Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by kingz044(m): 12:55am On Apr 17, 2022 |
dawnomike: Eye opening post ... Unfortunately, mods will not push a reasonable post as this to front page...
But uf na snake or tonto dike matter e go reach front page how did he get her contacts in d first place? |
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by LadyRosa(f): 12:56am On Apr 17, 2022 |
TawTaw: and this should pass as a diss or clapback?
What a boring doofus! What do you expect DUNCE! you're too small a piglet to enter my mud. Will be glad to drown you in my _cunt. 4 Likes |
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by EmperorTayo1864(m): 12:56am On Apr 17, 2022 |
emmanuelbrown26:
Sometimes our judgement is so so biase. A 15 year old girl (teenager), the mother is still alive and she stays with her mother. An adult started toasting her, she willingly gave her number to d adult, she willingly exchange nude photos with d adult, she willingly accepted gifts and money. At this juncture, both d adult and d girl are to be blamed. If d adult is pestering her and does not like it, what she should hv done is to report to her mother and teachers in schooll. I had an encounter with a teanage girl like that, (when I was working in a pharmacy) d girl came to buy pepper spray, and I asked her who sent her and why she came to buy d pepper spray. She told me how a boy was disturbing her everywhere she goes and d harrasement from d guy I told her d following: 1. Anytime she wants to go out, she should not go alone. 2. She should inform her parents about d boy's disturbances and harrasement 3. Should not go out in d night all alone. Infact I hv forgotten d orientation I gv her but my happiness was that she conquered bcs after a while d girl came back to me and thanked me and d idiotic boy did not disturb nor harass her again. What I'm trying to say here is that d teenage girl has questions to answer and as for d old cargo of a man, well nemesis will surely catch up with him
[ This one no be talk ooo. It's not arguable in the court of law. You're an adult, you're supposed to know better. 1 Like |
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by emmanuelbrown26: 12:56am On Apr 17, 2022 |
basilo101:
I have noticed that women lack logic and objectivity. 15 year old is not a child. Our fathers married 15 years old and 7th wife NIGERIA IS A PLACE WHERE U GET HOLD OF D MASSES WITH EMOTION. HOW COULD A 15YEAR OLD GIRL ACCEPTS GIFTS AND MONEY FROM AN ADULT, EVEN WENT AS FAR AS SENDING NUDES TO AN ADULT? |
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by emmanuelbrown26: 12:58am On Apr 17, 2022 |
TawTaw: calm down, street cow.
You're just trying to justify your paedophilic impulses unconsciously .
That's why you need to seek help fast before you become a full-blown, psychotic paedophilic bandit!
Funny how you think being street and shameless is an enviable position.
Bloody social pariah! This has not gotten to d stage of insulting an elder like me, dont be catti3d away by emotion |
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by emmanuelbrown26: 12:58am On Apr 17, 2022 |
rayvelez:
Oga sha don’t carry this your weak mentality go US cos nah 1000yrs life sentence you are playing with and remember we have one nairalander who’s serving 1000yrs life sentence in US kuje prison... I'm only sayong d fact sir |
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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by TawTaw: 12:59am On Apr 17, 2022 |
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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by emmanuelbrown26: 1:01am On Apr 17, 2022 |
babaaelino92:
You have some points but it's irrelevant in this situation coz the man has upper hand over the little girl in this case. Upper hand i agree with u, 15year old girl of this generation knows somethings u an adult doesnt know |
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by TawTaw: 1:02am On Apr 17, 2022 |
emmanuelbrown26:
This has not gotten to d stage of insulting an elder like me, dont be catti3d away by emotion your emphasis on the kid far outweighs reasonability 1 Like |
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by emmanuelbrown26: 1:02am On Apr 17, 2022 |
Rebuke:
Common sense isn't really common o. Smh
I'm sure yhu are above 20. At 20 or 20 plus, after reading this and all yhu typed there is all yhu could think of typing; it's sad to say but yhu ain't smart. Yhur mental faculty is too low for yhur age.
I fear for yhur generation. Do not be carried away by emotion |
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by TawTaw: 1:03am On Apr 17, 2022 |
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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by LadyRosa(f): 1:03am On Apr 17, 2022 |
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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by emmanuelbrown26: 1:03am On Apr 17, 2022 |
cococandy: Please shut up Xtupid Aunty cococandy I never expected this insult from u. Can we do away with emotion? Can't we all reason without attaching emotion to it? |
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by emmanuelbrown26: 1:04am On Apr 17, 2022 |
peacettw:
That girl is just what she is, a child with an impaired mental capacity to judge between right and wrong. That is why the man who incidentally is not only married but a father, is the culprit and quite frankly a budding pedophile I disagree with u, 15year old girl knows left from right |
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by LadyRosa(f): 1:04am On Apr 17, 2022 |
TawTaw: your smelly cunt? I don't relax in public receptacle for pastime. Thanks.
IGWA!!! Like you didn't endure it enough while you crept out of her 3 Likes |
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by emmanuelbrown26: 1:06am On Apr 17, 2022 |
Slynation:
Please come out plain...!! Some girls are still dumb at 22 let alone a child of 15years that can be easily manipulated...
Please, this side of the story you are going to doesn't add up...!! D story really added to d topic, a girl of 15years in this our generation? |
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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by emmanuelbrown26: 1:07am On Apr 17, 2022 |
JoshTim:
You no get sense. Wasnt the man in better position to guide the little girl of 15 years old. U said it bcs u hv conscience, what about that man without moral conscience? |
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by TawTaw: 1:08am On Apr 17, 2022 |
LadyRosa:
IGWA!!! Like you didn't endure it enough while you crept out of her so this stink, this your cabad toto, na hereditary or from poor hygiene? Because smelly toto is not universal |
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by emmanuelbrown26: 1:09am On Apr 17, 2022 |
Adek15: to have a girl child is so terrifying. It's only God that can save them. Anyone that can train a girl child properly till she gets married without blemish should be given a national award, e no easy Honestly, u are on point bcs girl child of this generation are all in Jah hands, if an adult doesnt tempt them, they would tempt an adult 1 Like |
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by LadyRosa(f): 1:11am On Apr 17, 2022 |
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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by TawTaw: 1:12am On Apr 17, 2022 |
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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by emmanuelbrown26: 1:14am On Apr 17, 2022 |
pocohantas:
They are advising you now, you are running mouth like parrot. This is how your uncle ended up in a UK prison. Tomorrow if hand touch you, you would claim it is racial profiling. Shut up for once and learn!! pocohantas,i remember sometime ago on nairaland, a topic was raised, i specifically told u to call all girls around u to other that i did my pact in my little way and i am still doing in my little way, maybe i will screenshot d topic and my comment. This is one of things i talked about then, my dear poco, female teenagers of this generation are wild and wild, instead of blamixng d idiotic man alone, what do u hv to say to d girl thay shared her nudes with an adult? |
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by Vinnie2000(m): 1:14am On Apr 17, 2022 |
toujurs: Please ignore these bitches, they can never take responsibilities of their failures. That is why most,can't properly raise a child without a father. It is either the child ends up as a gay, or becomes useless in life. You said the right thing. Ashawo was in that little girl body, and another guy would still have his way with her, for her to be comfortable chatting with an older man comfortably, without informing her mother atleast. It's a shame on the girl mother's part. But taking the girl for a therapy was a good idea. But i hope it turns out effective. Now, a Real guyman is talking! How can a 15yr old girl be claiming naivety?? Even some 8,9 yr old girls, if dey re called for errands, dey don't answer because they have heard of the dangers of sexual abuse. This teenage Girl in question deserves correct Flogging! 2 Likes |
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by hope4nigeria(m): 1:15am On Apr 17, 2022 |
QuinModah: *DON’T LOSE GUARD WITH YOUR DAUGHTERS*
You can't be too sure...
I watched a skit a few minutes ago and I remembered an incident that happened last year. I have her permission to share without revealing names or locations. Also some details have been changed.
A mother asked to use her fifteen year old daughter’s phone for some days while her own phone was being repaired.
WhatsApp messages dropped on the phone. Her daughter had passworded her WhatsApp so she couldn’t see the messages.
Out of curiosity, she tried some passwords and her daughter’s birthday was the password. She opened the WhatsApp and almost died, with the shock of what she saw.
A man in the next building had been chatting with her daughter. He had made several sexual advances towards her, which the daughter refused. He was adamant. He pursued her. He sent her recharge cards, came to her school to give her gifts and money.
He asked her if she had a boyfriend or have ever had intimacy, she said no. He pursued her some more.
He requested for her pictures, almost unclad, which she initially refused to send him but when he sent his, she sent hers. It was nothing too revealing as she was in her bra and underwear.
He taught her how to password her WhatsApp.
Then he pushed for more. He wanted to see her completely nude. She couldn’t take such a picture because she shared a room with her siblings.
He asked her to lock herself in the bathroom for them to have a video call.
She saw messages like “Did you like what you saw?” “ Stop being shy around me.” “Why are you afraid? Nobody will see you.” He sent a picture of his nudity to her. A girl of fifteen!
It became terrifying when her daughter sent a chat saying she saw him with his wife the other night and he ignored her. She knew her daughter had fallen and it was a matter of time before the guy had his way.
She contacted me and asked me for advice. I have helped her in the past so she felt she could confide in me.
The truth is, when such a thing happens, you have to get someone who will treat the man’s Bleep-up very well. Who is the person who will be angry enough to do that No other person than her father.
She was scared her husband will dump the blame on her. She was looking for another way to handle it without him.
I told her, “If you handle it quietly, the man will be wiser and will ensure he won’t be caught since he is obsessed with your daughter that he patiently groomed her. It is best he is disgraced and only her father will do that unless he is a useless man that’s when he will keep quiet.” I told her she is lucky the girl hadn’t agreed to be alone with the man anywhere. It was getting close to that.
Her husband didn’t disappoint me. Immediately he read the chats and saw the ‘manhood’ he took off to the man’s house that night. The wife ran after him. He banged continuously on the gate.
Well, the man got what was coming to him. He was disgraced. The evidence of their chats were there. His neighbours were shocked because he portrayed a picture of a saint but he was the devil and also a paedophile.
The husband wanted to take the matter to the Police but everyone begged. The landlord of their house and the man’s house also appealed to him not to escalate the matter. They begged him not to expose his chats on social media as his wife, my friend, had promised to do.
The culprit’s wife left him. He eventually had to move out of the house immediately the rent was due. The disgrace was too much for them to handle. Everywhere he went in the neighborhood, mothers were wary of him around their daughters.
They have collected the phones from their children. If you are not in university, no more phones.
How did they handle the girl? I asked them not to beat her. But the father refused to listen. He said she had brought disgrace to the household. He wanted to send her to the village but I stopped him. She needed therapy not to be shamed. I told the mother to take her to see a psychologist at Yaba left. It worked!
Older men groom very young girls and turn them into sex slaves. It was what this man was doing. The kind of chats they had was irritating coming from a grown man. He was able to make her do some of the things he wanted by doing them first.
That phone your daughter holds very dear to her heart, please once in a while, check it. Make sure she is not being groomed for someone’s perversion. Check what she is doing and advise her. Anyone younger than sixteen shouldn’t be on social media. Anyone still in secondary school shouldn’t be there too, regardless of their age.
Girls have been lured to travel abroad to be sex slaves, all by grooming or greed. They make them hate their families and believe they are the only ones that love them . They give them attention and say sweet things to them often. It is easy to fall for such.
Teach your children these signs and also do not expose them unnecessarily to these men. Paedophiles are evolving. They are getting smarter. We have to keep our girls safe.
I love you all. this one you come dey love all of us, if we decide to love you back, na you go run oh btw, why huna no allow the father to hand over the useless man give SARs sef |
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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by TawTaw: 1:15am On Apr 17, 2022 |
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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by lebron7(m): 1:16am On Apr 17, 2022 |
emmanuelbrown26:
Sometimes our judgement is so so biase. A 15 year old girl (teenager), the mother is still alive and she stays with her mother. An adult started toasting her, she willingly gave her number to d adult, she willingly exchange nude photos with d adult, she willingly accepted gifts and money. At this juncture, both d adult and d girl are to be blamed. If d adult is pestering her and does not like it, what she should hv done is to report to her mother and teachers in school. I had an encounter with a teanage girl like that, (when I was working in a pharmacy) d girl came to buy pepper spray, and I asked her who sent her and why she came to buy d pepper spray. She told me how a boy was disturbing her everywhere she goes and d harrasement from d guy I told her d following: 1. Anytime she wants to go out, she should not go alone. 2. She should inform her parents about d boy's disturbances and harrasement 3. Should not go out in d night all alone. Infact I hv forgotten d orientation I gv her but my happiness was that she conquered bcs after a while d girl came back to me and thanked me and d idiotic boy did not disturb nor harass her again. What I'm trying to say here is that d teenage girl has questions to answer and as for d old cargo of a man, well nemesis will surely catch up with him
You are retarded 4 Likes |
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by emmanuelbrown26: 1:17am On Apr 17, 2022 |
lebron7:
You are retarded I HV NEVER SOUNDED FAST TO ANY GODAMN BODY |
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by dododawa1: 1:17am On Apr 17, 2022 |
Nkan be |