some of the women failed to learn not to cross the red lines as a result some western doctrines some organisations are teaching them today. Some mothers on their part have failed to inculcate in their daughters the basic values/virtues a wife should possess. Some of the wives are grossly abusive and do not submit to their own husbands, living in disobedience and rebellion to their husbands, and yet will come and cry victim whereas there are the remote cause of the said domestic violence. Worse is that, family members more often than not will tend to take side with their daughter. Some of the wives may appear to be righteous in the church, but may actually be Jazibels/Delilas at home...having the form of godliness but denying the power thereof. A woman who is not prepared to submit to a man in complete obedience should not be under the man's roof...such a woman should walk out and not resorting to abusing the man, simply because she can always cry victim of domestic violence. 2 Likes |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Magnoliaa(f): 8:29pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
PrimadonnaO: ![]() ![]() And yet, no woman is looking to break his head or teeth over such words. I feel for the women in their lives sha. DKM123: Thankfully, I don't do friends as well. 4 Likes |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by cococandy(f): 8:44pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
And that’s honestly why I still bother . Magnoliaa: 2 Likes |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by sircatherine45(m): 8:44pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
I'll continue to say this: these four things must be eradicated before we can have a black society free from crimes and negativity. 1) Poverty 2) Illiteracy 3) Backward customs 4) Religion. Sorry if I offended you about the fourth one |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by openmine(m): 8:49pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
SilentQueen:Miss Assumer and Hasty Concluder,you just like everyone is entitled to conclude what a writeup or vow implies...It however doesn't in anyway make you correct or right! If you go through the next stanza of 'for better for worse',you will find the very motive or objectives of the originator! ...For better for worse For richer for poorer In sickness and in health... These vows were meant to bond and encourage couples during good times and challenging times...It never in any way implied that they must hurt each other whether physically or verbally! Only those who are matured emotionally and reason objectively will comprehend those vows...hence i can decipher where you are coming from with your analogy! 1 Like |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by blaise26abj(m): 8:51pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Paulianfa:I am disgusted and perplexed that you have so many likes . Verbal abuse is bad but never a justification for physical abuse . If you are abused verbally by the wife , leave the relationship . The moment you hit her , you are no better than her . The only reason a man should hit a woman is when she is PHYSICALLY assaulting you . Even the courts will support you . If a woman wants to lord over you because she has more money , you too WALK away . When you are not a gold digger , walk away . 1 Like |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by openmine(m): 8:52pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:I have already explained and said this in my earlier comment! |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by tallceejay(m): 8:55pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Abusive husbands didn't fall from the sky, someone raised a boy wrongly. *It's easier to train a son than to correct a husband*. We could address a lot from the root. Excober08: |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by donbenie(m): 9:04pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:You mean the same divorce that Nigerian Pastors have been hammering on? About how it is a sin never to be condoned? Even her Pastor,Enenche and his wife? |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Kobojunkie: 9:07pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
donbenie:Jesus Christ never said divorce is a sin. Instead, He said it is when you remarry, except in the case of infidelity, that you commit sin. ![]() Your pastors and mogs are wrong, and those who follow them deceived. ![]() https://www.nairaland.com/7078665/divorce-not-sin-jesus-christ |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by donbenie(m): 9:12pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Tell that to the Charlatans parading as Men of God.. Her Pastor's WIFE specifically called divorce a sin,not to be entertained for ANY reason.. So do you now blame those calling out Nigerian Christianity? |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Kobojunkie: 9:17pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
donbenie:Christianity is as written in a book and everyone, from pastor to member to usher to choir mistress has a copy of the same exact book to read for themselves. So when a person refuses to read choosing instead to allow others fill his/her head with lies, how do you remove blame from said individual?, ![]() Christianity everywhere, in fact we could blame religion for our woes or we could hold individuals accountable for the choices they make... I prefer the latter as is a more clear-cut way of according blame and holding the right people responsible. ![]() |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by bizzibodi(m): 9:18pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
The men that wives killed in the last 6months are in their thousands,some in an unsuspecting ways like poison,juju,assassination or infidelity...not to talk of domestic violence.let us be objective in our nation's. 1 Like |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by TenQ: 9:20pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:The scripture says God cursed the Serpent, the man, the woman and the earth. Any other thing is mere human projections. Kobojunkie:Mar 10:9: "What therefore God has joined together, let not man put asunder." If God joined couples together, marriage is recognised in heaven. The only time marriage becomes irrelevant is after resurrection of the dead! No one will get married in heaven! Kobojunkie:I didn't say that divorce is permanent. I said divorce is a permanent separation of the Union of marriage. Unfortunately it is spiritually impossible for man to legally divorce their spouse. |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Knowledgeiskey(m): 9:21pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Prettygirl200: Please, what are the better ways to punish a woman in or outside wedlock. |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by TenQ: 9:21pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
akeem0706514:Thank you my brother! 1 Like |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by donbenie(m): 9:27pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:You are assuming that everyone is as objective and discerning as you.. The fact remains that many are easily manipulated and cajoled.. Especially by those they place in high regard,as Pastors and their ilk are in Africa.. So who do we now blame,when these BASTIONS of Christianity.. Put out preachings that influence their members,into taking various actions that are inimical to their well-being? These are CHRISTIAN PASTORS,you can't dissociate religion from their actions. |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Michcole: 9:34pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Prettygirl200: See as you dey run your mouth like tap water. Na this kind of werey attitude & confrontation dey lead to beating & battering in marriages and relationship. 1 Like |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by MNDY(m): 9:37pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
BRATISLAVA: Your gender is the most wicked and smartly carries out concealed wickedness. That is why much attention is not on your gender in that regard 2 Likes |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by TheWolfen(m): 9:39pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
I don't support violence against women. People should learn to divorce toxic spouse |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Kobojunkie: 9:45pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
TenQ:1. Genesis 3 vs 16 doesn't say anything about God cursing the serpent, so stop projecting thinking that by ignoring what God infact said you can somehow make His Words untrue.. ![]() The verse in question specifies under what condition the curse is made active, and that condition is marriage, where a woman is wife to a husband. That curse does not apply under any other situation. ![]() 2. Are you here declaring Jesus Christ a liar then? ![]() He told you that you here ok earth that your marriage is of this world and not of the Kingdom of God - Luke 20 vs 34 - 36 - so how can your marriage be recognized in Heaven when Jesus Christ said it is not? ![]() God's simple law where marriage is concerned is as is written in Genesis 2 vs 24 but after God curse marriage in Genesis 3 vs 16, God handed down laws for divorce to even the people of the Old Covenant - surely you realize that the law given to the Israeliites by Moses was God's own Law. ![]() You quote from Mark 10, but conveniently skipped the important verses with Jesus Christ explained that what He said was of how it was in the beginning when God made the world. ![]() 5 Jesus said, “Moses wrote that command for you because you refused to accept God’s teaching. 3. The moment a person becomes born-again, he becomes a partaker in the Kingdom of God even while alive here on earth. Your time in the Kingdom of God begins right here on earth, the relevance of your marriage to the Kingdom of God is null even right here on earth is what Jesus Christ is telling you in Luke 20 vs 34 - 36. ![]() 4. How can there be a spiritual aspect to that which is of no relevance to the Kingdom of God beginning even right here on earth abeg? ![]() You are born of Spirit when you become born-again and enter the Kingdom of God. However since marriage is not of the Kingdom of God there is nothing spirit to it. Why don't you believe Jesus Christ?. ![]() |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Kobojunkie: 9:54pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
donbenie:I don't assume them objective in anyway, instead I would rather we not make different laws for different folks. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by TenQ: 10:01pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:I will address only your number 1 Gen 3:14-15: "And the LORD God to the serpent, Because you have done this, you are cursed above all cattle , and above every beast of the field; on your belly shall you go, and dust shall you eat all the days of your life: And I will put enmity between you and the woman, and between your seed and her seed; it shall bruise your head, and you shall bruise his heel." The serpent was not cursed according to your own bible! |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by michael1508: 10:02pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
monimekaz:Not exactly,you rather say women with such statements bring out the beast in a man,a gentleman can be pushed to the walls. I just pray such ill-mannered mouth don't make them add up to the list of women who lost their lives in DV. Many must have forgotten what happened few weeks back when Chris Rock made a joke or verbally abused(in this context of argument) the LovePeddler of a wife to Will smith, most women were clapping their hands with their biased and manipulative nature on how Will slapped Chris as a retaliation on the incident,they said that's is how real men defend their women and family,bla bla bla but are playing double standard now when a man defends his honour by not taking shit from a verbally abusive woman who talks ill about his image or his person. Please,in every situation,let's not be biased in our judgement, anything A deserve from his or action in same scenario,B also deserves it. SAY NO TO ANY FORM OF VIOLENT. 1 Like |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by JONNYSPUTE(m): 10:06pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
michael1508:.... Hehehe. Will they listen? No. Let them continue. |
Re: Domestic Abuse: All The Women In These Pictures Are Dead! All Within 5 Months by Kobojunkie: 10:07pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
TenQ:Of what relevance are the verses you quoted here to this conversation where instead Genesis 3 vs 16 is where your attention was being directed to? ![]() |
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