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Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Mindlog: 3:09pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
Lekan239: Why should a property inherited by a woman from her father be registered in the name of the man she is married to, what happened to her own name? 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Kobojunkie: 3:10pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
baby124:Please don't insult people who suffer from mental illness by lopping that one in with them abeg! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by baby124: 3:10pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
Lekan239:Never. It is what she got from her parents. That property is in her name and was done so by her parents. In marriage when they jointly buy property, then the property will be in both names. I will never will my property in anybody’s name but my child’s name. I don’t care who they married. If they both want property they can work for it. I will even put restriction on the property that it cannot be sold, only inherited by her children and their own children and so on. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Trojan8(m): 3:10pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
wirinet: Stories. Without a will, the husband is the next of kin. |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by ChristineC: 3:10pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
PeaceJoyLove:so what is your own view? |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Afam4eva(m): 3:11pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
The OP knows that he does not legally have the right to claim his mom's property while his father, her wife is alive. So, what he did was to throw us off by telling us that the man is useless and wants to sell off the property. Even if he's the most useless man in the world, the properties still belong to him and he can do with them as he so chooses. This kind of behavior is what drives some children to kill their parents. 2 Likes |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by CHoccolaTE: 3:11pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
Dalil8: Look around the world yourself, 90% of the problems and destructions caused in this world are caused by men. Rape War Armed robbery Kidnapping Ritual killing Child trafficking Etc If males did not fabricate lies in religious books to keep women subjugated, they would play more active roles in society but religious zombies think some imaginary god instructed them to rule over women. I don't want to derail this thread abeg. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by nencounter10: 3:11pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: So a marriage that is not registered is not valid. There is something called customary law. |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Afam4eva(m): 3:11pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
CHoccolaTE:A man's property belongs to his wife and vice-versa. Will or no will. |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Kobojunkie: 3:12pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
Lekan239: 2 Likes
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Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Trojan8(m): 3:12pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
wirinet: There's no will here, and the next of kin where there's a legal marriage is the spouse. |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by juman(m): 3:13pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
Learning from lawyers comments. |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Kobojunkie: 3:13pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
nencounter10:Even your customary marriages are expected to be registered at the local government marriage offices, are they not? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by pocohantas(f): 3:13pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
Mindlog: Wetin we no go read for Nairaland o. As in, you inherited your parents properties, you will na change the name to your husband’s own ONLY. The kind of love and mumuness Naija men expect from their women. They suppose sit in their quiet time and ask themselves if they deserve it. ![]() ![]() ![]() 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Nobody: 3:13pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
ChristineC:Are you OK at all? You wan dey drag property that your wife inherited from her dad with your children. Are you normal? You still dey ask me question? Something dey worry your brain? 1 Like |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by CHoccolaTE: 3:14pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
baby124: Thanks for this. Imagine my parents working hard to save for my future then after they will their property to me, one man will claim to be entitled to their sweat and money because he married me. I can decide to give him out of my own discretion but he isn't entitled to it. What rubbish. 1 Like |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by baby124: 3:14pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
wirinet:Those are for people who refuse to fight. Not everybody is weak and take things as God’s will dear. Will they try that nonsense with Fashola or Tinubu’s wife? If you sit back, locusts will eat your inheritance. |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Afam4eva(m): 3:14pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
pocohantas:So, women should also not inherit properties from their husbands just because it was inherited from the husband's side of the family? 3 Likes |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Trojan8(m): 3:15pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
Afam4eva: Sense will not finish you. He wanted to play with our emotions. First he does not explicitly state that there's no will. If there's no will, how do we know that your mom actually said that Op should inherit it. Then he claims his father is a bad father, and wants to sell everything. The reality could be far different. |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by olaodun: 3:15pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
Sorry for all insult people are giving here , I will ask did your father marry another wife , is there any will from your mother if your father has another wife and there is no will from your mother then you need wisdom to handle your father and the only way to do that is that you need to talk to your father and also assist him in meeting his needs and leave the properties for you after all if your mother did not leave property you will still take care of your father , then use legal means to perfect the documentation by the help of experienced lawyer to get the title documents in agreement with your father . pls consider |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by wirinet(m): 3:15pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
ChristineC:In this scenario, the extended families would fight each other to a stand still. It all depends on who has access to the papers of the properties, shares and bank accounts. (Though bank account would be more complicated). Remember the children are not of legal age to do anything. It is when they get to the legal age of 18 that they can start fighting for their parents properties, and by then it might be to late. All the properties would have been sold and shared. |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Kobojunkie: 3:15pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
abbey621:What about cases where no documents are available to prove the existence of the Union? ![]() |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by KiNg0G: 3:16pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
Afam4eva:you dey reason like imbecilè if your daughter married in the future and after her demise, her husband decides to sell the inheritance you left her and just to flex anyhow without minding your grandchildren u go like am? some of you need sense refill 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by victorazy(m): 3:16pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
GraciousGod190: Young man, your mom property or inheritance whatever you call it also belongs to your father, infact who even gave you the temerity to downgrade your dad in this manner? Your house is not in order. You don't have respect to your dad at all. |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Dalil8: 3:16pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
CHoccolaTE: Ok what of now wey una no dey "subjugated" again? List just one achievement? All the world problems na still MAN dey solve am... till date. I no wan ever hear u compare MAN to those bleeding people again. Na only GOD fit compare himself with us. Go siddon one place woman... 3 Likes |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Maobichek: 3:16pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: That is it, if their marriage is registered and the husband is the next of kin, the son is wasting his time. |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Nobody: 3:17pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
Lekan239:You are not normal. You are the kind of men we need to start beating. And you are bold to say that you want the properties your wife inherited from her dad registered in your name? ![]() You no get shame at all. Na poverty go kill you. I swear. Peoppe like you dont deserve any kind of pity. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by pocohantas(f): 3:17pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
Afam4eva: Oga, stop all the useless semantics and cross-examination. The issue here is not inheriting the property, the issue here is outright sale of an inheritance without due consideration to the kids. 1 Like |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Lekan239(m): 3:17pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
baby124:why should the man be thinking of challenging his father at the first place because of his mother's land, he claimed he has money and has build various houses but he can't take care of his old father, if he his taking care of that man, he wouldn't think of selling property for survival |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Nikkganc08(m): 3:18pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
GraciousGod190: Have a manly chat with ur dad. If necessary , compensate him with a plot of land. But if I'm in ur shoes, I'd start selling those ur mums properties secretly. Then use the proceeds to buy new properties FULLY REGISTERED in my name. If its 10 plots of land, DENY. only claim she handed over 1 or 2 plots to u. Family comes first before all these earthly stuffs. Try and reason with ur dad |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by ChristineC: 3:19pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
PeaceJoyLove:the problem with bonobo monkeys like you is that you have no meaningful education and laziness has severely limited your brain power to the basic use of a smartphone. when asked a simple test, you spew foolery and mindless questions with pride instead of just keeping quiet. the law is there for a reason and your ignorance is never a panacea for morality. 1 Like |
Re: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by Afam4eva(m): 3:19pm On Apr 16, 2022 |
pocohantas:That's a separate argument altogether. I'm not here to argue whether the man is not useless or whether him selling off the properties is right or wrong. The point here is that the property now belongs to him and whatever he chooses to do with it is his prerogative whether right or wrong. 6 Likes |
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